To make a long story short...
I have been TTC child #1 for over 10 years with no luck. I have seen 3 fertility specialist since 2009 who have all said the same thing..."You are too old and your FSH is too high... You have almost no chance of having a baby without donor egg and IVF". I have tried clomid and IUI's but have been unable to afford IVF. I am finally at the point that I would gladly do donor egg and IVF if I could afford it and if I had a good support system. I am 43 years old, single, tired of waiting for Mr. Right to come along, but desperately want a child before I'm too old to enjoy it.
4 days before AF was due to start I had a short VERY light 2.5 day long AF type bleed. AF is usually 4-5 days long and very heavy. After it stopped I still had pre AF type cramping, sore bbs, and post O temps. I wish I knew what is going on. I am now 6 days past when AF should have arrived, my bbs are more sore today than yesterday and I kept waking up last night due to the discomfort. My temp is still above coverline, so unless I'm just having high temps this cycle, my body seems to be stuck in limbo.
Well I finally got around to testing this morning BFN . And now with my body acting all screwy I can't even plan to try again in DEC and JAN. My sperm donor will be going home for 3 weeks at Christmas and I will be unable to join him this year. So if AF does not show up after a week he will not be here when the time is right.
I have been ttc #1 for over 10 years and at 43 years old my ttc time is running out and now my body does this to me .
What are the chances the test was a false negative? What else might be the issue. Any and all thought will be greatly welcomed!!!