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    I have been married for 5 years, and never got pregnant before. Me and my husband had intercourse and I am not sure if I concieved or not. I have been having pains in my lower abdomen on a regular basis. I started having the nausea but it comes all times of the day, shortly after that I came down with what I am thinking is the flu, I had the high fever, body aches, being tired, the nausea got worse, and I have been coughing really bad too. So I just associated that with the flu. I have had my period normally tho, but have been extremely moody. I noticed I have been hungry alot and craving certain things, all tho they are not the whole pickles and ice cream thing. I have been wanting pickles tho. I seem to be tired alot and there are days I just feel like I cant go anymore. I haven't really noticed the breast being sore like it says tho. I am really confused. I want to be pregnant, but don't know if I am or not. Someone please if you have any advice or suggestions please help me. Thank you.

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    I think you should start off by taking a HPT and if that’s POS call you OB to get a follow up blood test. By the way not every woman has the same symptoms when pregnant so the fact that you don’t have sore breast means noting. I don’t know that you are since you say “I have had my period normally tho” then again some woman have AF even when their pregnant; start with the HPT and keep us posted.. I wish you lots and lots of .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butterflygirl View Post
    I think you should start off by taking a HPT and if that’s POS call you OB to get a follow up blood test. By the way not every woman has the same symptoms when pregnant so the fact that you don’t have sore breast means noting. I don’t know that you are since you say “I have had my period normally tho” then again some woman have AF even when their pregnant; start with the HPT and keep us posted.. I wish you lots and lots of .
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    I don't understand why I go to forums wanting advice, it is obviously a waste of my time, due to the fact that only 3 people have responded to my message I put on here. I read alot of peoples on here and there is alot of responces to them, so I figured I would try it since people seemed to respond quite often, but I guess I am wrong. I am please asking for your thoughts and advice on the post I put on here. Thanks

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    we gave you the best advice we could. The best starting point if you think you're pregnant is to take a hpt. Everyone is different so it's hard to say with your symptoms whether you're pg or not. If the test is positive,call your doctor.
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    Quote Originally Posted by christianaaa View Post
    we gave you the best advice we could. The best starting point if you think you're pregnant is to take a hpt. Everyone is different so it's hard to say with your symptoms whether you're pg or not. If the test is positive,call your doctor.
    I agree with this. Sorry that you feel like its not helpful but, other than testing there isn't anything else to do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Michele32 View Post
    I don't understand why I go to forums wanting advice, it is obviously a waste of my time, due to the fact that only 3 people have responded to my message I put on here. I read alot of peoples on here and there is alot of responces to them, so I figured I would try it since people seemed to respond quite often, but I guess I am wrong. I am please asking for your thoughts and advice on the post I put on here. Thanks
    why would you come to a site and ask for advice you do not intend to follow. Testing first is the best way to find out if your pregnant. other women have not responded because you have already received the best advice available .....for now; it is up to you if you wish to follow it or not. best of luck to you.

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    Your period is normal, you think you have the flu, and you haven't taken a pregnancy test. We're not psychics, so I'm not sure what you're looking for.
    Take a test, see what it says, and go from there. Best of luck to you.


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    I see my last coment sparked alittle bit of sarcasm...well I am sorry, I am just like every one else that comes on here...I came for advice. I got somewhat upset (excuse me) bc I felt like I wasn't getting anywhere with this. I am having a very difficult time in my life right now, and have been somewhat edgy. I have turned to my family and what few friends I have about this, and I get ignored about it, so I figured I would come here and hopefully find some people I could become friends with and count on to help me. Like I said, I am sorry, I am like everyone else...I have my bad days too!!

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    The only reason I have not responded to this any sooner is because I read what others had posted as advice and agreed with what they said so did not feel the need to post. The best thing to do is take a test. If it is negative and you are still feeling off, maybe give your doctor a call and see what is going on. Hope you get some answers.

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    My advice is to take a HPT (over the counter pee test) too. The only way you can know.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Michele32 View Post
    I see my last coment sparked alittle bit of sarcasm...well I am sorry, I am just like every one else that comes on here...I came for advice. I got somewhat upset (excuse me) bc I felt like I wasn't getting anywhere with this. I am having a very difficult time in my life right now, and have been somewhat edgy. I have turned to my family and what few friends I have about this, and I get ignored about it, so I figured I would come here and hopefully find some people I could become friends with and count on to help me. Like I said, I am sorry, I am like everyone else...I have my bad days too!!
    And we all understand a bad day, however after all that advice did you test, what happen?

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    my advice would also be to take a test.

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    have you taken a pregnancy test???? what was the result?
    every one experiences pregnancy symptoms differently for every pregnancy. with my first i craved coffee (not a coffee drinker) and i was tired with sore breasts. this time around i was super nauseated and tired but that was all... still no cravings.... so like others ahve said and i have repeated... pregnancy symptoms are different for every pregnancy and GO PEE ON A PREGNANCY TEST then update us!



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