Sorry, Angie! I guess I figured you knew, just didn't want to join in the fun!
How are things with Billy? I saw your post in Feb. Are you guys going to use a counselor through LDSS? They're really great. John's finally going to get himself into one to deal with Taela stuff that he's finally admitting is affecting him. I didn't like it too much because the counselor I saw was male, but I've got a lady one, now, and it's going good.
Maybe even taking Temple Prep classes would be enough of a catalyst to make him realize some things he needs to change. If he starts the class and truly realizes the importance, then he'll also realize the importance of loving you the way you deserve.