Tif thats a good idea as well. We started the "love journals" we were horrible at it haha. Lasted about 2 weeks and then we were done with it. We need to do it again though because it really brought the stupid little arguements into perspective.
I was actually thinking that instead of doing thank you cards having her type up a little thank you and then give that and a little party favor to all the guests. Then she doesnt have to worry about it in general. My cousin's wife did this at her bridal shower and I liked the idea.