Stupid Comments Vent Thread

[Heavynsmommy]

My dh is a piece of work I tell you!! Today he told me and I quote: "You need to stop f***ing around and get pregnant. Our kids are already going to be too far apart as it is!" REALLY?? Yeah it was my choice to lose our precious angels!! Since my last loss I have lost 50 lbs and gotten in shape (I guess that's what he considers flucking around!!
We are currently not on speaking terms and it is going to stay that way until he kisses my @$$!!!!!!!! I was in tears after that comment and he has NO idea why!!

If my DH would have said that to me after my MC, I would be a widow. I'm just saying...

[mary31]

Hi every one my name is mary31 dont know if you remember me, ilost a baby in april 2008, well im back, my sister lost a baby the same day 3 years later than me she is so depressed.

[akhiker]

The first time I got pg (3 years of STC, IUI+injectables) we told EVERYONE and then m/c'd at 10wks. So of course we had to tell everyone that we lost our babies. I finally got pg again in May (IUI+injectables again), and went to my SIL's graduation and had a huge family weekend with DH's family. He said that we shouldn't tell anyone that I'm pg again because if we lose it then it will start to become what everyone thinks about my SIL's 3 divorces, that everyone will know that I m/c'd again and roll their eyes just like they do when my SIL gets engaged. And then I went on to m/c the next week. Really? Miscarriage is the same as divorce and is something that people will roll their eyes at? I know that is how he feels about her divorces, I guess that's how he feels about my pgs and m/cs?

[eenchoo]

The first time I got pg (3 years of STC, IUI+injectables) we told EVERYONE and then m/c'd at 10wks. So of course we had to tell everyone that we lost our babies. I finally got pg again in May (IUI+injectables again), and went to my SIL's graduation and had a huge family weekend with DH's family. He said that we shouldn't tell anyone that I'm pg again because if we lose it then it will start to become what everyone thinks about my SIL's 3 divorces, that everyone will know that I m/c'd again and roll their eyes just like they do when my SIL gets engaged. And then I went on to m/c the next week. Really? Miscarriage is the same as divorce and is something that people will roll their eyes at? I know that is how he feels about her divorces, I guess that's how he feels about my pgs and m/cs?

Maybe he is an idiot like my dh and just doesn't hear the words coming out of his mouth. I'm so sorry for your losses.