I talk to DH when he's on the computer too. But try to ask him if is in ok time to talk or can he listen...some things he does on there require a lot of concentration and some do not. We are both really sensitive needy people though and try to remember that and listen to each other. And usually a simple, you really hurt my feelings, gets the others attention.
So back a while ago we were talking vacations. My sister wants to go to DC for a weekend in October. It's a place DH has always wanted to go...me it's on the list but not so high up. I was going to send them off together....they are a lot alike and get along really well and when we travel together before, I'm the one who annoys both of them. We are trying to figure out if there is enough PTO days....we had to take off a lot when DH's grandma was dying and than the funeral. Well now I think that I can afford to take 2 days in October and I think that I might go with them if they go. I started feeling jealous of DH having fun without me even though it was my idea he go with my sister (she was talking about going alone and I don't like that idea). Gives me like 6-7 weeks to work out and get in better walking shape.