I was basically told to lose weight....which I had been working on and was why I had the gastric bypass. I got all upset and did the opposite (about 20 lbs) so now I have a bit more to lose. We both need to lose some weight and are currently working on that.
So I was thinking about it....and really it's a little more often than I thought because I think in terms of cycles but when you have a shorter one...that is less than a month especially when factoring in spotting/AF.
There is definitely something there about if you don't get any for a while, you lose desire. The more often, the more you want to.
When it does happen, it's like ****, why didn't we do this sooner....lets do this more often. But the whole work schedule thing makes it hard.
I should have just not been so careful in college when we had the time (I was lucky and had a private dorm room ).
We have been together for 12.5 years....ever since I was 19 and a freshman in college.
But we did have some fun this afternoon.... and it turns out that it's CD8 and O has been anywhere from CD 10 to 16.....plus I have been on Vitex for a few months now and I think it seems to be helping with a better cycle length...
We don't have insurance cover for IUI or IVF in my state so that is out of the question. If nothing in the next few months, I'm getting a new puppy. And if still nothing, we might look into foster to adopt...both my cousins were adopted out of foster care.