FWIW, Mira went to bed at 11 too (she's still sleeping; school's closed). I used to try and get her to bed at whatever was supposed to be a good hour, but don't do much of that any more. On days when she naps, we go up around 8:30, but she doesn't usually fall asleep until 10, and mostly, what I do is to sleep next to her, because I'm generally exhausted by then. I think I fell asleep last night, before she did. Haven't been feeling that great lately, my dizzy spells are back, and I almost crashed when I got up on Sunday morning.