I was reading up on adoption and for some reason DH has latched onto adopting from China. From what I have read that's the most expensive, most red tape, and longest route to adoption possible. I was trying to explain to him that it would be a 4-6 year wait for a child with Chinese adoption and we'd need to get the money first. He estimated it would be 2-4 years until we could save the money and I pointed out that would be essentially an 8-10 year wait for a child going that route and he didn't even seem to understand why I was upset by that. That just isn't the way to go and I can't make him listen to why it makes more sense to foster-adopt.