My mom did a 'drive by' at the house yesterday. When she got there we had lost electricity shortly before that. She was all huffy about it and said "well THAT ruins my plans". Um... ok whatever.
She huffed about for a while, stopping periodically to text on her phone, and to play with Nolan for a minute. The lights came back on and she starts doing laundry. She was upset that I had moved some of her stuff onto her bed. It was our weekend to go through tear everything apart and spray for bugs (I love this time of year ). She of course didn't volunteer to help so I had to clean everything off the floor and sweep/mop/spray her room as well, but shame on me for forgetting to put her side table back on the floor
She finishes her laundry and out the door she goes. I know that DH is getting a bit irritated with the situation, as am I. I just don't really know what I am supposed to do or if for that matter, should I do anything?? She is grown, she can very well make her own decisions, and I am all for that... but she is using our house as a laundry mat since winner-winner doesn't have a washer/dryer. All the while boasting to everyone that she isn't moving too quickly and she won't be moving in with him anytime soon. Um... when you only come "home" every 3-4 days, I think you can safely say you don't live at said "home" anymore.
I am trying to hard to stay out of the situation, but we have been getting sucked into it anyway. DH took Nolan over to my dads the other day for his weekly visit and all of a sudden mom is trying to say that he was telling my dad some stuff about her (more specifically that winner-winner paid for her divorce) which IS true, but DH didnt' tell my dad. It's just all so annoying...
Sorry to bug you ladies with my crap again.... *sigh*