I need some advice, ladies. A few months ago, someone who I used to go to church with as a teenager died of cancer, so I sent her husband a card saying that I was sorry for his loss. The card was in no way religious at all. After that, he sent me an e-mail to say thanks for thinking of him and a few days later, he sent a friend request on FB. So, I thought there was no harm in it as he's just an old guy who I used to know. Any how, in his e-mail, he asked if I had found a church to go to. Then, today, he's sent a message asking again if I ever found a church and if I haven't, he could try to help by sending some info through. I've realized he's hardcore religious with some of the stuff I've seen him post on FB, so how do I inform him that I no longer am a believer/church-goer type person? I'm struggling with finding the words that will make it not sound so negative, but I'd like him to back off the church stuff. I don't think I can just ignore him as one of my cousins still goes to the same church as he does, so he'll probably ask her about it if I don't reply in some way. Any thoughts?