Oh, Christina, I would be livid! Can you take this higher? Do they have an ombudsman (is that the term?) or something that you can take your complaint to, and ask for a hearing?
It shouldn't matter whether or not you have an AA, though. I never got one.
I don't know how I come across in person. I don't do well in large groups, like parties. I tend to have no idea what to say and clam up. I assume people think I'm either deadly boring or stand-offish. At work, I'm very chatty and get along well with everyone. I'm good at making conversation with random families I meet every day. I think I just need to be comfortable. Once I'm comfortable I'll even over-share (and then that can also scare people away!) But it just depends on my environment. I'm a big chameleon some of the time. Which is probably why I'm able to maintain friendships with very different groups of people.
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