Our new manager wants everyone to go out next Friday for dinner after work. Which isn't a big deal, we do it a few times a year, but for some reason she said no families. I was like um.... and you would like me to do what with my kid? Hire a sitter for the evening so I can hang out with work folks? Yeah, no.
I've become pretty close with a few co-workers and we go out to lunch/hang out on the weekends when our schedules allow for it. I like them though, not so much the rest of the people I work with