Yeah. The other night dh came home from work (around 8 pm) and was acting grumpy. I asked him what was the matter and he said he wished the house were tidier. He then complained that he feels he can't say what he really thinks about it because I get so "defensive." It sort of devolved from there and he ended up saying a few snarky, meanish things that hurt my feelings (mostly comparing our next door neighbors' cleaning skills and tidy house to mine - ouch). The next day I cleaned the house top to bottom, but I also gave him the cold shoulder for three days. I guess he has to decide if having a clean house was worth me not speaking to him.
Also, after working my butt to the bone that day to clean the entire house, while still taking care of the kids and cooking and missing out on some sleep due to being upset, I've ended up sick. It might just be coincidence, but I'm willing to blame it on him a little bit.