So great to hear how many of "our" kids are reading and writing! I feel like I have a stake in them somehow! LOL.
Myles, the teachers and OTs I work with tell me that letter reversals are normal up to age seven. That was a beautiful h and nothing to worry about at all. His letters are very clear and precise for a three-year-old.
Bridget, it really does seem that you are giving school an honest try and it is just not working out for you. Kids - even the nonverbal kids I have worked with - know when you respect them and when you are annoyed by them. How sad it must be for Kai, such a perceptive little guy as he is. I do hope you can find a solution to his pee issues, though - not for this school because that is a short-term thing but because if this doesn't resolve, there will be many other times and places where it will interfere, such as spending time with friends or later on, working, etc. He's already self-conscious about it and I can only see it getting worse.
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