Ash, sorry about the cold. I think it's a good idea to start a food diary and discuss things with his dr. It's likely nothing, but it's best to have it checked.
Happy 4th Birthday Gilly!!
I really think your dbf is being ridiculous Bridget. I tried seeing things from his point of view because I don't like being that friend that ALWAYS thinks her friend is right 100% of the time, but I just can't see it. imo, for whatever it's worth, he's delusional if he thinks in any way you did anything wrong in this. Just my opinion of course.
I went away overnight & had a good time.