I like both Miracle Whip and Mayo, but I have found that most people choose one or the other.
I was having a lot of trouble with bedtime for J a few weeks back, and after two nights of terrible upset, crying, etc. (from both of us!), I finally checked in with my due date group on fb and they gently told me to leave it alone. And I thought about it and realized that if she wasn't tired, she wasn't going to sleep, especially if I was yelling at her to go to sleep. So we made a deal that she can read or do quiet things in her room and go to sleep when she wants, but she cannot leave her room. It's been pretty good since then - no fighting or drama at bedtime, which is easier on everyone. I don't think she is getting enough sleep, but neither was she getting a lot of sleep when she was staying up fighting with me about going to sleep.
"Any idiot can face a crisis; it is this day-to-day living that wears you out." -Anton Chekhov