Even though I really don't want to move to Chicago, I am trying to look on the bright side in regards to being close to family. But really I even think about that and am not all excited about it, like my mom and MIL. I guess because I have been away from them so long, since I was 18 except for the 1.5 years I moved back to Ohio when DH was working my nerves and my grandma was ill with cancer. I don't know if I can stand to be around them a lot though. Horrible I know but really I don't. I feel we may have a worse relationship, especially with my MIL whom I love but who is very controlling and critical (where DH gets these traits). Hopefully though if we do move it will be a good experience. I even found a school that I may send Ky to called of all things Namaste (like in yoga!). They seem similar to his current school with everyday recess and PE and healthy meals, a more holistic school. But of course there is no guarantee that he will get in and I worry about this because I am not going to send him to a crappy school. He doesn't like for me to homeschool him (I'm harder than school LOL!). He likes to be around a lot of kids and act goofy on a regular basis like most boys his age so I am hoping to find some alternative schools and be able to depend on DH to get all the documents submitted in a timely fashion in case we have to move. That part worries me the most, depending on DH to do all of the paperwork. He is so clueless about filling out papers even if they are about himself, let alone anything regarding me or the children.