Erin, I bet your dh is really grateful to have you. You seem like an awesome lady.
I don't hear that from dbf. Ever. I'm sure he would like to hear more positive things as well. I try but it's HARD. I will tell myself I'm going to try not to get on him but then he just pulls the most ridiculous crap and I can't not say anything. We lack intimacy that is for sure. I'm pretty sure he just thinks I'm a nagging biatch. And I see that in me around him and don't love it about myself. Hence, (to use your word, Erin) my plan of just chillin and letting him do his thing without letting it bring me down.