I have had absolutely no testing done at this point. I was hoping the gyn would at least take a look at some of the more common stuff but she just felt I should go straight to the RE so didn't even get anything started. I know about the MTHFR because of the genetic testing my parents had after my cousin died. They saw a geneticist and they both had two copies of the affected gene. My sister had the testing done as well and she also has two copies of the affected gene. I'm not religious about charting but every month I've charted I've detected a clear temp rise indicating O, never a question about it. I've also gotten positive OPKs. DH has not had the SA but says he'll do it.
Thanks for the comments about some of the less expensive treatments through fertility. I can manage the small stuff, but I don't know about IUI.
I am actually really hoping it is DH. It would be easier ... but I just think my body has had more than one early loss so if anything, it's both of us.
Myles, sorry for losing you with all the acronyms. The MTHFR I keep referring to is a genetic condition that leads to blood clotting issues and is known to cause difficulty with implantation. My cousin died from a pulmonary embolism (blood clot) 2 months after starting the birth control pill at age 24. Perfectly healthy girl, ran 3 miles 3 times a week and absolutely beautiful. Turned out she had two different clotting factors and when combined with the hormones from the pill it was lethal.
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