This is something I have to agree on....when I had Taela I HATED hearing "I just KNOW she's going to be ok, she has so many people praying for her" or things like that. Same with this last time around-being told that people were positive everything was going to "be ok" because of how many people were praying for me and my baby. Mostly I hate the implication that is made-like you mentioned, Stacy-that since things WEREN'T ok, I (or others) somehow had a direct impact on that. I just wish more people were ok with saying "I'm really sorry." and leave it at that, not add their editorializing!