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    I had to have a follow up D&C after my second...

    I had to have a follow up D&C after my second miscarriage because of retained tissue. I agree with Laura that a visit to your doctor would be a good idea.
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    Sticky: I want to give my in-laws benefit of the doubt,...

    I want to give my in-laws benefit of the doubt, but sometimes it is so hard. Thus far, my SIL offered to be a surrogate for me, even though the loss of our baby had nothing to do with me, my...
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    No one should have to experience what we have....

    No one should have to experience what we have. But the gift is that we can help one another through. That is the legacy our beautiful babies, no matter how long their lives were, leave us.
    Hugging...
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    You are not crazy and right now, you don't need...

    You are not crazy and right now, you don't need to worry about controlling your emotions. You need to feel them and process them. You are so raw, and as the shock continues to wear off, the pain will...
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    I think this will be my final update on the loss...

    I think this will be my final update on the loss of my dear Kara and the process I have been going through as I work through my grief and the pain of our loss. We received the results of the last...
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I understand you...

    I am so sorry for your loss. I understand you pain and the shock you have gone through, and all I can say is that I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope that you get the medical and...
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    I had my surgery on 7/17 and it took a little...

    I had my surgery on 7/17 and it took a little more than four and a half weeks to have my period. It all depends on how quickly your body processes through the hormones. I usually have a short cycle...
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    I had my last labs drawn today, and the pathology...

    I had my last labs drawn today, and the pathology report for Kara was given to us today. Assuming the labs come back clear for clotting disorders, we have one potential cause based on the pathology...
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    I have this mutation, which we discovered after I...

    I have this mutation, which we discovered after I lost a baby due to Spina Bifida. I have taken mega-doses of folic acid since then - about 5 milligrams a day. I did not have a NT defect in my last...
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    The past week has been a rollercoaster. I had my...

    The past week has been a rollercoaster. I had my best friend from college in for the weekend, and she cheered me up greatly. We got out and did things that "normal" people do when they are not...
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    Today, we officially named our daughter and...

    Today, we officially named our daughter and recorded her brief existence for posterity. Kara Marlette was born sleeping on July 16, 2013. She joins her sister Elaina Marlette (January 17, 2008) and...
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    Thanks, ladies. The process continues today. I...

    Thanks, ladies. The process continues today.
    I got a call from the maternal fetal medicine clinic, and my blood work from last week came in. Everything came back normal. I don't have a clotting...
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    I've made it through the first day and a half of...

    I've made it through the first day and a half of recovery. I've had excellent care, and the meds are working as they should. I was so sore from the surgery in my neck and shoulders - they intebated...
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    In the midst of it all...

    After finding out our daughter had no heartbeat at our 20-week ultrasound last Wednesday, we have been overwhelmed by sadness, the complete lack of control to fix this and the heartbreak of losing...
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    I totally understand what you are going through. I am 20w 3d and have not felt a decisive baby movement. I have had some pains and cramps, but no butterflies or kicks. I feel pressure at times...
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    As a high risk momma-to-be, my doctor said 28-32...

    As a high risk momma-to-be, my doctor said 28-32 weeks will be my cutoff. I am not big on the idea of traveling during my last trimester, so I would be happy if she said to stop at 28 weeks. I hate...
  17. Thread: 41 and BFP

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    Congratulations to you and your family!

    Congratulations to you and your family!
  18. At 6 weeks, you can usually see a fetal pole,...

    At 6 weeks, you can usually see a fetal pole, however, that is not always the case, which is why a lot of doctors will not do an u/s until 8 weeks when things are more developed. The spotting is not...
  19. Anytime you have unprotected sex, you can get...

    Anytime you have unprotected sex, you can get pregnant. The only way to know is with a missed period and a positive pregnancy test (either the home test or a blood test with a medical professional)....
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    I agree with Jessica. Also, and this is to...

    I agree with Jessica.
    Also, and this is to help you should you post in the future, people often have a hard time reading posts that don't have punctuation. I know I read one of your posts, but...
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    Thank you!!

    Thank you!!
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    Thinking about a doula

    Hello! I am hitting week 16 of my pregnancy, and I am thinking that I would like to find a doula. I love my SO immensely, but he and I agreed that he would not make the ideal birth coach. I would...
  23. Did he know the condom broke? If so, I don't...

    Did he know the condom broke? If so, I don't know that a BFP would be a huge surprise after an oops on behalf of the birth control. Waiting until the two of you can have some quiet time and he can...
  24. It is possible you are pregnant since you had...

    It is possible you are pregnant since you had sexual intercourse, but extremely unlikely you would have any symptoms at all given this was only a few days ago. It take time for an egg to be...
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    I am so sorry for your loss. Similar to many of...

    I am so sorry for your loss. Similar to many of the other ladies who posted, I had an u/s at 6 weeks with my first pregancy, but there was no hb and the baby was measuring at 5w and a few days. I...
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