I thought we were on the same page until last weekend when he said he'd like another in a year to two. I'm still on the fence. I would love another one but pregnancy is super hard on me and I'm not totally sure if I want to start all over again with toddler hood :)
Originally Posted by NHKate
We disagree but I think we could work it out. I want at least one more, DH is probably done but isn't 100% decided.
I don't want more for at least a couple of years so we'll see how we feel then.
When I was pregnant with Natalie, we both really wanted another. But when it came time to TTC again, I started to realize I wasn't sure if I wanted another or not. I'm turning 40 this year, have a lot of trouble getting pregnant and especially with seeing how independent Abbie is getting as she is about to turn 6, I'm not sure I want to start all over again. DH is also kind of torn at this point about having another so I guess we are sort of on the same page. I sort of feel ok with being done but yet am afraid I'll regret not trying for another down the road. Part of me is sad I most likely won't get to raise a boy but then I also know having another boy wouldn't take away the pain of losing Tyler either.