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DH is making me so mad. i am so tired of hearing honey don't do that, don't pick that up, don't move that. then get off your butt and do it. it has to be done and its bugging me not having it done. so i went and pulled out the kids winter cloths and at some point i pulled my back so now i hear told you so. now i want to hit him. i am in pain and he is being a jerk. i feel stupid and i know he works, but i do too i work my butt off with the kids and the house. and i need things done and he yells at me if i do it but he won't do it his self. what do i do. it stress me and he says i'm being silly and that hurts me. i feel alone sometimes

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Originally Posted by mother of seven

DH is making me so mad. i am so tired of hearing honey don't do that, don't pick that up, don't move that. then get off your butt and do it. it has to be done and its bugging me not having it done. so i went and pulled out the kids winter cloths and at some point i pulled my back so now i hear told you so. now i want to hit him. i am in pain and he is being a jerk. i feel stupid and i know he works, but i do too i work my butt off with the kids and the house. and i need things done and he yells at me if i do it but he won't do it his self. what do i do. it stress me and he says i'm being silly and that hurts me. i feel alone sometimes

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:hugs: I think we all feel that way sometimes! I cleaned the whole house today, because I was sick of him not doing any of it, and I ask him to get me some popsicles and he wont even do that. I read this post on FB once about how you don't have to remind a man over and over to do something, he will get it done, it just takes a few months, LMAO. I hate when you work your butt off and all they do is complain. Vent all you want, we are here to listen!! I hope your back feels better soon!! :hugs:

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Originally Posted by Lunarmoon

:hugs: I think we all feel that way sometimes! I cleaned the whole house today, because I was sick of him not doing any of it, and I ask him to get me some popsicles and he wont even do that. I read this post on FB once about how you don't have to remind a man over and over to do something, he will get it done, it just takes a few months, LMAO. I hate when you work your butt off and all they do is complain. Vent all you want, we are here to listen!! I hope your back feels better soon!! :hugs:

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thank you so much i love this room and the wonderful women in it

I'm sorry, I can relate. My DH is irritating me this weekend but I think it's has more to do with me being too sensitive and not feeling well.

My husband irritates me less when I'm pregnant lol we always laugh about how easy i am to get along with when I'm pregnant.

I dunno.. my husband is really awesome. I can rarely think of many negatives to say about the guy even after 10 years, I know it's sickening!