i don't know if to freak out or not....what do you think?

Okay lovely ladies… I need opinions.. what do you think. I have kind of tracking my cycles and for a while there they were really consistent. Cycles would last 32 days and I would get ewcm on about CD 17 or 18 and on 15dpo (or what I called dpo based on ewcm) I would get my period. It was like that for a few months and then I would get ewcm but still get AF on time .. then I would get ewcm really late for instance on cd 28… and it started wacking out. This month I got ewcm on the 1st and 2nd of January and I am due for af today. Well, Thursday the 5th I started noticing that when I wiped I’d get brown on tp but nothing on my panties. It was like that until Sunday that I got a gush and though o I got AF but it was that gush and maybe one more and that was it.. no consistent flow… I have been like that since Sunday.. a few gushes a day but no flow.. but at night I put on a new pad and I wake up and it’s clean in the morning…. During the day is when I get one or two gushes and that is it… but I don’t consider it spotting nor a consistent flow.. spotting to me are a few spots on the pad.. and I get one or two gushes…. I am afraid it’s pregnancy.. I am going to buy an hpt tonight.. but… any thoughts… and yes, we did bd a lot this month… I know the only way to know for sure is testing… but what do you say big chance of pg or more on the slim side..

testing is the first step but it could be implantion bleeding in that case you need to wait three to four days after the bleeding started

Anything is possible, I would just get a test. Best of luck!

I took an hpt yesterday and it was bfn. It’s been seven days since I started spotting. No cramps…no soreness… nothing but spotting, well, spotting since Thursday because from Sunday till now I don’t know what to call it because it’s more than spotting but less than a regular flow. I don't even know if i am making any sense at all... This has never happened to me… it isn’t regular or normal for me to spot before af.. I have never had spotting before not even with the pregnancy of the twinkies…this is the first time… but i do know it's normal to spot before your period but this long?? I will take another hpt in a few days if it continues.. but when would it be too long that I would call the doctor and get advice if I keep going like this w/ bfn and no regular flow near. Is now too long? I mean i literally feel no pms sings like soreness or cramps... i don't feel like i am gonna get it anytime soon... Don’t know what to do… I don’t’ want to feel stupid w/ my doctor… argh! Sorry u guys! I didn’t know where else to post or who to go to.

I think the rule of thumb is 60 days (like, CD 60) with no AF and no BFP; but if you want to go to the doctor earlier than that, then go. Stressing can totally mess with your cycle too. Hang in there hun! :hugs: