I'm still having periods, negative tests, think i am pregnant! Help!

i am 16....i had sex in may and i missed my period for a little over a month and i went to the heath department here in town and the test said negative as well as 3 home pregnancy tests but i didn't start my period for another week after i went to the health department....normally mine last 5 days exactly but it lasted 3 days. then the next month i was 2 weeks late then 2 weeks early....i think i maybe bc my stomach is rock hard and it's getting bigger....i have no doctor because i dont have insurance so i dont know what to do :( if i counted right and if i am then i am around 5 ish months and i completely think i am....but i dont know what to do

When was the last time you tested?

Sweetie, you have to talk to your parents; that said if you don’t feel you can do that then find a Plan Parenthood office or go back to the health center in your area and see what they can do for you. If you are convinced you’re pregnant and you’re still having you period and the test keep coming back navigate then you need to have an ultra sound done. However I must say at this point “5 months” you should feel the baby’s movement.

you could just be stressing yourself out to the point of messing up your cycle. i suggest you go to planned parenthood, or the health center in your area. definitely get in to see a dr to confirm or deny a pregnancy via ultrasound/bloodwork. good luck and i hope that you get the answer you want soon!

It is not unusual as a teenager to have really irregular periods. However, it does seem like for your own reassurance, you should get checked out. Either at the health department or a crisis pregnancy center. These are confidential organizations. Best of luck to you.

You need to go to your parents and then go to a health clinic. From the sounds of it you are not pregnant, however being that you are 16 and sexually active, you need to get on something to prevent future scares.

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Originally Posted by rye

You need to go to your parents and then go to a health clinic. From the sounds of it you are not pregnant, however being that you are 16 and sexually active, you need to get on something to prevent future scares.

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This.
You're probably not pregnant, but you need to protect yourself. Not just from pregnancy, but from STD's. Most teens never even notice their symptoms, especially guys, so you can't trust that everyone is ok, even if they say they are.
If your cycles have always been regular, and suddenly you're getting irregular cycles and you're not pregnant, you need to find out what's going on with your body. You need to protect your health.
Do a google search for teen pregnancy centers in your area. They're usually free and totally anonymous. You should talk to your parents, but if you're not going to do that, you still have to protect yourself. A pregnancy center should be able to steer you in the right direction.

I agree with Sara1215 as a teenager periods can be very irregular. And if you don't feel comfortable talking to a parent find someone else either a school nurse, planned parent hood or another adult in your life that you feel comfortable having this conversation with. Being protected and prepared is so important. I hope that you find your answers and support you need.