Yea... what is buffalo dip? Is it related to the sauce on buffalo wings?
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Yea... what is buffalo dip? Is it related to the sauce on buffalo wings?
I confess I just saw a picture on FB of some blonde I don't know being too friendly with my husband last Saturday... the night he didn't come home.
I confess I really don't want to be a psycho wife and get pissy and paranoid, but I can't help it. :(
I confess I know that if I even hinted that he was being anything more than friendly with her he'd be so offended. He takes loyalty, fidelity and our marriage very seriously.
I confess today is our 4 year anniversary.
I confess that I wish I hadn't ever seen that pictrure.
I was wondering about Buffalo dip too. dish!
:hugs: Erin.
Ugh, Erin, I'm so sorry! :( I had no idea he didn't come home... :hugs:
He came home at 9:30 in the morning... There is an event every year where he gets together with drum core alumni. He was in drum core for 3 years and loved it. So I knew where he was and (mostly) who he was with. I also know who he stayed with. He just never called me to tell me he was crashing at someone's house so I didn't hear from him till 9am. We worked out, but seeing that picture left a more sour taste in my mouth about that night.
I know I am overreacting...
What exactly are they doing in the picture? (not that it matters, but I'm curious)
I confess I am not normally dependent on sweets but DH bought 3 huge slabs of fudge the other day and I cannot stop eating it!
I confess I still cannot get over how smart Josh is...he's watching blue's clues and they are talking about paint and Joe says, we don't have purple paint, what should we do? And Josh said "mix it" :shocker:
I dunno, maybe he has just seen this episode too many times LOL
Thanks ladies. We talked about what happened and he apologized for not calling. Its a trend with him that when he goes out (which isn't often) he doesn't call or answer his phone. Its been a fitght for years. This is the second time this has happened. The first time was when I was 3 days away from having Aidan. :eyeroll: So I thought he had learned his lesson. I thought we were good but seeing that picture made the psycho in me start surfacing. :ohno:
:hugs: Erin. I don't think you're overreacting and you're definitely not a psycho. If it were me, I'd print the picture out and leave it on his desk so he'd see it when he came home.
Ugh, I'm so sorry Erin, that would really upset me too. :hugs:
Erin :hugs::hugs:
I'm overreacting. It was just a surprise to see. He said when I asked him casually that it was the girl his friend (who took the picture) hooked up with that night.
I guess I'm not as secure in myself as I thought I was. :(
Don't be so hard on yourself. I don't know many people that wouldn't be bugged by
something like that. And I think most of the people that would *say* it doesn't bug them...are full of it.
I don't think it has anything to do with being secure in yourself, hun. Just because you are fabulous, loving, caring, smart, and attractive doesn't mean diddly when it comes to men being stupid (not that I'm saying your DH did anything). If you put yourself in a shady situation, you should expect questions and suspicions from your wife, simple as that. :hugs:
Erin, you weren't overreacting. You know how I feel about the situation. :hugs:
Hey, cock rock is back! :dance:
You guys are awesome :wub: :grouphug:. You can bet your butt if he saw a similar pic of me with a guy he didn't know and I didn't come home that night he'd flip. And I have never NOT trusted him. That's why it was weird I reacted like that.
Ugh, I need a drink now. :laugh:
:laugh: I think you're the only one that gets it.
Oh Erin! I swear, our lives are so similar. I can totally picture Eric doing the exact same thing and totally not seeing anything wrong with it. I don't know if you remember when he rode his bike down to FL for bike week and I didn't want him to go at all. Then he said he'd be back in a few hours, which to him apparently meant "I'll be gone all day." Then he sent me a picture of him posing with a topless woman with gigantic boobs. He thought I would enjoy it because of the novelty of the size of her chest. I was FURIOUS and he just totally didn't get it. Anyway, different but similar.
I confess I'm nervous, anxious, and scared all in one. I've put everything off to last minute again and my to-do list is a mile long.