You may think I am crazy but......................... [Archive] - Page 98

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 11:18 AM

How do I feel? Pissed. I am going to work on the CS app during my lunch break, since I can do it online and I'm going to make sure they serve him the papers at his JOB so everyone can know what a POS he is and he can be embarrassed.

She has a daughter, I have no idea if that is his child or not. I have asked him before, of course he said no. Every word that comes out of his mouth is a lie though, so it could be his. I've seen a picture of the baby, she looks 1/2 Mexican to me. He once told me about her, the girl. About how she was pregnant with a married man's child. This was before we split up, when they were just "friends." For all I know, he's that married man. I mean, he lives with them. He sees her child more than he sees his own. It doesn't make sense to me. :ohno: I sure as heck wouldn't want to live with someone and their little baby (she's under a year) and be away from my son.

willsmama

11-17-2008, 11:21 AM

She is a fool Candice, and you aren't.
You are doing the right thing.

Momto3

11-17-2008, 11:38 AM

Tracy - Totally go for the hair cut! Sarah won't mind, besides...she'll never know!

Candice - You are not the fool. Do what you have to as far as the CS goes. He owes that much to little Chris.

willsmama

11-17-2008, 11:39 AM

Yes. He does.
I am printing out sarah's pics though so I can show my hair dresser! HA!
Stalker! ;)

newmami

11-17-2008, 11:39 AM

Yup, he is an idiot... and she is as well, because he would have no problems cheating on her and say "well, you knew it, right?

I hurt for you and little Chris Candice... you guys do not deserve this crap!!

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 11:53 AM

I am sorry, but ROCK ON FOR GOING THERE CANDICE! WHOOT WHOOT! :)
I am glad you did it...but I am sorry you are hurting.

Thanks Tracy! I am SO GLAD I DID IT! Really, I am. I was so proud of myself for finally taking a stand against all the BS. Even his mom told me that she was proud of me. Yes, I told her what I did. :P She said she likes me even more now that I did that and that I had every right to do it. :silly:

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 11:56 AM

I'm proud of you, Candice! You've grown so much over all of this. SO proud. Dh said to get a high profile lawyer from Austin or Dallas and you'll never have to pay a dime on the divorce. He said they'd take it out of Chris' costs and you'd get a better CS. His two cents. :silly:

Pam??? I'm gonna text you... then call you... then stalk you till you tell us what's up. We're worried, hon.

willsmama

11-17-2008, 11:57 AM

:hero: <-----Candice :wub:

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 01:00 PM

:) Thanks Tracy

newmami

11-17-2008, 01:03 PM

So how are you feeling about the whole ordeal Candice? did confronting her made you feel better???

I love the fact that she was caught and freaked out, same with Chris... they deserve it!!!

bel

11-17-2008, 01:08 PM

Im so sorry my sweet candice! Im here if you wanna talk!! Love you sweets! stay stong, he really really doesnt deserve you both! HUGS!! :comfort:

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 01:13 PM

Hi Bel! I love you, thanks!

Umm, I'm feeling a lot of different things. That night I was so freaking proud of myself. I just felt like I took back something that he had taken from me. This whole time I've felt like this little crying, weakling girl and that night, I wasn't anymore. I mean just saying to that girl, "I'm Chris' wife," and seeing her reaction was awesome. I have nothing to be ashamed of. She does and he does, but I don't. Plus, the fact that she said I'm sorry like 3 times, made me realize that she knows she's in the wrong. And she's probably known that this whole time.

My only regret is not letting him come to my house that night, so I could really lay into him face to face. I thought when he called me that he already knew I had been over there, but it was obvious from his reaction that he didn't. I just really wanted to see his face when I told him what went down.

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 01:15 PM

You GO Candice!!! You're such a strong woman.

Pam... I know you're lurking...

I just got a text from her, girls. I asked if she as okay. She said, "Trying to be."

willsmama

11-17-2008, 01:19 PM

PAM.
Come in here.
Talk to us.

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 01:21 PM

Yeah Pam, where are ya? :hi: We love you! Come out, come out wherever you are!

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 01:27 PM

yes candice i am totaly proud of you and man i know your hurting but your one strong mamamamamamm!!!!!! and an inspiration...so hang in there were here for you..im off to send you naughty texts with large penises in them..hey wait i dont have your phone number..wtf

~~~

tracy you can be just like me if you want to be...:) i want pics..

that reminds me of that eminem song what was it..

willsmama

11-17-2008, 01:29 PM

You mean that STAN song.....where he was a stalker?? hahahhahaa.

Yeah, my Girlfriend here thinks I am going to do it after her...if she only knew..;)

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 01:30 PM

OMG yay i have candices number now i am sending her the largest nutsack teabaggin picture aroung..prepare to smile my friend..prepare yourself!!

newmami

11-17-2008, 01:43 PM

Candice, I am glad you are feeling ok and that seeing her made you feel better... if this was the push you needed, YAY!!!
I am concerned about you, that is why I ask :wub:

Pam????????????

I need to cut my hair as well, I am TIRED of this stupid long no shape hair....

willsmama

11-17-2008, 01:43 PM

My appointment is Wed...:)

I am PM'ing all of you my #.
I think Lynn has mine.

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 01:56 PM

YAY now i can send everyone the nutsak :)

lmao

sorry i like that word..nutsak

willsmama

11-17-2008, 01:56 PM

Hahhaha.
As do I.
They are some ugly things though...the nutsac...

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 01:57 PM

They so are. How can anyone think they're attractive?

newmami

11-17-2008, 02:15 PM

Right now I am secretly happy I have an old cellphone that does not receive pictures.... :lol:

Question about Christmas decorations, do you go all the way out on decorations, or just the basics?
We put up the tree and I put couple of things in tables and the walls (no more than 5 things), then we put light outside (not around the house, just in the entrance) and we are getting lighted candy canes for the hallway from the parkway to the house entrance....oh and a wreath in the door....
Just curious because couple ladies here are talking about it, and it seems that they just go all the way!! (as in it is starting to sound tacky, thank you very much!!)

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 02:19 PM

I would love to do more, but we're still fairly close to the basics.

I'm thinking of putting up a cute banner this year.

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:25 PM

we do the basics..tree and some lights and fun stuff around the house..i just hate the whole putting up and taking down process or ide probubly do more..

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yeah nutsacs arent very attractive

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 02:26 PM

I have yet to get the text Sarah! Waiting patiently! :lol: I think everyone here has my number. :)

willsmama

11-17-2008, 02:26 PM

We are just putting up the basics and no tree this year. We aren't celebrating at home at all, so it would be a waste.

Momto3

11-17-2008, 02:29 PM

My appointment is Wed...:)

I am PM'ing all of you my #.
I think Lynn has mine.

I do I do!

I want nutsack pics too!

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 02:29 PM

These past years I've just done the basic tree and a very few things around the house. I like to do lights outside but that can be kind if time consuming. I'm going to try to put something up this year though because I know Chris would love it if I did. I also have to get a new artificial tree this year since Chris broke mine last year. :eyeroll: Target has one on sale this week for $40, so I hope they don't sell out by Friday! :fingerscrossed:

I do really love Christmas and driving around at night looking at the lights on people's houses. :silly: I LOVE that part.

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:30 PM

did you get it did ya

candice and tracy

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 02:30 PM

OMG, I just got the picture! :lol: SICK! :X :lol:

willsmama

11-17-2008, 02:31 PM

HAHAHHAHHAHHA!!! SUPER FUNNY! IS that what you sent to your DH Sarah? :)

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:31 PM

LMAO one nutsak recieval has been confirmed :laugh:

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:31 PM

yes that is what i sent matt
he never said he loved it..hmmm

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 02:33 PM

It was HUGE! :shock:

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 02:38 PM

Hey! Sarah, you forgot me!

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:40 PM

Hey! Sarah, you forgot me!

your next .. he he here is comes....in all its glory

newmami

11-17-2008, 02:43 PM

You are sick Sarah!!! no wait, you need to get laid!!!
:lol:

This day is dragging BAD!! and I am worried about Miss Pam :(

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 02:44 PM

:shocker:

:X Wow, that's a big one.

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 02:44 PM

I've been texting her. She's really upset with her family. They hurt her really badly. :comfort:

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 02:46 PM

Sick isn't it Ashley? :lol:

Aww Pam, we love you! :hugs:

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:47 PM

what happened with pam? how did i miss this stuff..

tell her im thinking of her..

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 02:48 PM

She hasn't been on except for once today Sarah. Ash has been texting her.

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:51 PM

:( oh no...i noticed she wasnt on much today but didnt know somethign was wrong...

willsmama

11-17-2008, 02:53 PM

Poor pam.
Why do people's families treat them like $hit?!

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:54 PM

idont know i feel awful for her..she is such a wonderful mama and person

some people thrive on being nasty..

willsmama

11-17-2008, 02:55 PM

Ugh....I want to be nasty to THEM.
I know her sister was lurking here a few weeks ago...if you are being mean to pam, what goes around comes around people!

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 02:55 PM

:lol: VERY sick. Looks like something from one of those sites my cousin looked at once.

I'd send her a quick text, if you can girls. She needs us right now. I know exactly where she's coming from on the hurtful family. I don't know the exact story yet, but I just feel for her.

Pam, I hurt for you. :comfort: No one deserves to go through that.

Momto3

11-17-2008, 02:57 PM

Ugh....I want to be nasty to THEM.
I know her sister was lurking here a few weeks ago...if you are being mean to pam, what goes around comes around people!

Karma baby!

Hugs Pam!

even if I didn't get Sarah's nutsack picture!

newmami

11-17-2008, 02:58 PM

It irks me that her family treats her bad... seriously Pam is one of the most loving, caring, giving people I have ever met, she is nothing but sweetheart and she will take her shirt off if you need one.... she has gone through a lot and she needs nothing but love and support... why is it so hard for her family to just give it back???

Pam, if you are reading, we love you and we are here for you!!!

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 02:58 PM

I'm going to go for a bit, girls. I have to get some things taken care of. Will check back around 5. :grouphug:

newmami

11-17-2008, 02:58 PM

Hey Ash, could you please PM me her cell #???

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 02:59 PM

i dont have her number :( if its ok with her to pm it to me i would appreciate it..

~~~

and i never knew her sister was lurking..POOOOOO ON ALL YOU

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 02:59 PM

As I was once told by my VERY wise Mimie... You can't deal normally with un-normal people. They have to WANT to change before they can stop hurting you. Unfortunately.

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 03:02 PM

Done and done!

lexsmama

11-17-2008, 03:02 PM

Going to get a toddler!

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 03:17 PM

Karma baby!

even if I didn't get Sarah's nutsack picture!

you want nutsak?

willsmama

11-17-2008, 03:22 PM

oh, she wants it.
Sarah-it was a quick post that her sis came in and saw all of Pam's complaining threads about the wedding and went off on her about it.
Ugh. It is like reading someones journal.
BOO.

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 03:37 PM

oh man that stinks..

i mean are we not entitled to bi tch once in awhile ya know? is it supposed to be glittery and perfect in our fairy taile worlds all the time? honestly soem peoples kid...grow up..

willsmama

11-17-2008, 03:43 PM

I know....and she was probably just P!ssed because what Pam was saying was how she was ACTUALLY acting.
Grr

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 03:49 PM

Ugh, he wants to come over tonight to see Chris. Just thinking about it makes my stomach hurt. I DO NOT want to see him.

willsmama

11-17-2008, 03:53 PM

Ugh.
ew.
ew.
ew.
I suppose you have to get it over with.
Be a B!tch Candice!

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 04:10 PM

ugh candice thats so hard..

is there anyone else who can stay there when he is there and take your place? but than again its your home you shouldnt have to leave..bah stupid manwhore..

could you say..fine you get one hour at such and such a place ex:mcdonalds..thats it..be happy you get anything?

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 04:22 PM

Oh, I will Tracy! Believe me, I will! That night that everything happened is the night he was supposed to give me money for the week. I just assumed he wouldn't give me ANY so I sent him this text: I hope you won't neglect your son and will still remember to deposit money to provide for him. Signed, your crazy b!tch EX WIFE :) tell your b!tch hi!

And just now when he text me asking if I would be home tonight, I text him back and said, Will you be home? You have yet to return my speakers and I'd think you'd believe me this time that if you don't bring them, I'll go get them.

I never told ya'll but a few weeks ago, he took some surround sound speakers from my living room without asking! He just took them! :shocker: They were disconnected but I was hanging on to them because he said they were still usable. Well one night, when I was in my room boo hooing over him, he took them! And he knew I was in my room crying about him. D!ck!

He just responded back to me and said, You are going crazy. You know that right? I will bring them to you, calm down. All I did was ask you a question.

My response, F*** you! I've got your crazy. Don't you dare tell me to calm down you lying, cheating POS.

I have to quit responding to him. I told myself I would ignore him and I here I go just a texting away. :headbang:

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 04:24 PM

Honestly Sarah, I don't want to have to leave my house or go out of my way to accommodate him, ya know? And he sure as he!! is not taking my son around that whore! Not if I can stop it for now.

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 04:45 PM

i know candice..ugh im so sorry iw ish you didnt have to go through with this.. :(

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 04:52 PM

candice its so hard to ignore them when all you want to do is choke them..hang in there..

CandiceLeigh

11-17-2008, 04:54 PM

Ok, almost 5:00. Give me strength to get through this meeting. I know I'm probably going to flip the F out on him, but he should be expecting that.

sarahlynn

11-17-2008, 07:19 PM

thinking of you candice!!!! hope you made it through the night...

Momto3

11-18-2008, 07:39 AM

Good Morning ladies!

Candice - How did it go? I know how difficult it is but try to remain calm and ignore. You don't want to send any texts that he cans try and use against you, ya know?

CandiceLeigh

11-18-2008, 08:31 AM

Things did not go well last night. :ohno: I just have so much anger towards him. I mean he had the nerve to say, "what's your problem?" Umm, you effing that whore is my problem! I am so over it. I just want to curl up in a ball and leave all this behind me. :crying: I need a vacation from life.

Oh, and he still denies it all. :scream:

willsmama

11-18-2008, 08:33 AM

are you freaking kidding me!?!? Omigosh Candice....isn't it legal in TX to kill if it is a crime of "passion"??? Hmm..or just mame him a bit.
Chop it off...or soemthing.

Ugh. I hope Karma catches up with him...

Momto3

11-18-2008, 08:44 AM

Candice - I know this is going to sound so easy for me to say, but it is only because I have lived it before. You are going to have to find a way to let it go for your sake and health and for little Chris' well being too. Big Chris has made a choice and no matter what you do or say its not going to make him say "wait, you're right, I pick you!" He may regret his actions and decisions down the road, but for now, no amount of anger that you feel (and rightly so) is going to make it all be a dream.

I love you little one!

CandiceLeigh

11-18-2008, 08:46 AM

Haha, I'm not sure Tracy. Should be! :wtf: He was there all of 10 minutes though. I asked him if had brought my speakers (and honestly I don't give a crap about these speakers, I'm just being a B) and he said no he didn't have them. So I said that was fine, that I would just go get them myself. He said if I left the house, he and Chris would be gone when I got back. He doesn't even have a car seat in his stupid car, the idiot. I wasn't really going to go over there anyway, I was just going to go to my dad's house. I even told him that and he said he couldn't guarantee if I left that he would still be there when I got back. So I made him leave. Of course, I laid into him 1st and he just sat there like he always does. :eyeroll: He did actually get kind of teary eyed it seemed like, but maybe it was just allergies. That's more likely.

His mom called me later that night and said when she talked to him, he sounded sad. I guess I'm a heartless b!tch because I was thinking, good! I do however realize, that I can't keep fighting with him every time I see him. It's not good for Chris to hear and it's not right for me to keep his daddy away from him because he loves his daddy so very much. :pace: So if he wants to come over to see Chris, I guess I will be hiding out in my room for now on. If I can't bring myself to be around him, then that's what I will do.

It's not for him though, it's for Chris that I'll do that. It's always been for Chris. I will sacrifice my discomfort for him.

without

11-18-2008, 08:46 AM

I left write after I wrote my post on here I need to be able to cry without people walking in my office and looking at me like I was going crazy!

Man I leave on a good day to! I missed a good nut pick!!! LOL

Candice! I am so sorry! I would sue her for aleanation of effection!!! LOL Then I would also supena all his banking records for the divorce! Any thing he spend on her flowers, dinners out, even gas money there he owes you 1/2 because your still married so 1/2 of that money he spend was yours. :)
I will PM you all soon

CandiceLeigh

11-18-2008, 08:47 AM

sarahlynn

11-18-2008, 08:54 AM

awww hun Lynn is right you have to do this for that little man..he needs mama back..it sucks but you will be ok..i promise..he is the one who totaly lost in this situation and he knows it..

(((((((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))

willsmama

11-18-2008, 08:56 AM

I love all of you ladies. :) Candice-he SHOULD feel sad.
A-hole.

Pam...Hi! *(((HUGS))!

sarahlynn

11-18-2008, 09:32 AM

yes he should feel sad and he should feel A BOOT UP HIS ASSSSSS!!!!

im still pissed that chick wouldnt talk to you..she is no woman NO NO NO WOMAN!! she cannot call herself a woman..she is a coward and a dirty whore..

CandiceLeigh

11-18-2008, 09:35 AM

I love you Sarah! :happy:

sarahlynn

11-18-2008, 09:37 AM

I love you to...

now i will mail the boots priority i have a nice black pair with a pointy tip should insert rather nicely into his assss hole!!!

yowza i feel fiesty today..mayeb cause i got a kiss goodnight last night i dont usualy get that much action lmao..

without

11-19-2008, 12:14 PM

yeah..... we are back! at least for now :)

newmami

11-19-2008, 12:34 PM

Yay!!! :)

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 12:34 PM

Hi! :hi:

willsmama

11-19-2008, 12:57 PM

YAY! Its back! It is hard for me to be on the other sites with bad words cuz I am afraid I'll get morre 'in trouble' at work! :(

without

11-19-2008, 12:59 PM

Same here... I might like the freedom but.... I don't want to get into trouble at work LOL

newmami

11-19-2008, 12:59 PM

I am glad we are up and running!!

without

11-19-2008, 01:02 PM

me too but now I can't think of a thing to talk about! To many snakes muching on my brain! I have been getting a lot of head snakes latley! Stress and diet I bet are the cause. :)

willsmama

11-19-2008, 01:10 PM

I just bit my tongue. Ow.

without

11-19-2008, 01:21 PM

Ouch!
I gave in and ate 140 calories! Now I wish I could eat a candy bar to go with it! I am having a BAD day for cravings.

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 01:25 PM

Oh sorry guys, I'm the one with the potty mouth. :shame:

willsmama

11-19-2008, 01:30 PM

I'm gonna get flamed ladies. I posted in the Marathon post about how I don't really blame Target, mistakes happen, IMO....you know?

I dunno...it just seems like a lot of hullabaloo. Not that I am that popular here anyway. :)

willsmama

11-19-2008, 01:30 PM

Oh sorry guys, I'm the one with the potty mouth. :shame:

No, even my name is bad!
:)

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 01:33 PM

willsmama

11-19-2008, 01:34 PM

newmami

11-19-2008, 01:35 PM

Ouchie Tracy!
Pam, can you take something for those snakes?

without

11-19-2008, 01:36 PM

Guess I have no clue about the Target thing and

Candice it wasn't and isn't just you. Its one of the things most of us like about the other place is the freedom to really say what we think how we really think it and see it. I don't mind normally but at work all or our computers are linked and they call pull up my screan in other offices. :)

newmami

11-19-2008, 01:36 PM

Tracy, I agree with you.... if it is too good to be true, it probably is!!!
Besides, I am sure there is a disclaimer that states that they can change the price if it is wrong or something similar

without

11-19-2008, 01:36 PM

I took to IBpro's they are starting to work slowly. :(

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 01:39 PM

Aww Pam, sorry your head is hurting. :hugs: When I'm stressed, my stomach starts hurting me. Like with all this crap with Chris, anytime I learn something new, my stomach immediately starts hurting.

newmami

11-19-2008, 01:40 PM

Oi Candice, I am sorry stress makes your tummy upset. I hope at some point you can be less stressed about it, so you don't feel physically upset

willsmama

11-19-2008, 01:42 PM

I know I should just keep my mouth shut.
SOrry about the headache Pam. Don't end up with an ulcer Candice!

without

11-19-2008, 01:43 PM

Candice...I hope in time (and I know it will) that the pain in the tummy will go away. I know it will take a while but I promise it will.

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 01:56 PM

Eek, is that how people develop ulcers? I don't want that! And I just realized that he literally makes me physically ill. That is so wrong! :wtf:

Ok, I promise not to talk about him anymore. I know ya'll are getting tired if hearing it. :shame:

newmami

11-19-2008, 01:56 PM

Tracy, just like they are entitled to be upset about it, you are entitled to your opinion.

without

11-19-2008, 02:01 PM

Candice! As long as you need to talk about him/it we are here to lend an ear! Its ok! Vent on!

Momto3

11-19-2008, 02:13 PM

Hi girls. Its good to be home...APA home that is. Candice - You talk to us any time about anything. That's what we do here in the neverending.

Pam - Um...WAY TO GO on losing 41 pounds! Yay!

Tracy - I know what you mean!

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 02:25 PM

Thanks guys :grouphug:

Wow Pam, that is awesome! I didn't even realize you had lost that much! Go you! :happy:

without

11-19-2008, 02:28 PM

Thanks! I am hoping to get a good picture at thanksgiving so that I can do a before and after picture. Honestly though... I was and am so overweight that you can't even tell that I have lost that much weight. :(

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 02:32 PM

I know how you feel Pam. I've lost 25 lbs this year but I still look 6 months PG! All my weight is in my belly, it is so annoying. If my pants weren't falling off of me and the scale wasn't moving, I wouldn't even know that I've lost.

without

11-19-2008, 02:35 PM

I know! When people tell me the number doesn't matter I am like H3!! yes it does! I mean if it were not for the number going down I would see no point in this because I haven't changed one bit! I mean my clothes don't fit any more but you really can't tell because I can't aford to go buy new clothes to show off the weight loss so I just snech up the clothes I have. LOL

Momto3

11-19-2008, 02:36 PM

I used safety pins in all my suit skirts for the longest time. Sadly, I now have to take the safety pins out because I have gasined back 20 of the 72 I lost.

newmami

11-19-2008, 02:36 PM

WOW PAM!! 41 lb down?? that is awesome!!
I bet if you got new clothes, you could totally tell that you lost weight.

Candice, again, that is what friends are for hon!!

without

11-19-2008, 02:39 PM

Sadly, I now have to take the safety pins out because I have gasined back 20 of the 72 I lost.

Isn't it amazing yet sad how fast we gain it all back!! I mean if I take my mind off of it for a split sec. or give in to one small thing then wham! I am back where I started!

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 02:40 PM

OMG Pam, me too! I have not had any extra $$ to buy new clothes and I am in DESPERATE need of pants. I mean, anytime I wear my jeans (I have one pair) they are constantly dropping down of my hips and I have to be picking them up. I almost lost them at Kohl's the other day. I was holding Chris and his foot slipped and pushed down on my jeans. :shock: I thought they were going to fall to the floor!

without

11-19-2008, 02:44 PM

LOL Isn't it a good yet bad feeling! LOL when you get to small for you clothes but then can't afford new ones!
My work clothes are my problem. They look so bad on me and make me look biger than I am.
For me .... I am just so stink'n mad though that I am about 10 pounds away from my 1st goal 51 pounds that means I'll be 199 (first time I have seen a 1 in about 8 years) and I look just like I did at 250! GRRR!

Momto3

11-19-2008, 02:51 PM

I am sure you don't Pam. You can't tell cuz you see it every day. But I'm sure if you had a before and a 41lbs picture you would see it!

without

11-19-2008, 02:55 PM

Thats what I keep telling myself :) Now if only I can get a 1/2 decent pic of myself on Thursday I'll post for every one to see. :)

sarahlynn

11-19-2008, 03:00 PM

Honestly Tracy, I agree with you. I mean most people knew that was a HUGE error on Target's part so I don't get all the anger now? I mean, awesome if it had gone through but since it didn't, just deal.

ok im glad im not the only one who felt this way..its a mistake it happens..i mean it sucks yeah but oh well..life is not fair and sucks sometimes..
oh well

OH HEY...

1 week till distrubed and exactly one month till vegas..the countdown begins.

im ready to go home my slow day turned into a sh it load of work

willsmama

11-19-2008, 03:03 PM

I am ready to go too!
Candice, my best friend emailed me (jokingly) and asked who this "candice" was that was trying to 'steal' her Best Friend. :) hahahah. :)

without

11-19-2008, 03:05 PM

I have a dog to groom tonight that I was warned by another lady last night while eating dinner that this dog is a handful! Grr... why do I say yes to these people! Oh,,, wait I remember... because I need money! LOL

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 03:08 PM

I am ready to go too!
Candice, my best friend emailed me (jokingly) and asked who this "candice" was that was trying to 'steal' her Best Friend. :) hahahah. :)

:laugh: I'm so flattered, she thought I was stealing her bestie!

newmami

11-19-2008, 03:11 PM

Good luck with the dog Pam... and like Lynn said, I am sure you can totally tell that you lost the weight

I am irritated.... I sent an email yesterday saying I was leaving 3:30 to go to the Doctor... well this coworker send it back to me thinking she was sending it to someone else (no comments) saying "gosh, Dr in the morning, Dr in the afternoon, what would happen if we were not here"... regarding my email....

First, like she takes care of my customers when I am out!! for that matter, I am still taking care of the customers that were assigned to her because she is too lazy to take care of them... second, why does she cares?? yeah, I am sure she never takes time off to go to the doctor......
Anyways... I had my suspicions about this lady before (that she is the one running her mouth with the supervisor) and now I have confirmation that she hates me... STUPID!!

Talliesue

11-19-2008, 03:11 PM

Hi Ladies! Gosh I have missed you gals - with all the stinking fires here in Cali and tons of work I haven't been able to get on.
What did I miss???

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 03:14 PM

OMG Claudia :shock: what a B! I'm sure she's over at her desk, going crap what did I just do?!? Idiot.

newmami

11-19-2008, 03:16 PM

I honestly don't think she figured it out yet...... :lol:

Hey Natalie, APA was down, so it has been slow... so sorry about the fires, it is terrible!!

Almost time for me to go home... YAY!!

without

11-19-2008, 03:17 PM

Claudia! I would turn that email in to HR! They should not be talking about you like that! I wouldn't stand for it!

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 03:19 PM

Hey Natalie! :hi:

I agree with Pam, there has to be someone you can show that to. That is just so wrong. Makes me mad! :wtf:

Pam, good luck grooming! Any extra $$ helps, right? :)

willsmama

11-19-2008, 03:30 PM

Hey Natalie! Glad you are OK!
You haven't missed much!!!

Clau...I hate your coworkers!
PS! I dreamt I met you last night!!! :wub:

Momto3

11-19-2008, 03:45 PM

Wow Claudia! You need to forward what she wrote to her and go...ooops I guess you didn't mean for me to see this, now did you?!?!?!

sarahlynn

11-19-2008, 03:48 PM

claudia ive said this a milliion times YOU NEED A NEW JOB!!!

~~

one hour and ten mintues to go ladies...i can do it!!!

~~

so a coworkers son called last night to see if we wanted to breed our dog..ugh this means a puppy for us

CandiceLeigh

11-19-2008, 04:32 PM

Are ya'll gonna do it Sarah? Cute little lab puppies! :)

30 more mins for me and I'm out of here. Dreading seeing him again. :crying: One day it will be easier, but today just isn't that day.

cheeksy

11-19-2008, 05:12 PM

Wow! 813 pages of *hijack* and it's been going for 2 years. Does anyone even remember why this topic was started? :laugh:

sarahlynn

11-19-2008, 09:26 PM

Hi CHeeksy!!

yeah because Pam sucks and ruined all the posts people made LMAO~~

ok ok she knows that isnt true..we love her dearly here..

~~

candice i hope your doing ok tonight ... im thinking of you..

~~

just got cy into bed, he is watching the tube..lulu is sittin her watching my ,main man dj lance on tv..YO GABBA GABBA BABY!!

~~
i wonder how long i have to go to the gym to actually see a differnce..

Momto3

11-20-2008, 07:20 AM

Morning Ladies!

Hugs Candice - how did it go last night?

I have computer training from 8:30 to noon so I will see you all after lunch!

cheeksy

11-20-2008, 07:30 AM

Well, hey, at least I wasn't the topic killer :laugh:
No Thanksgiving here. Perhaps we'll manage to go to Macao for Christmas (HK would be even better but I need to apply for a visa God-knows-where for it) - we don't really celebrate but it would be nice to attend to some festivities plus it is quite a breezer after this town. :crazy:

without

11-20-2008, 08:13 AM

CHeeksy~ yep ever time I post a reply to some one it seems to kill there thread! Its sad! LOL I am the grim reaper of the boards!

Oh, girls!!! I am dropping eggs today and it hurts so bad!!! This is the one thing I miss about being infertal!!

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 08:16 AM

Morning everyone! Last night was ok, I can give ya'll the play by play if you're just dying to know.

without

11-20-2008, 08:18 AM

:hooray: eww... me pick me pick me :hooray:
:hugs:I hope it didn't go bad but I do hope you got a few good jabs in!:laugh:

newmami

11-20-2008, 08:35 AM

I want to know Candice!!!

Pam :hugs: I hear you.... I liked when I didn't ovulated better... where can I sign to get that back??

I was going to send the coworker a replay saying "I think you meant to send this to so and so", but she is not worth my time

I KNOW I NEED ANOTHER JOB!!! I am waiting until the end of January (because I already have my vacations planned) to go full force looking for one!!!
I just hope I can find something quick, so I can tell them "SEE YA" ASAP and leave my supervisor in a pickle

willsmama

11-20-2008, 08:41 AM

I hope you do too Clau.
Eek. My hair is short.

willsmama

11-20-2008, 08:41 AM

~~
i wonder how long i have to go to the gym to actually see a differnce..

I feel like I never see it on myself Sarah....

willsmama

11-20-2008, 08:43 AM

Morning everyone! Last night was ok, I can give ya'll the play by play if you're just dying to know.

YOu know we are...secret bestie. :)

:)

without

11-20-2008, 08:47 AM

Ouch Ouch Ouch!!! Some one tell me how to make the pain stop!!!

newmami

11-20-2008, 08:48 AM

Oooh Tracy, put a picture on FB so I can see it!! I bet you look gorgeous!!!
I should jump in the short hair bandwagon........ :chinscratch:

So this morning Dani was in a singing mood... she started her regular repertoire, then she said "Mami, Tinkerbell", I was like huh? you want me to sing? she goes "yeah", ok which song? "tinker bell, tinker bell, tinkle all the way....
:laugh: so I had to tell her it was Jingle bells..... and she said "no!! tinker bell"

newmami

11-20-2008, 08:49 AM

I have no clue Pam... tequila??????

willsmama

11-20-2008, 08:52 AM

I prefer vodka.

I will see if someone at work has a camera.

without

11-20-2008, 08:55 AM

Claudia!!! That is so funny!!!! I like it Dani's way better!!!! And what is it with Tinker Bell??? Morgan has been talking about Tinker Bell for a few days now. When they asked her in Gymanastic if she could be any Princess what Princess would she want to be she said Tinker Bell??

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 08:57 AM

Can't wait to see the hair secret bestie! :lol:

Pam, midol? I don't know, but I hope the pain subsides soon.

Claudia, that is so cute about Dani! I need to meet that little girl! :)

Hey Sarah, I have no clue about the gym thing. How long have you been going now.

As for my night, let me type it up real quick, ya'll know I'm long winded! :happy: It'll take me a minute to get it all down.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 09:24 AM

So he came over and I didn't say anything to him. Didn't even look at him. After awhile I asked him how long he planned on staying and he said till around 8:30. So I asked him if he could be sure to bathe Chris at least by 8:00 and he said sure, no problem. I went to my room and listened to some music and started dozing. I was so tired yesterday. I made myself get up to take a shower and not long after I got out, he bathed Chris. Still no talking going on here. Then when he was about to leave, he came into my room and said, are you going to be home tomorrow? I shrugged my shoulders, didn't even look at him. He sat in front of me and said, what you can't answer me? So I looked at him and said, I did answer you. I shrugged my shoulders, which means I don't know and that's as much of an answer as you're going to get out of me. He didn't say anything, just looked at me. So I asked him, are you about to leave? Yeah, I gotta go to my mom's house and pick up my clothes. (she washed them for him) And this is where it gets good. I said, what, whore won't clean your clothes for you?So he repeated, I said I have to go to my mom's house and pick up my clothes. and I repeated, And I said, what, whore won't clean your clothes for you? He just sat there and looked at me. I turned to him and said, look. I don't want to talk to you. We are not friends. I don't even know who you are anymore. You are not the man I married. So he got up and as he was walking out he said, wow, you're friends are really effing with your head. And by the way, I won't be able to give you any money this week. All this said as he's walking away and I can barely hear it.

I kept my cool but was still a B! :P

without

11-20-2008, 09:40 AM

Candice, way to go for not letting it turn into a big blow up! Ok I am going to ask you a hard question and I don't want you to think I judging at all but its some thing I have been thinking about myself. I let Martha (grants Monster I mean mom) come see Morgan all the time. I can't stand her and only do this for Morgans sake! But... what happens when I find some one fall and love and get remaried? I mean Martha wont be able to just drop in to my new familys house and see Morgan willy nilly when ever she wants. Same with Chris and little Chirs. Maybe it would be better if you set up a steady visiting day and time. Of course they can talk on the phone at any point that either of them feel the need. I know this makes you feel like you are keeping them apart. I feel and felt the same way about Morgan and Martha but then I also started thinking of it from the filp side. What if I was a little kid and Grandma or Dad was able to come around all the time and then mom meets a new man and all the suden things change! Who is the kid going to blame then? Also its kind of hard to move on when they are coming around all the time. I mean what man wants to date a woman who her EX is over at the house all the time even if it is just for the kids. Sweety please know I am not judging but mearly telling you what I have been thinking about when it comes to Morgan and I and wonder if it wouldn't apply to you too.

sarahlynn

11-20-2008, 09:42 AM

OH YOU GO MAMA FOR KEEPING YOUR COOL!! that pisses them off more than anything..way to go!!! i was thinking about you all night..and i like the whore cant clean your clothes line :lol: perfect girl perfect.

~~

tracy did you cut your hair?????

~~

Claudia i kinda like tinker bel all the way to :) lulu wants that movie..

you guys im still numb in the face and the dentist said no eating solids today wtf im hungry..im gonna starve to death i know it..

~~

talked to dh about money last night adn umm it went well wtf...is up with that..

without

11-20-2008, 09:45 AM

Yeah!!! for the money talk going well!!!

willsmama

11-20-2008, 09:48 AM

They are on FB and here are some links.....

http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q137/tlvk1978/582f2c4a.jpghttp://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q137/tlvk1978/8cf05a56.jpg

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 09:51 AM

I don't really allow him to just drop in. He calls first and then I say, yes he can come or no he can't. I know things will get sticky when I get involved with someone else, but honestly, that is the last thing on my mind right now. Not to mention, when I do get involved with someone, they will not be coming to my house right away. I will 1st need to establish if this is a good person that I can trust with my son and honestly I will probably be looking at every man thinking, will he be a good father? I don't want some man in my life that's going to be in our lives for a year or whatever and then peace out. That wouldn't be good for Chris and I will do my best to shield him from any further pain. Does that make sense?

Yay Sarah on having a good talk with Matt! :) Seems like he's making an effort lately.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 09:52 AM

I like it Tracy! It looks cute! :)

willsmama

11-20-2008, 09:54 AM

willsmama

11-20-2008, 09:54 AM

No solids?! I would DIE.

without

11-20-2008, 09:57 AM

I like it Tracy! Its cute and short in the back but the front doesn't look to short. What does DH think?

Candice, I am sorry I didn't mean to make you feel like I was pushing or prying. I just know that I have a very hard time saying no and creating boundries but you and I are not the same person. You are right about sheilding Lil Chris. Morgan has only met 1 man I have ever dated and it was for a short moment. Oh, wait she met one other one but she just thought he was the ice cream man! LOL She was really little then not much over a year. Its my rule not to let her be around any one I am dating until I know it has some sticking power. Then yet I haven't dated in so long who knows I may never find that again. :) Any way sorry if I put my worries and problems over on you.

bel

11-20-2008, 09:57 AM

WTG Candice!!! YOU ROCK!!
Tracy I love it.
Saratoo talk to me when you are on IM.
Love you girls :wub:

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 09:58 AM

Hi. :hi:

YAY CANDICE!!!!! :woohoo: I'm so proud of you, Mama! Stoopid Chris for not paying you, though.

WTG on the money talk, Sarah.

Do you like it, Tracy?

Pam, I pmed you. Wow.

Girls, I think I may have had a panic attack last night. I have had such a bad week, and I couldn't get my new tunic top off. It wouldn't go over my shoulder blades. I started feeling clautrophobic and I cut it off. Am I nuts??

I mean, I've had to miss a whole honkin' lot of work this week for Lex, and I have to be gone tomorrow for Holiday in the Pines. It's a new job, and I dont' want to screw it up. Then, the lawn guys woke my son up 45 minutes into his noraml 2 1/2 hour nap, and he was hitting, throwing, strowing, and whining on top of the at work situation yesterday morning. My nerves were shot, and I had to get the top off. Dh told me that there was somethign seriously wrong with me if I had to cut a top off of myself and not wait for him to help. I lost it when he told me that. I cried.

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 09:59 AM

I LOVE it, Tracy!!!

newmami

11-20-2008, 09:59 AM

YAY Candice for keeping your cool!! it is going to irriatate the crap out of him... indiference is 10x worse than hating!!

Sarah, sorry about the numb mouth... can you get some soup??
But yay for the positive talk about money.

I need to go get me some food... I have nothing to bring for lunch (DH is eating a lot so there are not enough leftovers....)

So who is starting Christmas decorations next weekend?? we are, except for the tree
Dani is all wired up about Christmas

newmami

11-20-2008, 10:03 AM

Tracy, I love the hair!! you look beautiful!

Ash, I believe you have been under a lot of stress, and the shirt thing was just what made you explode... I had similar situations where a top gets stuck... I have never cut one, but I have lost it several times!!! :hugs:
I think you need a break from Lex being sick, all the stress from work, and DH needs to be a little more sympathetic

willsmama

11-20-2008, 10:03 AM

I am not sure if I love it Yet.
DH likes it.

I am waiting for next weekend for x mas decor.
Ash- you aren't nuts...if I felt stuck, I'd do the same. I freak when I am frustrated.

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 10:03 AM

:hugs: Thank you.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 10:04 AM

Rock on momma. but Lame about the money. Yeah, "your friends are doing a number"? Why, because you have a SUPPORT system that won't let him be a total a-hole to you! Good god.

(((HUGS!))) and again, you are:hero:

I know! When he said that I was like :eyebrow: my friends? What?

And Pam, I'm not upset or angry with you. I hope my post didn't come off that way. :hugs:I really do value your input!

Ashley, I'm so sorry all that happened! I was thinking of you yesterday after you texted me that. Sounds awful. :( Sorry your DH wasn't more understanding.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 10:34 AM

willsmama

11-20-2008, 10:39 AM

Omigod Candice....:(
I think it sounds more like she expects Chris to become this childs father. Not that he already is.
Gross. Gross. Gross.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 10:39 AM

Either way, it makes me ill. He has a son! :ohno:

newmami

11-20-2008, 10:39 AM

Ugh... maybe she is trying to get on your nerves?? or tie Chris closer??
Anyways, I honestly think Chris is a little too messed up and he doesn't know what he wants, he is with that girl because he needs someone, and she is the one available, but not because he really loves her..... I think Chris is very very confused on how he feels about you, so being with someone else takes his mind out of it....

Breaks my heart for that poor LO, if Chris is playing daddy with her and then he decides to leave them (I bet you it will happen eventually), her little heart is going to be broken

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 10:43 AM

He's already told me he will never get remarried. Just last week we were talking and I asked him if I could ask him a question and before I even asked him anything, those were the 1st words out of his mouth. "I will never get remarried." Ugh, and then he said this, "But I could give you one more baby so we can have one more together." I just looked at him and said, "You think I want to have another baby with you when we're getting divorced??"

My heart hurts so much for my baby right now though. I just want to run home and cry. :ohno:

newmami

11-20-2008, 10:47 AM

Candice, how is he with Little Chris? does he spend quality time with him?

Anyways,please try not to jump to any conclusions.... you don't know the girl, you don't know her intentions... again as far as I am concerned, she may be doing it to hurt you!!

About little Chris.... he has a wonderful mom and a loving set of uncles and aunts... he would not be short when it comes to love... the whore's girl.... apparently she has no one, and the mom's self esteem is so low, she had to go mess up with a Man who is married.... who are you feeling sorry for now? :)

:hugs: I am sorry it has to be this painful

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 10:52 AM

He seems to love Chris. I mean, he wants to see him. Of course sometimes it seems like he only wants to see him when it's convenient for him. I don't know. I mean I would never have questioned his love for Chris in the past, but now? I just don't know. Like he was off Tues, he could have easily spent the whole day with Chris but did he call to see if that was an option? No. He didn't even come over that evening when Chris got out of school.

Were it me, I would be begging for every chance I could to see Chris. I mean, it's hard for me to get through 8 hours a day without my baby, let alone 5 days! Which is the longest he's gone without seeing Chris.

without

11-20-2008, 11:04 AM

*hugs*

willsmama

11-20-2008, 11:20 AM

Ick. Such a crappy situation. He sounds like he has no maturity whatsoever.
How old is he?

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 11:26 AM

I think I'm going to throw up. SIL just email me this. She had tried to befriend that girl on myspace because she wanted to see if she said anything about Big Chris on her page and her page is private, but her headline is not. Joe is Chris' big brother.

Ok it said “Any man can be a father. It takes a real man to step up and be daddy. (you could have left us……but we are glad that you wouldn’t let that happen).” So is she insinuating that Chris could be the father or that he’s being a father to her little girl. I don’t know but it’s pretty messed up that she would write something like that for everyone to see. I guess some people don’t have a heart at all. Joe said that it sounds like he’s being a father to her baby. Which he thinks is so messed up. Why would you leave your real child to go be a father to baby that is not yours? I just don’t understand.
:X
Ugh... maybe she is trying to get on your nerves?? or tie Chris closer??
Anyways, I honestly think Chris is a little too messed up and he doesn't know what he wants, he is with that girl because he needs someone, and she is the one available, but not because he really loves her..... I think Chris is very very confused on how he feels about you, so being with someone else takes his mind out of it....

Breaks my heart for that poor LO, if Chris is playing daddy with her and then he decides to leave them (I bet you it will happen eventually), her little heart is going to be broken

Yep, it looks like a nice little chain of events for Chris Jr and the little girl. I'm so sorry.

He's already told me he will never get remarried. Just last week we were talking and I asked him if I could ask him a question and before I even asked him anything, those were the 1st words out of his mouth. "I will never get remarried." Ugh, and then he said this, "But I could give you one more baby so we can have one more together." I just looked at him and said, "You think I want to have another baby with you when we're getting divorced??"

My heart hurts so much for my baby right now though. I just want to run home and cry. :ohno:

:X :crossed: :po:

He seems to love Chris. I mean, he wants to see him. Of course sometimes it seems like he only wants to see him when it's convenient for him. I don't know. I mean I would never have questioned his love for Chris in the past, but now? I just don't know. Like he was off Tues, he could have easily spent the whole day with Chris but did he call to see if that was an option? No. He didn't even come over that evening when Chris got out of school.

Were it me, I would be begging for every chance I could to see Chris. I mean, it's hard for me to get through 8 hours a day without my baby, let alone 5 days! Which is the longest he's gone without seeing Chris.

It's like he's punishing Chris for what he's doing and making you do. He's screwing up, making you stand up, and he's not expecting you to do that. He's punishing Chris to punish you. Make you cave. ??

Ick. Such a crappy situation. He sounds like he has no maturity whatsoever.
How old is he?

22 or 23, right?

willsmama

11-20-2008, 11:47 AM

It shows.
(((HUGS))) candice...

Momto3

11-20-2008, 11:59 AM

So this morning Dani was in a singing mood... she started her regular repertoire, then she said "Mami, Tinkerbell", I was like huh? you want me to sing? she goes "yeah", ok which song? "tinker bell, tinker bell, tinkle all the way....
:laugh: so I had to tell her it was Jingle bells..... and she said "no!! tinker bell"
That is so cute Claudia!
They are on FB and here are some links.....

http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q137/tlvk1978/582f2c4a.jpghttp://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q137/tlvk1978/8cf05a56.jpg

I LOVE the hair Tracy! Love it!

Candice - You are in my thoughts so much right now. I pray that this all goes quick and easy for you. Keep track of when he gives you money, when he doesn't and how much. That will all show up against him too.

Do you think either he, or her read APA, as in "your friends are messing with your head"?

If so, CHRIS...YOU'RE AN @SS!!! GIVING UP THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO YOU, AS IN THE LOVE OF YOUR WIFE AND CHILD!!!!!

newmami

11-20-2008, 12:00 PM

:hugs: Candice... I hope and pray it gets less painful for you and Chris Jr, and I hope Chris can realize his son is not at fault of his stupidity

willsmama

11-20-2008, 12:01 PM

If so, CHRIS...YOU'RE AN @SS!!! GIVING UP THE BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO YOU, AS IN THE LOVE OF YOUR WIFE AND CHILD!!!!!

IF I EVER SEE YOU I WILL SERIOULSLY PUNCH YOU WHERE IT HURTS YOU STUPID STUPID IMMATURE SELFISH A-HOLE OF A MAN. WAIT. YOU DON'T EVEN ACT LIKE A MAN..YOU DESERVE NO RESPECT.

OH, AND KARMA IS A B!TCH...

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 12:04 PM

He just turned 23, but I'm 23 too so I don't know how good a judge age really is. Unless, I act very immature??

willsmama

11-20-2008, 12:04 PM

No, men mature a LOT later than women, IMO.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 12:05 PM

:lol: Just saw the new comment towards Chris. I mean he knows I come on here, but I don't know if he would actually search me out. I don't know, I don't care. I've done nothing wrong.

newmami

11-20-2008, 12:06 PM

No, men mature a LOT later than women, IMO.

Oh yes... and some just never mature :eyeroll::laugh:

willsmama

11-20-2008, 12:07 PM

Ah....it felt good to say.
Man....if I could see him.. POW!

willsmama

11-20-2008, 12:08 PM

Oh yes... and some just never mature :eyeroll::laugh:

That would be a VERY true statement.

sarahlynn

11-20-2008, 12:20 PM

**** you woman talk alot ive been off for an hour due to computer updates and im trying to catch up..

not sure about the myspace she is a douche and sounds like she is either being vindictive or just plain ditsy and stupid..or a combo of both..but once again she is no WOMAN!!!!!! not even close to a woman..

ash ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

lynn how are you doing?

TRACY YOU BIATCH I LOVE THE HAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

willsmama

11-20-2008, 12:28 PM

Thanks! I don't think it is as hot as yours though! :)

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 12:34 PM

I was wondering where you were Sarah! :hi:

I'm over the initial shock/sadness, it all just turns into anger eventually. Towards him of course.

sarahlynn

11-20-2008, 12:34 PM

add soem highlights to give it depth...

im still tempted to go super blonde but my balls arent big enough yet..

we shall see maybe i'll do it this weekend..only thing is i have low and highlights now so im like wtf will it all be one color or will the darker stay darker a bit i dont know..home dye jobs are a hit and miss thing..ive done them before but not when ive had color done..

oh well

my coworker is brining me back soup for my liquid lunch..

~~~

its hard candice me and matt didnt split on really bad terms..i was not happy he was coping out on being a parent ya know that pissed me off but im a super independent person so i was ok on my own..he only saw cy a coupel times a year when he flew up..what bugged me more than anything was when i knew he was spending money and i was only gettin 174 a month for child support..oh well..and when he wanted to bring the stupid ugly gf up..that pissed me thehell off..i guess inside i still loved him..even thogh i was seeing others as well..man my relationship sounds totaly fuc ked up..lmao..eeek!!!

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 12:38 PM

Oh no, I could not handle him bringing a girl anywhere near me! No way! Not now, maybe never. At least ya'll weren't married though, ya know? He didn't break his vows or anything. I don't know, I just think if we had only been dating, I might not take it so hard.

sarahlynn

11-20-2008, 12:44 PM

yeah its hard especially when you have divorce to deal with..that adds so much more depth to it and feelings..:(

one good thing his being a total horses ass is gonna make it a bit easier to follow through on things like the divorce and child support..hang in there mama..were all here for you..

Momto3

11-20-2008, 12:47 PM

..:(
one good thing his being a total horses ass is gonna make it a bit easier to follow through on things like the divorce and child support..hang in there mama..were all here for you..

Yep! ITA! He's doing you a favor by being an ass.

sarahlynn

11-20-2008, 12:51 PM

diggin his own grave...we'll all stand back and kick dirt on him :) and divorce papers as well...and take his money and go to vegas...oh yeah we have plans baby..

sorry not sure where that came from..i think the hunger is gettin to me..

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 12:53 PM

IF I EVER SEE YOU I WILL SERIOULSLY PUNCH YOU WHERE IT HURTS YOU STUPID STUPID IMMATURE SELFISH A-HOLE OF A MAN. WAIT. YOU DON'T EVEN ACT LIKE A MAN..YOU DESERVE NO RESPECT.

OH, AND KARMA IS A B!TCH...

DITTO TO THAT!

LUCKILY, YOU'RE A GOOD WAYS AWAY, CHRIS! YOU'RE MESSING UP THE BEST THING YOU'VE EVER HAD IN YOUR LIFE.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 12:54 PM

You guys, I don't know how much more of this crap I can take. I'm trying to be strong, but I can only bend so much. Eventually I'm going to snap. I really wish I could go home. I have no time though and then I wouldn't be able to talk to ya'll because I have no internet at home.

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 12:54 PM

newmami

11-20-2008, 12:56 PM

Maybe the pain medication Sarah??? :lol:

I agree that he is making it easier on you... DH's ex did the same, turned into a total boetch after their divorce (ok, she was already half way there), making it easier for DH to say later gator!!!

I know in my heart one day he will realize how much of an idiot he was... and then of course it is going to be too late!

I just had the best lunch, tomato basil soup and half turkey & cheddar grilled sammy.... mmmmm........
Dh is out until tonight, so I am going to the supermarket with the kids... I am thrilled because usually they behave better if I am the only parent around!

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 01:00 PM

Yum Claudia!

I had chicken fries with honay and mashed taters. Nom, nom, nom.

willsmama

11-20-2008, 01:07 PM

MMM.
I am full because of too much Crystal Light.
I had Lentil Soup, a ham sammich and FF Pringles.
OINK!

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 01:09 PM

I had maybe 1/2 a bowl of soup.

newmami

11-20-2008, 01:12 PM

Candice... what about starting a little diary where you can write all your feelings about Chris??? that would help get them out so they do not consume you

And PLEASE, try not to make much of that myspace thing.... the whore knows that you know where to find her... I would bet she did that hoping you will see it and mess you up, because she is a crappy person... she probably wants Chris all for herself and create this "happy family".... she is due for a rude awakening!!!

willsmama

11-20-2008, 01:20 PM

(((candice)))

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 01:32 PM

I'm trying to brush it off Claudia, but it's honestly affecting me more than I'd like to admit. And I'm talking about the new thing she has up....you can check out the other place if you don't know what I'm talking about.

lexsmama

11-20-2008, 01:44 PM

Do you do art at all Candice? I've got a book on Art Journals and Creative Healing. I can send it and some beginning supplies to you to get it all out with!

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 01:54 PM

I have a journal, I just haven't written in it in a long time. This place is kind of like my journal, ya know? As for art. You mean like drawing? I suck at drawing!

sarahlynn

11-20-2008, 01:59 PM

awww candice..((((((((hugs)))))))))) i know this is really hard for you..

~~~

so did you read my post in random about what dh said..kinda made me sad about not going near it anyways..yeah i know we dont get close very often ya dont have to rub it in..seheshhhh

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 02:00 PM

Aww, I just saw that Sarah. :hugs: Chris said something one time about us having unprotected sex, well you can't get pregnant anyway, right? :ohno: Men are stupid!

Momto3

11-20-2008, 02:00 PM

My DH is home sleeping right now. He left for Bartow yesterday around 2pm. They worked straight through until 7 or 8 this morning. Drove back home and got in bed around noon. Poor guy has been up more than 24 hours!

Momto3

11-20-2008, 02:01 PM

I saw the comment Sarah. That is sad.

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 02:13 PM

Where did Pam take off to?

Lynn, I wish I was your DH right now! Sleeping! :yawn:

CandiceLeigh

11-20-2008, 04:47 PM

APA is back up! What the freak is going on though? Why does it keep shutting down like that? My fragile heart can't take it. :ohno:

sarahlynn

11-20-2008, 08:02 PM

yeah that sucked it was down for awhile today..and our computers at work were down and i have a sh it load of work to do tomarow and im done at noon..so you ladies will have to leave me the hell alone while i get stuff done..OK?~

Momto3

11-21-2008, 07:23 AM

Happy Friday Ladies! I have so much shopping to do this weekend for cooking on Thursday! Yikes!

Oh I spoke to Sarah on the phone last night....she sounds so Dakotaish! :hooray::clap:

CandiceLeigh

11-21-2008, 08:01 AM

Whatev Sarah, if you don't want to chat! :P

And Lynn, you got to talk to her? I am dying to hear her ND accent! :laugh:

newmami

11-21-2008, 08:16 AM

Hi ladies, it is Friday!!
I woke up to a bleeding nose, so I have to be very careful as once it starts, it just keeps coming back... poor Dani was freaked out

Went to the supermarket yesterday with the kids, they behaved so well, I am so proud :wub:

Candice, how are you hon?

Lynn, you need to get on FB!!

Someone texted me from a 701 area code... who was it???????

CandiceLeigh

11-21-2008, 08:18 AM

I feel really good today Claudia! Thanks for asking! :) Eek, about the bloody nose. I hate those. And 701 is Sarah!

newmami

11-21-2008, 08:20 AM

YAY Candice!! I am glad you are feeling good

Thanks!! I thought I added her # to my cell.... will do now

without

11-21-2008, 08:34 AM

Awww.... fresh air! I hate it when APA is down.

Candice, I have been thinking about you so much in the last 24 hours. Maybe because it was 2 years ago yesterday that Grant left us physically. I don't know but my heart breaks for you and lil Chris and I wish so badly I could do this for you and take this burden for you.

Claudia!!! eeek on the bloody nose! Yeah that the kids were good! Don't you just love those days when the kids are so good and you have so much fun together. Awww.... the token days that make parent all worth it!

Lynn, I have gobs and lots to do also! On top of grooming and thanksgiving cooking and shopping... Morgan asked if we could make muffins tonight and of course I said YES!! LOL

Ashley, hows Lex doing?

Tracy, I read what you had for lunch and now I am hungry and its only 8:34!

sarahlynn

11-21-2008, 08:45 AM

NO WAY DO I REALLY SOUND DAKOTAISH??????????

im not ever ansering my phone again..

willsmama

11-21-2008, 08:57 AM

I probably sound just like you sarah...MINNNNeSOOOOOTTA!

Momto3

11-21-2008, 09:02 AM

NO WAY DO I REALLY SOUND DAKOTAISH??????????

im not ever ansering my phone again..

I loved it! Maybe since you are so far north it actually reminded me of a littel bit of Canada too!

Claudia - Sorry about the bloody nose! I can't get on FB at work...its blocked. :(

Hugs Candice!

Pam - Its so fun to cook with the kids. I've started doing this with Katelyn and she LOVES it!

Does anyone elses' child keep repeating things? Katelyn will say "Where am I going Mama?" and I answer her and two seconds later she says it again. OVer and over. It gets a tad annoying sometimes but I gently reminder her that we talked about where we are going and I ask her to tell me.

willsmama

11-21-2008, 09:09 AM

Will does, when he thinks its funny...then he'll say "AGAIN"

sarahlynn

11-21-2008, 09:11 AM

lucea doent ask that much over and over..she will be persistant if she watns something and imnot doing RIGHT AWAY!!! ugh

see biatches im not gettin work done now cause of ya'll

sarahlynn

11-21-2008, 09:12 AM

TGIFF!!!

so whats the plans for the weekend ladies?

Momto3

11-21-2008, 09:15 AM

see biatches im not gettin work done now cause of ya'll

Oh good...so my work here is done if I am distracting you!

Momto3

11-21-2008, 09:17 AM

so now Katelyn tells me she has a baby in her belly...:eyebrow:

The other day it was a boy...this morning, its a girl! :shock:

CandiceLeigh

11-21-2008, 09:21 AM

My goodness Lynn, isn't she a bit young?? :lol: Silly girl! Chris does the repeating thing sometimes too and yes, it does get annoying. He also does the, "Mommy, mommy, mommy, mama, mama, mama, mom, mom, mom, ma, ma, ma..."

Sarah, you don't want to work anyway. Besides everyone knows 1/2 days are jack off days! :) You just play on the internet till it's time to go!

Pam & Claudia, I am really am doing much better today. Thank you for thinking of me.
:buddies:

Tracy, now I want to hear you speak too! :lol: I need to hear these accents. Although sorry to say, I don't really have that Texas twang.

newmami

11-21-2008, 09:27 AM

Aww Lynn, so adorable! Dani also does the repeating over and over :crazy:
Chris does the same thing over and over... like slamming doors, cabinets and drawers :eyeroll:, he broke one drawer in the kitchen :shocker:

I just had my review... I got awesome reviews and as I am playing my supervisor she is very very pleased with me... DUMMY!!! :laugh:

Momto3

11-21-2008, 09:29 AM

Good for you Claudia! SHOW ME THE MONEY!!!!!!!

willsmama

11-21-2008, 09:45 AM

rock on clau!!! :)

CandiceLeigh

11-21-2008, 09:46 AM

Yay Claudia! :cheer:

sarahlynn

11-21-2008, 09:51 AM

yay for a good review claudia :)

without

11-21-2008, 09:58 AM

* Pats Claudia on the back*

Weekend plans..... work, Clean, cook and maybe take a few hours out of the weekend to take Morgan to see Bolt.

CandiceLeigh

11-21-2008, 10:01 AM

Eww, I need to clean also. I always need to clean. I swear I get one room clean, then on to the next, by the time I'm done the 1st room is dirty again! :wtf: I need to focus on my kitchen though and get it spic & span for Thanksgiving. :) I'll probably make a few casseroles and desserts. I love the holidays!

What are you guys doing for Turkey day? We are eating lunch at Luby's with my grams that lives in the nursing home, then going to my other grams after that. Not sure if we will actually eat there, but we will at least visit. Then probably around dinner time, we will head over to the IL's house. It will be an exhausting day, I'm sure of it!