You may think I am crazy but.........................

[lexsmama]

Woo hoo! I can't wait to see it decorated!!!

[newmami]

yay Lynn for a good deal!!
We usually put real tree, but I am tired of watering it and sweeping needles... so this year may be the last.... if I can find a good price for a fake one

[Momto3]

Katelyn wanted to decorate it as soon as we got it in the door! We had to hide it on her. I can't have my tree up before thanksgiving!

[without]

You know, I refused, but their bras are freaking awesome! I am totally up and in now!

I know and a good bra can make you look 10 pounds thiner!

[lexsmama]

Really?? I didn't know that. I just wanted to not be hanging out everywhere for everyone but my hubby. :laugh:

[willsmama]

Hi Ladies! Busy morning! I am trying to get my christmas shopping done early! But I am torn on my daycare gift!

[sarahlynn]

we usualy get daycare a gift each year...i think this one i will get them a gift certificate i dont think they go out much :) maybe somewhere fun for the kids..

[willsmama]

Yeah, My daycare lady is a home body.
I am thinking a Target Gift Card, or one of those generic Visa Ones.

[sarahlynn]

i know i usualy dont like doing gift cards but sometimes its the easiest route..

man i didnt go anywhere for lunch .. i do have a granola bar and banana..i want a vegas body :) so i need to cut back on my caloric intake LMAO .. and i better hit the gym..

i want to go buy myself soem fun clothes..or at least new..wtf is the weather gonna be like down there in dec?

ok ok and if you get totaly irritated and tired of me posting about vegas slap me and tell me to go away ok !

[Momto3]

So Sarah - Matt is going to take care of the kids alone while you are gone? It should give him a new outlook on all you do.

[newmami]

Tracy, I got our daycare a goodie basket with cookies, nuts and all those things last year

Ok so as I am FED UP with the supervisor, I am going to talk with another manager (from a different department I am assisting) and ask if business peaks, what are the chances of me reporting to him and have nothing to do with her anymore

[lexsmama]

I'm thinking a basket of goodies for Lex's teachers this year. Last year, I made them bracelets and earrings. I really don't like his teacher this year as much. She's a sweet person, I'm just wishing she were a little more stern sometimes.

You need some good blingy outfits, Sarah. Have you gone to the Limited dot com?? :drool: It's pricey, but I'm in total wub.

P.S. Let me live vicariously through your Vegas trip, k? Don't go away...

[sarahlynn]

claudia man you need a new job girl...im sorry things still suck :(


~~

matt will have the kids about 3/4 of the time my parnets will have them the other time because matt works so early they will have the kids to take them to school and daycare..i think they will have them sun and mon night..matt will have fri and sat..

~~

eek off to check otu the limited.com :) and ok ok you can live through me just this once..usualy no one wants to im boring

[willsmama]

Sarah, can you post a question for me so I actually get responses? :(

[lexsmama]

What's up Tracy??

Thanks Sarah. I'd kiss you if I weren't so far away. :wub:

Oh! Hobby Lobby has Christmas stuff on half off this week!!!

[willsmama]

Oh, you guys responded, but I posted a thread about daycare gifts and got 1 response!
I hate being unpopular!

[newmami]

So sorry Tracy... maybe you should post on Working moms?? seems to me that there are lots of SAHM in this forum

[willsmama]

You are probably right Clau...

[lexsmama]

I'd try there, too. Maybe Random??

I'm going to go get Lex. See ya'll later!

[willsmama]

Good night!

[sarahlynn]

Oh, you guys responded, but I posted a thread about daycare gifts and got 1 response!
I hate being unpopular!

oh sh it girl im sorry i responded in here..i sometimes do in here and forget other places..

:( im sorry

when we meet up i buy lunch to make up for it ok :)

wanna meet in vegas in 4 weeks :)

[without]

I don't post much any more other than in here just because I can't stand it when no one responds. Sigh... on a good note... you all alwasy respond! LOL As far as Day care gifts go. I will be giving Jeannie a gift certificate for Olive Garden and a Pedi just because we have been friends long enough for me to know thats what she likes. Most likly I will give her some kind of candle or chistmas ornimanet too. Her two assistants will get a candle for one and a picture frame for the other (this one is having a baby soon).

Ugh! speaking of pictures! I forgot my camera again! I want to show you all Morgans pictures from the swap! We had a blast making cup cakes and we put our ABC's on the tops of each cup cake with the frosting! I made a few big cupckaes too. After making the cup cakes Morgan and I took a walk up the street to Mikes house and gave him and Austin 4 of them. LOL Any thing to get to say HI right! LOL

OH! and... I fell on my face coming into work today! All the ROTC guys saw me! Eeegads! The toe of my shoe got cought on the bell of my pants while I was walking up the stairs and down I went. Nothing hurt but my pride. :)

[without]

:headbang: :pokey: :headbang:

[sarahlynn]

man i hate when i fall or trip and eveyrone is looking..oh well girl it happens to all of us :) the best of us :)

i was allll night with cy he was throwing up every hour till 5:30 this morning..im ****ing beat..

and i have work to do i dont want to do..its cold out..we have crap loads of snow..

[without]

Aww... I hope he can sleep it off today! Poor guy and poor mama! Snow!!! I think I have forgoten what Snow looks like! Any more we only get light dustings of snow but the weather is kick your butt cold!

Oh... its not the first time I have fallen at work so now it seems like no big deal when it happens. LOL

[willsmama]

Was the 22nd going to work still Sarah? Or are we puttin it off until after the holidays!

Ha! pam! You are like me! Accident prone! :) WTG on the weight loss by the way.

[without]

Thanks! Its slowing down and its hard not to lose focus but I just keep thinking about the finish line. :)

[sarahlynn]

Was the 22nd going to work still Sarah? Or are we puttin it off until after the holidays!
.

you tell me what you think...its entirely up to you..what would work best for you..honestly i seldom have anything going on..the only this is ah hum VEGAS!!! so what do you think?

[lexsmama]

:hi:

Pam, I'm so glad you had fun. Did Morgan like her dress up clothes?

[willsmama]

you tell me what you think...its entirely up to you..what would work best for you..honestly i seldom have anything going on..the only this is ah hum VEGAS!!! so what do you think?

The dead of January, to mix up the winter a bit maybe....we have a couple of things going on....

[Talliesue]

Morning ladies!
Well I'm much much blonder than before - I haven't taken any pictures yet. I have to go back this weekend to fix the color a little though. But I love the cut and DH loves it too!
Egads, Facebook is addicting. I'm having to much fun on FB.

Anyone have any Thanksgiving plans?? we are driving up to Sacramento to visit my cousins family.

Lane Bryant does have some fabulous bras for thoes of us that are well endowed. Though they discontinued my favorite style so I have to find a new one.

[without]

Morgan loves her dress up clothes! She is going to wear her new gymnastics clothes tonight!

[without]

We go out to my Granny's house for Thanksgiving! All of 7 miles from my house. We take gobs of pictures and then we take one of those and use it as our Christmas card. We eat a HUGE meal and then go on a 4-7 mile hike come back and eat some more. Then we play games if we feel like it or most likly plan our shopping day for the next day!

[bel]

I just wanted to take out of my chest how sad this forum makes me, if you wanna swap a christmas card with me, please let me know, I wrote a thread but no one seems to care...so if you do, please contact me.
I might have your adresses but Im not sure.
Thanks Pam.
Love you my never endings girls. Bel.

[willsmama]

I feel the same Bel.
I would love to! I'll PM you.

[without]

Aww... Bel! Sorry! We were just talking yesterday how it sucks when no one responds! We love you and you know we miss you here!

BTW... where is every one today???

[willsmama]

I dunno! Sarah is home with Cy, right?

[without]

I don't know but I wouldn't doubt it.

I haven't seen Claudia or Lynn all day unless I just missed them

[sarahlynn]

no sarah is at work..cy is with great grandma..i went to see him at lunch and he was sleeping :( poor baby he wanted to see me at lunch i feel bad but i didnt want to wake him..my grandma said he has been sleeping alll day which is good sleep of the bug..

i dotn feel so hot maybe its my mind playing tricks on me ya know when your around someone else who is sick you feel sick..i picked up some chicken strips and mashed potatoes for lunch to help my belly..

other than that not much going on

[sarahlynn]

aww man cy just called sad he missed me..makes me want to cry i just want ot be with my babies when they are sick..i know he is in good hands but still not the same as with mama..stupid work

[willsmama]

I know how you feel Sarah (((HUGS))).

[sarahlynn]

**** its only 2:15...

stupid day...

[without]

I know the day is creeping by!

[sarahlynn]

i just dont feel right..blah..

i have phone calls to make **** to get ready for tomarow and i dont want to do anything..

im so tired of doing

[bel]

little tiny spiders are coming from my ceiling WTF???

[sarahlynn]

that would creep me out bel, i hate spiders in our house. Now that its cold they wander in. blech

[lexsmama]

Aaaw, Sarah, I know how you feel.

Spiders?? Ummm, no. I'd be freaking.

I'm glad she likes it all Pam. I really wanted to spoil that little girl and her mama. :wink:

I'm so tired. You think I ought to go take a nap instead of walking? It's rainy and cold. I could walk inside the mall/plaza...

[newmami]

Hi girls!! I am celebrating veterans day at home... day off!!!
Although the kids are driving me insane, Chris has hit the terrible 2 and Dani is just having an attitude today!! ugh Thank God DH is out today otherwise I would be nuts!!

BEL, I would send you a card, I want to send them to my friends only this year, so please know you are in my list.

I need to get the Bday stuff for Dani, couldn't do it today because the bank screwed up after the unauthorized transactions and cancelled my debit card... argh!! I didn't got enough cash out yesterday, and the banks are closed.......
I will do it tomorrow, then Friday I need to make a cake for Dani

[Talliesue]

Oye Ladies - I have the snakes munching on my brain again.
I also have a cup of coffee in hopes that the caffine will help a bit.

[sarahlynn]

ugh snakes munchin on my stomach...

**** it demand i leave work NOW Please.....my worker said to leave but my bosses are out and she doesnt like when she doesnt know i leave..i dont know she has only been sick from work once in like 22 years..way to hard core for me..i just want ot go homeand curl up on the couh

[without]

Hi!!!

[Momto3]

Hi ladies! I was off yesterday for Veteran's Day. I spent a glorious day just me and my baby girl! I loved it!

BAck to work today, but the good news is its hump day and the weekend is just around the corner!

Srarh I hope Cy is feeling better today!

[newmami]

Hello, I am back in the office as well... but supervisor is out as her grandma is sick and close to dying (yes I feel sorry for her, but I am happy for myself that she is out!!)

Yesterday was a challengind day, Chris is hitting the terrible 2 pretty bad, and I have no clue how to handle him... oi!! :truce:

I need to go get the party stuff today... I am curious on what will she pick???
I don't have motivation to work, so I am ordering Christmas stockings for the kids and doing some intense research about trycicles!!!

[willsmama]

Hi ladies! :) I just ordered christmas cards! I want all of your addy's PM'd to me so I can make sure to send you one! I have Bel's only!

[without]

I did a good thing.... I went for a walk on my break

I did a bad thing.... and bought and Blended Iced Moca!! Blah!! I won't hit goal if I do stupid things like that!

Oh.. NO Sorry Claudia about the 2's!!! They happen to the best of children. LOL

Tracy PM"ing you! PM me back with yours too! I am only send them out to my close friends on here this year.
Soo.... I need every one's from never ending!!

[Talliesue]

Morning Ladies!
After a tough night with the snakes munching then leaving then munching again at 4 am ugh!!! I hope they don't come back while I'm at work cuz I forgot to bring my excedrine with me.

Only 43 Days till Christmas! and 30 days till my birthday !!

[newmami]

Sorry about the snakes Natalie, is there something you can take???

Will PM you my address ladies!!! thank you (oh, I already have yours... he he he)

I think most of Chris's frustration is that he cannot communicate what he wants/needs, so he just screams his lungs out... I am talking to him telling him the words, hoping it will help him talk better...... but it is taking a toll on me!!!

[willsmama]

Thanks Clau!

[lexsmama]

Hey ladies!!

I think I have a tapeworm. (joke :) ) I can't get full today. I'm constantly hungry. Argh! :(

Snakes munching on the brain are no fun. I understand. Ditto on that one. Can we all just go curl up under the sheets and crash??

I hope you get better fast, Sarah!

How's everyone, Clau?

I'm PMing! I want yours too, girls!

[newmami]

So I went out yesterday trying to find some Christmas crafts that I can finish (I love paining ceramic and wood) but couldn't find much, so I guess I am just going to buy stuff for my house this year

I am getting excited about Christmas, which is good because I was THIS close to say "forget it!!"

[Talliesue]

Oh yes I take Excedrin most days for the really bad headaches, I have an RX for Migranes but I hate taking it cuz of the wacky side effects.
But I forgot to take some more Excedrin with me this morning to work - all I have is Tylenol PM with me and I don't think sleeping on the job would be a good thing.
I will have to remember to get some Excedrin when I go home for lunch. I also forgot a lightbulb too - darn snakes!

[lexsmama]

Nom, nom, nom... Snakes are munching...

Can we turn it into a song?

[sarahlynn]

well i left work about 4:30 yesterday and went home and did not leave the couch i felt so crappy i was cold and achy..matt was extra obnixious :) he kept cleaning and asking me things like where does this go,what do you want done with this..ikept gritting my teeth adn saying "im dieing here can you just not ask me anything anymore" than he went to sleep in the basement cause he didnt want to get sick..i drug the kids up to bed and crashed..lulu was up 3 times last night you guys its wearing on me so much..i was so tired adn sick and just wanted to sleep..i need help with gettin her to sleep through the night for petes sake she is 2.5 years old..heck ide take 6-7 hours a night..

cy was good this morning went to school..and was rareing to go..

im at work now drug myself in about 9:30..

~~~

yay pam for walkign during lunch ..

~~

YAY FOR 30 days till brithday time..you should meet me in vegas for your birthday. :)

[Talliesue]

I should take a vacation to vegas - it's been like 5 years since DH and I took a vacation just by ourselves.

Hey I PM'ed you my addy for Christmas cards, Let me know if I forgot you somehow with my snakes and all it's possible that half my brain is gone already....

I hear you Sarah, last night was awful for me too - smells, lights you name it, it was all affecting me.
Crap I have an office evacuation drill
Be back soon!

[willsmama]

I don't know how to reply to all, but if you PM me your addy, I'll PM you mine. :)

[willsmama]

I still need Sarah's and Lynns!

[Talliesue]

Ok back from our evacuation drill - that was fun.
maybe not so fun for my co-worker who has morning sickness and was in the bathroom - poor thing.

[newmami]

So sorry about the bad night Sarah, I hope you start feeling better soon!
I have noticed that DH is more obnoxious when I don't feel good... hmmmm

Time to go eat, as the boss is out, I am sneaking out for couple minutes so I don't have to eat in my desk... beef stew leftovers, yumm!!!

[lexsmama]

I am the honored guest at the Presbyterian Women luncheon in a few minutes. Yay. Shmoozing is fun.

I spent 45 minutes with our realtor today. He recommended a few houses to us and wants to show them this week! Let me find pics...

[Momto3]

You guys I haven't told anyone this (well, DH knows) but I'm scared. I have a pea-sized lump on my breast. I go to the doc tomorrow at 10. :ohno:

[newmami]

Oh no Lynn, I hope it is nothing!!
If it helps, my mom tends to develop lumps in her breasts, they are filled with fluid, apparently something that has to do with the BF ducts, they are benign and the 3 times she had them removed they broke when the OB took them out... anyways, I hope yours is something similar and you have NOTHING to worry about
:comfort:

[sarahlynn]

I am the honored guest at the Presbyterian Women luncheon in a few minutes. Yay. Shmoozing is fun.
...


i was reading fast and read this as

I have an honest to goodness presbyterian woman meeting luncheon.

i was like wtf is she talking about :P

[Momto3]

Thanks Claudia

[CandiceLeigh]

Hey everyone! I've been sickly again this week, it's getting so old! Just wanted to pop in to say hi though! Now off to catch up on work :ohno:

[newmami]

OMG Sarah, you need to go home and rest!!!

YAY ASH!! the honored woman!!!

I have a pile of files in my desk staring at me... I REFUSE to work today!!

oh oh, I ordered the personalzied stockings for the kids, from Pottery Barn (they are on sale!!!)

[without]

OMG, Lynn I will be praying for you! I am sure it will be fine but I know you must be scared. HUGS!!!

Girls... my tummy don't feel so good and I have heart burn so bad that I want to cry! It reminds me of being prego. LOL No way thats the truth unless I am the next "Marry mother of Jesus!" LOL

I bet it was that darn Coffee I had!

[CandiceLeigh]

:hugs: Lynn, please keep us updated!

[sarahlynn]

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) Lynn...you need to keep us posted ok..im worried about you :(


~~~

claudia if you arent working to day im not either..
~~

candice whats wrong?

[Talliesue]

I hope it's nothing serious Lynn - Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

Girls - it sounds like all of us are suffering from the nasties! We all need to go home and hide under the covers for a while.

I'm ready to run home to my excedrin in about 6 minutes!

[Momto3]

I will keep you posted. Thanks guys. It just sucks that answers aren't immediate, ya know.

[CandiceLeigh]

I just had cold crap again. Runny nose, congested, cough, stuffy head, fever. :wtf: I was just sick a month ago though, I'm so over it! I think Chris might have got it too, cause last night his nose was starting to run. :( Hope he doesn't get the fever. I was watching the news last night and they were talking about how it seems like everyone is sick lately. Apparently it's just going around, the cold crap, the stomach bug. Hope I don't get that stomach bug, knock on wood.

[sarahlynn]

what are the chances of convincing dh to take lulu to gymnastics tonight..i just cant muster up the energy to take her and she loves to go..

i just choked down a granola bar

[newmami]

Sarah, just tell Matt you feel like crap and you don't want to disapoint LuLu... would that work??

Sorry all you girls being sick, there is couple people in my office who have nasty colds, so I am staying away from them!!

[CandiceLeigh]

Yeah Sarah, he owes you one since you're sick! Plus it'll get them both away from you and Cy so ya'll can rest and they can stay clear of the germs. :)

[Talliesue]

Back from lunch - and I remembered to take my Excedrin. I ate some mashed potatoes - it was all I could stomach. Smells are still getting to me and MIL's lunch did not smell good at all - blech!
I was lucky and DD did not have a poopy diaper before I left or I would have tossed my cookies!
Then they were cutting some eucalyptus on the freeway and I had to smell that through the AC, then I get to work and someone has italian and the garlic is wafting through - someone get me a clothespin!

[willsmama]

You guys I haven't told anyone this (well, DH knows) but I'm scared. I have a pea-sized lump on my breast. I go to the doc tomorrow at 10. :ohno:

Lynn! oh no...I hope it is ok. I really really do. It will be nothing!!!! :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:

[Momto3]

Thanks Tracy...blech...I hate waiting.

[Momto3]

Forgot to tell you...DH and I took Katelyn to this really cool park. She and I had gone the weekend before when DH worked and we wanted to show it to him. They have a tire swing that she loved and water play area (keep in mind its still 80 degrees here) and a bunch of slides and the whole thing is made from wood.

So first off the tire swing hits DH in the knee while he is pushing Katelyn and hyperextends it...owie! Then I go to the top with Katelyn and there is this spiral slide but its in a tunnel and she won't go down it so I said look I will go down with you and I go to sit down and lose my balance and fly backwards and smacked my head on a wooden pole behind us. I had this huge egg/knot on the side/back of my head it hurt so bad. Then we go to another area where the slides are and Katelyn climbs up to the top of this one to slide down and comes down and DH is like, there are some ants on her left hand. So I quickly brush them off and sure enough ...red ant bites! like 5 or 6 on her left hand.

We don't think that park is so cool any more!

[sarahlynn]

holy crap what a crappy time at the park..eeek!!

i wish it were nice enough to go to the park here..i just cant stand the cold right now..im not ready for winter at all.

only an hour to go ladies..

[Momto3]

hehe more like 6 minutes!

[sarahlynn]

37 minutes to go..**** it my boss left years :( im sick and im still here..she is like can you make it till 5? i was like well i guess i have to your leaving..she said seh was about to fall asleep standing up..bah..she just got back from cali..

mil comes this weekend ..she got a hotel room for sat night the kids will be thrilled gettin to swim..

im hungry

[newmami]

rescued from page 2!! this moms are chatty

So Dani picked PRINCESS theme for her birthday!! I am pleasantly surprised!

I told DH that I was tired and frustrated because I do not have time to do anything... then he took it as a personal attack and gave me an attitude yesterday night and this morning... SERIOUSLY..... :pokey:

[without]

EGADS!!! page 2!

I can't wait to see pictures of Dani's B-day! Why is it you just can't talk to men without them thinking your blaming them for every thing when some times we just need to talk. sigh...

[without]

Warning.....I am about to go picture crazy

[without]

Halloween Sniff Sniff they grow so fast!!!!:wub:
1st
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/1f39e5ae.jpg
2nd
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/8c8d91a8.jpg
3rd
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/DSCF0066.jpg

[without]

But when I think she is growing to fast I remind myself ... that she can still fit into the Turkey Shirt I bought last year from HeatherJ!!!
A year ago
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/9411f020.jpg
Today
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/5472099c.jpg
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/c7a1c586.jpg

I don't know why those are so big!!! They are not that big on photo bucket!

[willsmama]

Whoop Whoop!

[without]

And this one is our thank you to Ashley and Lex!!! Thank you for our swap gifts!!! As you can see it has brought us many many hours of fun!
Reading the card! OH man she has drove me batty with that singing card! She loves it!!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/cb45ed66.jpg
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/20874d98.jpg
Mezmorized by all the goodies!!!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/b632dc0b.jpg
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/2bee8561.jpg
Can we have cake NOW!!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/eff5e763.jpg
After all the opening what does she go back to??? You gessed it!! The singing card!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/3db4bfd9.jpg
Cup Cake time
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/dbfcf352.jpg
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/479f0927.jpg
Working on our ABC's
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/7a9243c5.jpg
Mmm... even better with sprinkles!!
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/b094a2f0.jpg

[without]

Really girls I do know how to fix Morgans hair!! LOL I noticed she has some crazy hair in al those pictures! Claudia probably understands! Its hard to keep all those curls under control! :)

[sarahlynn]

Ugh i hate men im going lesbian..thats it..

were redoing the basement..so we work on it last night it all goes well..well at 7:30 this morning dh calls me asks me what i want done with the floor..

now some background we have gone over thsi before over and over had arguments abotu it..he watns carepeting i want tile..the only reason i want tile is because with dogs and kids its gonna be a ***** to keep clean..he wants carpet cause it will be warmer..

so we go into it today..i tell him once again why iw ant tile he says why he wants carpet..i say matt just do what you want i say it twice..cause honeslty wtf i dont care im gonna end up cleaning whatever is down ther eanyways and i dont want to argue anymore about it..

so he gets mad and hangs up on me says in being difficult..how is saying do what you want being difficult..

so he calls back tells me im being a *****..i said matt we both want two differnt things for our own reasons..i really dotn care do what you want..it doesnt matter to me..tile the laundry room for me and carpet the rest..he says that is not the answer he wants..wtf if you want a certain answer than just tell me what to say..wtf..so he goes into just being nasty to me on the phone..im lost i dont knwo what i did wrong why he is liek this..i made a low blow and told him had he stuck to taking his medication he might not be flipping out about carepting..he said he is flippign out cause im not willing to compromise..i said i told you tile the laundry carpet teh rest how is that not copromising????? **** ...

so now he is pissed off and wont talk to me and is being nasty..

wtf...he is more unstable and emotinal than a girl

[newmami]

Grrr Pam, I have to wait until I go home to see pictures... no fun :(
Yeah, it is hard to tame that wild hair, specially when the little one decides she just want to do summersaults!! I use those elastic bands and hope for the best, but you will most likely see Dani with messy hair :)

Sarah, I am so sorry Matt is being a butt..... seriously what else did he wanted? for you to say "yes hon, carpet is a wonderful idea, love it!"???? I say you compromised more than enough, but apparently we (women) just see things different from men

And yeah, Dh LOVES to play the blaming game, and it just makes me upset beyond reason!!!

[willsmama]

Boys are Worse than girls IMO....ugh..I swear they have 'that time of the month' as well.
I got into with DH last night about health benifits for DSD, and his ex, and DSD needing braces, etc.....man...if he put as much effort into figuring that stuff out as he does his weekly football pool, it sure would be nice...

Sarah! I still need your Addy!

[without]

OH Sarah!! Matt's not playing fair!!! I am so sorry!

[newmami]

Question, I was looking for some Christmas presents for Dani, and found this place that sells play pretend stuff, and I found fairy wings.... would it be ok if I get some for the daycare lady's DD? she is a little older than Dani but loves all girly stuff and dressing up!

[sarahlynn]

Pam i love all the pics..sorry i vented and didnt see them :) i love em all she is gettin so big..

claudia i think dress up anything is fun..lulu loves to play athat and beuty shop at daycare :)

ETA: i was thebigger person..i texted dh .. said ok lets just stop and start over pretend this fight did not happena dn discuss the floor calmly after sex when we get home LMAO!!! and than i sent him a pic of a big old nutsak..take taht honey

[willsmama]

Sarah, you are hilarious. :)

Clau-that would be great! :) So fun! :)

Pam- I was worried when I wasPG that I'd have a girl because I am horrible with hair. You rock, IMO!

[without]

Claudia! I think thats a great idea!! Morgan also loves to play dress up and really really loves things that have wings (or tails lol ) on them.

Sarah!!! LOL My luck a co worker would have opened my phone and saw that picture! You all crack me up!

[Momto3]

Hi guys! I just read everything and I think caught up.

Pam - Dani is so cute! I know what you mean about size. Katelyn is STILL 24 pounds and wearing 18 - 24 month stuff!

Claudia - So glad Dani picked princess!

Sarah - You've sure got a struggle with that one! You can't win no matter what you say. I guess he wanted you to pick carpet and be cheery about it. Could you tile the floor then have area rugs maybe?

Just got back from the doctor. Whew! Its nothing to worry about. Its in the skin, like a clogged folicle or something. Thanks for being my shoulders ladies!

[sarahlynn]

lynn that was my idea tile with area rugs...i thought it was common sense that if you have tiles you put down an area rug but he wasnt thinking like i was and i guess i should have assumed he didnt know i would put down rugs i assumed he knew we would have rugs LMAO!! oh well i havent heard back from him so maybe he isnt ready tomove on..


sooooo im ralying the troops for the holiday drag show in dec..i think i have 3 already who want to come with me :) they cant resist after the fun they say i had at the pridefest one.

[Talliesue]

Morning Ladies - no snakes today! yeah!!!!

Lynn - thank goodness your lump turned out to be nothing serious, good thing you got it checked out!

Sarah - sorry your DH is being a tool. I don't have any advice for ya other than the same thing that Lynn said about area rugs.

Pam - I don't have any advice on Morgan's hair for ya since my DD still doesn't have enough hair to do anything with other than try to clip a bow in it on the side and hope she doesn't rip it out. Morgan does look totally cute in Heather J's turkey shirt though!

Hi Ashley, Tracy, Candice and Claudia! & Bel if she's lurking

Do we have a list of everyone's addresses for our Christmas card exchange? I think I'm still missing some addresses.

[Talliesue]

Hey what do you think of this idea?
In our Christmas card we are sending eachother should we include a yummy recipe??
Is that a totally lame or a good idea?

[sarahlynn]

well since my ass sucks at cooking yiou might not want one from me :)

but i dont mind gettin them..i can try send one ..just dont hold me accountable for bad food

~~

hmm you guys dh hasnt texted me back maybe the nads pushed him over the deep end

[newmami]

oh Natalie, that sounds like a wonderful idea!!! :silly:

Lynn, so glad to hear it is nothing serious... funny I just remember that the same happen to a friend of mine, she found a lump and was freaking out... went to the OB and it was a badly ingrown hair...... :eyeroll:

yay Sarah for being the bigger person... I wish I could learn that..... :conf:

Wonder how Candice is doing......

[Talliesue]

Maybe he thought that you were gonna put his nads in a vice lock if he didn't concede to your tile??
Who's nutsack did you take a picture of anyways? the dogs?

[Talliesue]

well since my ass sucks at cooking yiou might not want one from me :)

but i dont mind gettin them..i can try send one ..just dont hold me accountable for bad food


You could always just steal an Internet recipe and claim it as your own - we would never know! :P

[sarahlynn]

true as long as i delete BETTY CROCKER off the top :lol:

~~

[willsmama]

I'd do it too! Fun!

[CandiceLeigh]

Hey guys, just checking in. Still feel kind of sick and I'm just mopey in general today. I kind of realized that I need to get serious about filing for divorce because a part of me is still hoping something, anything will fix everything. Logical Candice says that is insane though and can/will never happen. So I need to actually make a move and dash that hope. I wish I didn't still love him. :ohno: Send me hugs.

[newmami]

:hugs: Candice, I can only imagine how hard that step is.
Just remember we are here for you sweets, ok?

I want to leave the office and go Christmas shopping!!!

[without]

OH I would love sending and getting new ideas of foods to cook. I cook much more in the winter than in the sumer. I will be fun!

Candice, I know it hurts! You'll alway love him. I wish he would be the one to file for some reason it takes away from the feeling of "what else could I have done" and it also means he would have to pay. I know you really don't have an extra 2,000 laying around to file. *hugs* if you need to talk I am always here!

Claudia I think I may take off a little early tomorrow (around noon) to do some pre chirstmas shopping!

[CandiceLeigh]

I had originally planned on making him file since he was the one that wanted the divorce. But now I want it too, for obvious reasons. Well I do, but I don't want it. Ugh, it's annoying having all these emotions! Anyway, I know Chris and I know he will never save up the money to pay for it. He will always have something more important to take care of 1st, more important in his eyes anyway. :eyeroll:

I finally got him to admit last night that he lives with that skank, well kind of anyway. He said it doesn't matter where he stays because he's never there anyway. Still swears she's not his girlfriend. I obviously would love to believe that, but the evidence is stacked against him.

I told him the other day that I hoped his car explodes...with him inside of it. :indifferent:

[willsmama]

Candice...HUGS...
Lynn YAYAYAYAYAY!

Hi everyone else! Crazy busy at work today!

WIll hates me lately. Only wants DADA. :(

[newmami]

I am so sorry Candice. I don't know how it works in Texas, but in here you can get a divorce without an attorney and for low $$$ if both parties agree on it.
I am sorry he is being so selfish and immature!

about the comment, well maybe not the best idea, but he has to understand or at least respect the fact that you are still very very hurt

Pam, if I had some time I will take half day off... but I had to take last Thursday unpaid because I do not have any extra days..... :(
Speaking of that, I learned today that the supervisor is probably going to need to take this week UNPAID, as she already used all her vacation and sick time for the year.... KARMA BABY!!!

[lexsmama]

And this one is our thank you to Ashley and Lex!!! Thank you for our swap gifts!!! As you can see it has brought us many many hours of fun!
Reading the card! OH man she has drove me batty with that singing card! She loves it!!
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Mezmorized by all the goodies!!!
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Can we have cake NOW!!
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After all the opening what does she go back to??? You gessed it!! The singing card!
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Cup Cake time
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Working on our ABC's
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Mmm... even better with sprinkles!!
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Hehe.. Lex picked out the card ALL on his own. Be glad I didn't get you the singing hamsters. It drove me UP the wall, down teh wall, and around it..


Really girls I do know how to fix Morgans hair!! LOL I noticed she has some crazy hair in al those pictures! Claudia probably understands! Its hard to keep all those curls under control!

Looks good! That's how my sister looked until she could use product.

Ugh i hate men im going lesbian..thats it..

were redoing the basement..so we work on it last night it all goes well..well at 7:30 this morning dh calls me asks me what i want done with the floor..

now some background we have gone over thsi before over and over had arguments abotu it..he watns carepeting i want tile..the only reason i want tile is because with dogs and kids its gonna be a ***** to keep clean..he wants carpet cause it will be warmer..

so we go into it today..i tell him once again why iw ant tile he says why he wants carpet..i say matt just do what you want i say it twice..cause honeslty wtf i dont care im gonna end up cleaning whatever is down ther eanyways and i dont want to argue anymore about it..

so he gets mad and hangs up on me says in being difficult..how is saying do what you want being difficult..

so he calls back tells me im being a *****..i said matt we both want two differnt things for our own reasons..i really dotn care do what you want..it doesnt matter to me..tile the laundry room for me and carpet the rest..he says that is not the answer he wants..wtf if you want a certain answer than just tell me what to say..wtf..so he goes into just being nasty to me on the phone..im lost i dont knwo what i did wrong why he is liek this..i made a low blow and told him had he stuck to taking his medication he might not be flipping out about carepting..he said he is flippign out cause im not willing to compromise..i said i told you tile the laundry carpet teh rest how is that not copromising????? **** ...

so now he is pissed off and wont talk to me and is being nasty..

wtf...he is more unstable and emotinal than a girl

Ugh, men. :rolleyes: He's on his AF right now too, huh?

Grrr Pam, I have to wait until I go home to see pictures... no fun
Yeah, it is hard to tame that wild hair, specially when the little one decides she just want to do summersaults!! I use those elastic bands and hope for the best, but you will most likely see Dani with messy hair

Sarah, I am so sorry Matt is being a butt..... seriously what else did he wanted? for you to say "yes hon, carpet is a wonderful idea, love it!"???? I say you compromised more than enough, but apparently we (women) just see things different from men

And yeah, Dh LOVES to play the blaming game, and it just makes me upset beyond reason!!!

We're having our own bit of honeymoon hell..

Boys are Worse than girls IMO....ugh..I swear they have 'that time of the month' as well.
I got into with DH last night about health benifits for DSD, and his ex, and DSD needing braces, etc.....man...if he put as much effort into figuring that stuff out as he does his weekly football pool, it sure would be nice...

Sarah! I still need your Addy!

Amen, sister.

Question, I was looking for some Christmas presents for Dani, and found this place that sells play pretend stuff, and I found fairy wings.... would it be ok if I get some for the daycare lady's DD? she is a little older than Dani but loves all girly stuff and dressing up!

Sure! If she loves dress up, I'd do it.

Morning Ladies - no snakes today! yeah!!!!

Lynn - thank goodness your lump turned out to be nothing serious, good thing you got it checked out!

Sarah - sorry your DH is being a tool. I don't have any advice for ya other than the same thing that Lynn said about area rugs.

Pam - I don't have any advice on Morgan's hair for ya since my DD still doesn't have enough hair to do anything with other than try to clip a bow in it on the side and hope she doesn't rip it out. Morgan does look totally cute in Heather J's turkey shirt though!

Hi Ashley, Tracy, Candice and Claudia! & Bel if she's lurking

Do we have a list of everyone's addresses for our Christmas card exchange? I think I'm still missing some addresses.

Hi! Glad the snakes are gone...

Hey what do you think of this idea?
In our Christmas card we are sending eachother should we include a yummy recipe??
Is that a totally lame or a good idea?

Good idea. :silly:

well since my ass sucks at cooking yiou might not want one from me :)

but i dont mind gettin them..i can try send one ..just dont hold me accountable for bad food

~~

hmm you guys dh hasnt texted me back maybe the nads pushed him over the deep end

Nah, he's just stewing needlessly.

Hey guys, just checking in. Still feel kind of sick and I'm just mopey in general today. I kind of realized that I need to get serious about filing for divorce because a part of me is still hoping something, anything will fix everything. Logical Candice says that is insane though and can/will never happen. So I need to actually make a move and dash that hope. I wish I didn't still love him. :ohno: Send me hugs.

:hugs: I'm so sorry Candice. I really wish there were a way to fix things, but he's beyond repair, sweetie.

OH I would love sending and getting new ideas of foods to cook. I cook much more in the winter than in the sumer. I will be fun!

Candice, I know it hurts! You'll alway love him. I wish he would be the one to file for some reason it takes away from the feeling of "what else could I have done" and it also means he would have to pay. I know you really don't have an extra 2,000 laying around to file. *hugs* if you need to talk I am always here!

Claudia I think I may take off a little early tomorrow (around noon) to do some pre chirstmas shopping!

Oooh... Fun! Dh thinks we might be getting Lex a big boy bed for Christmas.

I had originally planned on making him file since he was the one that wanted the divorce. But now I want it too, for obvious reasons. Well I do, but I don't want it. Ugh, it's annoying having all these emotions! Anyway, I know Chris and I know he will never save up the money to pay for it. He will always have something more important to take care of 1st, more important in his eyes anyway. :eyeroll:

I finally got him to admit last night that he lives with that skank, well kind of anyway. He said it doesn't matter where he stays because he's never there anyway. Still swears she's not his girlfriend. I obviously would love to believe that, but the evidence is stacked against him.

I told him the other day that I hoped his car explodes...with him inside of it. :indifferent:

:shocker: Candice, sweetie. You may not want to voice those things out loud with him if you're filing for divorce. Call us instead, k?

I tried to have a "fun" night last night with dh, and all he could talk about was wanting a bj. OMG, I'm so freaking tired of being told that he wants one, knowing fully well that I won't do them. It's what killed my entire happy pregnancy. We almost lost it over the bj business. He even questioned if we'd make it because I wasn't in the mood some days because I was so scared I'd lose Lex.

[lexsmama]

Yep, he's hit the DADA stage. Mine only in the last week started calling out Mama.

[willsmama]

Yep, he's hit the DADA stage. Mine only in the last week started calling out Mama.

TY.

It made me cry last night, my baby hated me! :(

[CandiceLeigh]

I am so sorry Candice. I don't know how it works in Texas, but in here you can get a divorce without an attorney and for low $$$ if both parties agree on it.
I am sorry he is being so selfish and immature!

about the comment, well maybe not the best idea, but he has to understand or at least respect the fact that you are still very very hurt


I think it's like that here in TX too. One of my cousin's told me I could go to legal aide and I wouldn't have to pay anything. I need to look into it. About the comment :laugh: I said it in a kind of joking way so he didn't take me seriously. He would never take something like that seriously. I mean, I don't mean it ya know? I think... :laugh: KIDDING!

Claudia, that is funny about your supervisor! Serves her right!

Ashley, sorry you and DH are not getting along. :hugs:

[newmami]

He doesn't hate you Tracy, it is part of their phsycological development... they also go through the phase where they only want to be with the parent of the opposite sex
Will does not hate you, he is just growing up!!! :comfort:

Ash, sorry that your DH is being a butt....

I have a craft question for you ladies, as I was ignored in the Crafts forum... I got ceramic piggy banks for my kids and I want to personalize them, what kind of paint can I use? can I use regular acrylic one??

[sarahlynn]

Omg ok i laughed at the whole wanting a blow job thingy..im sorry i shouldnt laugh but i found it funny..i can picture it..do you realy not do them or just not when pregnant? i have such a bad gag reflex im liek do you really want me yacking down there gaggin on the junk? lmao is that attractive? dh really doesnt care either way i dont think if he gets them..who knows..

~~

candice my girl im so sorry i think you do need ot be the one to make the move on the divorce..i know its really hard for you..so hang in there were always here for you..

[willsmama]

claudia, I think you can use regular...but do you have a crafts store you'd buy it at? I'd ask them for sure.
I am the opposite of crafty!

[willsmama]

My girlfriends and I always joke you don't have to do BJ's after you are married.

[CandiceLeigh]

I'm not sure Claudia, ask at the store. I think acrylic is ok though.

[CandiceLeigh]

Sarah, I am surprised you don't give BJ's! :lol: Since you likey the sex so much! I never had a problem giving them. I wouldn't always, but most of the time I was like sure, why not? :P

[without]

I always felt like a real wired'o because I am the only one of my friends who LIKES to give them. I turns me on.:shocker:

[newmami]

My girlfriends and I always joke you don't have to do BJ's after you are married.

Crap, I didn't got the memo....... nor did DH!!! :eyeroll:

Anyways, I do not mind giving them, but seriously sometimes I am just not in the mood... like from Monday -Sunday!!! :laugh:

[CandiceLeigh]

:lol: Claudia!

They can turn me on too Pam, so you are not alone!

[lexsmama]

TY.

It made me cry last night, my baby hated me! :(

Nope, he doesn't hate you. They all go through it at some point. Before long, you'll want to change your name to Gertrude or somethign hard for him today. :comfort:

[lexsmama]

He doesn't hate you Tracy, it is part of their phsycological development... they also go through the phase where they only want to be with the parent of the opposite sex
Will does not hate you, he is just growing up!!! :comfort:

Ash, sorry that your DH is being a butt....

I have a craft question for you ladies, as I was ignored in the Crafts forum... I got ceramic piggy banks for my kids and I want to personalize them, what kind of paint can I use? can I use regular acrylic one??

There's a certain paint to use, but it's in the ceramics and wood section of HL. I use regular old acrylics for almost everything! :laugh:

Omg ok i laughed at the whole wanting a blow job thingy..im sorry i shouldnt laugh but i found it funny..i can picture it..do you realy not do them or just not when pregnant? i have such a bad gag reflex im liek do you really want me yacking down there gaggin on the junk? lmao is that attractive? dh really doesnt care either way i dont think if he gets them..who knows..

~~

candice my girl im so sorry i think you do need ot be the one to make the move on the divorce..i know its really hard for you..so hang in there were always here for you..

None at all, Sarah. I can't do it. Now way.:ohno:
My girlfriends and I always joke you don't have to do BJ's after you are married.

Where's that memo again?

I always felt like a real wired'o because I am the only one of my friends who LIKES to give them. I turns me on.:shocker:

:lol: Claudia!

They can turn me on too Pam, so you are not alone!

You girls are funny. I can't do them at all, and that's all he seems to want. Sucks, you know. :lol:

I've been swamped today girls. I'm so sorry!

[Talliesue]

I don't mind giving them either - but I definitely do not swallow! bleh! yuck.

As far as paint on the piggy banks go - I think acrylic would be fine also. Just don't use the cheap-o poster paint, there is a reason why they are cheap.

[newmami]

Thanks crafty girls!! I will go to Michaels and see what I find

Dh went to hobby lobby and said it is just amazing.... I HATE HIM :wtf: because I cannot go (the closest is 2 hrs from here)

[CandiceLeigh]

:lol: Sucks, good one Ashley! I don't like to let him finish in my mouth though, that's for sure. :X

It is amazing Claudia! Teehee :happy: Just teasing you!

[Momto3]

Wait....what...where am I? I have so much to go back and read and I juts saw blow job...

[CandiceLeigh]

Oh and does he ask you for it often Ashley? Will he not take sex instead of a BJ? Just trying to understand the situation.

[CandiceLeigh]

:lol: Lynn!

[Momto3]

Tracy - Will does not hate you! He loves his Mama. My Dh feels the same way cuz Katelyn always wants me. I keep telling him that will change.

Sometimes the blow job is just easier to get him off and over with and I don't really have to be involved, so ya, we do them down here. Little secret...use an Altoids mint when doing it. It will blow your DH's mind (hehe) and it helps with the taste too!

[Talliesue]

Ooooo I just can't wait till after Thanksgiving to decorate for Christmas.
I wonder how I will keep Emily out of the tree this year?? Last year was no problem but this year she is mobile and climbing!!! yikes!
Here is the sad part - we haven't babyproofed much either. With the exception of getting some cabinet locks on the cabinets we don't want her to get into (Under the sink and in the bathrooms) and two of thoes flimsy old fashioned wooden $15.00 gates. I know I'm a bad baby proofer - we are just always busy!
The only thing she has gotten into is a bar of DH and I's chocolate soap that happened to be in the same drawer as her toothbrush - and she only licked it a few times!
I would totally fail if someone came over to inspect our babyproofing - heck our stairway railing is not even to code! But we didn't put that in - it came with the condo when we bought it.

[Momto3]

They sold you a condo that the railing wasn't up to code? hmmmmm that sucks!

[sarahlynn]

Sarah, I am surprised you don't give BJ's! :lol: Since you likey the sex so much! I never had a problem giving them. I wouldn't always, but most of the time I was like sure, why not? :P

oh i dont mind doing them at all i just cant do the deep throating stuff..i gag and gag hugh ugh whua blah ugh ugh that what i sound like..not a big old turn on..

~~

the railing in my sisters house is totaly not to code, its an older home adn the kids can go righ tthrough the railing from the kitchen to the downstairs..

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[Talliesue]

yeah, they told us that in the inspection but it wasn't something that we worried about since we knew we weren't going to be in this place long.
By the time we start on the second kid we will have to get a bigger place anyways. We have had our place for 4 years now - almost five and planned on moving out in five so it wasn't a huge concern.
Although the housing economy isn't the greatest right now either so who knows when we will sell.
People arn't flocking to SB to buy a house, we have some of the most expensive real estate here.

[willsmama]

Tracy - Will does not hate you! He loves his Mama. My Dh feels the same way cuz Katelyn always wants me. I keep telling him that will change.

Sometimes the blow job is just easier to get him off and over with and I don't really have to be involved, so ya, we do them down here. Little secret...use an Altoids mint when doing it. It will blow your DH's mind (hehe) and it helps with the taste too!

I am VERY intrigued!

[willsmama]

Hopefully I'll be on more tomorrow gals! I was swamped today!

[CandiceLeigh]

Eww, no deep throating here either Sarah! Now that would make me puke!

I am intrigued too Tracy! :lol:

Natalie, my house is definitely not baby proofed either and Chris is almost 3! :shock: Bad mama.

[Talliesue]

Their heads and bodies will eventually get bigger and they won't be able to go through the railing so I just have to keep feeding DD and we won't have any problems right!

[sarahlynn]

altoids..is that good for penises..lol

that woudl be total multitasking keeping the altoid and the penis in the mouth at the same time..

[Talliesue]

Yes but us moms are good at multitasking.
Will definitely have to try the altoids.
My favorite weapon of choice - whipped cream or pudding. If I'm going downtown it better taste good!

[Talliesue]

Well Ladies - I know you probably won't see this till tomorrow but our city is on fire - AGAIN!! it's 6:20 pm and it's all over the news and they are evacuating people where the fire is. My In-laws and my grandfather are in the area where the fire is and I hope they are ok - we can't get a hold of my grandpa as of yet.
I will have more info tomorrow morning.... I hope I can sleep tonight - you ladies remember we just had a fire in July that was two miles from my house! This is freaking scary!

[Talliesue]

Ok gals... it's 11 pm the fire is still going strong, we have some sundowner winds up to 70mph!
My In-laws got evacuated and came to our house, currently they are downstairs glued to the TV and we set up some comfy air mattresses for them. I baked some muffins for them to eat in the morning since I will be out of the house at 6:30 to take DD to my mom's house.
We found my grandpa and his wife - they are shacking up with my folks at their house. Grandpa was in a meeting and didn't know about the fire or anything!!
My family is safe and accounted for! yeah! but this fire is huge!!!!and fast and the terrain that it's burning is is pretty rugged. They have reported that about 7 structures have already burned and there are a few burn victims in the hospital. One of our local colleges has lost some structures too and some of the students are hunkered down in their gym - at least the gym is fireproof - but still!
I'm going to bed now and I hope my city is still here tomorrow!

[Momto3]

altoids..is that good for penises..lol
..

Yeah its ok. DH loves it. Gives them a hot and cold sensation all in one. I kid you not. ETA: You can put the Altoids in beforehand and let it melt most of the way. They still get the sensation from the saliva in your mouth.

Tallisue (sorry I don't know your real name) Sorry about the fires. I hope you guys stay safe. That is some scary stuff!

[without]

Altoid... humm.... will have to try that (if I ever find a man again LOL) and as far as gaging.. well I have no gag reflex left. :( All those years of making myself purge has made it to where I could swallow a bic pen and not gag once. (but I might cry trying to poop it out! LOL)
Claudia, see another reason to move to AR!!! We have Hobby Lobby! Prices are better at Michaels but we don't have one around here. On the other hand I think Hobby Lobby is cleaner and has more to pick from.

Girls I only work until noon today. I should be in a good mood BUT... I am not! I don't know what my deal is I just feel so blah today. I am having one of those this Mama needs a date to go out and feel like a female again and not just super mama! LOL

[newmami]

:hugs: Pam, I wish I knew a good bachelor... I would send him to you in no time!!

umm yeah Altoids... yeah they work pretty good.... :shocker:

Natalie, I heard about the fires this morning, I am so sorry hon!! glad your family is accounted for, and hope they can contain the fires ASAP :hugs:

We had a crappy night, Chris woke up 4am crying because he had a nasty cough... and didn't went back to sleep until maybe 5:30 am... so I am :sleep:
I put the Happy Birthday sign in the dinning room and the princess tablecloth yesterday, so Dani would see them this morning. She wanted to wear her tiara to daycare, so off she went, wearing a dress and a tiara :wub:. I made her cake yesterday and some cupcakes for daycare.
When we got to daycare, I hugged her and told her "thank you for making mami so happy for this last 3 years honey", and she said "you are welcome".... then at daycare the lady received her with bubbles (she has a bubble machine) and a CD playing Happy Birthday!!

Awww my princess is growing too fast!!!

[Momto3]

Awww sweet Dani! I hate that they are growing so quickly!

[Momto3]

Mental Note: When warming your cup of delicious coffee in the microwave do NOT accidently push too many zeros instead of 1:00 minute. Not only will you come back to a horrid mess, but you will also have wasted a fabulous cup of coffee!

[newmami]

Oh no Lynn!! I hate when that happens... actually I HATE the microwave

[Momto3]

AND to top it off, the little coffee that was left was not even enough for a full 8 oz cup but I put it in the microwave for 1:00 (I made sure it was just 1 and not 10) and tha **** thing overflowed again...cuz there wasn't enough liquid for a whole minute! I just wasn't meant to finish that coffee.

We found Coffeemate Gingerbread creamers...yummmmmy!

[newmami]

You deserve to go out and get a new, freshly brewed and hot coffee!!

[sarahlynn]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANI!!!!!

how is everyone today? its windy and snowy here blech..

dh is out hunting..kids are in their proper places im at work till 3 **** it..

and the fight with dh is resolved..i explained to him i was serious when i said tile the laundry room carpet the rest and he was like ok and happy of course he got his way lmao men..

[newmami]

Yay Sarah for convincing DH he made the decision!!

Weather... umm do you really want to know??? it is warm and muggy here, will be upper 80 this day.... but on better news, we are expecting a cold front next week that will bring temperatures to the mid 60..
kids have been wearing shorts all week!!

[CandiceLeigh]

Hey everyone!

Sorry you're tired today Claudia, I would be too! :hugs: I can't believe Dani is 3! I still remember tiny Dani. :)

Lynn, sorry about your coffee! Yuck!

Sarah, glad you were able to resolve things with your DH! Did he ever say anything about the picture of the balls? :lol:

Natalie, that's really scary about the fires. Stay safe!

Ok, so why do I do this to myself girls? I searched Chris' girlfriend/skank/whore on FB and she has one. *wince* So now I know what she looks like. (trashy) Her page is private but you can see her profile picture. And would it be totally crazy/psycho of me to go to her apartment and talk to her? It really bothers me that he won't fess up to anything, so I figure if he won't tell me the truth...am I being crazy?

[Talliesue]

Hi Ladies!
Fire is still raging today - they estimate 100 homes have burned (No celebrity houses have burned yet so Oprah, Rob Lowe and Michael Douglas can rest easy)
There is smoke everywhere downtown, air quality is bad. Chunks of ash in the air - I had one that was 1 1/2 inches square by my car at my parents house when I dropped Emily off.
Thankgoodness no one has lost their life so far! There are firefighters pouring in to the city and they are getting the super tankers up in the air to do water drops.
I will keep you all updated as I get info but we are all safe.

[sarahlynn]

Hell no candice you are married to him still you have every rigth to go talk to her..mm hmmm!!! ide do it so i could get the truth and the answers you deserve..but dont go at it defentsive go at it solely to get information that you want..i know your not happy with her but he should have totaly kept his **** at home..

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ugh fires are scary keep us posted stay safe

[willsmama]

Natalie-glad you are safe! STAY THAT WAY!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DANI! SOrry about the rough night Clau! Will has been waking up early a lot this week. Not sure why...

Pam-your time will come! If I can find a man, so can you. :)

Lynn-I would have cried! I love my coffee in the AM!

Sarah-Yay for the comprimise!

Candice, Gimme her name so I can creep and see her pic! :laugh: She deserves no respect from you....she is sleeping with your husband. You are still married. **hore.

All-I ended up doing a BJ last night because of you! No Altoids though! HA HA! :shocker:

[willsmama]

Where's ash?

[sarahlynn]

Lynn how are you doing today?? still thinking about yout..

(((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))

[Momto3]

I'm good, thanks Sarah. Got good news on the lump yesterday.

Candice, I wouldn't go, but that is just me. My pride would stop me from going over there. Again, its just me. I know shelly has a way to see a private persons page gimme a sec.

[CandiceLeigh]

I will PM you her name Tracy so you can see what she looks like.

I am really torn on whether or not I should go talk to her. I just want to know the truth though, ya know? I wouldn't attack her or anything. My stomach starts hurting just thinking about it though. I kind of feel like I won't regret going, but I may regret not going. Frustrating!

[willsmama]

(((hugs))))

[newmami]

Candice, I would not go... be the bigger person... she is the one dealing with a cheater now and she will pay the consequences... KARMA!!

Natalie, that is awful... I am glad to hear there are no casualties.
DH lived in CA almost his whole life, so he is very familiar with the fires and all that... and my SIL lives there too!!

Ditto here Tracy, without the altoids :lol:

You guys, it is 12 pm and I have done pretty much NOTHING for work!! I was trying to get some ideas for Christmas presents... I want to buy smart but I don't want to deprive my kids. DH mentioned spending about $150 for his son (which I think is excessive, but anyways) so I am trying to stay on $100 range (considering I want to buy tricycles for both of them)

[CandiceLeigh]

:lol: I can't believe ya'll both went home and gave BJ's! Although I will admit, all the talk about it made me want to too! :lol: Too bad, I have no man.

[willsmama]

:laugh::crazy:

[CandiceLeigh]

Did everyone go to lunch? :yawn: I took a 30 so I'm bored! Come back, come back!

[newmami]

I was obligated, I did not volunteer.......... :laugh::shocker:

So as the supervisor is out I took a mini break for lunch and they had the TV on with the news about the "man being PG again" (the couple in WA where the man is physically a woman) and was surprised to hear the most hateful, intolerant and ignorant comments :ohno:

[CandiceLeigh]

:ohno: That's so dumb. I've heard a few comments here and there but nothing too hateful. One of my friend is very Christian though and she said, "Now they're all going to be doing that. Having sex changes & then getting pregnant." And? Who cares? I just looked at her like :eyebrow:

[newmami]

I know, it makes me sad that people just cannot seem to mind their own business... and that some people here in my office are so vocal about their feelings without taking into consideration that someone may be hurt or offended about them....

I am so ready for the weekend!!

[willsmama]

I am too.
I haven't really paid attention to that story about the man/prego thing...!

[CandiceLeigh]

Ugh, is it 5:00 yet??

[lexsmama]

That's so sad that people make ignorant comments like that.

I wish it weren't such a big deal, though. I have my feelings, but I won't go into them again on apa. :silly:

How're you girls today?

[willsmama]

I feel the same Ash.
Doing good. Wanting 4 PM to come though. :)

ANyone have plans for the weekend?

[lexsmama]

No, thank goodness! I'm ready for a down weekend.

You?

[CandiceLeigh]

Hey Ashley! :hi:

I don't have any plans either. Just a quiet weekend as usual. :) Maybe I'll go rent some movies though. I love to watch movies at night. We might go visit MIL on Saturday though so Chris can visit with her.

[lexsmama]

Question:

Is it normal to spot on your first week of a new bc pill pack?

[willsmama]

Question:

Is it normal to spot on your first week of a new bc pill pack?

Yes.
Very.

[willsmama]

I'm going out with my sisters tonight, around 7:30 so I'll still get William time (if he even wants me around) and tomorrow a 5 year olds bday party and Sunday is my goddaugher/nieces dedication (baptism)

[lexsmama]

Thanks Tracy. I was beginning to worry again.

Have fun tonight!

We looked at two more houses!!! I'm getting excited again, but it's so exhausting.

[willsmama]

It is exciting!!!! ;) I hope you guys find one soon! :)

[CandiceLeigh]

Ohh, girls night! How fun! :)

Sorry Ash, I don't know much about BC but it seems like most women have some wonkiness at first. Good luck house hunting! I would love to be able to get myself a nice house. :)

[sarahlynn]

yea normal..

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i have an hour left ladies...and im gettin my lockies cut tomarrow :) think im doing a fun bob and reallllly blonde :)

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tracy why do you keep saying that about will? he loves his mama..lucea has her moments where she wont even hug or kiss dh goodbye or goodnight..my dad has taken to having high fives cause she gets all goofylike that .. sometimes i have to bed for a hug and kiss..

[CandiceLeigh]

Ohhh, you better take pics! Before & after. I got my hair cut spur of the moment last Saturday. Nothing special, just some layers but I love it! :)

[willsmama]

It has been for the last week though....all about dada. :( It is so sad! :(


I am excited to see your hair pics Sarah!

[sarahlynn]

oh tracy they go through that...dont fret it..

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my daycare offered to take lucea while im in vegas..im tempted to take her up on it..

last night i was so tired i went to bed and left lulu and dh down watching cartoons..i hear footsteps on the stairs i think he is brining lulu up to go to bed and i notice its just her all alone in the pitch black trying to find my room..apparently he fell asleep poor baby..this makes me a nervous wreck abotu leaving.

[newmami]

We are going to Disney tomorrow, then hopefully we will have a quiet Sunday

Yay Ash for 2 more houses, I hope you find the *perfect house* very very soon

I want to see pictures of your Bob too Sarah!!
I need a haircut... BAD!!! I am going to trim it at some point and then going to my old hair dresser in Mexico for a makeover!!

[willsmama]

Yeah...I have those same feelings sometime.
I was out for a night and there were fruit snacks scattered everywhere, things moved in my living room, and DH describing what he had Will doing made me like...:eyebrow:

[newmami]

me me as well!! Saturdays DH wakes up early to care for the kids while I sleep late (ok sort of). When I come downstairs, they are sipping juice (I give them milk in the morning) the living room is upsidedown, they have been watching TV for the longest time... both kids are partially naked (ok Dani hates clothes) and Dh is either hiding in the restroom or idiotized in the computer

[lexsmama]

Number 1:

http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/2080586.jpg
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http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/1kitchen.jpg
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/1back.jpg

Number Two:
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/2080796.jpg
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/2080797.jpg
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http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/2080799.jpg
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/2080800.jpg
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/2room.jpg
http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/2deck.jpg

[willsmama]

I like #2 better!

[sarahlynn]

oh man i like them boht.. i like the uniqueness of #1 its just really differnt cool...#2 the hardwood and build in cabinets are soo cool...

oh get them both splurge :)

[Momto3]

I vote for #2

[newmami]

are those houses??? grr I hate not being able to see pictures at work!! and then at home I have to wrestle DH so I can use the computer!!

[willsmama]

are those houses??? grr I hate not being able to see pictures at work!! and then at home I have to wrestle DH so I can use the computer!!

grab some altoids first! :laugh::rolly::P

[CandiceLeigh]

:lol: Good one Tracy!

I have plans tonight! :hooray: Late night plans, but it should be fun none the less. Texas A&M is playing Baylor tomorrow (Baylor is here in Waco) and A&M does this thing called Midnight Yell, I guess it's like a pep rally. Anyway, I've never been before and I called my sis (an Aggie) to see if she wanted to go and she said yes! I'm excited! Of course Chris will have to stay up late, but that just means we can sleep in Saturday morning. :) I'm excited, oh wait I already said that. :celebrate:I will try to take pictures but I suck at taking pictures at night. I never know what setting to use and then it's a B to get them to not be blurry.

[willsmama]

HAVE FUN CANDICE! :)
Have a great weekend ladies!
Love you all!! :)

[Momto3]

grab some altoids first! :laugh::rolly::P

LMAo that was funny!

[lexsmama]

:lol:

[sarahlynn]

Candice hope you have a wonderful time :)

im watching the pregnatn man on tv :)

dh is sleeping on the couch..

cy has a friend over...

[Momto3]

Morning Ladies! Happy Monday. Not much time on today...the boss is here...all day.

Sarah - I wanna see the hair!

Oh and I am 70% done with Chrismas Shopping! Yay me!

[newmami]

Hi ladies... it feels like on of those bad Mondays!!
I have so much to do but I do not have time off, so I have to be creative... kids need clothes and we need to do Christmas shopping as well... ugh!

Weekend was fun, went to Hollywood studios, it was packed because it was Soap Opera Weekend, but we managed to have fun, Dani & Chris had a BLAST!!

Put some of her birthday pictures on FB

So I came to the office to hear that the son of one of our Account Managers died suddenly yesterday... he was 30.... the worst part is the dad is coming out of a stroke and some other heart and BP problems (he was in pretty bad shape), and they said the news were just devastating

[CandiceLeigh]

Hey everyone! :hi: If you are not Lynn or Ashley, I have a major story to tell you. I went to HER apartment Friday. :shock: I will come back with that story ASAP. It will take a while to type though, so be patient with me.

[without]

Can't wait to hear your story Candice!

Claudia, I looked at the pictures on FB and love them looks like you all had a blast!

Hi *waves* *snore*

[lexsmama]

Hey! Ugh. It's Monday. Can we all stay in bed now??

How are you this morning Candice? I couldn't stop thinking about you all weekend.

[willsmama]

OOoh! Good for you Candice! Can't wait to hear. I should really get your cell number so you can text me too! :)
hahahah! :)
Clau-I love love love your pics on FB!
Lynn! Hi!
Sarah-did you cut your hair?!~

[willsmama]

Ash! HI!

[Momto3]

Hi Tracy!

Candice - How are you doing? Did you speak to Chris anymore?

Claudia - Arg! I can't see facebook here at work and our internet is down at home! Grrrrrr

[newmami]

Lynn, can you open a website called DOTPHOTO???

Candice, I am waiting!!! :hi:

We took Chris to get a hair cut... you would think they were trying to torture him!! OMG DH and I had to hold him and I was singing to him trying to calm him down while he was BAWLING and SCREAMING... it was quite the scene!! but he looks so cute now!! :shocker:

[CandiceLeigh]

Tracy, if you give me your # you run the risk of me calling you in hysterics. :indifferent: Ask Ashley & Lynn. Which BTW ladies, thank you both for calling me back. :hugs:If I didn't love you before, I sure love you now.

[lexsmama]

Those pictures were GREAT Clau!

[without]

Girls... I am having a rough time here! I wish I knew a way to make this all better.

[lexsmama]

Like I told you before, ANYtime Candice. I'd be there in 2.5 if I had to. :silly:

Lynn & Candice, did you both think you'd sound like we all did??

[lexsmama]

What's wrong Pam?

[willsmama]

Do any of you have 'accents'?

What is wrong Pam?

[newmami]

What is wrong Pam??????

[newmami]

Yes Tracy, I have an accent!! ask Lynn

[lexsmama]

Does a southern, east texas accent count? (Did I have one the other night, Candice??)

[CandiceLeigh]

Ashley sounded older than I thought she would. I didn't hear much of an accent though. :)

Lynn sounded just like a mom and I was instantly comforted by her voice. :) I actually started crying when I was talking to her because it was kind of like talking to my mom again. :shame:

I don't think I have an accent?

Pam, what's going on? Talk to us.

I swear I will type up that story guys, I'm just busy at work right now.

[lexsmama]

No, you didn't have an accent, Candice. You sounded a lot like me, from what I gathered. :)

[without]

I am just tired and ready to give up. I can't stop crying. I can't do any thing right and I am so alone and so harsly judged by my family. Its all getting a bit over whelming!

[willsmama]

Pam! (((HUGS))) what is happening?

I am sure I sound "minnesotan"

[lexsmama]

Who's judging you, Pam? What's up?

[Momto3]

Lynn sounded just like a mom and I was instantly comforted by her voice. :) I actually started crying when I was talking to her because it was kind of like talking to my mom again. :shame:



Awww thats sweet and sad all at the same time.

Anytime! You girls...any of you can call me!

I don't think Candice had an accent.

Claudia does! oh yeah!

[sarahlynn]

OK OK here is the hair..i didnt dye it yet..i might do it tonight..should I????

http://i24.photobucket.com/albums/c10/sgoethe/november2008020.jpg
http://i24.photobucket.com/albums/c10/sgoethe/november2008017.jpg
http://i24.photobucket.com/albums/c10/sgoethe/november2008016.jpg

WE had a good weekend, spentn sat night at the hotel with MIL adn thekids swam sooo much..last night i went and worked out and hung out with the family..

i have to take mil to the airport at noon..

[lexsmama]

I dunno, Sarah. is it a light blonde? Do you just need a change? Then, I'd do it. Otherwise, I love the color depth in your hair.

I think I'm dying mine again this week. Clairol Nice N Easy #108. Woot!

[willsmama]

Now I want a hair cut...

[lexsmama]

Get one. The peer pressure's amazing. :laugh:

[sarahlynn]

candice i must have missed it did somthing happen :(

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tracy do it do it cut your hair :) join the cool kids club..

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no one calls me **** it..im liek the fricking outcast LMAO

[CandiceLeigh]

Hope this jumble makes sense...

Friday when I got off of work I went to my dad's house to visit with my brother and while I was there I checked my myspace. Well I had an email from an old friend from high school. It said, "Hey Candice, I know this probably isn't my place but I just wanted to tell you that I've seen Chris twice with the same girl come to the bank I work at and then again at George's (restaurant) on Friday night." Do you know how embarrassing that is to get an email from an old friend I haven't seen in years, telling me that she's seen my husband out with some skank?!?! So I wrote her back and thanked her for telling me and telling her that I already knew about that girl, ect. Then I asked her how they were behaving. She said he had his arm around the girl and was touching her butt. :X She also said, when he saw her that he got nervous looking. I bet he did, the big idiot!

Basically this sent me into a rage. :mad: You guys know I was already considering going over there to talk to her and this just sealed the deal. I'm tired of being made a fool of. So I took Chris to my grandma's house and drove my pissed off little @$$ over there. I was shaking from anger/nervousness just everything. I knocked on the door and she answered it. I asked to speak to Brianna, and she said, "I'm Brianna." (she looked nervous) I said, "I'm Chris' wife." (let that fact sink in and her eyes got real big and she looked really scared. Mind you, I'm only 4'11 so how intimidating can I really be?) "Can we talk?"
She said, "I'm sorry, I don't want to talk."
"Well, can I ask you one question? Is that his baby?"
"I'm sorry, I don't want to talk." She said sorry like 3 times. (WHORE!)
"Ok, well I don't know what he's telling you, only what he's telling me. And that is that you're not his girlfriend and that you mean nothing to him. I don't know how long he's been living with you, but we've been separated for 6 months and during those 6 months, we have been sleeping together the whole time. So I need to know if you're sleeping with him too because I don't want to be sleeping with someone who's sleeping with someone else."
She closed the door.

So our conversation lasted all of 2 minutes and she didn't say one word against him. Just looked at me all wide eyed. :indifferent: Kinda like that. Right after I left he called me and I was like, here we go! She called him and told him, let's do this.
Him: "Hey, what are you doing?"
"Going home."
"What were you just doing?" (I thought he was trying to get me to say it out and I didn't care so I said...)
"Just got done talking to your girlfriend."
"WHAT? WTH are you doing? Why are you acting crazy? I can't believe you would do that!"
"F**K you Chris! You won't tell me the truth! I have old high school friends emailing me telling me they saw you out in public with your hands all over her @$$ so F**K YOU! Don't worry though, your whore didn't say one word against you. Be assured, she stayed true to you."
CLICK.

He was supposed to give me $200 this week $150 minimum, he left me $120 at his mom's house. Daycare is $103 and I still had to buy diapers. :ohno: I started crying when his mom gave it to me, because it wasn't enough. She gave me $40 of her own money and I told her, "No, it's not your responsibility and it's not your fault. It's his." Not to mention the fact, that I know he had at least $200 spending money that he kept for himself.

I'm working on child support and figuring out what needs to be done to get the divorce going. I HATE HIM. He hasn't seen Chris since Wednesday and last night at 8:00 he text me asking if Chris was awake. "Why do you care?" is what I texted him back. His response, "WTF? I got back into town late and I hurt my arm." :wtf: Like I give a $h!t that you hurt your arm? Not to mention the fact, I knew he had been in town for HOURS because my SIL told me he had been by her house around 2:00. So I wrote him, "I know you've been in Waco for hours, don't even try to pull that $h!t." He didn't say anything more and he didn't try to come see Chris last night.

[CandiceLeigh]

candice i must have missed it did somthing happen :(


no one calls me **** it..im liek the fricking outcast LMAO

Yes, something big went down and I wanted to call you but I don't have your number!

[sarahlynn]

oh no candice im so sorry...if there is anything anything i can do you have to tell me..you could call me and we could swear a lot? talk mean and nasty? and rant and rave? im sooo good at that just ask heather i call her to do it all the time..im glad you went and talked to her. i really was hoping she would have the deceny to give you just a few mintues to talk and some asnwers she owes you that..

((((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))

im gonna pm you my number..

[lexsmama]

I don't have your number either, Sarah. I'd call you so much, you'd ignore me. :laugh:

[willsmama]

sarah, I am going to go all single white female and take your pics to my hair stylist...;)

[lexsmama]

Go for it, Tracy! It's so easy to deal with.

Candice, honey, how're you today?

[newmami]

Oh my Candice!! I am so sorry it had to be that way!! :hugs: I didn't knew she had a son... is Chris the father??
He makes me so upset!! I hate that he is doing this to you and Chris Jr... specially with the money!!! I hope you can get those divorce papers & child support ASAP... if he only has visitation rights but no custody, he will be paying you a good amount of money that you and Chris deserve!!

[newmami]

Pamela Sue!! Where Are You And What Is Going On??????? I Am Worried