You may think I am crazy but.........................

[CandiceLeigh]

:hi: Thanks Susan! Nice to "meet" you!

Pam, believe me I am not letting him weasel his way out of this one. I am ashamed to call him my husband, and I should never have to feel that way. I'm so humiliated, pride itself would keep me from ever taking him back. Plus, I know he's just not right for me. I mean I deserve better right? A husband that will love me and dote on me and that I can trust and never have to wonder who he's texting. Or who is he talking to when I'm not around. I want that so bad, but gosh I don't want to have to look for that. Can the perfect man just fall into my lap?

Sarah, I am very upset with Matt. :wtf: I would have been livid if I was you! At least you get a nice 8 day break. I'm sure that will be relaxing.

Lynn, I'm so glad that Shelly has dropped that other guy! Hopefully this new guy will motivate her to go to college and all that good stuff! Have fun on your coming trip! You may get to see some snow, huh?

[without]

Candice! Yeah, for you! And yes... I think that man could fall in our laps! I have to think it to keep my spirts high :)

[newmami]

Hi Ladies!!! working again... this backing up 2 people plus being the help desk sucks......

Lynn, I hope you have a nice trip and that you find wonderful weather. And YAY to Shelly for dumping the loser and finding a guy who is responsible!! :celebrate:

Natalie, how are things in CA?? I heard the fires are just horrible

Candice & Pam, YES YOU DESERVE better!!! a nice man will come to your lives, I promise.... just make sure you take your time to choose, ok?? :silly:

Sarah, GRRR to Matt :wtf: :rant: I know how it is to be with a selfish man

So DH was out yesterday (comes back today) and me and the kids had a fun afternoon, we took all the pillows from the couches and played in the floor, then had dinner and a fun bath... I hate to say it but my kids (and I) are in a better mood when DH is not around :eyebrow:
Anyways, DH called yesterday and asked if I made the appointment for the couples counseling :shocker:

[without]

Anyways, DH called yesterday and asked if I made the appointment for the couples counseling

Yeah!!!! Claudia!!! Maybe this is a light starting to form at the end of the tunnel??? Fingers crossed for you!

Honestly... I wouldn't mind a date but... I have not had that panic feeling like I used to get about being single forever in a long time. Life would be "FUN" with a partner but its pretty darn good right now so I am A-OK with waiting for MR. Right to find me. LOL

Ugh...I hate it when I read things that I am like... that just aint right! But I am the only one who seems to think so..so I keep my mouth closed.

[sarahlynn]

OMG is there a mod among us???????????/


Candice yeah i was angry what can ya do..yay for an 8 day Dh free vacation..

[Momto3]

huh Pam? due tell...

Yay Claudia for DH wanting the appt too!

[Momto3]

A mod among us? who?

[newmami]

We will see Pam.... I am waiting for him to prove to me that he wants me and that he is willing to make an effort to save the marriage... I am tired of trying...

[Momto3]

Holy crap I just saw that! Congrats Claudia!

[newmami]

:hi: Hi...... new mod in town

[without]

Awww...... Claudia I am so happy to see one of us is a Mod!!! You'll be a GREAT mod!

[without]

Girls... I have such extreams its not even funny! I need to learn to control this. I am so way black or way white. For example.... when dieting I go crazy and eat every thing in sight or go days without eating any thing at all! Sigh... my way of thinking seems to have no middle ground.

[buttercup]

The IT people are going to ban us from accessing facebook and myspace! I don't know what I will do then! I guess I will be on APA alot more!

[without]

OH man!!! No myspace!!! I would croke!!!! LOL The other girls here are more face book I am the odd ball who likes Myspace better. :)

[willsmama]

i would die w/o Facebook! HA!
Pam....I did the all or nothing yo yo thing forever! It sucks!

[Momto3]

I am an all or nothing kind of girl too.

[willsmama]

You better not slap my hand claudia! I want to be a mod...or do i?
hahaha.

[willsmama]

My teeth hurt. Stupid dentist.

[without]

ugh.... but I am that way about every thing in my life.. I am praying all the time or don't talk to God for days.... I am looking like crazying thinking I need a man in my life then... don't want one at all (this could be part hormones lol) I just wish I could be more even with myself and forgiving of myself. I dont' judge others 1/2 as bad as I judge myself.

[willsmama]

I think you ar just human Pam. :)

[without]

I miss Ashley...I may not like this new job arangment of hers...

[sarahlynn]

ok now ladies on your best behavior..;)

im off to get my mom for lunch than ill be back

[CandiceLeigh]

Yay Claudia being a a mod! :) And yay for your DH wanting to get help!

I like myspace too, but my work banned that a long time ago! That's why I can only get on FB at work. They haven't banned that yet!

Tracy, where have you been lady? Good to see you! :)

[Momto3]

I miss Ashley too!

I can't get myspace OR facebook here!

[without]

This day is going so slow... wait who am I kidding this week is going slow. LOL

[willsmama]

I have been busy at work mostly, and I am in my best friends wedding this weekend so spare time working on stuff like that.

[without]

EEEkkkk!!! sorry about the wedding! I am still recovering! So is Morgan! This is how bad it was... We told Morgan that she was the "flower girl princess" she had also been telling us she was going to be a princess for halloween after the wedding when i said are you still going to be a princess??? She started to cry and said no mama I don't want to be a princess! I said Ok... what do you want to be... She informed me she was going to be "pirate bones". (from a song by N. Beddingfield) Poor girl never wants to be a princess again after the wedding.

[willsmama]

Someone help me write a maid of honor speech?

[without]

ewww... so glad I didn't have to do that. Sorry I am no help here! Its such a personal speech I wouldn't even know where to start.

[without]

Sarah... you should get Cy a standard poodle for Christmas!

[Talliesue]

Morning Ladies!
Yeah CA is burning again - we are always on fire it seems or an earthquake. Luckily it's not in my backyard this time.
I'm a Facebook junkie too! it's so addicting.
Have you girls tried www.yearbookyourself.com? OMG it's hilarious!
check me out!
http://i451.photobucket.com/albums/qq233/talliesue/myYearbookPhoto1.jpghttp://i451.photobucket.com/albums/qq233/talliesue/1996.jpghttp://i451.photobucket.com/albums/qq233/talliesue/1972.jpghttp://i451.photobucket.com/albums/qq233/talliesue/2000.jpg

Funny thing is that last one actually looks like me when I was in college! and I look like my mom in the second to last one.

[without]

Thanks now I have some thing to do to pass the rest of the day. :)

[newmami]

No idea about wedding speeches... I do not like speeches.

I am so blah today... and I ate too much so I am stuffed... who would have thought that fish could make you super full?????

[Momto3]

No Pam ...Sarah needs to get Cy a Jack Russell Terrier for Christmas...I just happen to know where to get one too...cheap!

[CandiceLeigh]

:lol: Those are funny Natalie!

I ate Taco Bell for lunch and now I am stuffed to the max! :X

[without]

Well... as far as full goes... its been about 2 days since I have had a solid food so I can't say I am stuffed LOL

And Jack's are supper crazy! LOL

[CandiceLeigh]

Oh Pam, me too. :shame: I haven't been eating since all this stuff happened with Chris. I've been eating very light dinners and that's it.

[without]

Last solid food I had was Monday at 9:00 a bowl of white rice and some butter and sugar.

[Momto3]

And Jack's are supper crazy! LOL

No no, she's actually quite lazy!
Does this dog look crazy to you?

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f266/LMSwanson/JennaandKatie.jpg

[CandiceLeigh]

Umm Pamela Sue, you need to eat! At least 1 meal a day, geez! :crossed:Really 3 though, although I do need to take my own advice...

[Momto3]

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f266/LMSwanson/celluitepeel.jpg

[without]

Aww.. she is as cute as can be! My neighbor has a Jack and he wont stay in one spot for even the best smelling dog treat!

[CandiceLeigh]

Lynn, what is that picture?!?! :lol:

[without]

Its me just need to add more fluff! te he he

[Momto3]

Lynn, what is that picture?!?! :lol:

You mean the orange peel lady in the no cellulite cream?

[newmami]

PAMELA SUE!!! what is that thing that you are not eating?????? do you need me to go to AR and spank you????

[CandiceLeigh]

Thank you Claudia! She totally ignored me... :wtf:

And yeah Lynn, that's the one!

[Talliesue]

Pam - what? Rice,sugar and butter - I have never heard of that combination.
Then again DD likes to dip her bananas in her tomato soup... ewwww!

[Momto3]

Eww is right...bananas and tomato soup...kids!

[willsmama]

Bad Pam! You need to eat. You'll only gain if you starve.

Lynn you are funny.

Speech is done!

[sarahlynn]

ok im pissed!!

i need your thougths so i was hit on the 6th by that guy who backed up into my car when it was parked andi was not in it..it was at night..well i got all his insurance info and so on and i guess he did call his insurance office afterhours and left them a message that this happened but that is the last anyone has heard from him so now its a week adn a half later and i still dont have my car worked on they have left him a couple messages saying he has to call the claims dept to get this through..IM PISSED!!! i did not call the cops (which i always do) cause he was a friend of our neighbors and i thougth oh well ist night i have his info no big deal..i have a voice mail from him saying he hit my car when he called later that night..saying "this is don the guy who hit your car" so guilt right there..i just called my ins and they gave me the claim number and stuff and said i can call them to see i they heard from him or where it stands..we both haev state farm so wtf..im so mad right now..i have his cell number do i call hiim and say " i need to know what is going on..are we going through ins or are you paying out of pocket" i feel like a big idiot for not calling the cops :( i always have the last two times i was hit..im so angry..he has a month to contact them adn than its i guess up to state farm..there isnt much to argue i mean my car was parked outside our home at night i was inside with thekids and he backe dout of hte neighbords drive and backed into my car..cut and dry..

so do i call him or not?

[willsmama]

call him.

[CandiceLeigh]

Yeah Sarah, call his arse! He's being shady. You did him a favor by not calling the cops, the least he could do is get the insurance stuff going.

[Talliesue]

I would call him and make sure you document everything.
Wasn't he going to a party or something when he hit you?

[Momto3]

Call him. and if you can't get a hold of him, go to your neighbor and find out where he lives and go there!

[sarahlynn]

i know thats what i think..and the stupid ass was drinking that night and thats why i didnt call the cops he wasnt slobbery drunk but he was all IM SO SO SORRY IM SO SORRRY i have kids at home ive never hit anyone im so sorry please dont call the cops..

so i thougth fine wahtever he isnt nasty drunk just been dirnking i'll give him a break ya know..

ugh i feel stupid..but i was trying to be nice ya know..and he called his ins so why not return these calls to claims..its not hard..i mean i can get nasty if need be..i have the voice mail with him saying he wanted to lie to the insurance company and tell them it happened tuesday morning and not monday night..so umm ya want me to share that with them buddy?

and the thing is my car sounds like **** on the road when i go over 40 that is not safe IMO for my family to be driving in, somethign was knocked out of line ya know or out of whack..i have the estimate and its alreayd 1600 without it being put on a hoist..so im sure close to 2000 i just want it fixed..

[sarahlynn]

ok called and left him a message..
just basically said this is sarah you hit my car last week, your claims dept said you need to contact them once more for me to get my car fixed, i need you to do this soon. the total costs are over 1600 so im sure you do not want to settle without insurance..you have a month to contact them if it is not done than state farm will settle this or it will go to court..thanks bye

[CandiceLeigh]

Hope he calls you back! Or at least goes ahead and calls the claims department. Jerk!

[Momto3]

Sarah - You are a much better woman than I am. You gave him a month. Very generous. I would have given him a week. Keep us posted on that!

Morning ladies! Its almost Friday! I can't wait! So much still to do to get ready!OMG its going to be 46 degrees is the high for Wednesday when we are there!

[lexsmama]

Morning!

I leave for a day and I get back to all kinds of trouble! Sheesh.

Pam, eat sweetie.

Candice, BIG BIG hugs. You made a mistake, but you learned. I hope Chris gets it this time. :comfort:

Sarah, you did the right thing calling.

Lex ate peas and mashed potatoes last night! First time since he was 11 months old! :shocker:

I'm officially in the new job. BIG BIG weight off my shoulders. My supervisor from the univ. gave me a pedicure as a going away present. Aaaw. :wub:

What'd I miss?

[without]

GM girls... I wasn't ignoring you Candice. LOL I promise I will eat when I can. Right now...sigh.. I just can't make myself do it. I have been drinking some Milk so that is a start.

Oh Sarah my dear your way to nice!

Lynn, good luck with all the vacation prep!

Ashley, aww.. a pedicure! That was nice but I am glad your in a new job.

Claudia, I do believe you need to come to AR to straighten me out! :)
Tracy, HUGS!!! I can't go forever without eating. ;)
Any one have big weekend plans?

[newmami]

Hi ladies!!
Sarah, I am sorry the idiot is giving you the run around. I hope he calls back and you can get the car fixed ASAP... you are seriously a better person than I am, I would have already called the cops... :pokey:

Pam, please try to eat sweetie, ok?? we are worried about you :hugs:

So it was bound to happen... I am getting sick... my nose and my throat hurt, and I am super sensitive to smells (like I need help on that department :eyeroll:), so colognes, scented candles and whatever in this office are making me very very upset

DH and I had another blow out yesterday night... but I was pretty calmed about it.... it really hurts me that I tell him things that are bugging and hurting me, and he just forgets about them..... We are going to do the therapy, but I am extremely blah! about it.....
I just don't feel loved nor appreciated...........

ETA: ASH, I miss you girl!!! yay for the pedicure

[sarahlynn]

:celebrate::silly::winks::clap::happy::gome::D:)
:thumbsup::inlove1::loveshower::love::biggrin:
:wink:

[without]

Claudia maybe the couples Thereapy will give you some hope and will teach him to treat you with more love and respect. Not like a horn dog!

Sarah... whats with all the smile face??? Are you just happy or did some thing really good happen? LOL

[sarahlynn]

something really good happened...

[CandiceLeigh]

Sarah, did you get laid? :lol:

Hey Ashley! :hi:

[without]

Candice I was thinking the same thing! Wonder if Matt stopped by for an office quicky!

How are you feeling today Candice? Love your new Myspace song!

[Momto3]

Sarah...what's up?

[CandiceLeigh]

I'm doing ok today Pam. Just taking it day by day. I'm having to re-mourn, if that makes sense? He came over last night to see Chris and we had already showered and were in bed, so I was in my nightgown already. At one point he was like, "I can see your butt." :eyeroll: I just glared at him and told him not to look and that I didn't think his girlfriend would appreciate that. His response? "Good thing I don't have one then." Suuuure, whatever! :pokey: Oh, and I love that song! :silly:

[sarahlynn]

:bding:


and we went out for dinner get this WITHOUT KIDS!!

[Momto3]

At one point he was like, "I can see your butt." :eyeroll: I just glared at him and told him not to look and that I didn't think his girlfriend would appreciate that. His response? "Good thing I don't have one then." Suuuure, whatever! :silly:

PIG! I hate him. I hate that he has to come to your house to see Chris. Did I say...PIG!

[Momto3]

:bding:


and we went out for dinner get this WITHOUT KIDS!!

Go Sarah! Yay! Didi you duct tape the kids to the closet door?

[sarahlynn]

LMAO noooooo i ditched them at my parents when we went to dinner..i was like I NEED TO DO THIS we need US TIME!! so it was nice we actually could eat and talk and not wrestle with kids :)

than we picked up the kids came home, got them cleaned up and ready for bed, watched the debate, dh went to bed, i went to bed after 11:15 and made my move LMAO !!! my man about a thing said i need to just GO FOR IT!! hey it worked..

[Momto3]

Yay!

[sarahlynn]

:)

candice i want to punch Chris right in the face, its like THE NERVE after that to even make a comment to you...grrrrrrrrrrr

where is my punching smiley

[CandiceLeigh]

Yay Sarah! Sounds like a fun night! You definitely deserved it. :)

Yeah, he was trying to talk to me like everything is fine between us but I would just nod or give real short answers. If Chris would have stayed with him in the living room it would have been fine, but Chris wanted to be with me in the bedroom so that's why he had to be in there too. He tried to take Chris to the other room, but he wasn't having it! :) He just came straight back to mama!

[without]

Candice! I want to kick him in his back tooth! GRRR!!!! Stupid head! And yes.. I so understand the re-mourn. I think I will go though a little of that when Grant gets out and I have to see his face for the first time in 2 years.

Sarah!! Yeah! I am so glad you had a good night with DH it was LONG over due!

[Momto3]

, but he wasn't having it! :) He just came straight back to mama!

What a great judge of character that little man is! I wub him!

[without]

Candice, ya know I love you and you know I know just how hard it is but some thing I think we both need to work on is setting some real boundries with our EX's to help keep us from getting hurt by them again. Chris needs to know that it is no longer his house and the only rooms he is "allowed" in when he visits Chris is the living room, chris's bed room and the bathroom. Any other room is of limits and he must knock or ask before coming in. Make sure he knows he is a guest in YOUR home.

[sarahlynn]

Yup i agree with Pam and making him act like a guest, its no longer his home so he cant just come and go all over as he pleases.. :( im sorry you have to remourn, it will take time hun..hang in there..

[CandiceLeigh]

Normally I wouldn't have let him be in the bedroom, but I didn't feel like going to the living room and Chris wouldn't stay in there without me so the only way he could visit with Chris was for me to let him be in there. Monday when he came over I made it really clear that I did not want him in my room! He kept going in there to get stuff that he had forgotten and I told him he needed to stay out. He said, "I still pay the bills and we're still married." :shock: Seriously? DO NOT pull the married card on me! He walked out as he was saying this or else I would have gone off on him. :wtf: He was mumbling something about "almost 3 years!"

[sarahlynn]

We so need a "kick him in the junk" smiley..

hey where is our new mod can she do that for us..

[CandiceLeigh]

http://i74.photobucket.com/albums/i279/candiceleighfy/APA/774.gif (http://americanpregnancy.org/forums/%5BIMG%5Dhttp://i74.photobucket.com/albums/i279/candiceleighfy/APA/774.gif%5B/IMG%5D)

[without]

Grrr... Candice I would have said well.. your the one who screwed the pooch on that one and messed it up now didn't you so stay the F out! And while we are at it you can visit Chris at a reasonable time like between 5:45-7 or not at all! Grr... lay down the law girl.

[CandiceLeigh]

See I can't do that Pam or Chris would never get to see his daddy. And he loves him so much. He's been asking for him more than I like. :( DH doesn't even get off of work until 7:00 some nights so that's why he usually comes over kind of late. Like last night it was probably about 7:15 when he came over, we had actually taken a pretty early bath because I was tired and just wanted to relax.

[without]

Well.. I do understand and no you don't want to keep them apart but the things I have to think about are things like ... If I were remaried would this be exceptable? Would I let him come visit at this hour in my home with my children? I know your doing the best you can and right now your just feeling your way through trying to find what works for you. I hope you don't feel as if I was being judgmental! I just wish there was away you didn't have to put up with him at all.

[newmami]

Hey ladies, I go out and you are all chitchatting

YAY Sarah for the date!!!!

Candice, so sorry that Chris was such a pig...... I am glad you are healing sweetie, how you feel is all that matters to me :hugs:

[CandiceLeigh]

Don't worry Pam, I know you just have my best interest at heart. :hugs: But to me, Chris wants to see his daddy and he loves his daddy, so I will not let my feelings towards his daddy get in the way of their relationship. If he can't come visit till 7:00 then that's ok with me, as long as he's visiting at all is what's important to me. Does that make sense?

Hi Claudia, we miss you in here today!

[CandiceLeigh]

Ok, so I just totally pigged out big time on some Chinese food! It was good but now I feel :X Why do I do this? And watch, now I'm going to be full the rest of the day and not eat dinner!

[without]

Not me... after I eat chinese food I burp in 45 minutes and then I am starving again. It doesn't stick with me long but it does make me very sleepy.

My Sec. went and brought me a Chick-fil-A gril chicken sand. I feel bad for hiding it in my purse and not eating it. But.. Morgan will love it for dinner so its not like its being wasted.

[newmami]

Pam, please tell me you are not not eating because you want to lose weight........

[without]

Nah... it is an added plus if it does happen but... not really. It started out as prayer and fasting and well... honest... so far I haven't seen the answer yet. Doesn't mean I don't think God has an answer for my problem just I haven't seen it yet. I guess now I am just afraid to eat. I fear that if I give in and eat without getting an answer that I will be giving up.

Sigh... I am crazy and all messed up! I know!

[sarahlynn]

HEY i had a caramel roll for lunch :) yummmmmmm someone brought them for bosses day :)

AND DRUM ROLL PLEASE


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I GOT A GYM MEMBERSHIP!!!

[CandiceLeigh]

Umm Pam, ya need to eat something! :crossed:Come on now!

I just PMed all ya'll on FB. APA was down so I PMed ya'll the message board Lina set up for when APA isn't working. I can't really figure it out though. :eyebrow:

[without]

Yeah!!! Sarah!!! It will be a great way to be with other adults get healty and have a little time to yourself.

[CandiceLeigh]

How cool Sarah! :) Dang, now you're gonna be even hotter than you already are!

[willsmama]

Yay for the gym!
PAM!
EAT DANG IT!

[sarahlynn]

HE HE!!! im excited to get workign out its like im all rejeuventated...

im trying to get into linas site but it says i should have been emailed a conf and i dont haev one yet

[willsmama]

WOrking out can be fun I tell ya. :) What gym did you join?

[without]

I ate some soup crackers. But I don't feel good about it!

[CandiceLeigh]

It took awhile for me to get the email Sarah.

[willsmama]

I ate some soup crackers. But I don't feel good about it!

I do! :)

[newmami]

Pam, you NEED to eat... fasting is not ok, unless you have a glucose test..... your body NEEDS the fuel that food brings.... I am all for not eating junk food/candy for religious beliefs (people do in Mexico at Lent), but stop eating totally... no no!!

Let me throw this at you... you think God will be happy to see that you are malnourishing the body he gave you?????

[sarahlynn]

I got a membership at Anytiem Fitness so i can use it all over..we haev one a few mintues from our house and one right behind my work :) so it is conveineint..

man i hate that a guy in our office went home sick and instantly my mind tells me i am sick and i feel sick.

[CandiceLeigh]

Hypochondriac! :happy:

I am bored. Where did everyone go?

[sarahlynn]

im here biatch..talk to me!!

man it looks like snow..i have to work till three tomarow i was supposed to work till noon but since im so NICE i agreed to switch with a coworker and she will go at noon..wtf why am i so nice :)

[willsmama]

Pam, you NEED to eat... fasting is not ok, unless you have a glucose test..... your body NEEDS the fuel that food brings.... I am all for not eating junk food/candy for religious beliefs (people do in Mexico at Lent), but stop eating totally... no no!!

Let me throw this at you... you think God will be happy to see that you are malnourishing the body he gave you?????

ITA! If I could fly to your house Pam, i'd cook you dinner!

[CandiceLeigh]

Yeah, you are way too nice! I would have been like, "Oh, it's 12:00! Peace out!" :lol:

[willsmama]

I get to leave at 3 tomorrow too..for the big wedding fun! So exciting!

[CandiceLeigh]

Ohh, can't wait to see pictures!

[CandiceLeigh]

Everyone left me again. :wtf: Where are you Sarah & Tracy? Aren't we in the same time zone? That means ya'll should still be at work just like me!

[Momto3]

Hey Hey! Happy Friday! OMG! I leave work at noon. Have to take Tyler to the doc for his spine...have to go back to Kohls and exchange 2 shirts for Katelyn...one is short sleeve and one was 6-9 months...WTF was I thinking?

[willsmama]

Yay for Friday! :)
I leave work at 3 CST today...then off to change/shower/get ready for the grooms dinner tonight, stay in a hotel with my best friend tonight, then all the wedding festivities tomorrow. It is a Big, Fat, Greek Wedding! :)

[Momto3]

Yay for Friday! :)
I leave work at 3 CST today...then off to change/shower/get ready for the grooms dinner tonight, stay in a hotel with my best friend tonight, then all the wedding festivities tomorrow. It is a Big, Fat, Greek Wedding! :)

Aww sounds like a blast!

[willsmama]

It should be! And yummy greek food! MMM!

[lexsmama]

Morning! :hi:

I'm all alone this morning! :celebrate: I love days like this. The lady's gone, I have peace and quiet and can APA and clean this office out. Woo hoo!

I miss your girls something gosh awful. I have to be very careful until she's gone, and then I'm all yours again! :silly:

Oh, I put a diffuser in my office the other day, and she went nuts on how she's allergic and can't have them around her. Grreeat. I know about that allergy, too. I'm a there with ya. But, I take my medicines and go on. I like smelly good things. lol.

Candice, BIG BIG hugs.

Pam, EAT woman. :silly:

Good luck today, Lynn, with the spinal appointment.

[lexsmama]

Oooh, have fun Tracy!

[newmami]

IT IS FRIDAY!!!
I am getting a cold so I feel like crap... and I am FUMING because my supervisor sent me an email (yeah, very professional) telling me I have to stop taking 30 min lunch.... WFT I TAKE LUNCH IN MY DESK!!! the other day I took like 10 min because I was having fish and I didn't wanted the office to smell like fish... so I emailed her and told her I am not taking lunch, and if she was talking about yesterday, I went to a doctor's appointment..... I am sure she hates me.... and I am getting tired of her attitude with me.....

[without]

Yeah for Friday but I have NO weekend plans none! Guess I'll be cleaning house. Thats ok some deep cleaning really needs to be done before the holidays any way.

Claudia, you boss is a real stink head!

Lynn, whats up with the DR did I miss some thing is DS ok?

Tracy, hope you have a blast and good bonding tonight with you friend.

Candice, any plans for the weekend?

Ashley, good to hear you'll be able to be on a little more today.

[lexsmama]

Ummm... she can't do that. If they make you work 8 hours, law requires an hour break.

[newmami]

Hi Ash!! we missed you here!!

Lynn, good luck with the doctor, I hope it is nothing and that Tyler is ok

I am fuming and about to start crying.... I am waiting for HER boss to get here to talk to her... I am DONE with her having all kind of issues with me.......
God I wish I could just quit today!!!

[buttercup]

(Also posted in July 08 Births)

I am wearing a pair of my pre-pregnancy jeans today! I will admit that I can't button them yet....I am having to wear my belly band with them. But I was able to fit them over my butt! Hopefully this will give the the extra incentive to buckle down and lose the rest of my weight!

[lexsmama]

Yay Susan!!!! :celebrate:

Claudia, this lady's got some serious issues. You talked to HER boss right? You needed to.

[sarahlynn]

good morning ladies, how is everyone?

its FRIDAY!!!!!

i switched with a girl in the office so today she can be done at noon so your all stuck with me untill 3:00 :) yay for you

[without]

Susan!!! Way to go!! Almost 3 years later I am still not in my pre prego clothes. I weight is down by like 30 pounds but....My fat seems to have moved around and my body isn't shapped the way it was so I still can't fit back into those jeans even though i weigh less. Strange hu??

Sarah... you so nice to switch... sorry you have to work later but I am glad you'll be her with us.

Claudia,,,,I wish I could come and get you out of that place! GRRR!

[willsmama]

WTF Claudia! That lady Sucks!

[lexsmama]

You know, Pam. Now that you mention it... I fit into my pre preggo clothes for a while, and then it all crept back on. :( I miss my comfy jeans.

Hehe... Stuck, huh? That's okay Sarah. :silly:

[without]

I am doing GREAT right now on weight loss I am not even thinking about food as much as I used to but on the other hand I have been quite blue and really haven't wanted to eat. I need to start walking at night again but... I have no motovation!

[lexsmama]

Understand that one... :(

How do you get your mind off of food? I just can't do it.

[without]

Honest... medication... I was focusing so much on food. The Dr. put me back on lexapro and with that I don't obsess so much. Also I keep moving as much as I can. I have cut out almost all my TV watching because thats when I snack. I have been interacting more with Morgan in play and also doing a lot of house cleaning to keep my mind off food. I got really depress when I realized that I had set a reasonable goal for myself and I won't be hitting it this year. I so badly wanted to see a 1_ _ on the scales before the new year. I don't care if its 199... I just wanted to see a 1. :) LOL Haven't seen that in 5 years. As of my weight in today I would have to lose 26 more pounds by the end of the year. If I could just make myself walk I know it would help.

[willsmama]

Just do my thing. You'll never regret doing it. Only regret NOT doing it.

[CandiceLeigh]

Happy Friday everyone! I am soooo ready for this weekend! :) No plans, just relaxing at home with minimal drama. (I hope! :eyeroll:)

[buttercup]

Happy Friday to everyone too! I have my professional picture appt tomorrow! I hope Blaise cooperates!

[without]

When it comes to walking I think i am to hard on myself. I try to push myself to hard to fast and when I cant stay on the treadmil for 30 minutes on a 5% incline and 3 miles per hour. I feel like giving up. I don't want to walk I want to run!!! I know the saying you have to walk before you can run but its so AHHHH!!!! I mean some day I really want to be able to RUN and would prefer it to be today. LOL

[willsmama]

yes, be patient!
:)

[Momto3]

Pam - You didn't miss much on Tyler's doctor. I took him for a check up last Saturday and the pediatrician said he has a 15 degree curve of his spine and wanted him to be seen by an Orthopedic surgeon. I'm sure its no biggie...I hope.


Oh and Claudia...that is nuts about no lunch. Everyone is entitled to some form of lunch!!!!

[lexsmama]

Patience is NOT my best virtue. :lol:

[without]

I hope Tyler is ok. I have a slight curve to my spine but now that I am fat you can't even tell! LOL I guess its one plus to being beefy! Though I have to admit the extra weight makes it hurt more. Mine is small. Her is hoping that Tyler doesn't need a back brace or any thing!

[without]

Patience is NOT my best virtue.

Ditto!! I think thats why weight loss is so hard on me. I think well...look I good foods and veggies and stayed under my calories all day and I still weigh _________. I mean I want to she results FAST

[lexsmama]

Yep.

[newmami]

Thanks ladies for the support :grouphug:

Her boss is not here today, so I will talk to him Monday... I am the one deciding NOT to take lunch break so I can drop/pick up my kids on time.... Now I am being forced to find another daycare (and obviously pay more $$$) that has more accomodating hours for me, so the moron of my supervisor does not complain.... my kids are so happy there, it breaks my heart to have to change them......

I told her I am ok working the 8 hrs without a lunch break (not like I am constantly busy) but she said she doesn't want me to do that... why is it such a big deal if I am ok with it???? She said it has to do with productivity... heck I haven't heard any complains from my Account Managers or Customers about my crappy job.... all my reviews are "exceed expectations"......


I just want to cry... why do I have to accomodate my kids to her STUPID needs???

I wish we didn't needed the money, the way I feel right now, I just want to pack my things, give her my resignation letter, leave and NEVER have to deal with her again??? I just don't understand why she hates me so much....

[Momto3]

Ok, I'm outta here. Talk to you guys on Monday the 27th!!! Have a great week everyone!

[lexsmama]

Bye Lynn!

:comfort: Clau.

[CandiceLeigh]

Aww, I'm sorry Claudia! :hugs: What a sucky situation.

Have fun Lynn! Stay warm! :)

[without]

bye bye lynn have fun!

[sarahlynn]

Bye Lynn

~~

Susan i hope the pics go good :) share with us when you get them..

~~

HUGS CLAUDIA (((((hugs)))))

[willsmama]

Bye Lynn!
Claudia, is there an HR rep you can talk to about your special circumstances? If it is daycare hours, maybe they'd be more flexible for you?

[newmami]

I am going to give HR a call this afternoon, once I am out of the office.
The policy states that it is OK to have flex hours, as long as your Manager approves... that is why I want to go one level up, if her Manager says it is Ok, she needs to shut up (and I am hoping he will be ok with it...)

[lexsmama]

Ooooh, hadn't thought of HR, Tracy. Good idea. They can help with the supervisor, too.

[without]

Ashley,
People can be so rude! Makes ya want to wear a shirt that says MYOB. On the bright side when you are 50 you'll be so happy you look young! Tee he he Thats what my dad used to tell me all the time. Guess we will see.

[willsmama]

I hope HR does something for you Claudia. That doesn't seem fair, if you are pulling the hours to have to move around your family/personal life for a job.
Not cool at all.

Man, I am nervous for this speech. I am memorizing it today.

[without]

I have had to move around my hours since Morgan came along. I come in early and I don't get a lunch (I eat at my desk) so that I can leave early and go pick her up and get to my 2nd job. So far the University has been very good about letting me do flex hours. Thank goodnes. I hope it all works out for you Claudia.

Have you ever typed a big long post and then decided not to post it. LOL I just did that!

[newmami]

Thank you guys, I also hope the big boss works with me... I am also going to talk to his assistant, because she is very very understanding about my situation (she allowed me to bring the kids couple of times when daycare was closed)... I know she will sweet talk to him

Maybe the moronic supervisor should start keeping an eye on the so called superstar assistant, and realize that she is really not that efficient and not that great.....

[without]

Oh,,, Claudia I feel for you *Hugs* Thank goodness its Friday! Whoot Whoot 2 days off.

[willsmama]

post your long post pam!

[without]

I would but I don't really know how to word it right....
I am just not good at asking for help... I don't want to look like I am asking for hand outs or begging but really.. I am to the point that if grooming doesn't pick up soon I may have to ask my family for money. I don't like that idea!!! I mean I would ask my Grandma if there is any thing I could do for her to EARN extra money like clean out her flower beds wash the cars on the lot or vacume the office at the car lot but I know her...she would just hand me money and say here honey forget about just take it. Sigh... I want to be able to do this without help! I want to be able to provide for my child and for 2 years I had been doing an ok job of it. I mean we didn't have great stuff but we always had enough. Now people just don't have the extra cash to have there dogs groomed there watching stocks fall and i don't blame them for thinking the last thing they need to do is spend money on a hair cut for there dog still.. its killing me. I have fait it will pick back up but until then I need to do some thing.

[willsmama]

I know a lot of people are feeling the crunch pam...Don't feel bad asking for help if you need it. You know you need to do what you need to get yourself by.

[without]

I know... I just hate it because my parents and grandparents would give me the shirt off there back and do with out themself. Its just what family does. At the same time I know they worked hard for that money and saved hard.

[willsmama]

Doesn't mean you aren't working hard too Pam. It isn't your fault the economy is falling to crap! :(

[CandiceLeigh]

I feel ya Pam. I had to ask my dad to spot me a $20 last week and I HATE asking for money! Absolutely hate it! :ohno: I need to start playing the lottery!

Hope HR helps you Claudia!

[newmami]

Oi Pam.... I totally understand but like Tracy said, it is not your fault that the economy is doing bad
There is nothing wrong on asking for help when you really need it... if you get help it doesn't mean that you are not doing all you can... there are a lot of circumstances making it hard to make ends meet for a lot of people.... that you cannot control

It is family Pam, today you need their help, next time, they will need yours!! besides, you are such a wonderful daughter and sister, you DESERVE some help and some peace of mind

I wish there was more I could do for you :(

[without]

Oh, Claudia!!! You have done more than enough for my little family. I bought all the jewlry for the brides maids for Lisa's wedding and they were all supposed to pay me back. Not ONE of them did!!! Grr... I may just tell my mom about it and ask her if she will give me the 60 dollars and she can collect from them if she wants to or chalk it up to more wedding cost. But it makes me feel bad to ask her to pay for there necklaces when she paid to have there hair done, there dress, there shoes and even there under clothes to ask her to now pay for our necklaces!

[CandiceLeigh]

OMG Pam, $60? and they didn't pay you back?!?! That is so rude!

[without]

I know... I think the problem is that NONE of the 5 brides maids are really her friends any more. I am the only one who is her "friend" and I don't count #1 because I am a sister LOL and #2 I have already paid myself back. tee hehe

[newmami]

That is totally rude of them Pam... UGH!!! if I was the bride in the situation, I would offer to pay you... specially after ALL you did/are doing for your sister!

[without]

My sister can some times be insensitve.. if you hadn't noticed. Like for example I called her on Monday and cried and told her about money issues and she was great to give me support and calm me down. I had got myself pretty worked up over a 38 dollar late charge. I think I just needed to cry and that was the straw that broke the camels back ya know. Any way I went to see how her new house is coming along last night and she started telling me about how she had got her 4,000 dollar pay out on retirement and then she got a suprise 6oo something dollar check that she didn't even know was coming from some stock options that had to be sold. I am think to myself you know how tight money is with me right now why in the world are you telling me this. I know I should have been happy for her blessing but...I just wish she would have found a bettter time to tell me.

[CandiceLeigh]

Dude, she just got $4600? She should be giving you the $60!

[willsmama]

Ita

[without]

Hmm.. I know the logical side tells me thats true. I mean thats 2 weeks worth of gas for me. But the other part of me thinks she should have to pay it was her wedding and her day. My family paid for it all. And if you think asking my parents and grand parents for money is hard... I can't even wrap my head around asking my little sister for money!

[willsmama]

I would just make a note to her like, "hey, tell your friends they still owe me for the jewelry" and see how it goes from there!

[newmami]

Sounds like a plan Tracy!!

Hey Pam, you did all that for her PLUS let them stay in YOUR house, in YOUR bed.... your sister needs to learn to be greateful and be a little more thoughtful with you. Heck, if it was me, I would have offered to pay you rent!!

[without]

:hugs:You girls are the best.:wub:

[willsmama]

You are too.
Don't ever forget it either!

I am out soon...then I am off for my 30th birthday on Monday...

[buttercup]

Happy birthday!!

[newmami]

HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY TRACY!!

I want out of here... I have nothing to do and this place is toxic!!
oh but I sent my application to another place... see what happens!!

[willsmama]

Yay Claudia! :)

Talk to you ladies Tuesday! :)

[without]

Happy early Birthday Tracy!

Ohhh, Claudia....I so hope they call you.

Do you ever wonder if some people post under 2 names?

[newmami]

Do you ever wonder if some people post under 2 names?

sometimes..... but I am too :imfoolish: to figure it out!!

[without]

oh thats me... I don't know who else she would be but I do suspect its some ones doubble. LOL

[without]

Well.. my dear dear friends... its been nice but I am out of here for the day. Off to groom a doggie and get enough gas money to last me until Wednesday :) Yeah!!!

[newmami]

Have a wonderful weekend Pam!!
I am almost out of here too... YAY!!!

[lexsmama]

Night girls.

I'm making a brown puppy costume for lex this weekend... Wish me luck.

[sarahlynn]

AWWWW Im sure it will turn out wonderful be sure to post pictures for us :)


its so quiet at my house..well not reallly i have two kids :) but lack a dh..cy is stareing at the xbox lulu is veggin on the couch..my parents just came over..we spent way to much money at target...
thats bout it see you ladies tomarow im sure someimes

probubly later cause tis suppsoed to be 75 so yay we will be outside all day

[sarahlynn]

AHHHHHH A whole day without you ladies bout drove me nuts :)

I missed you all...how was everyones monday?

does anyone cut boxtops? or know what they are? If someone cuts them or wants to cut them and needs somewhere to give them ide gladly take them for out school :) i mail them in and we get cash for the school..

:) just let me know

[lexsmama]

Morning!

I was running ragged without ya'll yesterday! I think there was a nervous breakdown in there somewhere. lol.

We do boxtops, Sarah. Well, my church group does. We give them to Lex's preschool. I have a honkin' list of all the things that will boxtop for us. :)

I didn't find the yuku thingy until almost 3 yesterday. :(

[without]

Good morning all!
Man yesterday drug on at work and I thought the day never would end! Now that I have you girls back I am hoping today will just zoom right along.

Any one have any big news? Ashley, how did the costume making go?

My only news and its only exciting to me is... Mike called me! After 5 months he finally picked up the phone and called me! Now lets just hope I don't have to wait another 5 months for a date. LOL

[newmami]

Yay for the phonecall Pam!!

I have box tops, DH cuts them but does nothing... let me see if I find them Sarah, and I will mail to you

I did some housekeeping at work, didn't had much to do. Talked to the Big Boss about you know who, he said he will talk to her about my schedule. If nothing changes, I am going to HR, because I find it very upsetting that she is forcing me to change daycare just because she is not willing to work with me......

Dh has been super nice. We had a home date Friday... he cooked everything, got me flowers and a card, and we talked a lot about us... it was nice and he is really trying. I think he got scared after our last conversation..... I am hopeful, but I know it is going to take a while.....

Took Chris to the Pedi yesterday, poor thing was all freaked out, and Dani was super concerned about him, specially after his shot.
Can you believe my baby is 18 months??? :(

[lexsmama]

It's slow in coming, but I'm getting there on the costume, Pam. I'm trying not to let him look more like a deer than a puppy.

:celebrate: Yay for a phone call!

Poor Chris! I hope he's okay now that the shot's over. Woo hoo on 18 months!

[newmami]

Halloween costumes?? we went to get ours... I wanted Dani to be wonder woman and Chris Superman... tried the costume on Dani, she HATED it... so now I have Superman AND Buzz lightyear....... :lol:

[without]

Oh... Claudia the kids are growing up to fast. Some times I fear they are going to be 1/2 grown before we get to meet each other in RL.

Some times I forget how much Morgan see's and notices. Last night at dinner she was sitting and eating and i was looking at a magazine and kind of talking to her at the same time. Then all the suddent she puts down her food and says Mama you eat! I said what? She then started telling me I needed to eat and trying to hand me her food. Aww...broke my heart she has noticed I am not eating like I used to and just wanted me to eat. So I told her Thank you and took a bite of her food and then got me 1/2 a roll and 1/2 a hot dog so she would see I was eating. You just don't realize how much even the little changes in yourself effects your kids until something like that happens.

[sarahlynn]

A deer would be unique :).. you dont see many of those around halloween..

~~

Candice it sounds like things are turning around a bit for the better huh? i hope he sticks with it and was scared straight :)

LMAO at buzzlight year..i love it

~~

PAM well how did the conv go? details mama details?

[without]

We talked for about 40 minutes and we talked about a little bit of every thing. He talked to Morgan for a few minutes on the phone and when I said Morgan hand the phone back to Mama she said "love you bye" LOL I almost died but Mike didn't say any thing about it.

[lexsmama]

Out of the mouths of babes, eh Pam?

Nice convo, btw.

The sweats I got were dark brown with light brown felt. I feel like I'm making the kid a monkey or a deer. I sewed the belly on last night and have spots cut out.

[sarahlynn]

hehe i cant wait to see it girl it sounds adorable..

man its rainy and cold here and isnt supposed to get better.

so cy had a shi t fit this mornind cause i put out pants for him to wear..its gonna be 43 today adn rainy?????? but he just bucked me the whole tiem on it so i said FINE whatever wear what you want to than i dont care, if you freeze DO NOT complain to me...

was that bad? now i think the teachers will be like WTF is wrong with this woman ya know..but god how much to i fight with him beforei say ok ITS UP TO YOU FREEEZE YOUR LITTLE WHITE BUTT OFF I DONT CARE

[without]

Thats a hard one Sarah..... do you make him learn the lession by freezing but then rewarding the fit by saying go ahead or do you keep fighting it. I don't know what I would have done. :)

I can't wait to see pictures ashley!

[lexsmama]

Nah, he'll learn. Maybe put sweats or fleece in his backpack with a little note just in case. I dunno.

[lexsmama]

The trainer lady's on her way... I may be sparce for a while. Muwah!

[sarahlynn]

who is the trainer lady?????

im lost???

[without]

I am guessing she means the lady who is training her on her new job. :)

[newmami]

Sarah, I think I would have put some sweatpants in his backpack and send him off....

Awww Morgan :wub: I love her Pam!! she is concerned about Mommy :wub:
Dani is the same way, if I am crying, she goes "Mami ok??" and goes and hugs me... they do notice everything!! when DH and I are having problems, both my kids get horrible moods!!

[without]

I have nothing to do today I so wish I could go home.

[without]

I have 21 pounds to go before I hit my first goal. I so wanted to be there by Thanksgiving. With that only being about 4 weeks away doesn't look like I am going to make it. How disapointing! Yet another year of Holiday pictures with me looking like the StayPuff Marshmellow man. Grrr!

[newmami]

Don't be so harsh on yourself Pam!! you have already lost 30lb, right? that is a HUGE accomplishment!!!
Now you can stop sending your lost pounds to me, thank you!!! :lol:

Tracy, how was the wedding???

[newmami]

Forgot to say, we got our notification for the Chapter 7!! (we were afraid we would be place on Chap 13)... WOO HOO!!!

[without]

I am sure thats a load off your mind!

I know... I am happy with the 30 pounds but I also know I wasted a lot of time. Oh well I will keep on pushing and maybe by new years I will have that last 20 off. :) Must start walking!

[lexsmama]

Morning girls.

It's been a crappy morning so far. :( I've almost been hit by other cars 3 times. And the turn lane skipped us 3 times, too. :lol:

My sister just sent me a picture mail... She got a promise ring yesterday... :shocker:

I have pictures to upload. We visited the pumpkin patch. Not as good as last year, but we had fun. And my parents' bday party for lil bit.

[without]

:pokey::eyebrow:
Morning girls!

[newmami]

Oh no Ash!! I am so sorry about the scares,but glad nothing bad happened
Congratulations on your sister...... or is that bad news????

I am blah today..... I have a meeting with the supervisor at 11 and the idea of being in a room with her makes me sick to my stomach..... I don't feel like arguing with her, heck I don't feel like seeing her!!!

Things at home are peaceful so far.... it still bothers me that DH gets all pouty when he doesn't get any.... seriously dude, a little more UNDERSTANDING will be nice :wtf:

[without]

Girls the sight is so slow it keeps kicking me off. :( I miss you all!

Claudia your DH should be more understanding I mean who wants to DTD when they have so much on there mind about work any way! Gee....

[without]

Must have killed it aye???


I am down and know I shouldn't be but I didn't eat bad yesterday but this am I was up 0.8 on the scales. :( I just don't see how I could have taken in more calories yesterday than I burned.

[willsmama]

it is not what you weigh, it is what you DO Pam. You can't control the scale. If you continue to "DO" what is right, the scale will follow.

[without]

But seeing that number go down was the thing that speared me on ya know. When I would want to have that candy bar I would think is it worth not seeing a lower number tomorrow??? Nope and I wouldn't eat it. Blah... today is a new day and all I can do is try harder.

[willsmama]

I also weighed myself when I didn't want to work out. I'd step on the scale and say: "Do I like this weight? Nope...so I am off to work out!"

[newmami]

:ita: with Tracy!!! it takes a while Pam, you have to be patient and consistent!

Well, the supervisor is not willing to work with me, so I am going AGAIN to the Manager and see how it goes.

Yesterday was an awful day, I lost it at home and started crying, then DH is so insensitive all he said was "you need to keep fighting"... I am TIRED of fighting this crap!! I have this feeling it is going to go nowhere, and honestly it is not like I LOVE my job that much.... I told him how I hate that we need the money and how every day I wish it was the day I could quit... his answer "I am sorry because I know you blame it on me" :eyebrow:(according to him I am still here because of the medical insurance... WE decided mine was the best option and I had no clue it would get so bad) WTF??? I got so upset I told him "don't do this to me right now", and he got all pissy... of course afterwards he was ok and wanting to DTD (are you kidding me????) it was an awful night.

On a bright note, Dani can identify maybe about 15 letters and their phonetic sound :hooray:

[buttercup]

Good morning ladies!

[willsmama]

Morning Susan.
Claudia, i am sorry you have it so rough right now and had a bad night. ;(

YAY DANI!

[lexsmama]

Morning Susan!

Oh Claudai, I'm SO sorry you're dealing with this crap. I wish there were something we could do to help.

Pam, the weight's driving me batty, too, but there's no quick solution. :hugs: Even if I wish there were...

[newmami]

Susan, I saw your professional pictures, they are awesome!! you have a beautiful family and Blaise is just too cute, I LOVE his smile :wub:

[without]

Claudia, it sucks that you have to work with Dinks and then go home to another dink! Some times men just dont' understand that we just need to talk to them tell them our woes and whats going on in our life. It doesn't mean we want them to fix it or that we blame them we just need to share. Blah!! Sorry hun wish there was some thing I could do to help. And what a smart girl you have on your hands. Hope your saving up for Harvard or Yell!

Hi Susan hows it going in your neck of the woods?
Ashley, I don't mind if the number stays still a day or two with out moving its just when it goes back up I always fear its the start of the weight all coming back. I have worked to hard to let it all come back. :( But Tracy had a good idea and thats to weigh again when I get home and let that number motovate me to walk. :)

I love having such good friends like you guys!

[willsmama]

Keep in mind it also took me all most 7 months to lose 25-30 lbs...

[willsmama]

I know how hard it is to keep motivation. Especically when it starts getting colder. (at least here!)

[without]

I am tempted to move the TV from my bed room into the room that has the treadmil but I would miss having a TV in my bed room on Sunday mornings when Morgan comes in to snuggle and watch some cartoons before we get ready for church.

[lexsmama]

Hmm... I wish mil hadn't given away the little tv...

Working on pics from the pumpkin patch. I did put a few on the "other place" yesterday in the pointless thread.

I sleepy... Oh! Speaking of. Last night before bed, Lex decided to climb up on top of me and jump on my head. I think I lost an inch in height there... I'm still in pain.

[lexsmama]

Check

[lexsmama]

Check my blog f

[lexsmama]

Check my blog for pics,

[lexsmama]

Check my blog for pics, too. lol.

[newmami]

Pam, can you play some music while you work out?? I used to do that and singing kept my mind off the "oh no I am working out"

I have so many paper cuts in my fingers it is not even funny... :wtf:

I believe DH realized he was being an arse, he sent me a very nice and apologetic email... now we just have to work on him THINKING before he speaks

Getting colder... we don't know what that means here... they are making a big fuss in the news because it will be "cooling down" to the low 70.... everyone get their snow jackets!!!

[newmami]

Hi Ash!! sorry about the jumping in the head.. OUCH!!
Saw the pictures on your blog... I am coming to Tx to steal Chris and Lex, then on my way to AR to get Miss Morgan..... hmmm I need a bigger car because I still have to go to MN to get Will.....

[CandiceLeigh]

Hey everyone! It's nice and cool here today! I love it :)

[lexsmama]

Ouch.

I need a playlist. Lina helped some, but some of it I don't listen to.

[lexsmama]

Clau: :lol: If you can figure out how to get Lex to stop kicking, you can take him a while. :laugh:

I LOVE the weather.

[without]

Snow jackets in the 70's bwah ha ha your to funny!

Ashley, love the pumpkin pick and sorry about being knocked out by your LO!

Candice, I am lovin the cool weather here to. It was 40 when we got up this monring!

[CandiceLeigh]

I'm not sure what the temp was but the cold front came in yesterday afternoon and it was awesome! :) Now I need to go get Chris some Winter clothes. He's got about 4 pair of pants that still fit him from last year and that's it!

[willsmama]

Ash, what've you got on your playlist?

[sarahlynn]

im back

[without]

Hi Sarah

[sarahlynn]

HI! pam cant you get onto that other site...

[CandiceLeigh]

Yeah Pam, we were wondering where you were yesterday. We missed you! :(

[willsmama]

have you been hangin on the other site today Sarah?

[CandiceLeigh]

I have Tracy! :lol:

[without]

I just have not taken the time to figure out how to do it yet. I go on and read what every one writes I just don't have a member name.

[CandiceLeigh]

Oh, you've been reading? :lol: It's fun over there.

[buttercup]

Susan, I saw your professional pictures, they are awesome!! you have a beautiful family and Blaise is just too cute, I LOVE his smile :wub:

Thank you!!

I have to take my midterm for my online class today at 2. The class is a psychology class....human sexuality. I think since I have a baby...I should know enough about S-E-X that I shouldn't have to take a class on it. :P

[Talliesue]

Hi Ladies! Where does the time go!
I ordered a new couch, chair, ottoman and coffee table last night! yeah! but the couch and chair won't be ready till Dec. 31!
Work has kept me super busy with our last two tradeshows back-to-back starting next week.

hey what's this new site?? have I really been away that long...

[willsmama]

Oh, i've jumped back over there....I love the naughtiness.;)

[without]

Talliesue,
nothing to new because APA has been down a lot while they are fixing it. Great news on the now furniture! I need a new TV stand but I can't find any one strong enough to the the old one out of my living room. It took 4 of us to get it in and now I can't get it out. If I haven't found any one by thanksgiving....I am ripping the thing apart!

[newmami]

Hi Natalie, how are the fires in CA?? haven't been in the other forum today......

Ok so why does my supervisor comes and plays NICE with me??? UGH I JUST WANT TO STRANGLE HER!!!!! leave me alone b**ch!!

[without]

Don't you hate that! Its like they slap you in the face but then bring you a coke and think it makes every thing all better. Two faced people. I can't stand them.

[newmami]

me either Pam.... she seriously makes me want to puke