You may think I am crazy but.........................

[without]

Oh... Claudia!! So sorry that DH is a butt nuget!!! Ya know I spent Friday night and Saturday upset but also did some soul searching and I am hell of a prize and he just know that yet because we really don't know each other that well yet. And if he comes around GREAT if not I still want to be his friend. As long as I keep reminding myself what a prize is some one is bound to notice sooner or later! LOL

[willsmama]

(((HUGS))) and morning ladies!

:)

[sarahlynn]

hey ladies .. someone will need to recap me if im way behind..anything exciting happen?

[without]

Sarah, how did your weekend go? Sorry Claudia is queen or recap I'll let her do that lol

[willsmama]

I have nothing to recap....I am hungry.

[sarahlynn]

weekend went very well..kids had a good time..weather was ok just a bit windy is all..i was so sick yesterday no clue from what almost like i ate something that didnt settle right for me..not sure but i am feeling a bit better today..first thing dh says to me is "your not pregnant are you?" i was like excuse me..do we have sex?

than im sick yesterday and my mom comes over and was just being obnixious..kept on DH saying things like "you need to clean up that kitchen cause i dont think she can she is sick" " you need to pu the clothes in the dryer OK there are clothes that need to go in the dryer" ended up pissing him off so i just went to bed..ugh why does she do that..for one she knows he doesnt do TONS of stuff around the house he tries but isnt like mr homeaker..and doesnt she realize that doing thsi only makes it ****y on me living him with..cause thanhe was bangin **** around saying how she is totaly gettin on his nerve and is so irritateing lately..im like **** this im sick and went to bed..catn she just keep hermouth closed ya know..if i want him to get the laundry out ILL ASK HIM ya know..

[willsmama]

blech!!!!
I am sorry she pissed off your DH Sarah. You feeling better today?

[without]

ugh! Sorry Sarah she had to have thought she was helping! Don't you love it when mama's over steep there bounds! NOT

[sarahlynn]

yeah i finally was able to eat this morning, had only a few bites of cereal yesterday cause i felt queezy all day..no clue what the heck it was maybe ate somethign weird like the meat my mom left layin in the sun to THAW WHEN WE WERE CAMPIN :doh: thanks ma..

yeah pam im sure she thougth she was helping tell him him to help out so i didnt have to..but dh doesnt take that well..i wish he had just nodded his head and agreed with her like my BIL does..but DH says "I KNOW I do THIS STUFF ALL THE TIME I CAN HANDLE IT" and she is like rollin her eyes sure you can ugh sometimes my family wears me out

its beautiful outside so i am going to watch cy play baseball over lunch..

[willsmama]

fun! I already ate my lunch! WHY!?

[Momto3]

Hi Guys!

Sarah - Sorry about your mom butting into your routine and sorry you weren't feeling well.

Where is Ashley?

Claudia - Sorry your Father's Day sucked.

Ours was ok. I didn't like the place we ended up for lunch, but there could have been worse things in life!

[willsmama]

Fathers day rocked!
I might run home over lunch and grab my USB cord so I can upload pics. :)

[lexsmama]

Morning... Almost afternoon!

Weekend was tolerable. I didn't get to see the baby. Times just didn't work out. My aunt's a nazi on scheduling. Sheesh. Another day.

My parents only saw us for 5 hours Saturday. Pop made dinner and then we took Lex to the beach. They were ticked and didn't go Friday night, so I tried for Saturday. They were upset they had to go. Ugh. People. They would have rathered go to Lowe's than watch their grandson play. Oh, and we didn't even see them yesterday when we left. Poppie and Lex had a ball, though. They caught and released 2 squirrels. Lex thought that was the best thing ever. Pop also thought that taking Lex to play in the water and watch the boats come in at the Jetties would be a good time. He slept GREAT on a blow up mattress. AND! He's eating us out of house and home today! O.M.G.

I'm sorry about Mike, Pam. Maybe he was on call. Maybe he's thinking about how to pursue everything. Dh freaked out at first, but he came around. Don't beat yourself up, k? :hugs:

Moms can definitely make life uneasy, Sarah. I'm sorry she p!ssed off your dh.

Men, Clau. Blech. Dh thought that putting lotion on my back ment a direct invite for nookie last night. And then this morning. Ummm... no. I'm not into some of those things, remember?! Short term memories... Dang.

[willsmama]

To me, men relish "fathers day" a Leeeetle too much...

[lexsmama]

Ummm.... yep. just a teeny bit..

[Momto3]

Oh yeah Holiday sex was expected...

[lexsmama]

It wasn't just the sex, it was the "other" stuff for me. He KNOWS I have a hard time with it all, and he says he won't bring it up, and then 10 minutes later... Dang.

And he slept in all weekend. And today. I crashed on the bed at 10 thins morning, and he came in and woke me up! Oh, and Lex kept screaming Daddy all morning long...

[willsmama]

Yeah, I am sorry, I love my DH and he does *A LOT* to help out, but I still feel like I do most of the "work" when it comes to raising Will...he just gets the fun stuff. Then, for them to have a 'day' where they "DECLARE" its fathers day and then they get to be lazy...um..yeah, it seems like fathers day is EVERY day...hm.

[newmami]

:imfoolish: Ok I am an idiot today, what other thing is Ash talking about??

Sorry about the ruined weekends............

Yesterday I woke up 6 am and I think I sat down to rest at lunch and then at 9:30 pm.... I was thinking Father's day should mean that DH MUST play FATHER and be with his kids, but apparently we are in different pages.... hey I did that on mother's day!!! :pokey:

I just came back from a looooong lunch (watch me care... are you watching?? :laugh:) A couple friend of my parents for 40 years + came to Orlando for vacation, and had some things for my kids.... it was super nice!! they are so loving and caring, we had wonderful lunch and talked a lot... who would have thought that you will enjoy lunch with your parents' friends???????? :P

[willsmama]

I know!! Isn't that funny clau? I was wondering exactly "what" other things Ash was talking about, but I assume the bedroom extra stuff...

[Momto3]

Clueless here too on the extra stuff.

Yay for a long lunch Claudia...I'm watching you!

DH and my teens are home with the babe today. DH is working tonight from 9pm to 6 am to remodel a store so he gets today off. He sent me this picture just a few minutes ago.

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f266/LMSwanson/nappingbeauty061606.jpg

[willsmama]

AWHHHH! Cute! :) I love her curly hair! :)

Someone go answer my BBQ thread in random!

[Momto3]

going...

[willsmama]

Thanks!

[newmami]

Awesome picture Lynn!!!
Ok Ash, are you going to answer or what???????

Lynn, did you already called my supervisor about my extra long lunch???

[willsmama]

Slow thread today ladies.

Thanks for replying to my BBQ! :)
I am hungry.

AGAIN!

[sarahlynn]

tis slow today tis slow :)

im staring out the window at the beautiful day..

[newmami]

I am pretending I am working....... he he he, but I am not being very successful.

[without]

I am trying not to think of Mike. Sigh...

I so need some thing to shake up my life!

[willsmama]

whats for dinner tonight ladies!?

[sarahlynn]

yeah im not into it today..

way to nice out and cy has piano tonight..BAH to that to..i hate going home and running out right away..

[willsmama]

I'll shake you Pam!

[willsmama]

Hey Sarah, how far are you from Mpls again?

[sarahlynn]

I am trying not to think of Mike. Sigh...

I so need some thing to shake up my life!

oh hey did i miss the post how did the date go????

no clue about supper my house is empty of food

[without]

Date didn't go he called it off Friday as soon as I pulled in my drive way. They changed his work schedule and had him on call. Then he kind of avoided me all weekend long. I am trying to be up beat about it all but am getting rather sick of this! I am sick of being single.

[willsmama]

(((HUGS)) Pam. I am sure he likes you...:) Maybe he feels bad. :(

[Momto3]

Crap I just typed out a whole friggin post and deleted it by accident!

Pam! You don't know that he avoided you. You are assuming that since you didn't see him. Did you see him duck behind his curtains to avoid you? No! Be positive and upbeat!

Claudia - I would never report a feloow long luncher!

[without]

Maybe so and I have not cut him out but...at the same time why does it always have to be so stink'n hard!

I have a question....
What would you all do..... i have quite a bit of vacation time saved up and i have been thinking about taking a week off in July but I don't know. I mean whats the point. i don't have the money to go any where or do any thing and all the problems I will be running away from will be right here waiting for me when I get back so would a vacation even help? What would you do? I'll go check BASIS now and see how many vacation hours I have.

[Momto3]

If you don't need to save the hours for "down the road" to go somewhere, then sure! Why not? Even if you stay home, you get extra time with Morgan and you could putter aroudn the house.

[without]

I have 4.325 weeks of vacation and 1.58 weeks of sick time.

[Momto3]

pfffft. I would so take a week off in July! In a heart beat!

[without]

I guess my only worry is I'll take the time off and come back and be just as unhappy as I am now.

[newmami]

I would take the week off, lounge around home and do nothing!! (we are doing that in July)

Pam, I am going to give you some advice because I don't want you to end up hurt, or stuck in a crappy relationship... before you decide to be with someone else permanently, PLEASE PLEASE make sure you know him 100%, and that you agree in lots of things, even if they are small and insignificant.
I honestly made the mistake of marrying someone I didn't knew that well, and now I am dealing with the consequences.......:ohno:

I want to go see my parents so bad.... their friends just told me how much it hurts my parents to be away from my little ones :cry:

[willsmama]

Take the time off Pam.

(((HUGS))) Claudia. :(

[Momto3]

Pam - If you take the time off just to have a little vacation and not think of it as fixing your unhappiness then it should be fun!

Claudia - I am so sorry you have to be away from your parents with your little ones!

[without]

Thanks Claudia but really I am not looking to get married. I just want a male friend to hang out with and get to know and then maybe some day get married. I just want to be able to go out and make friends and feel like a female! LOL

[willsmama]

:shocker:Okay, seriously, DH went out for Happy hour last week and dropped $60 freaking dollars.
SIXTY.:shocker:

[without]

Wow!!!!

[willsmama]

Thank you.
I know...I mean, I knew he was going to spend money, but he was driving home, I mean, how many drinks could he have gotten? I am kind of mad...

[newmami]

Hello???????????????? WTH?????
I don't understand why men can be so irresponsible about money... seriously!! :pokey:

I saw DH doing online research for a camera, and lemme tell you he is going to spend AT LEAST $500.... UGH!!! he doesn't even take pictures!! I told him all he likes to do is obsess about research, he should make a living shopping for rich people :wtf:

I will tell him he can spend the money we have for his airline ticket to Mexico, then I just can go by myself with the kids!!!

[willsmama]

This is after I had *just* had a convo with him about how we *Really* need to get tighter on the money front.....

[without]

Wow!! Claudia thats a good idea!!! A great way to get to go on your trip and have a good time without DH! LOL

[sarahlynn]

i dotn even want to look at what Dh spent when iwas gone thsi weekend..she said he bought a 12 pack...had 5 beers at the bar and played blackjack :(

[newmami]

See Pam??? all this crap we have to go through with our DH..... enjoy your freedom!!!

[without]

Claudia... I so understand where you are coming from but on the other hand I would go through the hell of the last 3 1/2 years of my marriage all over again to feel the love and friendship that I had with my DH again. Would I ever go back to him HELL NO! But I do long for what we had before the drugs and porn took over his brain. Freedom can be very alone some times

[newmami]

I totally understand Pam... believe me!!! it is nice to be with someone, feel loved and grow old together. I am just doing a very poor attempt to lighten it up and make you smile :hugs:

I am going to see my guy about a thing tomorrow morning

[willsmama]

(((HUGS))) to all.
I am giving LOTS of hugs away lately, but I am NOT a hugger IRL....:)

[Momto3]

Oh man I am there with you guys.

DH decided for father's day he wanted to look into a new tattoo. I don't mind the tattoo but its the $350 that its going to cost. I told him we could skip the drive to connecticut in October and I'm good with a new Tat.

Oh I forgot to tell you guys Katelyn had her 2 year check up. She is 23 pounds and 32 inches. 7% for weight and 10% for height. He said she is growing fine and just petite. She got a finger stick for lead check and one shot. Ugh! She walked aroudn all day holding her arm out saying "I got a boo boo". It was so sad but so cute at the same time!

[willsmama]

So check this out, my niece had her 2 year appt and she is also petite...Doctor suggested SKIM milk so that she wouldn't be as apt to fill up on Milk, but more on food....is that odd, or normal?

[without]

good job about trip to to the guy about a thing...

No Claudia its O.K. Some things about being single I love love love!!! I try to focus on those when I am in this kind of mood. i don't have to ask to spend money and I don't have to ok any vacation time with a man or any mini vacation I want to take with Morgan. I get Morgan all to myself and Morgan gets all of me. Just the women in me needs male companionship. Its just the way God made me. (and its what I want in life :) )

[Momto3]

So check this out, my niece had her 2 year appt and she is also petite...Doctor suggested SKIM milk so that she wouldn't be as apt to fill up on Milk, but more on food....is that odd, or normal?


I don't know Tracy. I thought they would say skim milk if they are on the heavy side and don't need the fats. But if they are petite...IDK.

[without]

Hummm.... I don't know but I do know Morgan has a bad habit of filling up on milk and not eating a lot of food! It made Potty training a mess! LOL So gald that is over! I have to say if I never have another baby (God willing I will) but if I don't then at least I will never have to potty train another child. LOL We are happy to be in big girl undies now but it took us about 2 months of training to get there.

[willsmama]

Yeah, it seemed odd to me too.

Will 'LOVES' his ba...(Sippy cup, but that is what we call it)

[newmami]

Oh Pam!!! I didn't knew Morgan was PT!!! Dani wants NOTHING to do with a potty... I may start using bribary :laugh:
About the other half... I understand.... because since I was little I wanted someone to grow old with... right now I am just very hurt to want to be with someone else!!

Sorry I don't have any input about petit kids... Chris is probably as heavy as Katelyn!!! :shocker:

I feel somewhat good after that lunch...... it was nice to talk to someone about SK without being judged.... I guess it is because those people love us as much as my parents do, and because she is a Counselor???????

[willsmama]

Probably a combo of both...

[sarahlynn]

yay for a good two year appt..she is right around the same height and weight as lulu :) small and compact.

claudi agood thing about the man about a thing :lol: im happy for you doing that..

[willsmama]

I can't stop eating...

[bel]

hi sweeties!! we had a nice calm weekened...on friday night we went to the fair I told you, it was cold and kind of rainy so I we didnt took Santi :( but it was better for him since he just got over the nasty cold he had....Ceci brought a friend to sleep over, and they spend all night chating, getting their make up, nails done, watchi8ng movies...gotta love girls :) thanks God her room is across the whole house, or we wouldnt be able to sleep :P
Saturday morning I went out with a friend a havent spoke with in months, so we chatted and went for a coffee, so nice to be able to sit and chat for an hour and update us lol...
At night I went to the Opera with my parents (Sanson and Dalila) it was an incredible acting...I loved it. Oscar stayed home with the kiddos since the sitter had her week end off (and he doesnt like Opera, so he would have stayed anyway) and took them to McD. That´s the best saturday ever in their book :lol:
After the play we went to this fancy restaurant and guess what I ordered? Of course a huge cesar salad :)
It´s so nice when you dont have to check at the bill balance :silly:
ANyway, Father´s Day was uneventful:eyebrow: I bought O a shirt and a nice pair of blue pants, he seemed like blah about it :dunno:
Then all afternoon my mom and I spent together getting ready my sister´s first communion party stuff done, she will celebrate it on June 28.

Clau sorry about DH, Pam enjoy being single for now and your precious girl too. Once the rpince is next to you, you will totally know it :winks:

Aww Saratoo Im sorry about your mom´s mouth it would have pissed me too:eyebrow: I hope Matt havent spent that much!

Hi tracy! and Lynn and and....
Ill be in Miami on Dec 6th let me know if there is a chance to meet you Florida girls:)

[willsmama]

Bel is coming to the US!
YAY!

Oh! Oh!
Hijacking...

I am going to be in Ft Myers in September, do any FL ladies live near there?!

[bel]

:hooray::hooray:Im 20lbs down!!!:celebrate::celebrate:

[sarahlynn]

YAY BEL!!! thank you for the update..i miss you so much on here :(

[Momto3]

Morning Ladies!

Bel - Miami is about 30 - 45 minutes from me! Yay! Be sure to get my number and we will arrange to meet.

Tracy - Ft. Myers is about 2 hours from me...I'm pretty sure I can swing that if its on a weekend!

[without]

Bel!!!! GREAT Job on the 20 pounds!!!! Whoot Whoot Whoot!!!

Claudia, yep Morgan is fully PT (other than nights) we have been in big girl undies for about 2 months now with no mess ups! I am so proud of her! For a little bit I was pulling out my hair it was a hard 2 weeks or so with a lot of cleaning up our "mess ups" but I guess in the skem of things 2 weeks isn't that long for PT'ing.

Why can't we have a FL meet up in AR? LOL

[newmami]

Hi Bel, 20 LB down!!! THAT IS FREAKING AWESOME!!!! :hooray:

I live like 6 hrs from Ft Myers, and 4 from Miami........

Today's session was good, told him about the fight on Sunday, and he left me thinking about lots of things (not sure if that is good or bad)... he wants to see if Dh would go see him, because he needs to see the other side of the story, to help me heal... and see if he would like to do couples counseling...... I have a lot to think if DH says no to getting help...........

My kids are sick again... ARGH!!! woke up 3 times at night because Chris was coughing and crying......:sleep:

[willsmama]

:hooray::hooray:Im 20lbs down!!!:celebrate::celebrate:

WOW! YAY! :) CONGRATS!
:)

[willsmama]

I will know more as it gets closer...:)

[lexsmama]

Morning!!!

YAY Bel! I'm SOOOOO proud of you!

I've GOT to figure out how to get to FL in December. I just HAVE to. Otherwise, I'll have to make it to Pam's house. lol.

Good luck at your guy about a thing today, Clau! I'm proud of you! :hugs:

[lexsmama]

I hope your dh tries to help both you and himself, Clau.

[without]

Claudia I agree with your guy about a thing! I think to be able to help you he is going to need some information on how your DH feels and what he is seeing through his eyes. I hope you DH is willing to do this for not just you but to save your family. Good luck!

[without]

Sarah .... how are you??? You haven't been talking much this week! Are you OK?

[newmami]

Thanks ladies for the support!! :wub:... I do agree that Dh needs some help to heal from his issues, I just hope he agrees... I think if he says no that would be enough proof that he doesn't care about working things out between us!

Sarah, where are you??? and Candice?? I miss her too

[Momto3]

Claudia - I hope your DH is willing.

Bel - Yay on the 20 lbs!

[bel]

Awww girls Ill be thrilled if I can meet you all!!:hugs:
Ashley you will make me the happiest biotch on earth if you can work it out!:hooray:

[without]

pst....I need to pee! Just thought you all might want to know.

[newmami]

Thanks for sharing Pam!!

I am starving and my lunch sounds depressing today... I have salad with strawberries and salmon with herb butter sauce...... ugh!!

[without]

I have a cold grill cheese sand. left over from last night for lunch today.

[Momto3]

You guys know the drill...grilled chicken and coleslaw...oh and an organce. Claudia yours sounds much better than mine!

[willsmama]

I had some milk, about to make an alfredo smart ones, and some animal crackers.

I just gave blood too. AND! AND! I weighed in at WW. I am down 5.2 more lbs.(i gained last week, maybe was a fluke?) and I am down 27.2 TOTAL. :)

[Momto3]

Whoa Tracy! Go you!!!!!!! Wooot Wooot!

[without]

:bow::bow::bow:Tracy!!:hooray::hooray:

[newmami]

:bow::bow::bow:Tracy!!:hooray::hooray:

Totally!!! that is awesome!!

I have a HUGE rant about work.... the accounts from the old account manager have not been reassigned to any of the current managers, supposedly because they are hiring a new manager... so there is no one to follow up on them and there is so much I can (ok want) to do... so the loans are falling through the cracks and no one cares!! and when I raise hell to get things done, no one cares...... UGH!!!
Makes me want to join the I DONT CARE bandwagon....
And of course if things don't work out, it is MY fault!!! :headbang:

So I ate my depressing lunch.... and had to hear sorry stories at the luncheon room.... seriously, how does this woman expects her DD to be on a healthy relationship, when all she has learn is from her queen of toxic relationships' mom??????? :pokey:

[without]

OHH... Claudia!! I hop you find another job soon!

[without]

http://dl3.glitter-graphics.net/pub/1174/1174853dr83b5attp.gif (http://www.glitter-graphics.com)

Just wanting to make you all smile!

[newmami]

Ouchie!!!
That was great!!

I need to pee, and drink something hot because I am freezing!!!
DH is going to an RC (remote control hobbie) meeting today, which means I get the kids to myself, and eat dinner alone... woo hoo!!!

[without]

Have fun with the kids and be sure and eat some thing for Dinner that you know your DH would never eat if he were home! LOL

[sarahlynn]

hey ladies,

woke up this morning to a pukin lucea .. well she puked once and now is crappin all over :shocker: yucky..but no fever or anything up and playing as usual just must be somthing like i had sunday with the belly..so i was home most of the morning and now nana and papa have the kids and im at work for a few hours..

how is everyone? im off to post camping pics

[newmami]

We have our appointment to sign the bankruptcy documents tomorrow..... DH is so stressed about it, I hope once it is over, he will relax.

[newmami]

Oh Sarah, I am so sorry about Lulu!! I hope she feels better soon!!

[sarahlynn]

are you stresseed about the bankrupcy stuff or kinda relived claudia? i bet it will be a big weight off your shoulders

[lexsmama]

poor Lulu! I hope she gets better real fast!

Yay Tracy!!!!

I had soup and crackers for lunch. Blech.

My computer here at work is running waaaayy to slow, so tech has come in to help. I'm on my laptop from home and on it. lol. You should see this getup.

[newmami]

Honestly sarah I am relieved... I just hope DH learned his lesson and that we don't have to sink in that hole again. I know we are not going to be able to do lots of things in the next couple years, buying a house included, but I was losing sleep thinking about paying the debt (about 90K!!!)

[Momto3]

Sarah - Sorry Lulu isn't feeling well!


Did I mention DH is working nights last night tonight and tomorrow...woooo hoooo!

[without]

sick babies make me sad! Hope she feels better soon.

[lexsmama]

I hope that it all gets worked out, Clau. I understand the debt thing. Dang, we almost did the bankrupt thing once. :hugs: We made it out somehow.

[Momto3]

I did the bankruptcy thing back in 1997. It was just removed from my credit last year. Boy did my credit score shoot up after that.

[without]

Sarah where are the camping pictures? I am missing them, where should I be looking. :)

[lexsmama]

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[lexsmama]

More...

http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f144/litlebakergrl/beachfun042.jpg

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[without]

Those pictures are great!

[lexsmama]

:)

[without]

Next time take me!!! LOL

[lexsmama]

okie dokie! :) :lol:

[newmami]

Awesome!!! those pictures are super cute Ash

[lexsmama]

:) Danke.

[bel]

awww I love all those pics Ash :) where are the camping pics saratoo? sorry about Lulu :(
Clau Im hoping I can see you too in december :)

[willsmama]

I love the pics ASH! :) Sorry I have been MIA ladies, busy afternoon. Some chick who gave blood here passed out in the bathroom!

I am anti social at work and eat at my desk because I hate listening to complainers at lunch.

I get to leave in 30 min.

I would love to file bankruptcy..

[willsmama]

Sorry about sick Lulu...Will had that a couple weeks ago. Sucks.

[lexsmama]

I can't wait to go home. We're having a serious storm, and Lex is with his Mimi. I need some sleep. lol.

[willsmama]

I have to go to WW (to the actual meeting) and pick up Will.
I am bringing him to WW with me.
Ha!

[sarahlynn]

man is it 5:00 yet............

bel i wish i could meet you somwehre but im no where on your schedule..:(

no calls from the home front so i guess lulu must be doing ok..

[willsmama]

Morning ladies! :)

[Momto3]

Morning to all!

[willsmama]

we've got a pot luck today...wish me luck in avoiding all that is bad for me. :)

[bel]

hi! I have mandarines for breakfast :)
You guys wont believe how sweet and cheap they are here...it´s their season :P like 24 for 1USD

[willsmama]

mmm.
SEND ME SOME> :)

[Momto3]

Bel - Are those what we call clementines? OMG I LOVE those! My kids eat them by the handfulls cuz they have no seeds! Yummmm.

Yesterday was my Aunt's birthday and my parents had us over for cake. It looks so good but I didn't have any! Yay!

[sja1508]

Morning! I'm on hold with the IRS and have been already for an hour! I'm trying to find out when Tara is going to get her tax stimulus check. The online chart said early June so not sure what's going on. The automated thing where you can put in your social and it will look for you cannot find her. Ugh!!!

We got mine with no problem but I was direct deposit. I want some breakfast and my coffee is cold, but I can't leave the phone. :-(

[sja1508]

Okay, all I had to do was post I guess and then the guy came right on the phone. I shoulda posted an hour ago! LOL!

Check will be mailed in 2 wks. Yea!!!!! We need that $600 for Tara's maternity leave. Since she's self employed we don't get paid while she's off work. Boo!!!

[newmami]

I hr wait???????????? :shocker::pokey: I hope at least they find the check Stacy!!

Bel, when will you be in Jacksonville?? it is a 2 hr drive for me, so no big deal, I could make it without any problems!!! if I cannot stay overnight, we can get together for lunch or something

I told DH about the Therapist and he got upset that I didn't told him before... how can I explain to him that I feel he doesn't care, so why should I tell him???? anyways, I told him the Therapist wants to talk to him, he said OK but he is not very convinced.... so I hope he can go with an open mind.... this will really prove me if he gives a darn about me or not.

I still have 2 sick little ones... just colds, but they get bad at night, specially for Chris.... ugh :ohno::truce:
Both of them woke up at 6 today, so they were playing in my room while I was getting ready, and Dani wanted Chris to go hide on the closet, so she went "come on Chris", grabbed his hand and gently pulled him to the closet and both of them were giggling.... then Chris decided no more closet, so he opened the door and ran away, with Dani running behind him saying "Come on Chris" and giggling... then Chris started giggling, and my heart just melted :wub:

[without]

ugh!!! IRS NO FUN!!!

Good Morning Ladies!!

OH and way to go at avoiding the cake!!! Whoot Whoot!!!

I really really want to go camping!!! Humm... I have always depended on a man for that kind of thing.... do you think I could go just Morgan and I? I have never put up a tent by myself!

[sja1508]

Claudia, you would be more than welcome to bring the kids and stay overnight. DH has to stay home though....LOL!!! (girls weekend only)

I'm sure we all have enough pack n plays and stuff to make this work. The only thing is I don't know how Bel is going to get to Jacksonville from Miami. I think she was hoping someone from South Fla could come and bring her? Not sure....

[without]

Awww.... Claudia!! I so wish I could have seen that! They are to cute!

[lexsmama]

Morning!

Had a long night. Lex figured out how to open his bedroom door. He was in the living room, standing there looking around. Multiple times...

[lexsmama]

Yay for staying away from the cake!!

I hope your dh gets over himself and helps both of you, Clau.

[newmami]

Eeks Ash for opening doors... can you get those thingies to secure doors so Lex cannot open them???
It is so bad to go back to waking up couple of times at night, once you are used to a whole night sleep:sleep:

Tracy, about the girl passing out... that is one of my biggest fears when it comes to donating blood :shocker:

Pam, I am sure you can go camping by yourself, just bring a cellphone and go to a safe place... oh and learn how to put up the tent before hand!!!

[lexsmama]

It's a rental, so I don't know what we can and can't add holes into, kwim? And the gates are climbable.

[lexsmama]

Oh, and I had a piece of tooth fall out... Omgsoh. I need a dentist that does sedation dentistry..

[Momto3]

Claudia - I hope your DH goes with an open mind. It does sound so cute, Dani and Chris playing. One of the biggest reasons I kick myself for the tubal...

Stacy - Hopfully we might be able to pass through on the way home in October. We have to head up to Connecticut and to get there for DH's brother's birthday we have to boogie! But on teh way home we can take our time. I'm hoping to get to see Tracy in North Carolina too.

[Momto3]

Where is Candice? Anyone heard from her?

[bel]

Claudia, you would be more than welcome to bring the kids and stay overnight. DH has to stay home though....LOL!!! (girls weekend only)

I'm sure we all have enough pack n plays and stuff to make this work. The only thing is I don't know how Bel is going to get to Jacksonville from Miami. I think she was hoping someone from South Fla could come and bring her? Not sure....
Nah, Im so used to travel alone...buses? how many hours? Snowy is coming also (do you know her?) from SC :lol: and she is bringing Ceci...
OMG A week end together would ROCK!!!

I Bel, when will you be in Jacksonville?? it is a 2 hr drive for me, so no big deal, I could make it without any problems!!! if I cannot stay overnight, we can get together for lunch or something

Nah Clau we need you and your babies a little longer. I will be in Miami by Dec 6th.

[sja1508]

Lynn, I would love to see you in October on your way back, just let me know......

Bel, it's a 5 hr drive from Miami so not sure how long a bus would take, those things are so slow......

[newmami]

Ash, they make this plastic things that cover the doorknob so kids cannot open them... BRU sells them on the baby proof aisle!!! Lex would not be able to open the doors (I cannot open doors with those darn things!!! :lol:)

Bel, once we have dates set, I will make arrangements, I promise!!... even if that means skipping a day from work.............

[bel]

yessssssssssss :dance:

[sarahlynn]

ok ladies what'd i miss?

get this my stupid sister calls me at 7:30 this morning and instantly my mind goes OMG BABY TIME ineed to call work..ill be late..and so on..
instead she says im callin to see if i still have lulu's old diaper bag..

i was like DONT DO THAT BIATCH!!!!

[willsmama]

I've seen updated pics from Candice on myspace...:)

[willsmama]

Sarah-That was mean of your sister! HA!
Claudia-That sounds SO Cute with Dani and Chris! :)
Ash-ITA-get the door knob things....althoguh, he may get frustrated and cry now that he knows he "should" be able to escape. (Now I might put one on Will's door tonight before he figures it out! )
Bel-I wish I could meet you.
Stacy-Glad you got the check situation figured out.
Lynn-HI!
Pam-HI!
Is Kelly around? If so, HI!
Candice...wherre are you....

[without]

OMGosh!!! Part of your tooth came off!!! OUCH!!!! Hurry get it fixed before any more breaks off!!!

[sarahlynn]

tooth out ouch

[CandiceLeigh]

:hi: I'm still alive! I played hooky Monday and stayed home with Chris all day. It was so nice and relaxing. :silly: I'm still in a funk with all the things going on in life. 1st DH, then Lola. It's definitely taken it's toll on me. Then DH dropped the 'D' word yesterday so I'm having to swallow that too. I really would like to just run away for a bit. Just for a little while. This Sunday, DH will have Chris all day because I'm doing up to DFW to visit my friend who just had a baby. I think I really need this!

P.S. All the surprise BFP's make me go :indifferent:...that was supposed to be me. I'm supposed to be PG right now. :conf: Now I don't even know if I'll ever have another baby.

P.P.S. I'm sorry for being such a sour puss. I hate to come in here and drag everyone down.

[Momto3]

Hey Candice! Bout time! I hope you have a splendid time in DFW!!!!!! Nevermind about the "D" word. It will all fall into place. Harder to believe, but it will. HUGS!!!!!!!!

[willsmama]

You'll be fine Candice, and that is what we're here for.

Tooth? What?

[without]

Oh, and I had a piece of tooth fall out... Omgsoh. I need a dentist that does sedation dentistry..

:shocker::shocker:

Candice :hugs:I know this is hard! I am here if you need to talk! I feel you all the way! i want another one so bad its killing me!! By now I should have been :bellyrubs:

[willsmama]

hugs ladies! :)

[Momto3]

Please bear with me...this is so sort of strange.

So last night my Dad (keep in mind he just turned 80) walks me and Katelyn out to the car and goes..."I don't want you to worry, nothing is wrong with me, but I wanted you and your sister to be aware that when I die, I want the Deacon from your church to perform my service."

Now mind you he has only met this Deacon once when he performed Katelyn's baptism. DH and I just adore Deacon Joe. Its one of the reasons we still go to that church as its a good 30 min from our house.

I just thought it was so wierd that my Dad would bring it up at this point. Gave me the willys....

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f266/LMSwanson/Christen2.jpg

[willsmama]

Super weird...like why bring it up?? odd.

[sja1508]

I'm sure he just thought about it for some reason and wanted to tell you before he forgot to in case something did happen...ya know? My Mom does that stuff all the time. She'll interrupt me to tell me something that could have waited but claims if she doesn't do it right then, she'll forget.

[Momto3]

Yeah I guess. Oh and he goes "Be sure to give him about a hundred and a half, cash."

[CandiceLeigh]

Thanks for the support girls. :wub: I can always count on y'all.

Lynn, my mom used to do that all the time. It must be important to him and I'm sure you won't forget now, right?:hugs:Silly parents.

[sja1508]

So Candice? When are you going to hop on a plane with Chris and come see us???? We could take the kids to Disney or Seaworld. You know you want to come visit us......I did come to Texas afterall........

[CandiceLeigh]

OMG Stacy, you have no idea! I would LOVE to come visit y'all! Who's house can I stay at? :P I flipping love the Sea World here and I would love to go to the one there too. Plus Disney World? Who doesn't want to go there? Seriously though, I could come next spring after taxes! Maybe I will start planning it...that makes me happy just thinking about it. Chris would be 3 by then...hmmmm, seems very doable. Plus, since I'm single now I'll get like $3000 back on my tax refund! Dang, now I really want to come. :silly: Are you close to all the touristy stuff?

[sja1508]

You know you could stay with Tara and I silly. We have plenty of room. We are 2 hrs from Orlando (disney and seaworld). We could easily leave in the morning and go for the day or stay the weekend down there. Also, Claudia is there so we could kidnap her and the kids away from DH...LOL!!!

[lexsmama]

Oh, I wanna go, too Stacy!

Yep, part of my tooth fell out. I have this awful, horrible, irrational fear of the dentist. I was about throwing up and in hysterics when it fell out. I'm such a sad grown-up. :lol:

You girls talk sooo much!

Candice :hugs: Love you bunches!

[sja1508]

You are sad, but we love you anyway...LOL!!!!! Now suck it up and go the the dentist Woman!!!

[newmami]

Aww Candice, please don't feel bad coming here with your problems, like we said before, that is what friends are for sweetie :hugs:. We are here for you in the goods and the bads!!

And heck yeah!! come to Florida to visit us!!

Ash, sorry abou the tooth... ouchie!! and I hear you on the fear of a dentist... I just cannot get over that one either :shame:

Hugs Lynn... I am sure your dad is just being realistic about certain things, and he communicates them to you as they pop in his head... I am sure it means nothing, just his way to deal with things!!!

They are having a baby shower today at work (after hours) and I am the party pooper who is not staying..... besides me wanting to be with my babies today, my heart breaks a little bit when I think about new babies

[CandiceLeigh]

I am going to look into it Stacy...

OMG Ashley, :shock: your tooth fell out? Gives me the chills thinking about it! I hate the dentist as well, have not been in years.

[Momto3]

my heart breaks a little bit when I think about new babies

I'm right there with you Claudia...:crying:

[willsmama]

I am always the antisocial one.

My DH has a cold now too..so does Will.
So he's picking Will up from DC and I am going to go running after work.

We had a potluck so I NEED to run.

[bel]

Yeah I guess. Oh and he goes "Be sure to give him about a hundred and a half, cash."
LOL This made me smile. Sorry Lynn, Im sure he had it in mind and forgot to tell you before.

I'm right there with you Claudia...:crying:
me too :(

Candice dont feel that way sweetie! you are young and pretty! Im sure you will have another soon :)

You guys I have tons to do, who wanna work for me :chinscratch:

[willsmama]

Sllllowwww today.

[lexsmama]

No sucking it up. I'm a weenie. :lol:

[Momto3]

Did you just call me slow? :pokey:

[lexsmama]

I got to come home. Oh, and I did a typing test in HR this afternoon, and applied fro 4 jobs on campus. Drastic measures, girls. Drastic measures.

[Momto3]

You should get something out of 4 apps.

Why are you switching again? I forgot.

[sarahlynn]

hey ladies....45 mintues to go :)

any big weekend plans??

[lexsmama]

I have nearly been fired from jealous women and people questioned my professionalism. Plus, I just can't stand it. So, I change, right?

Hope you girls have a great evening.

[willsmama]

Morning ladies. I have a meeting until 1 CST today, in case you wonder where I am, and I am off tomorrow to prep for Will's baptism. I should be able to pop on later, but if not, Love you all and have a FANTASTIC weekend! :) :)

[Momto3]

Morning ladies!

So this is kinda cute/kinda annoying...

DH has been working nights this week (as in 9pm to 7am) as they are remodeling a payless store. So we have really been like ships passing in the "morning". (Its actually been heavenly) He sends me a text at 6:40ish "I'm right around the corner" so I don't leave...I see him, kiss him and I am out the door by 7.

So I find out today that next week, Monday through Friday he is going to be in Fort Myers for 2 days doing the same thing and then Tampa.

So he sends me a text..."I don't mean to put pressure on you but this weekend I would like to have sex all weekend and spend some quality time with you since I won't be home next week."

I thought it was kinda funny...

[without]

Good luck on the Job! And your right its not good to stay if your not happy!

Lynn... OMGosh! Your DH is so funny. Isn't that a male to think quality time has to have sex attached some where! LOL

Tracy... EEEKKK a meeting until 1!!! Don't fall asleep!!

Good morning all!!! :)

[Momto3]

Oh and I forgot to tell you...Katelyn had her first dentis appt yesterday. I thought she was going to do ok, she was sitting on my lap and I told her the dentist would look in her mouth and had her say "aaaa" and she says "Sure" when I ask her if that is ok. So everything was good until the dentist (a lady, wearing Dora scrubs) goes to touch her to look in her mouth. She starts crying.

I had to wrap my arms around her and my legs around her legs and she was crying but the dentist got to look in her mouth and said everything looks good. They didn't do x-rays but she did polish them (like they do to us) and told me since her teeth are close together she needs detailed flossing and she did let the dentist floss her teeth.

Made an appt for another 6 months. So hopfully she will understand better in 6 months!

[Momto3]

I killed the thread...:hooray:

[without]

OH my gosh!! I so dread taking Morgan to have this done!!! Eekkk! I hate the dentist any way! Morgans a pretty good flosser by the mint floss and i bet K will be good at it too. ;) Good luck with that!


Whats up ladies!!! We have been way slowing down in here! Are we puttering out?

[Momto3]

Not me...I'd never putter out. Maybe they are "working" ::shutters at the thought::

[without]

Oh that made me feel sick to my tummy please don't use the "W" word! LOL

[sarahlynn]

Lynn that is cute of your DH :)

~~~

wanna hear how cute my DH is? last night we had nasty storms so we talked on the phone a few timse (he was at work) and before we hung up he says "K CALL ME IF YOU DIE" and click hung up.. i was like ummm k bye love you to :lol: sick sense of humor i tell ya..

[without]

:laugh::laugh:Call me if you die!:laugh::laugh: Sounds like some thing I would say to my sister!

They need a smile like this one :pokey: where you are poking yourself in the eye!:shocker: because I can't decide when to take my vacation!:eyebrow:

[without]

:cry::cry::cry:Where did my frems go?:conf:


Claudia!!!! Sarah!!!! Stacy!!!!!Lynn!!!! Ashley!!!!!! Bel!!!!Tracy! AND Candice!!!! :buddies:

[Momto3]

I'm here, I'm here...dang boss called...pfffft

[CandiceLeigh]

Hey everyone!! :silly:

Lynn, sounds like Katelyn did fairly good at the dentist. What a big girl! :laugh: to your DH. What a goober!

Sarah, call me too if you die. I will want to know. :rolly:

Pam, what are you going to do on vacation? Go somewhere or just hang out with Morgan?

You will guys will never believe what happened last night with Chris. (Big Chris) :crossed: He came over around 8:15 and I didn't even think he was coming over so I was semi surprised to see him. He walks in with a beer in one hand and an empty water bottle in the other hand, which he was using to spit his dip in to. :yuk: So nasty, he has never dipped until now. I just kinda :eyeroll: at him, but didn't really say anything about it. Not 5 mins after he got there he was hugging all on me, so I said, "did you miss me or what?" And he said, "why would you say that?" "Well, cause you never hug on me." Then he grabbed my boob. :wtf: "Oh, you're horny. Not happening, go away." So, he got up and was asking where my camera was. It was then that I noticed he seemed a little drunk or maybe even high? He's got pain meds for his wisdom teeth (he's got a lot of pain from them and he's supposed to get them pulled) so I assumed he may have just taken too many pills and then on top of that he was drinking...grrr. I got my camera out and he wanted me to take some pics of his motor so I did, then we came back inside and he sat down on the couch. I told him to go sit in the chair, he always sits in the chair, but he wouldn't budge so I just sat beside him.

He had his arm resting on the couch and I noticed these weird marks on the inside of his arms near his inbow (you know like elbow but the inside) and I asked him what it was from. He just shrugged so I jokingly said, "oh, have you been shooting up," to which he replied, "yes." :shocker: I asked him again and he just shrugged his shoulder and wouldn't say anything more about it. I told him I didn't think it was funny to joke about that stuff and if he was doing it then I would tell his parents and his brothers. He just said to tell whoever I wanted because he doesn't hardly see them anymore and they won't believe me anyway. Which BTW, I know they would believe me if I was genuinely concerned about him and asked them for help or to talk to him. I went in the bedroom and text messaged his older brother and relayed our convo we had just had and asked him to talk to Chris this weekend if he sees him. He told me that Chris was just being dumb and the marks were from when he was working on his car and he hurt himself. That makes sense, so I believed him. Then he said no problem, Chris has been a jerk lately. Apparently I am not the only one who has noticed.

I went back and sat on the couch and again he was all over me trying to kiss me and grabbing on me. I told him no and tried to get up and he was pulling me back down. :po: BTW, he would never force me to do anything like have sex if I didn't want to, but it was irritating me that he wouldn't quit grabbing on me. I kind of yelled at him to stop and got up real fast, so he got pissed and said he was leaving. I was just fine with that because I couldn't believe what a hot mess he was! :rant:He was acting so ignorant and I just kept thinking that he's falling apart, maybe it's finally hit him what he has done to our family.

Well then he couldn't find his keys! He thought I had them which I certainly did not! So he starts pulling up the couch cushions and knocks everything off the couch (my catch all, has mail and Chris' school stuff on it) so now there's sh!t all over my floor! :wtf: I made him pick it all up and he just threw it back on the couch. He never found the dang keys so he said he was just going to leave his car and walk home, where ever that is. I just let him go because I did not want him at the house anymore. He was acting so ignorant, I really couldn't believe it. Before he left I told him if he ever came to the house acting like that again, that I wouldn't let him come over anymore. :ohno: The worst is, now I'm worried about him and I wonder who he's staying with and what kind of person that guy is. KWIM? For all I know he could be doing drugs or something crazy. He's very susceptible to drugs and I would never allow it so of course he couldn't pull that sh!t when he was living with me, but now? :dunno:

I really hope last night was a one time occurrence. Sorry for the novel.

[Momto3]

Candice - Wow! Listen up...I AM SO FRIGGIN PROUD OF YOU FOR STANDING YOUR GROUND AND NOT GIVING IN TO HIM!!! I know how hard it must have been but you did awesome! And if he is falling apart and running/living with the wrong crowd it is NOT your job to fix him. No one can change him but him!

Look at what he has turned into when he is left to be responsible for himself! Do you really want that for a DH? NO! You want someone who treats you and Chris with respect and that loves you and treats you with love and caring and who is your equal but who you can also rely on!

P.S. I hope Chris didn't see him like that!

[without]

OMGosh candice!!! Becareful sweetie!!! He is starting to sound a lot like Grant!

[sarahlynn]

WOW candice..i think its great you stood your ground..he cannot expect to come over in that shape and get anything anything anything from you of any sorts..ugh men...grrrrrr..i would keep an eye on him and his behavior when he is over..sound sketchy to me and unstable..

[CandiceLeigh]

Actually, Chris was there. :( I didn't even think about it until this morning but he woke up twice last night which is not like him at all, and I thought maybe he picked up on something and it was bothering him last night. I hope I'm just reading into it too much though.

I'm not worried about DH hurting me physically or trying to rape me or something awful like that. I can handle him, seriously. Plus, I have so much family surrounding me. Literally, my aunt is right next door, and my very big brother and dad are across the street. He's not that dumb. And if he ever comes over and he's wasted, I will make him leave. I will not have Chris being exposed to that kind of behavior. :crossed:

[without]

I am proud of you Candice!!! Way to go!!! MY EX DH stayed so high on DEX the last year we were married he didn't know who I was and I am ashamed to say I let him be around Morgan for the first 6 months of her life. Way to go for standing your ground!

[bel]

I didnt go home for lunch, now Im kind of regreting it...

How are you guys!

WTG Candice. Keep strong!

Pam, you should be proud of your self!!! you did awesome to keep Morgan safe after that, dont beat your self.

Saratoo! Call me if you dye, preferently after 8am :lol:

[Momto3]

I hope I didn't sound too harsh Candice...you know I love you and only want the best for you and Chris.

[without]

Hi Bel!!! Miss you!!

Girls I hope Chris is OK I haven't seen Claudia all day and yesterday she said he was getting a bad cold. :(

[CandiceLeigh]

I hope I didn't sound too harsh Candice...you know I love you and only want the best for you and Chris.

:pokey: You have never been too harsh Lynn! You just tell me like it is, and I do appreciate that! You're just like my best friend at work. :silly:

I was thinking Claudia must be at home too since she hasn't been on all day. Hope Chris is ok!

[without]

Danc'n Danc'n Yah....watch me now .. watch me now... As I leaver work early to go home to play with my baby!! Whoot

[CandiceLeigh]

Chris just called and asked if I found his keys. Umm, no! I'm not looking for them. He said he'd be by later to look for them and visit Chris. I told him don't bother coming by if you're drunk or high and he said it wouldn't happen again.

Lucky Pam!

Where is everyone?!?!

Tracy, it's after 1:00! I know cause we're in the same time zone!

Sarah, don't abandon us for the Secular room! :(

[without]

WHAT SARAH is leaving us???? Come back!!!! Sniff Sniff

[Momto3]

Keep a close eye on him Candice!

I can't believe you are leaving early Pam -...cheater!

Who said Sarah is leaving us? Huh? What? Where am i?

[willsmama]

I'm back!

Candice....That is SO scary. I would tell Big Chris that he isn't allowed in the house or to see his son when he is under the influence. You have to watch out for you and little chris first and foremost. ((HUGS)))

I am here. But only til' 4! Did I miss it? Where's Claudia?

[Momto3]

I think Claudia and Ashley are MIA today.

[sarahlynn]

you nuts sarah wouldnt leave you :)

ive been having headaches lately and i am linking them to starin at the computer alllll frickin day at work..so im trying to rest my eyes more and stare out the window lol..its hard to post when i not lookin at the computer..lord knows what i would post and wehre..

i was really hopin my boss would let me go early today but looks liek a no go..she is all ready to go workout and im stuck ehre

[bel]

i stayed while lunch time to leave early...seems it wont happen :crossed:

[sarahlynn]

boss just said to close up shop around 4:30 YIPEEEEEEEEEE!

its nice and warm out here so i think we will go home and fill up the pool :)

so anyone else have a Dh or SO with divorced parents? Dh's mom divorced around 6 years ago and now is remarried and it seems that everything that comes out of DH;s mouth about her new husband is so negative ya know..he seems like a good guy to me..but i can see why DH would have some neg feelings.i mean its not his DAD ya know..

so story: Dh's brother borrowed his dads/grandparents boat and left it parked at DH;s moms (and new husbands) house..well after so long takes it back to his dads house..turns out there are two nail holes in the bottom of it..wel now dh is all up in arms how how could they do this, that is so awful, could have killed someone, and on and on..im like HONEY you dont know who did it, if it was on purpose, or anything about the situation..you can not just jump to conclusions that your step dad did this vindicitivly to hurt your dad ya know..but he just wont back down..and im going ok if you feel that strongly about it call your mom adn tell her your concerned..but he wont..so who knows..im just like HONEy were in ND they are in IA..we have no clue how the nails go tehre..maybe yoru brother shouldnt have left your dads boat at your moms house he know sthey loath each other..ugh..

[lexsmama]

Been out getting a deep freeze and 80 freakin' pounds of chicken from the Tyson store. I don't know what we were thinking. Yeah I do. 20 lbs of thighs for $5 was what we though. :shocker:

I AM SOOOO PROUD of you , Candice!!!

[willsmama]

Good night ladies. Checking this super late. Need to go to SLEEEEP. Won't be on til' MOnday. Will gets bapitized this weekend! YAY!
Hugs!
:)
Me.

[Momto3]

Morning Ladies!

Happy Friday!!!!!

Sarah - I understand both you and your DH's point of view. My DH's parents are divorced but his Mom passed away so we don't have those issues.

[without]

Good morning all!!

Sarah... humm... I would be bad to do what your DH did but... at the same time you are the one who is "right" he doesn't know what really took place and the real fault is in his brothers hands for even leaving the boat there!

Claudia!!! Come back girl I am worried about my little Chris!!

[lexsmama]

Morning.

Happy Friday!!!

We look at a new little rental at 11:15 today. I'm nervous as all get out. There are 3 others looking at it, too... Eek!

I can see how both of you feel on this one, Sarah. I've never had divorced parents, but I have had friends that did, and saw how it affected them.

How early can pms start in on a person??

[without]

How early can PMS start in on a person?

Humm... My sisters never leaves!! She has PMS 24/7.

Good luck with looking at the rental!

[lexsmama]

hehe.. I was just wondering if my pains and girls could be pms??

[without]

there is maybe one week if that out of the month that my sister DOESN'T have cramps and sore (.)(.)'s! I fee so sorry for her! She started Yaz and it helped a little but its still pretty bad.

[newmami]

Hey ladies!! I had to stay home yesterday, Chris had a crappy night and had a fever in the morning. Day was Ok, I took Dani to the mall to the play area, and she had a blast... Chris fell asleep... poor thing has a horrible cough and he is super congested. I dropped them at daycare today, hope they are doing well, as Dani is getting sick too :ohno:

And of course now I am trying to catch up at work... ugh!! :eyeroll:

Candice, I am so proud of you sweetie!!! good for standing up and not letting Chris step all over you!!! :hooray:

Ash, good luck with the house hunting!! hope you find the perfect place for your family

Divorced IL... not here but DH's mom passed away about 15 years ago, and his dad got married again... Dh doesn't care for the stepmom or her family (they are horrid!!!, bunch of losers)

Tracy, you owe us pictures of the baptizm!!!

Pamela Sue, you darn woman made me cry yesterday!!!! I am going to make this public ok???
I ordered couple of initial shirts from HeatherJ, she told me she was working on those, so Ok I was expecting them to be shipped next week... I got a package yesterday, opened it and it had the shirts.... I told DH "oh, I have to go send her the payment for the shirts now".... then I read her card, stating that miss Pam ordered them for my kids, and she paid for them....... I am speechless Pam, I am getting all teary eyed just typing this.... THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! :wub:

[without]

Your welcome!!! I had your order in almost a week before you put one in so I told I would just pay for yours but not to tell you. LOL Don't you just love those shirts!!! I think they are so cute! You'll have to take pictures of the kido's in them so I can see what they look like! Morgan has a turkey shirt, 2 "M" shirts, and a butterfly shirt thats on the way all made my Heather J. I am looking for a plan dog shirt so she can make one for Hoss our winney dog too! LOL

[Momto3]

Awww you guys are so sweet!

[Bells614]

Hi Girls! I've been MIA all week. Between school and family issues, I just couldn't get on long enough to keep up.

What did I miss???

I started a 2 week class....playing with fire, trying to keep baby in and fitting in a 2 week graduate level class YIKES! But, I'm half way done now.

I feel something going on with my body....feels like either I got kicked super hard in the hooha or had sex for the first time in months. Neither of which happened, so I'm thinking stuff is starting to happen down there. But, I have not had contractions for almost 2 weeks. I see the OB on Monday and HOPEFULLY, baby boy will just stay in until next Thursday afternoon....when class is over!!

We are down to 3 names, Brandon, Nathan and a new one, Gavin. We have to get this decision made!!! Any thoughts on Gavin????

And Candice, you are such a strong woman! Stand your ground!!!

[lexsmama]

Aaaaw! :wub: I'm gong to cry over here, too! Dang you girls! lol.

Dh said if the rentals don't do it for us, maybe once we pay everything off in a couple of months, we can just go see what kind of loan we can get from the bank, and maybe even buy a house!

[lexsmama]

I like Brandon, then Gavin, then Nathan. But that's my two cents. lol.

[newmami]

I am with Ash... Brandon, Gavin, Nathan

[sarahlynn]

AWW Pam your such a sweetie...Claudia we need pictures ASAP!



YAY for possibly buying a house..that is exciting ..i hope your able to find something for your family


Candice how ya been any news form Chris after the other night?

[without]

I love the name Brandon!!! I had a boy in my class when I was teaching named Gavin..and it left a bad taste in my mouth. LOL But it is a cute name.

Whaooo!! I hope you all can buy a house! I don't feel as if I am wasting so much money when I am buying as when I am renting.

[without]

Yea... did he ever find his Keys???

[lexsmama]

Oohh, I was wondering the same thing! Did he ever find them??

I'm just scared that we won't be able to get the house we would like due to lower credit scores than before, when we had the first house...

[without]

Well... you could always build up to the home you like. The first home I bought wasn't the greatest but it was OK and then the 2nd home I bought was better than that one but not the one I want to be in forever. I hope in 10 years to be able to sell this one and move into that "forever" home.

[lexsmama]

Good point. You win. :)

[Heather J]

I really need to get on this thread more. It looks like you ladies have so much fun here.



Pamela Sue, you darn woman made me cry yesterday!!!! I am going to make this public ok???
I ordered couple of initial shirts from HeatherJ, she told me she was working on those, so Ok I was expecting them to be shipped next week... I got a package yesterday, opened it and it had the shirts.... I told DH "oh, I have to go send her the payment for the shirts now".... then I read her card, stating that miss Pam ordered them for my kids, and she paid for them....... I am speechless Pam, I am getting all teary eyed just typing this.... THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! :wub:

Claudia, I felt so bad telling you that little white lie in the PM! But I had to so you could be surprised. :) I'm so glad you like them.

I hope Chris feels better soon!

Good luck looking at the rental Ashley. That's so exciting!

[newmami]

Hi Heather!! you are always welcome here!!
The shirts are adorable, even DH made a comment about how cool they are!!
I will take pictures once Chris is feeling better (he has a horrible puppy face) and share here!!

[without]

Ashley!! I am so sorry if you felt like I was being pushy! I wasn't really trying to prove a point. Sorry about that! I was just sharing what I am in the process of doing. Also since I have never been in a huge hurry to find a house I can we fairly picky on price. For example my first home was on 1 1/2 AC and had 2 baths and 3 bed rooms a small dining area Kitchen, living room and garage. I got it for 40,000 once you counted in closing cost. Person who had lived there (one owner house) had died the kids who she left it to just wanted to get ride of it and make a little money off of it. House now books for 95,000 but I sold it about 12 years ago. The house I am in now... well.. the lady got ill and needed to move to another state to live with her son so she just needed some one to buy her house fast so she knocked the price down to 50,000 its biger than the last house and a little newer. As long as you are willing to wait for old people to get sick or die you can find a deal!:shocker::batman:

[bel]

hey girls!! happy friday!!:wub:
It´s grey and windy today here :indifferent:
Im gaving so much fun preparing ceci´s first communion chocolate stuff. lil boxes, bags, invitations, Ill take a pic and show off :P
Then as you know Im the Class Mother so I get to prepare and organize a party for the whole class on friday aug 8th (220 people:shock:) I already rented the place (an old house, amazing) and we will have pasta, wine and a DJ :gome: this is after a celebration with their God fathers, so the day of the first com it self everyone can go home and ceclebrate with their family.
I told the other mom´s Ill be in charge of the chocolate table, and then Ill do some of the stuff Im doing for her won to show off there...and I can take orders of the other moms that want them for their home celebration and make those for them also...that will help me A LOT with all the party payments we will have to make :dance: Im so smart :silly: LOL

[without]

Bel... your a bizzzzey little bee!

[Momto3]

Wow you guys can chat!

Candice - Whats the scoop?

Kelly - I for one love the name Gavin!

[lexsmama]

Ashley!! I am so sorry if you felt like I was being pushy! I wasn't really trying to prove a point. Sorry about that! I was just sharing what I am in the process of doing. Also since I have never been in a huge hurry to find a house I can we fairly picky on price. For example my first home was on 1 1/2 AC and had 2 baths and 3 bed rooms a small dining area Kitchen, living room and garage. I got it for 40,000 once you counted in closing cost. Person who had lived there (one owner house) had died the kids who she left it to just wanted to get ride of it and make a little money off of it. House now books for 95,000 but I sold it about 12 years ago. The house I am in now... well.. the lady got ill and needed to move to another state to live with her son so she just needed some one to buy her house fast so she knocked the price down to 50,000 its biger than the last house and a little newer. As long as you are willing to wait for old people to get sick or die you can find a deal!:shocker::batman:

Oh no, no, no! I wasn't thinking ANYTHING bad! Not AT ALL! I'm sorry. I was just saying that you made a good point. I'm hoping that we can at least get into a nice neighborhood. I'll take pics of the rental this afternoon. I hope it's not taken...

[lexsmama]

YAY Bel!!! WTG! You're such an entrepreneur...

[Heather J]

Way to go Bel! And how fabulous do you look!? Congrats on the weight loss!

[lexsmama]

Oh, forgot to say... Nice to see you around here, Heather!!!

Lex wore his shirt yesterday. He loved it, and so did his little cousins. They wanted one sooo bad~ RIGHT then.

[lexsmama]

I'm off to look! Took the 2nd half of the day off, will be online at home. Hugs and kisses!

[Momto3]

Good Luck Ashley!

[without]

I am so bored and wish I could go home! I want a cheese burger or some thing real to eat but I am not hungry! I had a donut for breakfast so now I crave some thing to take the sweet out of my mouth. Grrr...

[newmami]

Pam, I will go pick you up and we will have an unhealthy lunch...... I wish!! :(

[sarahlynn]

only 30 mintues to go ladies!!!!!!!!

[CandiceLeigh]

Ok, so I read everything but I cannot guarantee that I will remember to respond to everything. :P Let me try...

Sarah, I have no experience with divorced parents. I guess my own will be my 1st experience. That sucks about the holes there, hopefully it wasn't the step dad that did it.

Ashley, how exciting about the house! :hooray: Can't wait to see pictures of it. I hope you like it and are able to get it.

Claudia, sorry about Chris and now Dani. I hope they both get well soon and you don't catch it too! :ohno: I can't wait to see them in their shirts! I ordered one a week ago and I am dying to see it!!

Pam, you are such a sweetie! I would love to get a surprise package! Still waiting on the random swap to come my way.

Kelly, :hi: how are you? I personally like Nathan. That was on my list of possible boy names. :silly:

:hi: Lynn!

Bel, you are super busy it sounds like! Can't wait to see pics!

Heather, :hi: and welcome!

As for me, the 1st thing out of Chris' mouth when he walked in the door was, "I'm really sorry about last night." I gave him a hard time about it and told him that he was acting like a dumb f*uck (yes, my exact words :shame: ) the other night and I will absolutely NOT allow him to come around me or Chris again if it ever happens again. He said he understood and that it wouldn't happen again. As for his keys? They were right on TOP of the couch, just pushed under the couch pillow a little. It was obvious he had tucked them in there and just forgotten. I was like this to him. :pokey: Do you see how f*ucked up you were last night?!?! He didn't even remember half the stuff we had talked about and he walked to his parents house (which is 10 mins away driving) and didn't even remember how he got there. :shocker: After we talked about that, he took Chris to visit his mom and I went to dinner with my brother. It was nice to have a few hours to myself. Then I went to Target and got Chris this really cool pool. He saw the box and wanted to open it immediately. :laugh:

BUT when I got back, they were at the house already and when Chris saw me walk in with all my bags he said, "God, how much did you spend?" I told him it was none of his business and then he said, "and how much am I supposed to give you for bills this week?" :eyeroll: I told him ($224) and he said he needed to see the bills. :wtf: As if I'm trying to get more $$ out of him than I really need. I showed them to him and reamed him a new one for giving me a hard time. For him to imply that I'm taking the $$ he gives me for bills and spending it on anything other than bills is ridiculous! And it pissed me off. For the record, he's still paying 1/2 of all bills and pays daycare in full every other week. After we got done arguing about the bills he comes over to me to give me a hug :wtf: and when I didn't hug him back he's all, "we can still be friends Candice," and I told him yeah we could, but that he was making it really hard to want to be his friend. And yes, he did try to have sex with me again but I turned him down again. It's getting easier the more of a jerk he's being. I couldn't believe he thought I was going to sleep with him after he gave me sh!t about the bills. Idiot. :crossed:

[Bells614]

WOW Candice. I'm sorry he is being such an a$$. You are so strong, keep it up!

If I could ever pick a name for this little boy, I'd be order some shirts from heather, but....well you all see where we are. I'm really stuck on all three, as there are qualities in all three that I like.

[newmami]

Ugh Candice, what is up with Big Chris??? he seems confused about his decision... but what a horrible way to show it
You are doing wonderful staying so strong!!

[Momto3]

Yay Candice! Stay strong woman! You are woman hear you ROAR!

[without]

Way to go Candice!!! Stay strong girl!

[without]

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[lexsmama]

You go Candice! You're such a strong woman!

The house was adorable, but the lady was awful. We declined. So, we pay off dr bills and go get a loan. Hopefully before the year's end. Heck, maybe before my bday! :lol:

I'd take you to lunch, Pam. Dang distance...

And that pic was disturbing.

[CandiceLeigh]

Thanks girls, I need to hear that 'cause I don't feel so strong lately!

Pam, what the heck? Crazy!

Ashley, that sucks about the house. Onward! :)