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sja1508
06-09-2008, 10:53 AM
Wow, you all were so busy this weekend!
Sarah, I say go and pay it off after taxes. It is a once in a lifetime experience and the kids would love it. I'd tell Matt though, that if you do that, then you can't afford to go to Iowa and he has to convince his family to come to you. You can't have it both ways ya know?
Pam, Yea for Mike time!!! Keep at it!!!
Lynn, so sorry for teen drama. I'm so not looking forward to that crap. I think you handled it like a pro. Tell Shelly she better shape up or I'm gonna come down there.
Ash, so sorry about Lex baby. Hope he feels better soon!
Bel, stop working!
Claudia, big hugs for dealing with butthead DH!!
Okay, here's my weekend. Go down to St Pete to see Tara's Mom because we told her as a mother's day present we'd paint her family room. Needless to say, I wasn't going to let Tara around any paint fumes so I ended up doing the whole room myself. 7 hours later it was done and did look awesome! I'm just sore and could use a mega massage. LOL! Okay, after that we came home on Sunday and I had 2 labs to do for Anatomy for I had to buy some chicken drumsticks and wings and dissect them and take pictures with the digital camera. Ugh!!! Nothing like dissecting chicken and having to write a lab report about it. Guess we'll be grilling out chicken tonight for dinner with the leftover....LOL!!!!!!
sarahlynn
06-09-2008, 10:56 AM
Sarah, I say go and pay it off after taxes. It is a once in a lifetime experience and the kids would love it. I'd tell Matt though, that if you do that, then you can't afford to go to Iowa and he has to convince his family to come to you. You can't have it both ways ya know?
!!!!!
and thats what i am hesitant about..i feel like once we get back i'll hear again how long its been since we havent been to iowa and than what ya know..and im kinda pissed ill admitt that he has been giving me a hard time about not gettin to iowa and im like mATT we have not money! ugh i know its gonna coem to an argument ya know..in reality none of us should go, were trying to get ahead and out of debt and this will only set us back..but i know he wont take that well if i tell him that
and yeah i want to go i mean honestly i love the place but i think logically :)
EEEEEEEEEEEW stacy on the chicken..you were so nice for painting..way to go mama
and yeah lulu is the poster child for why moms shouldnt paint :lol:
without
06-09-2008, 10:57 AM
Ugh! 7 hours of painting! I would have given up. LOL
sja1508
06-09-2008, 11:01 AM
LOL!! As hard as it is on the joints and my old bones, it was actually relaxing. Tara and her Mom watched Zack all day so I had peace and quiet and just got to listen to the radio and have alone time. I'll take it anyway I can get it...LOL!!
without
06-09-2008, 11:01 AM
OH, Sarah! I feel you! I want to take my parents to Alaska so bad! I know I could put the trip on a credit card and then pay it off little by little but I just can't do it! I mean after the trip was over the debit would eat at me and I would be kicking myself wondering why I just didn't wait. But I only have me to consider and you have to weigh in Matt to so I feel for you. Do you think if he gave up all his store junk food and little spending here and there you guys would have a pretty nice chunk of change to put in on it.
Momto3
06-09-2008, 11:10 AM
Ashley - Get the grill.
Sarah - Go to Jamaica and pay off with the taxes!
without
06-09-2008, 11:15 AM
My SIL said I should stop waiting for Mike to ask for my phone number and should just ask him over for dinner one night and send Morgan away. What do you think? I think I would feel a little strange doing this considering we have never talked on the phone or been on a date. But at the same time we talk almost every day so why does the phone thing seem so important to me?
sarahlynn
06-09-2008, 11:16 AM
Do you think if he gave up all his store junk food and little spending here and there you guys would have a pretty nice chunk of change to put in on it.
man i wish..i could bring that up to him i mean that would be $200 a month for the next 7 months thats a lot of $$ over $1400
Momto3
06-09-2008, 11:20 AM
Pam - Ask him! You never know until you try. Stop waiting for life to happen and MAKE it happen. Be in control of your own destiny!
I forgot to tell you the great thing about Shelly coming in late Friday night...Since DH and I were awake we had great middle of the night sex!
newmami
06-09-2008, 11:23 AM
Sarah, show Matt the numbers, black and white. Some me don't understand until you show them the true spending... I did that with DH when he started overspending with his stupid hobby, and he went WOW, I didn't realized it was that much :rant::duh:
Pam, go ahead and invite him to your house, but if it was me, I would do a parent & child dinner first.... so Austin and Morgan would be there... if that goes ok, I would do the adult only dinner
Lynn, YAY for good sex!!
I cannot remember the last time I had that........ :shocker:
without
06-09-2008, 11:24 AM
GREAT way to look at it Lynn! I guess I am just trying to hard to fallow all the guidlines my mom made up for me about good girls are not bold and forward and talk to the guy first ya know.
Wahoo!!! for middle of the night sex! I love that!
without
06-09-2008, 11:27 AM
Sarah its worth a try! i would just tell Matt... I think I have found a way we might be able to go. Then show him if we cut back your junk food spending and my ____ spending (some thing any thing just so he doesn't feel this is an attack on him) we might be able to swing it. Just see what he says.
Claudia I would do a kids too thing except Austin doesn't like his dad to be around or talk to any one but him and he is a brat about it.
Momto3
06-09-2008, 11:27 AM
Wahoo!!! for middle of the night sex! I love that!
It was so good DH almost thanked Shelly for coming in late and getting in trouble! hehehe
Pam - I know what you mean. I was always brought up that the guys make the first move. But times are changing !
without
06-09-2008, 12:46 PM
Yep...Its raining her so I won't be going out for a walk I think this may be the perfect day for me to just pick up the phone and call him. I have his number out of the phone book. But I have no idea what I am going to say. LOL
newmami
06-09-2008, 12:53 PM
CALL HIM PAM!!!!
Can I go home?? I am having such a non productive day today........
sja1508
06-09-2008, 12:54 PM
How about....."Hey Mike, it's Pam. How about coming over for some hot sex....um, I mean dinner"?
Ummmm....did I say that outloud?!! LOL!!!
Momto3
06-09-2008, 01:28 PM
How about....."Hey Mike, it's Pam. How about coming over for some hot sex....um, I mean dinner"?
Ummmm....did I say that outloud?!! LOL!!!
Hehe! Now watch her screw up and actually say that! Bahahahahaha:hooray:
newmami
06-09-2008, 01:36 PM
:sofunny: Love it Stacy!!!
I am going to stop putting this on the back burner and I am going to see a guy about a thing... I found one that sounds promising, I just need to make sure he will take my insurance (according to his website, he does, according to the information from BCBS, they don't) :pokey:
without
06-09-2008, 01:36 PM
lol that would be just like me to be a little to honest. Though I would love to call him I am sure I wont. I keep waiting and hating every minute of it.
sarahlynn
06-09-2008, 01:37 PM
i think stacy has it all right just call and be straight forward and ask for what you want :)
without
06-09-2008, 02:12 PM
I wish I could be that bold. Sigh... I have an appointment on Thursday with my hair dresser I guess I'll wait and see what she thinks. LOL
willsmama
06-09-2008, 02:32 PM
Hey, real quick hi..will try to catch up...:)
:hi:
without
06-09-2008, 02:35 PM
Hey how is will feeling and why are you sore? (myspace)
willsmama
06-09-2008, 02:45 PM
I had a weekend that was bad...at a friends 30th b day party I was sitting on the edge of this trampoline thing and wasn't paying attention. Two gals jumped on and I was propelled off, onto my neck. :( Really hurts. Going to the chiro today...I'm broken. :(
Will is still passing some of the virus, but is getting better. Rob stayed in with him on Saturday night, cuz he was too sick (Will) to stay with my parents. :(
newmami
06-09-2008, 02:54 PM
Hi Tracy, sorry about the hurt (ouchie) and that Will is still sick..... HEALTHY VIBES sent your way
It is pouring here.... I hate driving when it is raining... and my feet are cold... doesn't make sense, it is like 150F outside, and my feet are freezing!!
Ok, I called the Therapist for an appointment!! had to leave a message... but that was a very very BIG step for me!!!
hold me........
newmami
06-09-2008, 03:20 PM
:rant::rant:I am soooo done with this flucking place!! I am so tired of being treated like crap, yelled at because of other people's stupidity!! I wish I could just say SCREW IT!! and leave :mad:
Some days, I just hate my life :(
sarahlynn
06-09-2008, 04:27 PM
Tracy OMG IM SORRY that sounds awful...hope the doc helps your back
Claudia :( have you been lookin for new jobs? i know your upset there
Momto3
06-10-2008, 07:25 AM
Claudia - I am so proud of you for taking that very big first step. I know first hand what it takes. I made the call to get Shelly in for Anger Management and apparently I am the problem...who knew...but I always feel better when I leave there.
newmami
06-10-2008, 07:49 AM
Thanks for the support Lynn... I need to call him back (he left a message) and make sure my insurance will pay for the therapy... he sounds like a nice person, so I am optimistic
without
06-10-2008, 07:58 AM
Good job Claudia! Ya know I really should go to but right now I just can't afford an extra 30 dollars a week. Sigh... You go girl! I am so sorry your job sucks so much. I hope your EX Office Husband can get you a job soon!
without
06-10-2008, 08:27 AM
Honest time-----
Girls I am having a moment please send up a prayer!
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 08:31 AM
Good job, Claudia!!
Pam, go for the call. And what's up? You have all the prayers you need from this direction. :hugs:
I'll catch up later... You girls can talk!
Lex is doing better. I've been feeding him apple juice left and right and he finally had a normal bowel movement. Dh slept til 11, and that helped.
We went and got pics done at Sears, and it was an awful experience. They screwed it all up and didn't want to deal with us. They wouldn't even give us the 9.99 deal?! Stoopid. Dh had the girl in tears. At least some of the pics were good. I'll have to figure out how you can view them from the site....
Momto3
06-10-2008, 08:40 AM
Yikes Ashley! Sorry for the Sears experience. I think I have finally learned my lesson with Penneys and pictures...don't do it!
Pam - Prayers coming your way!
without
06-10-2008, 08:42 AM
RATS! Sorry the pictures didn't go well at Sears! I plan on trying Sears next month for Morgans pictures. We have always used JC Penny and love love love it there but since we go so much we have kind of used up all the back grounds lol so it will be fun to try a new place. Any one have any good theam ideas? I try to do some thing fun for the 1/2 mark picture. Also this is the time we try to get a good picture of her and I together.
Thanks for the prayers I need them!
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 09:00 AM
What's going on, Pam? Can you talk about it?
It was horrible where we are, but it may be different other places. I guess I can pm the password and email address to log in... Wait. There's a place I can share if I have email addresses to send to.
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 09:03 AM
good morning ladies...
its tuesday and payday YAY!!!!
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 09:05 AM
Yay for payday, Sarah! I love paydays...
newmami
06-10-2008, 09:07 AM
Pam, what is going on?? you have me worried sweetie!! please at least let us know everything is ok! either way, I am thinking about you! :hugs:
Ash, glad that Lex is feeling better, and sorry about the pictures fiasco :wtf:
I just applied for a job :shocker:... I do not have high hopes, but I would not get a job if I don't apply, right??? :eyeroll: It is a big company, I think I fit their job description, and it would be SUPER close from home and daycare!! (like 5 min)
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 09:09 AM
Go Claudia! I hope those of us in here that are job annoyed find somehthing soon. Btw, I still haven't heard from the elementary school.
without
06-10-2008, 09:14 AM
Aww.... Claudia! I hope they call you! I know if they interview you you'll get the job! As far as me... I am trying to be ok. I wish I could just find one person who understands me and knows where I am coming from. Seems like every time I try to talk to some one about whats going on they say the same ol things to me that every one says. They don't take the time to hear me out. (I am not talking about any one here btw)
yeah!!! for pay day sarah!!! We get paid once a month so I have a big bill paying party on payday! LOL
I want to see the pictures of Lex email address is pscott@uark.edu. :)
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 09:16 AM
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There were more...
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 09:18 AM
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without
06-10-2008, 09:38 AM
I know it doesn't show him or how cute he is but the first one of him in the cowboy hat from the back is so cute!!! The last one of him makes him look so grown up! Wow!
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 09:46 AM
They were sweet. I was happy with about 4 of them, but you don't go in with high expectations and a 20 month old. :lol:
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 09:56 AM
I LOVE THEM!!! especially the cowboy one and the flower one
newmami
06-10-2008, 10:00 AM
I love them Ash!!! he is adorable!!
I would not dare taking professional pictures of my kids... Chris would be all over the place, trying to grab the camera, and Dani would probably freak out!
Pam, you know I am here if you need to talk!!
YES!! positive job vibes for all us who are fed up!!!
willsmama
06-10-2008, 10:08 AM
Ash! They are SOOOO cute! :)
Went to the chiro yesterday, have a strain in my neck.
Boo.
Momto3
06-10-2008, 10:12 AM
Sorry about the neck strain Tracy. Hope you feel better soon.
Claudia - Good luck on the job application
Pam - Still got the male secretary working? How is that going?
Ash - Your young man is so stinkin adorable! Love the pics!
Momto3
06-10-2008, 10:19 AM
Enjoy the sillyness...
http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f266/LMSwanson/sillyatwalmart.jpg
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 10:26 AM
Aaaaw!
without
06-10-2008, 10:30 AM
I love sillyness!!!! She is a doll
Male sec. is still slow and I miss having some one to talk to at work (we don't talk to each other) and he is already taking almost two weeks off. Today is his last day before his vacation.
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 10:34 AM
well i informed DH that a trip for our whole family to Jamaica would be around $4000-$5000 EEEEEEEK! he waid WOW! i said YEAH! so he said maybe we will just not do it..and see if we can all fly to Iowa if they have a reception when they come back :( im sad in a way but the thought after awhile of us going adn than our whole tax refund being gone right away next year scared me worse..we have so much we can use it for and pay off..im sure we will discuss it many more time over the next months ..
so whats for lunch??
willsmama
06-10-2008, 10:36 AM
What about your DH just going alone??? To be there for his friend? No?
I love silly pics!!!
newmami
06-10-2008, 10:45 AM
Love silly pictures!!!
Ouch Sarah on the trip!!! that is why we are going to mexico, no need to pay for hotel and most of the meals
Lunch, I have salad and steak, and a pear
willsmama
06-10-2008, 10:51 AM
Lunch I weigh in at WW, then I'll grab a turkey subway and maybe some baked chips. :)
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 10:54 AM
Ouch Sarah on the trip!!! that is why we are going to mexico, no need to pay for hotel and most of the meals
yeah iowa would be singifigantly cheeper..we wouldnt need a hotel and so on..though i woould love one..me and Dh differ on where we want to stay..he says his dads i say his moms or a hotel..a hotel is common ground for all famil since his dad and mom dont talk anymore after their divorce..
we'll see..
lunch is a sandwich i guess and a banana..im really hungry for something good like soup..can i go buy soup??
i weighed in this morning at 137.8 :) only 2.8 more lbs till i reach my initial goal :hooray:
willsmama
06-10-2008, 10:54 AM
Nice!!! Skinny Minney Minney!! :)
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 11:16 AM
well now the hard part..actually gettin in shape ya know..i have the lowest in motivation when it comes to working out..i walk quite a bit when the eather is nice but working out and toning is what i need and i hate it..
without
06-10-2008, 11:18 AM
Lunch for me is a granola bar :(
Momto3
06-10-2008, 11:21 AM
Pam - that is not enough calories OR protein!
Tracy - Good luck on the weigh in
Sarah - Go you on the weightloss!
I have 9 more to go and I have been stuck here forever!
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 11:28 AM
pam you need to eat more than that!!!!!
my worst time is evenings and weekends i eat to much than esepeciallyh with the crappy weather we have had i sit inside and eat eat eat
so friday we head out camping :) lucea and cy got new life jackets..and we have a itty bitty cabin rented..its prety much a room with two bunkbeds :lol: not much else but hey its shelter if the weather gets to crappy..im so excited to sit around and eat tons of smores..mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 11:38 AM
I'm sorry that Jamaica's so expensive, Sarah. And you're doing great on the diet!!!
Pam, you're not eating enough, sweetie. :hugs:
I love silliness!
For lunch, I'm not sure. I'll let you know when I get back from home. Haven't decided yet. Back in about an hour!
without
06-10-2008, 11:39 AM
I love smores!!!!
Momto3
06-10-2008, 11:54 AM
Ugh! So I just read about the couple that, in order to improve their relationship, they had sex for 101 days straight. Hide THAT book from my DH!
willsmama
06-10-2008, 12:08 PM
I was up .4 lbs. :(
Um, 101 days straight? NO THANKS.
Momto3
06-10-2008, 12:15 PM
Sorry Tracy...could it be an impending AF?
willsmama
06-10-2008, 12:16 PM
Nope, she is past, but I had pizza on Sunday....that is my own fault.
Sigh.
Momto3
06-10-2008, 12:18 PM
Suck down some extra water...just pee it right out! I am sure you didn't eat an extra 1,750 calories so it must be water weight from the salt in the pizza.
willsmama
06-10-2008, 12:33 PM
True. I think I needed a 'little' kick in the butt anyways, it is hard when you are "quasi" okay with your weight to continue to lose down to goal, you know? Because you are always thinking "I'm not as bad as I used to be"...
Momto3
06-10-2008, 12:34 PM
That is so true and I think that is why I have been spinning my wheels with 9 more to go.
without
06-10-2008, 12:38 PM
Blah! I suck! I got so upset and starving and never losing weight I stoped even trying!
Sex for 101 days!!! Where do I inlist!!! Whoot Whoot whoot
willsmama
06-10-2008, 12:40 PM
Just try little by little Pam, you don't have to do it overnight. I've been doing this since February...
I've got 8 more to go. 13 more for my 'super secret' personal goal...
without
06-10-2008, 12:54 PM
I get so over whelmed at how much i have to lose and it sick to think I may only lose a pound a month! I hate being so hungry all the time and I hate most healthy foods so I will make the choice not to eat if thats all I have to pick from LOL
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 12:58 PM
I had turkey, potatoes and broccoli.
newmami
06-10-2008, 01:09 PM
Ugh! So I just read about the couple that, in order to improve their relationship, they had sex for 101 days straight. Hide THAT book from my DH!
Shhh.......... please tell me it didn't work!! :laugh:
Pam, I hear what you are saying... my first goal is to lose 30 lb, then another 20... if I can reach that, I would be happy!!! I hate when you read about people having 200 hamburgers for breakfast, so they diet and lose weight... duh!! I have fruit and cottage cheese / yogurt for Breakfast, salad protein and fruit for lunch, no snacks, and a light dinner, and I am still a cow!! If I could workout for an hour, the pounds will go down... but either I go early morning, or after kiddies are in bed (then deal with a boohoo DH who whines about not spending enough time together blah blah blah.....:eyeroll:)
OK ladies, are you ready to read this????
I am going to see the Therapist on Thursday morning!! he sounds like a very nice man, I am feeling a good vibe here!!!
without
06-10-2008, 01:12 PM
Wahoo!! Claudia way to go!! I am going to have my hair done on Thursday so its like we are both seeing our therapist on Thursday. :)
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 01:18 PM
Yay Claudia!!!! I'm SOOOOO proud of you! (Btw, they're about to release me!)
I've got 50 to lose, and at least 25 before early next year. (Baby ttc time.) It's hard to watch those that can eat anything and not gain a pound, but we're stuck. And I so hear you on the working out. I can't do it either until I'm out from under the microscope.
We're gong down to LJ this weekend. Say a prayer or send a thought... I hope my parents don't start anything.
Momto3
06-10-2008, 01:22 PM
Oh good luck this weekend Ashley!
Yay Claudia! I know you will feel better.
I go Wednesday night.
newmami
06-10-2008, 01:26 PM
Good luck Ash!!! hope your mom behaves!!
I will come back and report as soon as I am done.... is it bad that I don't want DH to know that I would see a guy about a thing?????
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 01:27 PM
We at least get to see Poppie and a new baby, and I guess that's worth it.
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 01:28 PM
Good luck Ash!!! hope your mom behaves!!
I will come back and report as soon as I am done.... is it bad that I don't want DH to know that I would see a guy about a thing?????
hehe... to both. Nah. No one has to know.
And, there's no way on this earth that she'll behave. There'll be some quip about Michael somewhere. It's just needing the strength to deal with it myself.
willsmama
06-10-2008, 01:30 PM
I think all of us are beautiful. ;)
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 01:54 PM
:hug:
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 01:58 PM
If I hop off APA a bit, I'm moving my desk over... I have little bugs. Eew!
without
06-10-2008, 01:58 PM
I think my salt intake is one thing that kills me! I have had one granola bar and unsweet tea and two boullion cubes today. thats 1800mg of sodium just in cubes!
willsmama
06-10-2008, 02:03 PM
Super EW!
I am so excited! My SATC thread reached two pages, heck, since I am not popular here, at least I found a popular topic! :)
willsmama
06-10-2008, 02:03 PM
I think my salt intake is one thing that kills me! I have had one granola bar and unsweet tea and two boullion cubes today. thats 1800mg of sodium just in cubes!
What do you do with the boullion cubes?!
without
06-10-2008, 02:05 PM
Eat them
willsmama
06-10-2008, 02:11 PM
Plain!?
without
06-10-2008, 02:15 PM
yep pop them like pop corn lol
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 02:20 PM
Claudia i am so happy you have an appt set up..i hope he is nice and it goes well..you need this.
could you get low sodium boullion cubes pam?
willsmama
06-10-2008, 02:23 PM
yep pop them like pop corn lol
Never thought of that....interesting. Chicken? Beef?
newmami
06-10-2008, 02:24 PM
Ewww Pam!!! the sodium is so bad for you!! it makes you retain water and can affect your kidneys
What about increasing the amount of veggies and lean protein?? chicken or fish would be great, even lean meat!!
YOU CAN DO IT ASH!! YOU WILL DO GREAT!!
So what are the plans for Father's day? we are going out for lunch, and I am dreading every minute of it... will be better IF Saturday I can go shopping for the kids (and shoes for me) like I have been wanting for the last 2 weeks!!!
without
06-10-2008, 02:25 PM
Well both but I have to eat twice as many chicken as beef to get the flavor. LOL
Momto3
06-10-2008, 02:30 PM
Pam - A granola bar, sweet tea and cubes is NOT ENOUGH FOOD! You have to eat, girl!
willsmama
06-10-2008, 02:32 PM
Pam - A granola bar, sweet tea and cubes is NOT ENOUGH FOOD! You have to eat, girl!
YES!!! WHAT SHE SAID!!! Your body is just going to keep storing EVERYTHING you eat as Fat until you get enough Fuel to keep it running! :(
newmami
06-10-2008, 02:37 PM
Tracy is right... I also thought starving was the answer, but NOPE!! if you are not getting enough nutrients, your brain gets the signal to go into starvation mode, and all that does is make your body store as much fat as you can
Best way to deal with losing weight is eating less carbs, more veggies and lean proteins, lay off the sweets and be careful with the fats... oh and working out!
willsmama
06-10-2008, 02:41 PM
Yes. Lamely, the hard way.
BOO.
newmami
06-10-2008, 03:02 PM
You guys, it is POURING in here, really bad!! the thunder sounds like someone is banging metallic plaques in the floor :shocker:... I hate driving in the rain, so this is going to be stressing.........
willsmama
06-10-2008, 03:03 PM
Duplicate
willsmama
06-10-2008, 03:04 PM
:shocker: oh no Clau! drive SAFE!! :(
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 03:53 PM
Man we have been gettin so much rain here lately, we need it so bad so i cant complain. But i miss going outside everynight till 9 to play with the kids now were stuck inside staring out the windows :(
good news my morning glories are already growing :) YAY!! i planted them last year but they never started to grow because of the dry conditions we had so thsi year im super excited to see them growin up my fence..so be prepared for pictures
Dh and his GF took toamrow off to haul away cement from our yard and haul in dirt :) should be a fun day for them they are prediction horrible rain ..ugh poor dh cant win..
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 04:07 PM
What can I do??
You NEED to eat, Pam. Eat healthily and exercise. There's no simple way. :hugs:
We had rain all morning. Needed it bad.
Been working hard. Still haven't moved my desk. lol.
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 04:17 PM
werent you supposed to move your desk like a looong time ago..?????
only 45 min left to go ladies...im so excited i just cant hide it..im about to loose control and i think i like it...
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 04:25 PM
I think so. :lol: Im just moving it to the other side of the room I'm in for spraying.
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 04:35 PM
ugh we get yucky bugs here off and on during the year as well..its so gross..they hide behind everything..i woudl hate hate hate to see what it looks like behind our file cabinets
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 04:37 PM
Eeew.
Dude, Tif's thread makes me feel like I need to test. My girls have been shooting pain from the glands... And I spotted like a week after AF. But I had an AF... erg.
sarahlynn
06-10-2008, 04:52 PM
i think im the only one on apa who never feels like testing :lol: my body is way to predictable i know like instantly when im knocked up
my boobies tend to hurt when af is onthe way or when it arrives..
sja1508
06-10-2008, 07:58 PM
Hey ladies, just popping in to say hi! Big test on Sunday so I've been studying like mad.
Ash, I love love loved the pics of Lex
OMG....sex for 101 days straight??? It makes me exhausted just thinking about it. It would take us over 5 years to have sex that much......
lexsmama
06-10-2008, 08:00 PM
I still have 2.5 weeks before AF unpacks her bags at my house.
Good luck on your test, Stacy! I'm sure you'll do great!
I hope you ladies have a great night.
i'm having a craving for something salty. Great. A pickle or a couple of olives usually do it.
sja1508
06-10-2008, 08:01 PM
I'm craving fruit pebbles cereal and Tara wants me to go to DQ for a waffle bowl sundae.
without
06-11-2008, 08:03 AM
Stacy good luck on the test!
Guess What?
I have a date!!!! Saturday night!!! Whoot Whoot Whooot! So here are my questions. #1 I asked him so should I assume I am paying? If we have dinner too (plan right now is for movie) should I offer to pay for mine? I have never seen him any any thing other than his work clothes and his fire department clothes so do you think I should dress down I mean for a date I normally get all gusseyed up but I get the feeling that might be a little intemating to him. What about driving....since I asked him should I offer to drive?
OK >> OK>>>shew... let me back up to how this happened!
I was supposed to have a b-day party for Amanda last week (remember it didn't happen but still turned out nice) then this weekend we talked about going to the movies but her son has a game. So after talking to you all I bit the bullet called Mike and left a message on his answering machine that just said Hey, Mike I had plans to go out with Jackson and Amanda on Saturday and they fell through I already have a baby sitter for that night and was wondering if you would like to go. I hate going to the movies by myself. But after leaving the message he didn't call back. I was pretty bumbed and couldn't figure out how I had miss read all the flurting I thought he was doing. Then last night he took off down our road driving like a crazy person (come to find out it was a fire call) but when he got back instead of going home he stopped at my house (Morgan was out in the kid pool and I was watching her). He said he had got my message but didn't want to call so late and he knew we would see each other anyway. He said Heck I have nothing better to do sure I will go (you could so tell he was playing the whole thing down being Mr. Cool LOL it was cute) He stayed and talked for about an hour and then went home.
EEEEEKKK!!! What to wear!!!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 08:08 AM
ohmygosh omygosh ohmygosh.... Pam, that's WONDERFUL!!! Wait. You're SURE it's a date? Okay! I'd dress in a cute little casual dress or jeans and a cute top with heels. If that's what he's wearing. I'm so so so happy for you!
My "girls" started hurting again last night. I don't know what's up. My nurse/grandma says there's something up with my hormones and to call my OB. I can't be preggo. It just doesn't make sense.
Mmm... Fruity Pebbles are so yummy. I got coffee this morning. Yum.
without
06-11-2008, 08:11 AM
We didn't use the word "Date" but in our neck of the woods when a male and a female go to dinner and a movie. Its a date!
OH and did I tell you all he talked to his mom about me! LOL I found that out from his mom's hair dresser! LOL I love small towns.
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 08:13 AM
lol. I know! I'm just so stinking happy for you!
Momto3
06-11-2008, 08:17 AM
For a movie...possible dinner I would definately do casual.....OMGOsh! See I told you! You never know til you try! I am so excited I can't wait until Monday to hear all about it!
without
06-11-2008, 08:38 AM
:hooray:Oh I know I am just so happy too!:hooray:
I know this may shound bad but I like him and all but thats not what excites me about it the most:shocker: what I am happy about it the chance to get out of the house and be a female:yeehaw: I mean I wont have nana's in my hair, I will be able to carry a purse not a diaper bag, I can wear heals with out worry will I be able to chace Morgan down in these shoes if need be.:gome: That means so much more to me right now than a man!:laugh:
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 08:41 AM
Hey, if that's what it takes, then shoot. Wear those heels, perfume, lipstick, ang go for it!
without
06-11-2008, 08:49 AM
LOL I am going to wear jeans with heels because I miss getting all dressed up. and I am borrowing a purse from my mom because I don't even own a purse any more how sad is that! LOL
sja1508
06-11-2008, 08:56 AM
Yea Pam!!!! I am so excited for you!! Heck yea, do the casual but makeup/purse/hair thing. I'd primp a little too!!! I'd kinda wait at dinner and see when they bring the check if he grabs it or if he's slow to do it, then offer to pay half. If he does pay, then I'd at least offer to pay for the movie tickets and see if he tells you "no", then try again at the snack bar. LOL!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 09:15 AM
You can always offer and see what happens. If he's anything like my dh, he wouldn't even let me pay when we weren't dating. lol.
But yes, Stacy's VERY right!
Dude, education consultants suck.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 09:18 AM
Yayayayay Pam! Whoooop! :)
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 09:24 AM
OMG OMG OMG PAM i am so excited about your date..EEEEEEEEEEEEK!!
newmami
06-11-2008, 09:28 AM
OMG PAM!! you just made my day!!! :hooray: I agree with what the other ladies said about clothes, who is paying for what, etc...... and OMG he is a fireman???? (drooling all over the place here!!!) :laugh:
Ash, it would not hurt to test, right?? both times I was PG my boobs hurt, but now from time to time they hurt as well.... I guess it is the hormones... anyways, go test just to be on the safe side
Good luck with the test Stacy!!
Driving back yesterday was not that bad.... the thunder was gone, and the rain was moderated... best thing is that it didn't rained when I got to daycare
I told DH I applied for a job, he asked where and about the position, but that was it.... then he got :wtf: because I told him I was tired and went to sleep without nookie... seriously, he ignores me all afternoon, and then expect me to get in the mood??? :pokey: will he understand that the reason I don't want to have sex is him???????????
I am giddy about the guy about a thing... I am done having all this issues bagged!!!
without
06-11-2008, 09:43 AM
Yeah!! Claudia about being giddy about a guy about a thing! Only 24 more hours girl! I hope he is great and offers you some support and great advice.
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 10:04 AM
Yay for Ms. Claudia! I'm so proud of you!
I'm going to test if I miss this month's AF. I figure that'll be my best bet. I may call the ob just to see.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 10:13 AM
Yay Claudia! :)
without
06-11-2008, 10:26 AM
I would wait to test to. I pray its nothing.
Ugh! Don't you hate it when you know better to do some thing and you do it any way and then you get your feelers hurt even though you knew that would be the out come! I hate it when I do that to myself!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 10:28 AM
:hugs: Pam.
I called the nurse practitioner and am waitin gon a call back. I'm concerned about the fire feeling shooting out my girls. I've never felt this before.
without
06-11-2008, 10:39 AM
My mom got that when she was BF my sister I think it was called Mastitus (sp?) or some thing like that but she was nursing so I don't know what it could be! Hugs
willsmama
06-11-2008, 10:45 AM
I would wait to test to. I pray its nothing.
Ugh! Don't you hate it when you know better to do some thing and you do it any way and then you get your feelers hurt even though you knew that would be the out come! I hate it when I do that to myself!
Totally get you there...:)
willsmama
06-11-2008, 10:46 AM
:hugs: Pam.
I called the nurse practitioner and am waitin gon a call back. I'm concerned about the fire feeling shooting out my girls. I've never felt this before.
Eek! Let us know...
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 10:48 AM
well im off ladies..the wonderful PAP appt..how can you do these stupid things every year and not get any more comfortable about them..im always uneasy and BAH about it..
oh well wish me luck :lol: k thats kinda weird but do it anyways..
talk to you ladies in about an hour :)
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 10:53 AM
Good luck, Sarah.
Can she call me back already? I'm shaking over here. :lol:
willsmama
06-11-2008, 10:54 AM
Have fun sarah......(((HUGS))) ash! :(
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 10:55 AM
Can she call me back already? I'm shaking over here. :lol:
whats wrong i must have missed a post???
:hugs:
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 10:59 AM
Nah. I'm just shooting fire-like pain out my nipples. That's all. At first I thought it was indigestion or a bad bra. I changed those, and it's still there.
Can I just have one good day already?!
willsmama
06-11-2008, 11:06 AM
Nah. I'm just shooting fire-like pain out my nipples. That's all. At first I thought it was indigestion or a bad bra. I changed those, and it's still there.
Can I just have one good day already?!
have you ever seen the first Austin Powers? Maybe you are turning into a "femme bot" and will get 'guns' coming out of them?
:laugh:
sja1508
06-11-2008, 11:24 AM
ROFL...sorry Ash, not laughing at your pain but that was funny! Ash is a femme bot!!
willsmama
06-11-2008, 11:29 AM
ROFL...sorry Ash, not laughing at your pain but that was funny! Ash is a femme bot!!
Thank you, I try! :cloud9:
sja1508
06-11-2008, 11:34 AM
What was that song they played while the femme bots were shooting up everything?
"These boots are made for walking and that's just what they'll do, one of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you"
LMBO!!!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 11:37 AM
:lol: you girls crack me up. I'm at home on lunch break, but needed to get this down... I am to poas to rule out pregnancy first. If that's negative, then I am to take motrin and Vitamin E for a while. If it doesn't help in a few weeks, then they will give me something else.
First thing out of her mouth was, "Are you sure you haven't missed any pills?":shocker: I guess I getone for tonight and one for 1st morning urine... Crapola.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 11:39 AM
:shocker:
So, when are you doing it?!
:shocker:
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 11:45 AM
I guess tonight. Maybe tomorrow morning too.
Anyone believe in signs? I was on my way home to eat with dh, and I was praying out loud in the car. (Same as I did before Lex.) At the end, I said, "Lord, can you please just give me a sign as to if I'm pregnant? Like if a white... (I was going to finish with 'If a white car passes in front of me on this desolate road...')" And then TWO pass in front of me! :shocker: No more cars between there and home...
Momto3
06-11-2008, 11:52 AM
Holy Crap Ashley! POAS!
willsmama
06-11-2008, 12:02 PM
Holy CRAP! POAS now!
I forget, will this be good/bad??
without
06-11-2008, 12:20 PM
Eeekkk!!! Test Test Test!
newmami
06-11-2008, 12:21 PM
Wo ha Ash!! I think you really really need to POAS!!! :please:
The day is dragging so much.... ack!! I am about to take a half day off just so I don't feel so unproductive!! it seriously sucks being stuck here for 8 hrs, with NOTHING to do!!! if people at least were funny.......
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 12:29 PM
Dh and I said that it'd be tough, but we could do it. I want to get it done now, just to know, but I'm already back at work and I'm shaky and weepy. Why am I so nervous??
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 12:33 PM
PISS PISS PISSS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS
PISS PISS PISSS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS
PISS PISS PISSS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS
PISS PISS PISSS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS PISS
dont be nervous honey..ok...it will all be fine...
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 12:34 PM
I don't have a test! I'd pee if I could...
Momto3
06-11-2008, 12:36 PM
You could have stopped on your way back to get one...run out to the store.
without
06-11-2008, 12:36 PM
Its OK we are all here for you!
Ya know we really do need one of us girls here in the never ending to be prego! i miss lil babies!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 12:40 PM
Isn't Lina?? But she never makes it to neverending.
I hope we are, secretly, but I hate waiting. I looked at the store, watched it pass by, and never turned in. Dh asked if I could wait to do it with him. He's always been like that. Sweet. I, uh, I just don't know. I'm not going to get anythign done.
Momto3
06-11-2008, 12:46 PM
So tell him to stop at the store on his way over to see you.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 12:47 PM
So tell him to stop at the store on his way over to see you.
YES!
newmami
06-11-2008, 12:49 PM
OMG Ash, I cannot believe your will power!! I would have gone out and POAS already!!
In my experience, seems that there is always going to be something that will prevent it to be the "perfect time" to have a child, but we parents adapt and manage.... BELIEVE ME!!!
I think the only one in this thread who can get PG is Ash....... OR YOU PAM!!!!
without
06-11-2008, 12:57 PM
Not me I need a man for that and rummor mill says Mike has had the snip. Grrr!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:01 PM
I want a baby soooo badly, but I'm just a normal worrier. And no, I have no will power. I just don't want to bawl at work...
CandiceLeigh
06-11-2008, 01:03 PM
Hey everyone, sorry I've been MIA lately!
I can't handle all the BFP's though, they make me kinda sad 'cause I want to be PG soooo bad right now.
Of course, if you're PG Ashley, I will be SUPER excited for you!! :hooray:And I'm not just saying that!! :hugs:Eek, you need to go POAS!!
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 01:08 PM
well i can get preggoo but im religiously takin the pills to prevent that :) for now at least..
willsmama
06-11-2008, 01:08 PM
Not me I need a man for that and rummor mill says Mike has had the snip. Grrr!
You guys could do in vitro after you got married. :) :wub:
willsmama
06-11-2008, 01:10 PM
I want a baby soooo badly, but I'm just a normal worrier. And no, I have no will power. I just don't want to bawl at work...
OMIGOD, if I lived by you, I'd totally courier a stick to you! :)
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:13 PM
Thanks, Tracy. I found you a femme bot... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8HQJpza5lLA
willsmama
06-11-2008, 01:21 PM
:batman::P:laugh:
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:22 PM
hehe... Boss said I can go take care of it if I want. I'm not sure I want.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 01:26 PM
hehe... Boss said I can go take care of it if I want. I'm not sure I want.
Well, you either sit there and agonize over it, or just do it and know what you are agonizing about (if anything) YK?
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:28 PM
lol. True. True.
CandiceLeigh
06-11-2008, 01:33 PM
OMG Ashley, go!!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:36 PM
As soon as the boss gets back from her workout. Someone needs to be here to answer the phones.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 01:37 PM
Just do it before 4 CST.
I'm selfish.
HA!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:38 PM
She'll be back around 2-2:30. I'll go as soon as she gets back.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 01:40 PM
:)
CandiceLeigh
06-11-2008, 01:40 PM
Hahaha, I totally just text Ashley so if push comes to shove, I will post for her!! :happy:
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:41 PM
I'll text anyone who wants it. I know Candice and Stacy will want texts as soon as I get done...
willsmama
06-11-2008, 01:41 PM
Hahaha, I totally just text Ashley so if push comes to shove, I will post for her!! :happy:
Excellent! Backup! :hooray:
newmami
06-11-2008, 01:42 PM
crap... I am on Eastern time...... I am going to stay in the office just so I know what happens!!! :lol:
I was freezing so I had some coffee and I just burned my tongue.... IDIOT!!
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 01:42 PM
I'm sorry! :hugs:
willsmama
06-11-2008, 02:00 PM
I hate burning my tounge! My office is also FREEZING!
newmami
06-11-2008, 02:13 PM
Did you POAS Ash?????
what about now?????
Momto3
06-11-2008, 02:14 PM
I'll text anyone who wants it. I know Candice and Stacy will want texts as soon as I get done...
Helloooooo TEXT ME!
Momto3
06-11-2008, 02:14 PM
Are you done yet?
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 02:15 PM
I will.
Waiting for the boss. I turn around on every footstep...
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 02:16 PM
Called dh and told him I'd be coming home a minute to poas. I'm tired of freaking out over potentially nothing. He said, "okay."
Momto3
06-11-2008, 02:17 PM
Geez I forgot...I'm eastrn time as well.
Momto3
06-11-2008, 02:19 PM
Did Sarah have her pap yet?
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 02:21 PM
yep, she did.
without
06-11-2008, 02:36 PM
Hey Candice Text me as soon as you know some thing!!
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 02:39 PM
Ash is still around talking to her on MSN..well she isnt responding maybe the boss is back and she is able to leave.
man the positives on apa are running rampant..im scared i might stear clear of DH for a bit..
pap went good today..got on the mini pill again..works well so why change right he said i coudl stay on it forever if i wanted to or till lulu was done nursing adn than i could switch to the regular pill..
willsmama
06-11-2008, 02:39 PM
someone tell me something!
willsmama
06-11-2008, 02:40 PM
glad the pap went a-ok sarah! :)
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 02:43 PM
I'm going to pay someone here on P2V, then I'm off. Pam, want me to text you too??
without
06-11-2008, 02:45 PM
Yes!!!
willsmama
06-11-2008, 02:45 PM
G/L Ash!!!
without
06-11-2008, 02:48 PM
Eeekkk!!! I am going to get baby i-tis
CandiceLeigh
06-11-2008, 03:01 PM
Ashley's on her way!!! Can't wait to hear back from her!! Is she texting everyone on in the NE thread? :laugh:
willsmama
06-11-2008, 03:04 PM
Tell me when you get the text!
CandiceLeigh
06-11-2008, 03:07 PM
I will! I'm thinking she should know something in the next 30 mins or so.
willsmama
06-11-2008, 03:08 PM
tick tock...tick tock...
newmami
06-11-2008, 03:09 PM
I am leaving in 20 min!! I have to check this thread at home!!!
willsmama
06-11-2008, 03:21 PM
anything??
CandiceLeigh
06-11-2008, 03:24 PM
Bfn
willsmama
06-11-2008, 03:25 PM
...Dang....but at least she can move on with her day.
Now we need to find out why those sisters are hurting...
Momto3
06-11-2008, 03:42 PM
Yep...on to figuring out those bad girls!
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 03:47 PM
(((hugs)))) ash
willsmama
06-11-2008, 03:53 PM
Super ((HUGS))
CandiceLeigh
06-11-2008, 04:47 PM
K, I know everyone is probably gone but I'm being needy again and need hugs. My brother texted me about an hour ago telling me that my dog was acting funny and just being kinda mean. (him to me, not her) She's at my dad's because I felt bad that she was locked up inside all day and I wanted her to be able to be outside during the day because she loves the outside. I thought she was acting kind of funny, but with all the sh!t going on in my life right now I just shrugged it off. Now I'm scared that she might die all because I haven't been taking care of her as well as I could have and I feel like the biggest jerk in the world. :( He said she was walking funny and she's really skinny. She ALWAYS has food and water though and he made it sound like I'm starving her. I think she might have worms, cause she's had them in the past, but I honestly don't think I have the $$ to take her to the vet. I think I'm gonna take her on my lunch tomorrow anyway and pray my check doesn't bounce. I'm terrible at balancing a check book. Gah, I feel like such a BAD, BAD pet owner. I may look into giving her away because she deserves someone who can play with her and take her on walks and stuff like that.
I hope y'all don't think I'm a bad person. I messed up though and I hope she's alright.:ohno: I'm going to go see her after work and give her a good bath and some syrup. A vet told me once that with little dogs like her, if they don't eat enough their blood sugar goes down, so I hope that's the case and the syrup will perk her back up. I'm also going to take her some canned food I have to entice her to eat more. I can't figure out why she's not wanting to eat. I'm going to be sooo freaking anxious until I get her to the vet tomorrow. Maybe I will take her 1st thing in the morning instead of waiting until lunch time.
Ok, kick me in the butt now. :imfoolish: Biggest jerk in the world? Candice.
lexsmama
06-11-2008, 06:54 PM
You're not a bad person or pet owner. It's okay to have the help with all that's going on right now. Just go to the vet and see where to go next.
It's kinda sucky to have the bfn, but try try again, right?? Skip a few pills... hehe. No, I wouldn't go that far. Now, onto figuring out the pain. I hope the vitamins help. If not, what could be next? Girl squishing?? Ouch. I guess we check that out in a week or two.
Thank you for all the hugs, prayers, thoughts, and support. And stacy, there's bound to be a little wife in there somewhere for your lo!
sarahlynn
06-11-2008, 10:57 PM
candice dont kick yourself..your a wonderful pet owner..
night ladies..talk to you tomarow..apa has me worn out for some reason..
Momto3
06-12-2008, 07:29 AM
Candice - You are not a horrible pet owner! If you were, then you wouldn't be concerned about her. Maybe it is worms like you are thinking. That can mess up their system.
So I saw my girl about a thing last night. I come home and I am relaying some of the things to DH that she suggested to handle Shelly and I begin attacking DH on how he is with the kids and I say that I made a mistake and I never should have gotten married. So he feels like I am saying marrying him is a mistake when all I meant was that my relationships with men have affected my kids in a negative way.
Ugh! I screwed up and now he is hurt...I feel so bad and I tried to apologize but he says he is fine but is acting like a hurt puppy. I'm no good with that. Ugh!
sja1508
06-12-2008, 07:56 AM
Oh Lynn, I'm so sorry. I'm like that with Tara all the time. I don't think before I speak or my tone really sucks. Nothing ever comes out the way I intend it and I'm constantly back tracking. I wish I wasn't such an emotional person and could hide my feelings a little better. Just give him some sex and he'll be over it!!
Ash, never fear.....Cooper can wait on his future wife. I won't let anyone else grab him!!!
Candice, you are not horrible, just the fact that you are concerned and willing to get it checked out makes you a good person. Just get the dog fixed and eating again and then maybe find it a good home if you can't deal right now. Lord knows you have alot to deal with, so no one would blame you sweetie!!! Big hugs!!!
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 08:10 AM
Morning!
Okay. I got the bfn. Did some crying, did some soul searching... I'm going to focus on losing the weight for January/February-ish. That's all I can do. (Or skip some, but dh would freak. lol.)
Lynn, it's okay. Apparently I hurt dh and don't know it all the time. Like last night, I told him he has been distant lately, and that all he talks about is school, work, and other people. His mind is always somewhere else. He got the tail under look, too.
without
06-12-2008, 08:16 AM
Candice, From one HUGE dog lover let me tell you your not a bad fur baby owner! You have her best interest in mind or you wouldn't have thought about taking her to your dads so she would be happy to run and play during the day. So how is the dog? Did you go see her did she eat?
Lynn, sorry sweetie! I hate it when things come out all wrong.
CandiceLeigh
06-12-2008, 08:30 AM
She died. :ohno: And it's all my fault. I spent half the night crying and I just feel like this is the cherry on top of my already sh!tty life.
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 08:35 AM
It's not your fault, Candice!! Those things do happen. :hugs:
willsmama
06-12-2008, 08:35 AM
She died. :ohno: And it's all my fault. I spent half the night crying and I just feel like this is the cherry on top of my already sh!tty life.
WHAT!? OH NO!!?! CANDICE!!(((HUGS)))
Do you need to talk? PM me! :(
:ohno:
willsmama
06-12-2008, 08:36 AM
:hug::grouphug:
CandiceLeigh
06-12-2008, 08:40 AM
Don't even feel sorry for me, it's my fault. I don't even deserve the sympathy. I feel like THE WORST, MOST TERRIBLE PERSON IN THE WORLD. :crying:
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 08:43 AM
You deserve the love AND the sympathy, Candice!
Momto3
06-12-2008, 08:59 AM
Candice - I am so sorry hun. Its not what you didn't do for her. Something was wrong thats all. Hugs to you!
without
06-12-2008, 09:01 AM
Candice!!! Things happen!!! Its OK. I know it hurts that you lost a family memeber but its not your fault. Your only one person and you can only do so much.
CandiceLeigh
06-12-2008, 09:21 AM
Thanks guys.
newmami
06-12-2008, 09:35 AM
OMG what a day yesterday huh??
Candice, HUGE HUGS for you sweetie!! you are not a terrible person and it is not your fault that your doggie died.... she was sick and nothing could be done about it hun!! Please don't punish yourself about it, because it is NOT YOUR FAULT :grouphug:
Ash, sorry about the BFP :hugs: I hope you figure out the reason for the pain, and are able to do something about it.... and that you get a BFP soon (I totally want you to have a little girl, because Lex is so cute I can only imagine how cuter a girl would be!! :silly:)
Lynn, sorry about the miscommunication with DH!!! I hope he is willing to talk so you can explain things better to him, and that things go back to normal. I hate when things come out wrong... usually they are ok in your brain, but something happens on the way out :hugs:
Sarah, sorry you had a rough afternoon... I kind of know why (the tongue lash??)
Ladies from the mid west, how are you doing with the weather?? I heard it is wicked, please take care!!!
Went to see my guy about a thing... I really like him, which is a HUGE start now!! I felt comfortable with him, so I will see him again next week! It felt nice getting some things out of my system.... once I am healed, I am going to suggest couples counseling to DH, see how that goes
Today was the first time that I admited to myself that part of me wants to leave DH and move on :shocker:
Momto3
06-12-2008, 09:39 AM
Yay on Claudia being comfortable with the guy about a thing!
without
06-12-2008, 09:44 AM
Good start Claudia!
Pst... still have room for you and the kids at my house :)
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 09:46 AM
Yay Claudia!!! I'm so proud of you!
willsmama
06-12-2008, 09:47 AM
Claudia, glad you are working through stuff.....maybe it is the right decision, would you be happier? Could you afford it??
sarahlynn
06-12-2008, 09:47 AM
Morning ladies, it thursday and i get done around 3:30 today (thanks boss) and than noon tomarow and were heading out to camp..YAY lucea is so excited she wears her lifejacket all over the house adn says "OH ME FISH ME ME ME FISH" she is so excited..i am going out to buy her a girlie fishing rod today..
ETA: CLAUDIA i am so happy for you..that it went well..
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 09:49 AM
How cute is that?! I hope you all have a great time this weekend. (I know it's early, but still...)
newmami
06-12-2008, 09:49 AM
YAY for camping Sarah!!!
Ladies, I am sure I could handle it financially, if it came to separation.... but I need my emotional support, and that is my family..... so I would honestly do whatever I could to move back to Mexico!
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 09:55 AM
You always have a place with us, too!
willsmama
06-12-2008, 09:58 AM
You'd be so much happier in Mexico Clau...
Momto3
06-12-2008, 09:59 AM
So on a good note...I got my free iced coffee at Dunkin Donuts this morning! Yay me!
oh that and I have to pee really really bad but I don't want to walk down the long halway to get there.
We take Katelyn Saturday morning for her 2 year check up. I hope he doesn't question her weight...kind worried about that.
I am so not looking forward to Father's Day. DH says he wants to spend it with his family (meaning me and the kids) He does not want to travel to Ft. Pierce to see his Dad. But I want to take my Dad out for lunch. My Dad says no we spent enough when we took them out for Mother's Day. Ugh! Why can't this crap be easy?
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 10:02 AM
You would be happier there, Clau, but see where the guy about a thing leads you first. :hugs:
Mmmm.... coffee. Did you know that International House does an iced coffee? I bought some the other day and plan to try it today.
willsmama
06-12-2008, 10:25 AM
Dunno Ash.....about the coffee...
Yay for camping, I hope the weather holds for you all. I am also off at noon tomorrow.
I also have to pee, but am too lazy to go!
:)
sarahlynn
06-12-2008, 10:26 AM
Lynn how much does she weight??
claudia maybe you could swing mexico..how would Dh feel about that?
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 10:27 AM
I'm off at noon tomorrow, too.
I'd send you some, Tracy...
I totally get the too lazy too pee thing. I'm the same way. Moreso at night when I'm in bed.
I figured I hadn't posted outside the thread lately, so I'll be a little of a post ho today. hehe..
Momto3
06-12-2008, 10:30 AM
Lynn how much does she weight??
Katelyn is 23 pounds on our scale and she's 2. She STILL wears 18 month clothes.
newmami
06-12-2008, 10:33 AM
Lynn, I am sure she is just petite, she is smart and healthy, that is all that matters!!
Good luck with Fathers day!!!
Yes I would be happier in Mexico, but I also have to keep in mind it is a very dangerous city..... but schools are better (private are cheaper) and there are lots of things to do... I have asked DH several times if he wants to move there, but obviously he doesn't.........
willsmama
06-12-2008, 10:35 AM
That is fine, she's just a petite little Girl! Besides, Will is making up for her, in size 2T at 14 months...
I noticed your Post ho'ness Ash...no one responds to my posts outside of here, so i try not to post....
I notice some people can post like, one word and the the thread will go to 3 pages, and then I'll have a legit question and will be lucky to get responses from more than just you ladies!!
willsmama
06-12-2008, 10:35 AM
Boo to DH not wanting Mexico.
How'd you two meet Claudia?
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 10:35 AM
I think she's at a good weight, Lynn, but I'm no dr. As our pedi says, "As long as they follow their own little curve, it's alright by [her]." She's just petite. And gorgeous to boot.
willsmama
06-12-2008, 10:37 AM
My neice is the same way Lynn, and she's older than Katelyn. Her Bday was in April (age 2) and she is still in 18 month EVERYTHING.
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 10:37 AM
I normallly just get posts from the few of you, but I hope someone else helps out.
hehe... I'm trying to think of mroe posts. Dh kept the camera, so I can't share today. Lex learned the artform of tents this week. :lol:
Oh! Speaking of! I found the giraffe tent that you have, Sarah! It's at Target. I'm going to get the other one they have. I think they have 3.
Momto3
06-12-2008, 10:38 AM
I notice some people can post like, one word and the the thread will go to 3 pages, and then I'll have a legit question and will be lucky to get responses from more than just you ladies!!
I totally hear you on that one Tracy!
Momto3
06-12-2008, 10:39 AM
She's just petite. And gorgeous to boot.
Thanks Ashley! She's my funny little monkey!
Momto3
06-12-2008, 10:40 AM
oooo can I just keep posting to see how many I get in a row?
lexsmama
06-12-2008, 10:40 AM
hehe... I broke your streak!
willsmama
06-12-2008, 10:40 AM
ah, popularity rules, even online....
CandiceLeigh
06-12-2008, 10:41 AM
I notice some people can post like, one word and the the thread will go to 3 pages, and then I'll have a legit question and will be lucky to get responses from more than just you ladies!!
Totally! :pokey:
Claudia, I'm so sorry you're not happy. I wish you could go back to Mexico and be with your family. :hugs:
Lynn, she just sounds petite. Isn't that normal for girls? Chris is 32 lbs and it's a killer when he wants to be held. Not to mention the fact that he's already more than 1/2 my body length. :shocker:
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