You may think I am crazy but.........................

[bel]

im here Lynn
not so happy, no one remembered my b-day :cry:
i wanna cry cry cry :(

[Momto3]

What? Of course! I think we said Happy Birthday before you left for the weekend!


Well then.


HAPPY (SWEET 16) BIRTHDAY BEL!]

[lexsmama]

Good morning!

Glad the date went well, Cecelia!

Awesome new car, Stacy & Tara!

Happy Birthday Bel!

How did your weekend go?

[sja1508]

Oh Bel, I'm sooooooooooooooooo sorry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I thought about it on Sat and said to myself "I'll post tomorrow about it on her real day" and then of course Sunday came and went. I did think about you though....promise!!!

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY BEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tell us all about it and post pics please.........

[sophie'smom]

Good Morning Ladies!!

I soo didn't feel like coming to work today, girls give me ideas of what to do to work at home, new business ideas, pleeeeaaaassseee!!!

I can no stand working for someone else.

Did you guys see DD's pics??

Bel: HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY BEL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[newmami]

I wasn't online yesterday, so
HAPPY HAPPY 21 BEL!!!!
How was the trip to the beach house?? hope you had tons of fun at the BBQ!!!

It is cold this morning here, and the fact that I feel like poo doesn't help... I have a cold and AF came to town :? ... happy days for me

Cecilia, I saw Sophia eating mussels... YUCK!!!

Yay for the new car for Tara.... and I would be excited when you get your minivan Stacy, because I love them!

I am all pumped about next weekend... not sure if Dh is going, because the Chargers are playing Sunday :roll: .. WHATEVER!! I am going and that is all that matters!!!

[sophie'smom]

Yes!! We are 5 days away from meeting F-I-V-E DAYS!!! :lol: :lol: yaaayy

I am soo excited. And Claudia, I think my friend from Mexico, DF will come with us, she was so thrilled to know that I met ladies online and that we are actually going to meet :D

[Momto3]

!

I am all pumped about next weekend... not sure if Dh is going, because the Chargers are playing Sunday :roll: .. WHATEVER!! I am going and that is all that matters!!!


Eeeek!!!! I am so frickin excited for Friday to get here! I can't wait I feel like such a little kid waiting for Christmas!!!

Claudia - The Chargers are not going to be playing in the morning so tell DH to come with and he will be home in time for the game!

[without]

I wasn't on line yesterday but Happy Birthday Bel!

So Pam you are already gone...but where at the top 10 places to meet men???

I can't remember all of them now but some where

1)Hardware store (I would feel so stupid walking up and down looking for a guy with no ring on his finger :roll: )

2) Dog park (we don't have one)

3) Book store (may try it but I would never have the guts to walk up to a guy so he will have to come to me)

4) Bar (I don't like the smoke LOL)

5) church (holding a singles party at my house for our church on Feb 16th

6) online dating (all the guys in my area that are on line are icky! or want some one who is thin :( )

I can't remember the rest! The list you made sounds nice if it were not for the fact that my EX husband is in Prison and though I believe in Reduce, Reuse Recycle I don't think that applys to men. LOL

Girls I let myself have one meal a week were I eat and don't look at the calories but just eat what I want. I had that meal yesterday I am sure it put me over calories but a zillion and now i feel so much guilt its not even funny! I have to lose this weight or I will NEVER find love!

I am feeling so mad at myself today! :evil:

[chellebelle32]

It's a day of mourning here (for one of the big wigs) because the Cowboys LOST! I'm a Bret Favre girl, myself. Good MONDAY morning!

Happy Belated Birthday to BEL!

[sophie'smom]

Pam, those places sound ackward to me. You need to watch Matched in Manhattam on Lifetime, it is a great show for singles in the market :wink:

This show is obviously based in NY, but they have great advice.

[newmami]

My mom is as excited as we are.... she found this place by mistake when she googled me (looking for the kids' website) and read couple of my posts (she doesn't do English well) and thought it was awesome. I told her about Allison's baby and she cried with me, and she think it is the coolest thing that I have friends here... gotta love my mom!!!

I say the more, the merrier. And I am glad the weather will be on the 70, it should be very pleasant!!

Dh is being a poop head... I told him we are getting together for dinner and he went :? , so I said "I will drop you in a restaurant and then pick you up if you want"... he is sooooo not going to ruin this one!!!

I have the cramps from h*ll... stupid AF.......

[without]

Ugh! Claudia! Maybe he will change his mind and have fun with you or stay home. :roll:

[Momto3]

Pam - Don't beat yourself up over it. You have to shake up your caloric input every now and then or you body will get used to living on what you are giving it and slow down your metabloism. Move forward from here and don't look back!


I read Allison's post about the day she found Ethan with my son Tyler (he is my heart and sensitive child) He and I cried together while reading it. :cry:

[lexsmama]

It's okay, Pam. You have to skae it up a bit sometimes. I gave in and had ice cream... Chocolate... Mmm..

Aaaw, that's so sweet, Lynn.

Sorry about your dh, Claudia. Men just don't get it.

[newmami]

Girls I let myself have one meal a week were I eat and don't look at the calories but just eat what I want. I had that meal yesterday I am sure it put me over calories but a zillion and now i feel so much guilt its not even funny! I have to lose this weight or I will NEVER find love!

I am feeling so mad at myself today!
PLEASE DON'T!!!! one day is OK, you are doing awesome during the week, it is not going to kill you to go crazy one day, ok.
And you don't need to be thin to find love!! if the man you meet only cares how you look on the outside, HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!
You are beautiful inside and out, and a man who deserves you will see that, ok???

Lynn, how sweet of Tyler!!! I love men who are sensitive, I think it is a beautiful quality

[lexsmama]

You are beautiful inside and out, and a man who deserves you will see that, ok???

Amen to that, sister! You're a beautiful woman, Pam.

[Momto3]

if the man you meet only cares how you look on the outside, HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!



Yeah!!! What Claudia said!

[without]

And you don't need to be thin to find love!! if the man you meet only cares how you look on the outside, HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!


Though part of me agrees with what you are saying lets face it before a man gets to know you he looks at you outside package first. If only my outsides matched my insides. Sigh... I would be a super model! :lol:

[sarahlynn]

its monday

why is it weekends seem to ruin my good weekly eating habbits..

anyone else liek this? i can eat so good during the week when at work but the weekend hits and i go hog wild on eating

[sophie'smom]

And you don't need to be thin to find love!! if the man you meet only cares how you look on the outside, HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!


Though part of me agrees with what you are saying lets face it before a man gets to know you he looks at you outside package first. If only my outsides matched my insides. Sigh... I would be a super model! :lol:

Let me tell you what DH said when I asked him if his ex was prettier than me (before I met the evil) he said:

Let me just tell you that she was a big sh!t nicley packed in wrapping paper. He said: I know now I am not looking for a pretty woman only, I am looking for somebody that is pretty in the inside out. :oops: and you are both, prettier in the inside and prettier in the outside and that's the reason why she hates you :lol: :lol:

I know there is someone out there right for you and your beautiful DD, if you don't look too hard you will find him :wink:

[without]

my problem with the weekend is Sunday. I love going to dinner with my parents after church. My dad always picks the place and yesterday for lunch he pick Itilian and I had Cheese on top of cheese on top of some more cheese and then fried. It was one of the few things on the menu that didn't have meat. Then after night church for dinner he picked A&W Oh my gosh! there was nothing 1/2 way healthy there! I got a small order of Onion rings and picked out the onion's and just ate the rings. :roll: I sucked yesterday! I have taken all the junk out of the house so I know on Saturdays I am fine. Its the stink'n sundays that kill me!

[without]

http://dl10.glitter-graphics.net/pub/597/597490iie5yweedi.gif (http://www.glitter-graphics.com)

My family used to say that to me to. If you stop looking he will come. Well.. I did that for about a year and they saw that "not" looking I wasn't going to find a soul. If all I do is work and clean my house I am never going to meet a guy or make new friends. So I think part of me has to look a little. :lol:

[Jenny]

Hi ladies!! The cold front has arrived :) It's so nice :) I have my patio doors open and it's probably 63 degrees. Haley is at school and Ronin and Ella are pushing each other around in Ro's big truck :)

[newmami]

I had pizza and garlic bread for dinner yesterday... yeah talk about healty!!!
But I had cottage cheese and an apple for breakfast....
Sarah, it is hard for me to eat correct in the weekends as well, DH hates healthy food

Pam, I agree that you have to look for a man if you want one, but not force things when the man comes
Have you tried other cities close to where you live???

[Momto3]

Pam - I agree with you in a way. You have to at least be attracted to a person in order to start getting to know them.


Yay for the cooler weather Jenny! I can't wait for Saturday.

Did you talk to your sis about your mom?

[sophie'smom]

OMG Claudia!!

Your siggy is soo funny!!

[sarahlynn]

hmm i thought i was going to so womething fun with my hair and color i light blonde..and i did and i said to DH well well does it look differnt

he said NA AH NO :(

darn it..i think it does..

[Momto3]

Let us see Sarah

[without]

Friday January 11, 2008
Week 2

Breakfast
Cup of black coffee

Lunch
Ft. long Subway Veggie Sub (no cheese on wheat) 450

Dinner
1 cup of rice and Peas (220)
5 Prunes (100)
Pretzels (100)

Snack
Peanut Butter (190)
20 Oz of Water

Total 1,060

Saturday January 12, 2008
One year ago today my divorce was finalized 
Week 2

Breakfast
16 oz Water
Slice of Swiss (70)
5 Crackers (70)

Lunch
1 cup of rice and Peas (220)
24 oz of Water
Peanut Butter (90)

Dinner
Veggie Sub (450)
Unsweet Tea (5)

Snack
16 oz of Hood milk 180

Total: 1,085



Sarah ask a female friend about your hair! Guys are so bad at things like hair, new clothes or re doing the house. They never notice. :roll:

[Jenny]

My dh always says that about my hair too, Sarah! I can totally see the difference, but he never can. :roll:

Pam, what about Yahoo personals? My dh met a handful of women thru Yahoo personals before he met his "keeper" (me, though we didn't meet on Yahoo personals.)

[newmami]

I also found DH on yahoo personals.... wait!! not sure I am helping here :mrgreen:

Pam, OMG already a year??? time sure flies!!! oh BTW, I am collecting Summer clothes to send to Morgan, as soon as summer leaves Orlando!!

Dh doesn't notice the hair either... men thing.... although my dad has always been critic of hair (he hates long hair)... which reminds me I need a haircut and to wax my eyebrows (tomorrow)

The picture... Chris LOVES to snoop in the pantry, so when I saw them together, I ran for the camera, like a good mom

Lynn, I love your rock star beauty!!! :wink:

[Momto3]

Lynn, I love your rock star beauty!!! :wink:

Thanks Claudia...she and Tyler were "playing" Guitar Hero!

[without]

Pam, OMG already a year??? time sure flies!!! oh BTW, I am collecting Summer clothes to send to Morgan, as soon as summer leaves Orlando!!



Oh,,, thank you! Claudia I mean it! I don't know what we would have done for clothes this winter if it hadn't been for you sending Dani's outgrown clothes to us! You guys are so sweet!

I love the little Rocker also she is so cute!

OK is there any way if I give you my zip code you all could look at the men on yahoo personals in my area? I mean I need to know is it just me but the all look creapy! LOL

[Jenny]

Ya, I'll look them up for you too :)

[sophie'smom]

I found DH on Amigos.com :oops: It worked for us for most part :wink:

[newmami]

I don't have access to Yahoo at work.......... otherwise I would do that instead of working!!!

I need to get PMS medication, this is ridiculous!! the pain, all over my hips, WTF?? cannot wait until menopause hits :?

[Momto3]

Idon't get Yahoo here either. Surf protected. :roll:

What about when you join a chat room that maybe in your area. They sometimes have get togethers and so you could get to know people and check them out in a crowded situation without having to be one on one.

[without]

Zip is 72744


Girls can my day get any better? Ugh! I just called our local childupport office to find out how much Grant was behind in Child support and they told me I didn't "hire" them to take care of that for me! :roll: Why should I have to hire them? And I thought Morgan had a case because the 2 times Grant did pay he paid them and then the check came to me! This means all this time Grants been in prison and will be in prison I will have no way of getting that money! I asked them how the expected me to hire them when he was only ordered to pay 40 dollars a week in the first place. :twisted: :twisted: I am so mad! I feel as if the system is screwing me. :cry:

[newmami]

Oh Lynn, that sounds like a wonderful idea!!

Dating is the biggest reason why I work things out with DH... I am too old and too neurotic to date again (I doubt someone will take me with all my issues :lol: :lol: )

[without]

Dating is the biggest reason why I work things out with DH... I am too old and too neurotic to date again (I doubt someone will take me with all my issues )


Not true! I would take you in a heart beat! :wink:

[Momto3]

Sleeping and thinking...hmmmm (she had her index finger up under her chin)

http://i49.photobucket.com/albums/f266/LMSwanson/sleeping.jpg

[lexsmama]

AAaw, adorable pics!

[newmami]

So cute Lynn

Pam, can you talk to the court and have them help you??????? Grrrr!!!! I cannot believe they would say "you didn't hired them"... WTF?? what about Morgan's needs???

[Momto3]

Pam - If the checks are (or were) coming through Support Enforcement through the courthouse, you shouldn't have to "hire" them. Was it in your Divorce Decree that support payments go through the court? If so, then they are "HIRED"!

[lexsmama]

Pam - If the checks are (or were) coming through Support Enforcement through the courthouse, you shouldn't have to "hire" them. Was it in your Divorce Decree that support payments go through the court? If so, then they are "HIRED"!

Oooohh... booyah! :oops: :lol:

[without]

No our divorce papers just stated that he had to paychild support of 40 dollars a week until he found a job and then it was to be looked at again to see how much he needed to be paying. I think if any one should have to pay for the hiring it should be him. :roll: GRRRR!!!!

[Jenny]

I talked to my mom and YES!! She is going to start coming up every month to watch the kids, etc., and dh and I can go out!!!

[without]

Oh and if any one can find a chat group for Fayetteville AR let me know! So far I can't find one. :cry: I would love to make some friends Male and female that live closer to me.

[without]

I talked to my mom and YES!! She is going to start coming up every month to watch the kids, etc., and dh and I can go out!!!

Wahoo!!! Thats GREAT!

[Momto3]

Jenny - Great news!

Pam - That is messed up! Ok so what exactly do they mean by "hire" them? How much do you have to pay? Can you do it now?

[lexsmama]

Awesome news, Jenny!!

[newmami]

The people from the child services in AR are getting on my nerves...... :?

Yay Jenn for mom helping with the kids... I am all for kids spending time with grandparents, and you certainly need a break and some adult time with DH

[sophie'smom]

I have total internet access for you Pam :wink:

Also if he was paying CS thru CS enforcement and if he then gave you the money to you while on CS enforcement, he could have gone to them and say that he made an arrangement with you and he will not longer pay thru them.

I have seen lots of cases like this and the yes, you will NEED TO HIRE them again. And go thru court, etc.

And for $40 a week I wouldn't sweat it, if you can afford it, let it accrue and then when he owes you lots of money go back and chew his ass, it will be more painful for him that way :evil: :evil: :evil:

[without]

Pam - That is messed up! Ok so what exactly do they mean by "hire" them? How much do you have to pay? Can you do it now?

to hire them cost 25 dollars a week. :roll: That would leave me with 25 dollars. I know for sure that he is 1,770 behind already. :roll:

[bel]

thanks girls for all your best wishes!!
aw Pam! you will be able to buy a car soon :roll:
YAY Jenny for partners only dates that´s awesome! you really deserve it!

[lexsmama]

ANyone understand P2V? I hate this crap.

[bel]

uh? not me...sorry.
where is saratoo!! drop the cool stone and come to see me!!! :wink:

[without]

I don't even know what PV2 or is it P2V LOL

[Jenny]

So the conversation with my mom went like this:

Me: blah blah blah blah
Mom: blah blah blah
Me: Mom, I want to talk to you about something that's really been bothering me and if I don't say something, I'm going to explode.
Mom: Me too, something is on my mind.
Me: I need some help with the trio so dh and I can get out alone.
Mom: No way. That's exactly what I wanted to talk to you about. It's been bothering me that your sister gets all this help from me, your father, her In-Laws, when YOU are the one who really needs it and you are only 90 minutes away, it's not like you are on the other side of the moon.

Then I started to cry. Then we both pulled out our calendars and picked out a date for this month :)

And I NEVER talked to my sister. My mom and I are so much on the same wave-length that it's scary.

[bel]

:shock: :shock: :shock:

[sarahlynn]

thats so wondeful Jenny

pam i am sorry your going through this childsupport crap..can you get it through the state each month? i know usualy you can arrange that and it makes it much easier..espeically if he isnt consistent on paying thats what the fricki child support office is there for the *******s.. :x


bel i am gonna be there soon in MSN

[without]

Jenny thats GREAT! I wish my mom and I were that way. :P

i know usualy you can arrange that and it makes it much easier..espeically if he isnt consistent on paying thats what the fricki child support office is there for the *******s..

We were going through the child support office before he went to prison but one of us has to "hire" them and pay them if we want them to be any thing more than a bank that transfers the money. :roll:

[lexsmama]

I don't even know what PV2 or is it P2V LOL

Yep, I can't spell.

[sophie'smom]

So the conversation with my mom went like this:

Me: blah blah blah blah
Mom: blah blah blah
Me: Mom, I want to talk to you about something that's really been bothering me and if I don't say something, I'm going to explode.
Mom: Me too, something is on my mind.
Me: I need some help with the trio so dh and I can get out alone.
Mom: No way. That's exactly what I wanted to talk to you about. It's been bothering me that your sister gets all this help from me, your father, her In-Laws, when YOU are the one who really needs it and you are only 90 minutes away, it's not like you are on the other side of the moon.

Then I started to cry. Then we both pulled out our calendars and picked out a date for this month :)

And I NEVER talked to my sister. My mom and I are so much on the same wave-length that it's scary.

That is a covo between DH and his mom, lol.

That's why I always have our family calendar on hand.

I am soo glad and happy for you, are you planning something special any time soon?

[Jenny]

Our wedding anniversary is Jan 31, so we'll plan something the weekend before or the weekend after. I have class on 1-26 so not sure we want to do something that weekend. I like the weekend after, but my mom's sisters are coming down 1-26 and leaving 2-2, so we're still sorting out the dates. But it will happen one of those 2 days....

[without]

We use a program "Basis" here at the U of A and talk about crazy nothing is spelled out. For example if I want to check and see if we have any unpaid bill this is what I have to type.

User Name
Pass word
Enter

Then the program you want (ups)

Then lbue tab i tab pscl enter and then from there it really gets crazy!

Why do they have to make those programs so hard?

[lexsmama]

I have NO clue. I'm waiting on a fax with object codes for each piece in our expeditures/budget list and I can't figure out what the heck these things are.

[Jenny]

Hey Pam,
I found one for you!!

His name is Ralph and he has a 3 year old ds. He looks handsome. See if this link works:

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&src=search&searchinternal=1&adid=personals-1198815437-359679&position=1&total=804&searchmode=1&searchname=

[Jenny]

Okay sigh....I guess you are all IM'ing back and forth. I found a lot of cute men for Pam, but with no one online, no sense saving them. I'm off to do school work. Later ladies.

[glow]

Hey Pam,
I found one for you!!

His name is Ralph and he has a 3 year old ds. He looks handsome. See if this link works:

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&src=search&searchinternal=1&adid=personals-1198815437-359679&position=1&total=804&searchmode=1&searchname=

oh he is handsome ... go for him Pam

[without]

Jenny! I like him! He is cute and is close to where I live! Wow! Your magical! (that or I had just given up) Only bad thing was.

What he is looking for....
Body Type Average Slim, Slender, Average, Athletic, Fit


I sent an icebreaker any way!

[without]

I also updated my pictures! LOL the only pictures I had on my sight were of my dogs! LOL

[Jenny]

Jenny! I like him! He is cute and is close to where I live! Wow! Your magical! (that or I had just given up) Only bad thing was.

What he is looking for....
Body Type Average Slim, Slender, Average, Athletic, Fit


I sent an icebreaker any way!


Yeah!!! I found some more too, but they have their profiles locked so that I can't view them unless I post a profile, and um, not going there. :lol:

I like Ralph though....

[lexsmama]

He's cute! Maybe he'll reply.

[Jenny]

Oh and Pam...you are beautiful. :D

[lexsmama]

Again, ditto! :D

I just learned how to make fondant from marshmallows! I'm all kinds of excited.

[glow]

http://www.child-support-laws-state-by-state.com/arkansas-child-support.html

Arkansas Child Support
This office falls under the jurisdiction of the Division of Revenue, within the Department of Finance and Administration. The OCSE can help you establish paternity, locate your child’s other parent, apply for and enforce child support orders, and collect and disburse child support payments.

Applying For Child Support Services
If you are currently receiving state assistance, such as Transitional Employment Assistance (TEA) or Foster Care, you will automatically be referred to the OCSE for child support services. In fact, if you do receive state or federal assistance, you are required to cooperate in establishing paternity and collecting child support. These payments are then used to offset your public assistance benefits.

But you do not have to receive public assistance in order to obtain services from OCSE. These services are available to any parent or legal guardian who is interested in child support. You just need to complete and submit a written application through the Department of Human Services.

Applications can be obtained from your local OCSE office, or by calling 501-682-8398. Families who do not receive public assistance must pay a $25 nonrefundable fee in order to process this application and open your case.

In addition, the OCSE office aims to recover at least part of the actual costs of services that it provides to clients that are not in the TEA or Medicaid programs. This includes the cost of legal work done by OCSE attorneys, costs of establishing paternity, and costs of locating a non-custodial parent. Depending upon the case, the costs may be collected from the non-custodial parent or deducted from the child support payment before it is sent to the payee. For more information about the costs of OCSE services, check out the following websites:

For Custodial Parents:
2005CPApp_000.pdf

For Non-Custodial Parents:
2005NCPApp_000.pdf

In filling out the application for child support services, be prepared to provide the following information:

1. The non-custodial parent’s full name, address, employer, and Social Security number

2. Information about the non-custodial parent’s income and assets

3. Birth certificate(s) of the child(ren)

4. Your child support order, divorce decree, or separation agreement if you have one

5. Records of any previously paid child support

If you need a Lawyer? LegalMatch allows you to present your case, and respond only to lawyers who want to help you. It's Free & Confidential. Find a Child Support Lawyer Now.



Calculating Arkansas Child Support
The court will determine the amount of child support to be paid based on the needs of the child and the custodial and financial status of each parent. The amount of child support is determined using the Arkansas Supreme Court guidelines that are available at: Arkansas Child Support Judiciary

Enforcing Arkansas Child Support Orders
State and federal child support laws provide a number of tools and methods that the Arkansas OCSE can use to collect child support and enforce child support orders. The primary method of collecting child support is income withholding, whereby the child support payments are deducted from the non-custodial parent’s paycheck. OCSE can also file property liens; deduct child support from unemployment compensation or worker’s compensation; report child support debts to credit bureaus; suspend driver's, recreational, or professional licenses; seize vehicles or personal property for sale at public auction; intercept income tax refunds or lottery winnings; prepare your case for court action; and petition another state for assistance when needed.

Collecting and Distributing Arkansas Child Support Payments
Arkansas now requires that all new or modified child support orders mandate the use of income withholding as the method of payment. However, if there is "good cause," the court may make an exception to this rule. To qualify for this exception, you must prove that income withholding would not be in the best interest of your child and that you have made all of your previous payments on time.

Once child support payments are made to the OCSE, they are typically processed on the same day that they are received and credited to the appropriate account the following business day.

Getting Information About Your Arkansas Child Support Case
Custodial parents can obtain information about child support payments from the OCSE’s toll free automated voice response service at (800)-264-2445 or online at: Child Support Services And either parent can also call, write or email his or her local OCSE caseworker for more information. If you don’t know who your caseworker is, you can call the OCSE Central Office Customer Service at 501-371-5349 or 877-731-3071 and they will direct you to the appropriate caseworker for your case.

Either parent can get help to have a child support order reviewed at least every three years, or whenever there is a substantial change in circumstances, to ensure that the order remains fair.

Reviewing and Modifying Arkansas Child Support Orders
From time to time, a support order may need to be modified due to a change in circumstances or terminated when the child no longer needs support. OCSE can assist with these procedures. If you have a case managed by OCSE, you should request a review in writing to the child support office that you normally contact for assistance. If you do not have a case with OCSE, you will need to consult with the court or a private attorney, or apply for services with OCSE.

Arkansas Child Support Evaders
The Arkansas OCSE office maintains a website at: Arkansas' Child Support Evadersto identify individuals that have not made a child support payment in at least six months, and owe at least $5,000 in child support arrears. In each case, child support arrest warrants have been issued for the arrest of the offending individual. If you information about any of the people on this website, you are asked to contact the Arkansas Office of Child Support Enforcement at 1-877-731-3071. Enforcing Child Support

Making Child Support Payments
Payments may be made in the following ways:

By Post:
Arkansas Child Support Clearinghouse
PO Box 8124
Little Rock, AR 72203

By Western Union:
If paying by Western Union, you will need to provide the following information:

1. Pay To: Arkansas Child Support Enforcement

2. Code City: ARCHILD

3. State: AR

4. Account Info: Enter 9-digit case number in the account number field. Enter your Social Security number on the attention line.



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okay so maybe im reading this wrong but it seems he should be paying them and they pay you anyway and it looks like its a one time 25 fee to have a case opened with them if you want them to investigate?

[newmami]

Pam, Ralph sounds like a nice man and he is handsome. I like the fact that he is OK with kids and that he didn't got picky on his options.
I hope at least you can meet him for coffee, he is handsome!! :vibes:

Jenny, yay for the conversation with your mom. My mom told me once "A mom would always do whatever needed for her child".... I understand that now that I am a mom.... they are there for us, we just need to ask for help (see, mine is here for a month to care for my children, no questions asked except when do you need me there?) AWESOME!!!

Ash, I wish I could bake and decorate cakes... I would love to have a party planning business, where you offer matching cakes as well!

[lexsmama]

Ash, I wish I could bake and decorate cakes... I would love to have a party planning business, where you offer matching cakes as well!

If we were closer, Claudia, if we were closer... We'd make a killing. :wink:

[Jenny]

Oh so my dh has lost his keys. He is beside himself. He was an hour late for work this morning b/c he was looking for them. He does this all the time, but I usually find them within 15 minutes. But I haven't been able to find them today!! Bummer. He's so tall that he ends up putting them up high and I think that's what happend again and I can't see up that high!

[sarahlynn]

loosing keys sucks..dh is bad at that..loosing everything..

oh he looks nice pam did ya send him a message?

i wish clients would understand LUNCH HOUR and stop calling :x

[lexsmama]

Oooh, losing keys sucks. Wish I could help, but I lose everything. This morning it was pantyhose. Yesterday it was my shoes. :lol:

Don't answer, Sarah. That'll teach em. :twisted: I know you probably can't, but it's an option! :lol:

[newmami]

I hate people interrupting with work when I am at lunch... hello?? not paid means no work related!!!

Jenny, I hope your Dh finds the keyes

I feel like going home, my nose and brain are stuffed..... I have to go get the balloons and cold medication after work

Oh, so Chris can "walk" while holding to the couch, the side walk :shock: :shock: I am in TROUBLE!!!!

[Jenny]

WooHoo!! Chris is crusing!!

So....what are the plans for the Saturday meet-up??

[newmami]

I don't know Jenny, I hope we can make it to BG around 10 am, as we are driving Saturday morning.

[without]

thanks glow!

[Jenny]

I don't know Jenny, I hope we can make it to BG around 10 am, as we are driving Saturday morning.


Hmmm...I'm sure by Friday something will have been decided. Hopefully.

[Momto3]

Jenny - Wow! Your mom and you on the same wave length! Awesome!

Pam - I didn't see him, but go for Ralph. Disregard what they put as preferred body types and introduce yourself anyway.

Ashley - WTG on the fondant! Yummm Yummmm


As for BG on Friday...gotta consult with Stacy, she's my master planner! :lol: Jenny are you going to be able to come with us?!?!?!

[Jenny]

Jenny - Wow! Your mom and you on the same wave length! Awesome!

Pam - I didn't see him, but go for Ralph. Disregard what they put as preferred body types and introduce yourself anyway.

Ashley - WTG on the fondant! Yummm Yummmm


As for BG on Friday...gotta consult with Stacy, she's my master planner! :lol: Jenny are you going to be able to come with us?!?!?!


No, I have class :cry: But I'll meet up with you all after class. I just need to know the details, etc....

[without]

I sent him an ice breaker and I forwarded it on to my Mom, Dad and sister to see if any of them knew him. they all said no. :roll: Maybe I should print it off and take it to my hair dresser. LOL :P

[without]

I killed it!

[Jenny]

I killed it!

What????

[newmami]

Did you killed Ralph????????????????????????????????????????????? ?

He he he!! I was actually doing some work, but I am always coming back!!! :twisted:

[without]

Today must be the day for work. That or every one is still trying to recover from the weekend. Its a short week for me I only have 3 1/2 more days to go until I am off work. Wish I was going with you all to BG.

[Momto3]

You still can Pam! You killed Ralph?


Its a big time work day for me!

[newmami]

I really hate when I have to work :lol: ... oh so cynical!!!!
I need to make 2 personal phone calls and I am not even in the mood for that

[Momto3]

I'm a dork...what is up with my double posting!

[sja1508]

Hey! I hate days where I have to actually work.

Okay, here's the update so far.....

Called the hotel we are staying at (lynn and I) and they have meeting rooms that sound perfect. They normally rent them out but the clerk is calling the manager to see if we can have it for free since we are guest of the hotel and it's only for a few hours on an evening. I told him we would need it from 5-7pm??? I'm waiting on him to call me back.

If that doesn't work, we'll go to Plan B. (off to think of plan B)

[lexsmama]

I just signed up for the campus recreation membership. I get this week free and start feb 1! I also signed up for a trainer... Go me!

You killed what, Pam?

[Jenny]

Hey! I hate days where I have to actually work.

Okay, here's the update so far.....

Called the hotel we are staying at (lynn and I) and they have meeting rooms that sound perfect. They normally rent them out but the clerk is calling the manager to see if we can have it for free since we are guest of the hotel and it's only for a few hours on an evening. I told him we would need it from 5-7pm??? I'm waiting on him to call me back.

If that doesn't work, we'll go to Plan B. (off to think of plan B)


Sounds good. My only concern would be boredom with the kids, no toys or anything to entertain them. Is there a heated pool?

[Momto3]

Hey! I hate days where I have to actually work.

Okay, here's the update so far.....

Called the hotel we are staying at (lynn and I) and they have meeting rooms that sound perfect. They normally rent them out but the clerk is calling the manager to see if we can have it for free since we are guest of the hotel and it's only for a few hours on an evening. I told him we would need it from 5-7pm??? I'm waiting on him to call me back.

If that doesn't work, we'll go to Plan B. (off to think of plan B)


Go Stacy! My little organizer!

We need to get together to figure out what time to meet up for breakfast and head over to BG too!
I just signed up for the campus recreation membership. I get this week free and start feb 1! I also signed up for a trainer... Go me!




Yay Ashley! My orientation is tomorrow morning!

[newmami]

Pam killed the cute guy that Jenny found for him.... :shock: :lol:

The time sounds good...... should we bring some toys/crayons or something to entertain the kids??????????

Yay Ashley for the trainer... I need to suck up the guilt of being a working mom, and sign for a gym, so I can work out

[Jenny]

Lynn or Stacy can you PM me where you are staying? That way I'll know what part of town you are in for breakfast, and a possible Plan B.

[sophie'smom]

Hey Pam,
I found one for you!!

His name is Ralph and he has a 3 year old ds. He looks handsome. See if this link works:

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&src=search&searchinternal=1&adid=personals-1198815437-359679&position=1&total=804&searchmode=1&searchname=

ooohhh uuhhh aaahhh, Jenny the matchmaker, he is handsome!!

Go for it Pam, he is cute!!

[sja1508]

Good Point Jenny! Since we are all driving, why don't we all bring just 2 or 3 toys and bring them to the dinner, that way the kids will have stuff to do!

Plus, we got Lynn's cuties (Tyler and Shelley) for babysitting and playmates 8)

[without]

I thought I had killed this topic no on was talking. :wink:

[Momto3]

Hey Pam,
I found one for you!!

His name is Ralph and he has a 3 year old ds. He looks handsome. See if this link works:

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&src=search&searchinternal=1&adid=personals-1198815437-359679&position=1&total=804&searchmode=1&searchname=

ooohhh uuhhh aaahhh, Jenny the matchmaker, he is handsome!!

Go for it Pam, he is cute!!

Blah! Surf Control...Access Denied! I can't even see the dude!

[without]

Yea now its just sit and wait... see if he likes my profile and if he sends me a message back. I am not good at waiting. :?

[sja1508]

The guy answered the phone La Quinta but it's listed under hotels.com as

Quality Inn Busch Gardens
400 E Bearss Ave
Tampa, FL 33613

[sophie'smom]

I sent him an ice breaker and I forwarded it on to my Mom, Dad and sister to see if any of them knew him. they all said no. :roll: Maybe I should print it off and take it to my hair dresser. LOL :P

Well tell them that WE the APA Ladies gave you the OK :wink:

[sja1508]

Tara and I met online...she is also a physical therapist.....hmmmmmmmm

Sounds like fate to me!!!!!

[Momto3]

Good Point Jenny! Since we are all driving, why don't we all bring just 2 or 3 toys and bring them to the dinner, that way the kids will have stuff to do!

Plus, we got Lynn's cuties (Tyler and Shelley) for babysitting and playmates 8)

If the Manager goes for it, sounds perfect!

[without]

Here you go for those of you who are blocked this is him. :oops:

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/forthegirls.jpg

[Jenny]

Yea now its just sit and wait... see if he likes my profile and if he sends me a message back. I am not good at waiting. :?


Let's see your profile!!!

[newmami]

Jenny, I am staying in a hotel in Folwer & I-75. Like 10 min from BG

[without]

Going to get it for you. 8)

[sophie'smom]

Here you go for those of you who are blocked this is him. :oops:

http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a69/pscott7715/forthegirls.jpg

He is cute!!

Who esle is staying at LaQuinta, PM me please :wink:

[Jenny]

Jenny, I am staying in a hotel in Folwer & I-75. Like 10 min from BG


The one with the restaurant?? I think an IHOP??

[without]

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile

[Jenny]

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile


That's just a link for me to make my own profile. :cry:

[newmami]

I am the only idiot who now is hoping that this dude contacts Pam?? he is so handsome!! and he looks like a nice man (hey, his pic sort of has his son, that is a biggie!!!)

[Jenny]

I am the only idiot who now is hoping that this dude contacts Pam?? he is so handsome!! and he looks like a nice man (hey, his pic sort of has his son, that is a biggie!!!)

I KNOW he will contact her. I have good vibes about it all!!

[lexsmama]

Well, he likes to hunt. :lol:

I'm all kinds of excited to see what happens. Can we find anything out about the guy? Make sure he's not a serial killer or something?

[newmami]

The only thing I don't like is the dead animal next to him, but hey, I am a city girl!!!

[Momto3]

The only thing I don't like is the dead animal next to him, but hey, I am a city girl!!!


Agreed, but yes, I approve, so far.

[Jenny]

The only thing I don't like is the dead animal next to him, but hey, I am a city girl!!!


Ya, when I found his profile I didn't see the entire photo, so I didn't know it was a dead hog. :lol: But he's in Arkansas...that's what they do there, right??

[sophie'smom]

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile


That's just a link for me to make my own profile. :cry:

I clicked on it and MY profile came up!! I didn't know I still had mine on, lol

Off to set it innactive :lol: :lol:

[sarahlynn]

eeeew thats a big oooglay pig :lol: but he is handsome..

oh mani hope he contacts her..how frickin fun :D

iwanna date i wanna date

[without]

ugh! I don't know how to get a link for my proflie! I hope he contacts me too! He has a lot of the things I am looking for. The dead hog...well...as long as he eats it I am ok with it. I hate it when they kill them just for sport. :roll: I wish I could figure out how to make it where you could see my profile! :evil: :roll:

[sophie'smom]

open your profile and then copy and paste the link.

[sarahlynn]

im excited eeek for you :D

[without]

I tried and it just gives me the link to create a profile . :?: off to try again. :wink:

[without]

Lets see what this one does. LOL

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/personals-1181230209-938943;_ylt=AsaiB45Lh72wxOM37Rj9xhcLOrgF

[newmami]

I am excited too... I AM A DORK!!!
I miss the butterfly in your stomach feeling that new man give you.......

Didn't worked Pam...... :(

[without]

Its still says my pictures are pending. :roll:

[without]

Didn't worked Pam......

i don't know then! when I click it it takes me to my page. HUMPH! I give!

[Jenny]

Okay, I can see it. You need to add a photo Pam!! Ralph wants to see how beautiful you are!!

[newmami]

:hissy: cannot see it :hissy:

[without]

I added two of them this AM and when I go on to check on them it says its the photo's are still pending I hope they get them up before he logs on.

[without]

Claudia did you try clicking on the link again I edited it once. :wink:

[Jenny]

:hissy: cannot see it :hissy:

I had to create a profile to see it. I just put blah blah blah in all the fields. :lol:

[Momto3]

Help you guys! Topic: Separation Anxiety.

Katelyn is getting worse and worse. Before I could drop her at my moms, spend a few with her and leave for work and she happily waved good-bye. Now she cries there too. I hate it. Anyway, she is doing it with DH. Like if I have to go to the bathroom or in to take a shower or something, he will pick her up when she starts to cry but she wants no part of it. Last night she didn't even want him to help her with her water glass. I had to put my hand on his so that we were BOTH doing it or she wouldn't drink.

Now the question: Do I let her carry on and just have DH help her, or should I just do it myself so she is happy and content? I hate seeing her cry if I know I can calm my baby, but its starting to hurt DH's feelings. :roll:

[sophie'smom]

:hissy: cannot see it :hissy:

CLICK NO THANK YOU and it will redirect yo to her profile.

I like your profile Pam.

[newmami]

Computer work doesn't allow me to access the website :?

[without]

RATS Claudia!

[lexsmama]

Ugh. They finally make me work. :cry: Articulated agreements suck.

[sarahlynn]

Its still says my pictures are pending. :roll:

thast cause they are naughty pics right :lol:

where is the link to your profile?

i wanna man hunt for you darn it

[without]

Help you guys! Topic: Separation Anxiety.

Katelyn is getting worse and worse. Before I could drop her at my moms, spend a few with her and leave for work and she happily waved good-bye. Now she cries there too. I hate it. Anyway, she is doing it with DH. Like if I have to go to the bathroom or in to take a shower or something, he will pick her up when she starts to cry but she wants no part of it. Last night she didn't even want him to help her with her water glass. I had to put my hand on his so that we were BOTH doing it or she wouldn't drink.

Now the question: Do I let her carry on and just have DH help her, or should I just do it myself so she is happy and content? I hate seeing her cry if I know I can calm my baby, but its starting to hurt DH's feelings.


I wish I had some good advice but... I don't. Morgan does this from time to time and I do not steep in to help unless the person she is tossing the fit with ask me to. Some times when its my EX MIL I steep in but that more of a protection thing.

[without]

Link is one page back towards the bottom. :wink:

You guys have seen both pictures One is the picture right after I had my hair colored and cut and the other is the picture of Me my sister and Morgan the funny one that was in my siggy around christmas. I don't know why it is taking them so long to OK them.

[sophie'smom]

Computer work doesn't allow me to access the website :?

I will email you the screen :D Yes, I love you that much :wink:

[Jenny]

I am no good with seperation anxiety either. Sorry Lynn :(


So, I was bored and thought "hmmm...if I was single what would my pickings be like?" OMG...the first one I clicked on said Looking for my SOLE mate. So he either wants to treat her like the bottom of a shoe, or eat her like a fish :lol: I decided I wasn't "that" bored. :lol:

[sophie'smom]

I am no good with seperation anxiety either. Sorry Lynn :(


So, I was bored and thought "hmmm...if I was single what would my pickings be like?" OMG...the first one I clicked on said Looking for my SOLE mate. So he either wants to treat her like the bottom of a shoe, or eat her like a fish :lol: I decided I wasn't "that" bored. :lol:

hahahaha, like the evil wrote on her profile on match.com: My favorite body part is my heals :lol: I think she meant heels. :lol: :lol:

[Jenny]

I am no good with seperation anxiety either. Sorry Lynn :(


So, I was bored and thought "hmmm...if I was single what would my pickings be like?" OMG...the first one I clicked on said Looking for my SOLE mate. So he either wants to treat her like the bottom of a shoe, or eat her like a fish :lol: I decided I wasn't "that" bored. :lol:

hahahaha, like the evil wrote on her profile on match.com: My favorite body part is my heals :lol: I think she meant heels. :lol: :lol:


How can your heels be your favorite body part? She's nuts.

[sarahlynn]

hahahaha, like the evil wrote on her profile on match.com: My favorite body part is my heals :lol: I think she meant heels. :lol: :lol:

:shock: are you frickin serious??????? her heels? heals? whatever that is creepy

[newmami]

I did the same the other day Jenny, on match.com... but all the creeps in Orlando are looking for someone without kids.... and most of them are "never married".... scary thought if they are over 35......

[sarahlynn]

bad girls now you have me all curious as to who is available in our area..im just curious :lol:

[newmami]

Thanks Cecilia!!
I love it Pam, I really do. Honest and sweet

If you need references, you can put my phone number!!!

[sarahlynn]

well the party is in the works..who is coming..?

I have the hotel booked for next sunday and now i need invites and food and party crap..DH thinks cy needs a pinata :lol: i just cant hack a ton of little boys so i am drawing the line at 2 friend at the hotel for the night..thats not much huh :( but man more than that can be wild..

i cant believe i will have an 8 year old in another week :(

[sophie'smom]

I am no good with seperation anxiety either. Sorry Lynn :(


So, I was bored and thought "hmmm...if I was single what would my pickings be like?" OMG...the first one I clicked on said Looking for my SOLE mate. So he either wants to treat her like the bottom of a shoe, or eat her like a fish :lol: I decided I wasn't "that" bored. :lol:

hahahaha, like the evil wrote on her profile on match.com: My favorite body part is my heals :lol: I think she meant heels. :lol: :lol:


How can your heels be your favorite body part? She's nuts.

I know that, right?? My friends at my other office made a copy of her profile and post it on the board, lol

Also, she wrote that she was a college graduate and DH said that she only went one semester at KSU, lol

She also said that she was Latin since her mom was born in the British Guyana, somebody give her a map, please!! And she is not even an US American to excuse her that she can't look up countries on a map, lol

Pam, I am sure he will reply soon :D

You're welcome Claudia!

Yaay for CY, he is a big boy now!!

[bel]

OMG Pam he is so handsome!!! Im soooooooooo wishing he contacts you!!! ekk!! Good luck! :waytogo:

Morning girls!! whats new??

Damit I was wishing I could go to the lake house on thursday, but my sales manager just brought me her DD´s 15 party´s card :? on friday...that means I would have to wait until saturday to be able to go! :? why cant I have 3 days of vaca??? :x
Im her boss and she has being working with us for 18 years, I cant avoid going :(

[lexsmama]

Morning ladies!

Aaaw, Cy's a big boy! It won't be that bad Sarah. :wink:

Nice profile, Pam! Good job.

We're home for today and Friday. Lex has his 15 month check up, complete with shots this morning. I took off half a day, with the notion that I may take off the whole, depending on how Lex does. Should I go on in to work? I don't know. I have to call the preschool and let them know if Lex will be back or not. I hate it when my conscience (sp??) moves in sometimes...

[Momto3]

Oh I know what you mean Ashley! If you have the time and your job won't complain then I say take the time to be with your baby! If he is getting any shots he may want his Mama!

Sarah - Cy is such a big boy now!

[newmami]

Stay home and enjoy your little one Ash.
Bel, sorry about the party and the screwed up plans :?

Sarah, party sounds good, pinatas are messy, you can do without.

My balloon fiasco... I went to the supermarket to get my balloons for yesterday... I got the balloons but they didn't had hellium!! so I went to CVS and asked them for help, they charged me $8 to fill the balloons, OK fine I paid... their hellium thingy wasn't working!! by that time it is getting dark and I am almost in tears because no balloons....
So I am leaving early today, go to the party store, get the balloons and send them out.... I am frustrated as h#ll

Oh and DH is giving me the silent treatment because I made a comment about him spending too much in his helicopter, and he got offended. :roll: I am so tired of walking on eggshells every time, because he is easily offended........
But then I told him that someone here said I was very supportive and non judgemental, and he laughed and he said "are you for real? you non judgemental???"........ OK, I criticize the way people dress, but I don't make judgement calls on their lives because of that.... so yeah, I am thrilled with DH this week...... and THEN he gets upset because I don't wan to BD with him.... HELLO AF IS HERE ??????

Edited to correct my horrible spelling :oops:

[lexsmama]

Aaaw, Claudia, I'm so sorry! I had a rough day yesterday, so we're doing balloons right after nap today.

I'm going to do it. I'll call the school and work later to let them know.

[Jenny]

Morning ladies.

Sorry about the plans, Bel :(

And Claudia....you are one of the MOST supportive non-judgemental mama I've ever had the fortunate opportunity to meet :) Your dh needs a big wake up call.

Sarah, the party sounds so fun. I wish we lived closer.

It's cold here this morning. We're all still in our PJ's and I have a fire going in the fireplace :) Though I think we'll try to get out around 11am for a walk up to the clubhouse park :)

[without]

Bel...is there any way you could just send a small gift and tell them you are sorry but you won't be able to make it on such short notice that you already had plans with your family?

Claudia...um...well..never mind you know. :roll: Ugh!

Jenny, have fun on you walk.

[Jenny]

Oh Pam....any word from Ralph????

[Momto3]

Claudia - I can't beleive your DH...hmmmm maybe its better that he doesn't want to come this weekend.

[without]

Oh Pam....any word from Ralph????

I haven't looked yet. You girls come 1st! :wink: Off to see what I can see!

[without]

Sigh...nothing....he looked at my profile but didn't respond. :roll: Oh, well it was fun to be excited for a little while. Being on the market can ruin what little confidance a person has. :cry: I hate being judged just on my looks :evil: I am a good person darn it! Why can't any one see past my out side package?

On the other hand some one else had sent me a message but under marital status it says "tell you later". Um....no thanks if your not "single" or "divorced" I don't want to get in the middle of all that drama! LOL

[Jenny]

Sigh...nothing....he looked at my profile but didn't respond. :roll: Oh, well it was fun to be excited for a little while. Being on the market can ruin what little confidance a person has. :cry: I hate being judged just on my looks :evil: I am a good person darn it! Why can't any one see past my out side package?

On the other hand some one else had sent me a message but under marital status it says "tell you later". Um....no thanks if your not "single" or "divorced" I don't want to get in the middle of all that drama! LOL


How can you tell he looked at your profile. It says his name? Maybe he's just overwhelmed by all you have to offer and is working on a sweet reply.

[Momto3]

Pam - Did your pictures get approved and posted?

On the other person, find out what their story is under marital status. You never know...don't count them out until you know the whole story.

[sophie'smom]

Good Morning Ladies!!!

Bel, what about going to the party, say hello, give the gift and LEAVE??? We have done this when we really want to do something together but someone gets on the way :oops:

Claudia, ugghh!! Your DH is making me mad! and he better not go to BG with us or I will give him the cold look :twisted:

Pam, tell us, tell us :lol:

Ladies, i am pretty slammed today and I need to get things done, I have plans in mind and IF everything goes the way it's supossed, I will be able to quit my job, keep your fingers crossed for me please.

See ya later.

PS: Please give me a list of who is going to BG with us, what time we are meeting for breakfast, etc. Stacy, Claudia, you two have my cell, so give me a call is something comes up. have Stacy's cell so I will be in touch with her.

[without]

Monday January 14, 2008
Week 2

Breakfast
Yogurt (180)
½ a cup of coffee

Lunch
Cliff bar (240)
20 oz of Water

Snack
Carrots (40)
Gum (5)

Dinner
Kraut on Rye with 1 slice of Swiss cheese (330)
½ cup of low fat cottage cheese (90)
20 oz water

Snack
Popsicle (15)


*some thing I would only share with you guys* YEA! I finally Poo'd! LOL



The guys who says I will tell you later under if he is married or not his picture looks like he posted one from HighSchool. That makes me kind of scared that he can't post one of him now ya know. LOL I will talk to him and ask him some questions. I can't help but be a little disapointed that ol' Ralph didn't write. Oh, well back to the drawing board. LOL Yep is gives you a list of men who have looked at your sight. Some of the men who have been looking at mine would scare a person to death. I will post a few in a minute. :wink:

[newmami]

How can you tell he looked at your profile. It says his name? Maybe he's just overwhelmed by all you have to offer and is working on a sweet reply

I agree with Jenny..... maybe his son needed him so he couldn't type a response, so he is working on that... or the phone rang.
We will be your cheerleaders Pam, believe me!!! we know you and we know how much you have to offer!!!

It is COLD here too!!! my house was frozen, I put the heater on but apparently I messed up. Kids started making noise around 6, so I went in and covered them with the warm blankets (why can't they keep the blankets on) and turned the heat on... house was 68*.... my poor mom was freezing to, But at least kiddos were alseep when I left!!

So all this Ralph talk made me think about what would I look for in the remote case I was single and looking for a man, and I came to the realization that yes I need to be attracted to him, but the values are by far more important than the outside.... I would like someone who shares my family values, who likes to do things I like, and who is willing to be a real partner, not just a roomate with benefits :roll:

Chris has a Dr's appointment today (9 months :shock: ) I am curious to see how big and heavy he is!!

[without]

Good luck with Chris' DR appointment and thanks for standing beind me..


Here is a creapy guy who has looke at my profile
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&adid=personals-1200261071-218882&src=wvm&done=http%3A%2F%2Fpersonals.yahoo.com%2Fwvm%2Flist %3Fpagenum%3D1

Or here is the guy who doesn't know if he is single or not

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&adid=personals-1194996590-470120&src=wvm&done=http%3A%2F%2Fpersonals.yahoo.com%2Fwvm%2Flist %3Fpagenum%3D1

[sarahlynn]

oh my oh my...

maybe the other guy is gettin divorced :lol:

[Jenny]

Good luck with Chris' DR appointment and thanks for standing beind me..


Here is a creapy guy who has looke at my profile
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&adid=personals-1200261071-218882&src=wvm&done=http%3A%2F%2Fpersonals.yahoo.com%2Fwvm%2Flist %3Fpagenum%3D1

Or here is the guy who doesn't know if he is single or not

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/profile?cmd=view&adid=personals-1194996590-470120&src=wvm&done=http%3A%2F%2Fpersonals.yahoo.com%2Fwvm%2Flist %3Fpagenum%3D1


Okay, that first one is SCARY! And that second one. He's totally married with children. It looks like a family photo that he cropped. Steer away from him. My radar went off when I saw him and read his profile.

[without]

I so agree Jenny. Some thing about him just said WOW! Back that truck up and hit NO THANK YOU! :lol:

[sophie'smom]

More than married he looks like a gigolo (sp) or a vampire on the hunt for some money sucking :?

Back off buddy!!

[newmami]

Cannot see those creeps, but I trust the other ladies judgement... besides we already established that we like Ralph :wink:

I don't want to work, I am zoned out today...... and people are getting on my nerves very easy (here at work).... ugh
I need to find me a man that would let me stay at home....... DID I JUST SAID THAT OUT LOUD???????????? :shock: :shock:

[sarahlynn]

I need to find me a man that would let me stay at home....... DID I JUST SAID THAT OUT LOUD???????????? :shock: :shock:

well if you have one that does that can i have one that lets me work part time and knows that when the garbage is full it needs to be taken out :lol:

[bel]

sadly I cant avoid going to the party, out company is giving her DD an awesome cell as a present so that´s not it, it just would be rude not to go KWIM, the lake house is 40mins away anyways. Oscar as always doesnt wanna go in the week end :roll: I told him WTH are we going to do at home again with this heat (120 :shock: ) he sais he doesnt like the house "too much" :evil:
Im going on saturday anyways with or without him 8)

Dont worry Pam!! the better one is arround the corner, youre so pretty!! :wink:

[sarahlynn]

aww bel you got a lot going on right now....grrrr to oscar darn him anyways..

i am feeling all UGH because i had to put 1900 on a credit card last night to pay off the remainder of my school balance..thye wouldnt take payments and naturaly wouldnt send me my diploma with a balance so i am not happy darn it..but i didnt want it turned over to collections..

[bel]

im sorry saratoo about the payment :( does suck.
how about matt? how are you guys doing? did you hug him yesterday? :wink:
Cy is a big boy now!! i wanna see the party pics :D
for get about oscar who needs him anyways, we sleep with the kids so no BD for us, he can stay home :lol:
im hungry

[without]

Sarah! Ugh! Sorry to hear about that! OUch!

[sarahlynn]

Bel matt has been doing better hasnt missed a night coming to bed..

last night i heard him up playing video games at 2:00 am :? so when lucea woke up i let her yell for me a few times and he went and got her :lol: and brought her to me..i pretended to be sleeping :lol: he said "she is pretty upset" and put her to bed with wiht me :lol: so all three of us snuggled last night

[bel]

awww Im so happy Saratoo!! that´s exactly what you need :wink:

[without]

last night i heard him up playing video games at 2:00 am so when lucea woke up i let her yell for me a few times and he went and got her and brought her to me..i pretended to be sleeping he said "she is pretty upset" and put her to bed with wiht me so all three of us snuggled last night



thats GREAT! Your so smart! :wink:

[newmami]

So sweet of Matt to do that... if my kids wake up at night, DH pretends he didn't heard them :roll:
Yes I am married to the ideal man & Dad...................

Anyways, so this lady who was our supervisor has been demoted to a Secretary... and I am laughing hard because she deserves it!! she is mean spirited and she is a hypocrit, so now she has no control over the assistants... YEAH!!
The best thing is that they switched me from her position to being an assistant again (after I came back from maternity leave) which was low but whatever, like I care about this job..... now she doesn't know for sure if she would have a job in 6 months or not..... see?? KARMA baby!!!

[bel]

pam im bumping this thread since aparently after 813 pages you killed it :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
where is my saratoO? lina and I are waiting you nuts

[newmami]

Apparently everybody is working today... what is up with that??????????

[without]

Wow! I bet she isn't happy!

I brought Kraout for lunch and its stinking up my office. :oops:

[without]

Oh, my gosh! My EX monster in law just called me on my cell phone! She is in OK city and needs me to go by her house on my way home and let her dog out to go to the bath room! :twisted: Why didn't she ask a friend to do that for her before she left! Oh, yeah because she doesn't have any! I hate to do this for her but I also hate the thought of the dog having to hold it that long! :evil: Some times I feel as if I will never be free of her :roll:

[without]

Ewww! Yuck girls that old guy with the long hair just emailed me! OOHHH! So scary! LOL


hi pam, i see you like kids.so do i. i have 2 good looking boys 5 and 16 months old. that are adorable. i'd like to get to know you

dwight

[sarahlynn]

im on bel add me darn it..


i have to run at lunch and get party stuff for cys birthday

[without]

My mom called me last night and told me she picked up party stuff for Morgans Birthday! (just going to be my close family) I could have kissed her! I wanted to get Morgan a party hat and some little decorations but couldn't afford it! I love my mom! :vibes:

[newmami]

Yay Pam for mom's help, aren't moms the best???? :vibes:
I didn't saw the pictures, but if the long hair dude cannot write a little more, I would say take a hike
And :roll: to your MIL...... :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

I am in a funk today...... must be AF...... ugh! I feel like I just want to curl on bed all day...... I hate feeling like this :?

[sarahlynn]

AWW PAM that is great your mom bought them...how cool...my mom and dad always come through helping us out..

[without]

Claudia, did Dani have to have shots at her 2 year check up?

[newmami]

Aww Pam, you are just going to expose how bad mom I am..... I don't remember!! :oops: :oops:
I don't think she did... wait!! I have a paper in my purse...... nope, no shots

Ok, so I have been doing a lot of thinking about my marriage... I am going to talk to DH again, and just put an ultimatum.... I am tired of talking, things being great for 1 week, and then we go back to theI-don't-help-at-home-but-I-still-demand-sex-from-you, and I am honestly tired of that...... I am going to work on a letter for him, letting him know exactly how I feel, and see what happens..... and tell him that he needs to make a little effort to make things work, because he always expects me to be the one taking the first step, I have to give in on sex so he will be happy and THEN he will be a fairly decent Daddy... well I am tired of everything being MY responsability (taken or given) and if he is not willing to make an effort, then there is no point in keeping this farse of a marriage :(

[bel]

Im sorry CLau...it´s have been a very long ride :(
does your mom can notice when things arent going good between you both?

[without]

Claudia I know how it feels to be the only one in a two person relationship who is trying to make it work. I hope the letter works for you and gives him a wake up call.

[newmami]

Im sorry CLau...it´s have been a very long ride :(
does your mom can notice when things arent going good between you both?
Yes she does, and we have been talking a lot, so she knows things are not pretty.... she encourages me to talk to him and force him to change, but I am just tired of being the only mule pulling the wagon ** sigh **

[lexsmama]

Aaaw, Claudia, I'm sorry.

Dang, you ladies post fast!

Lex came home exhausted. He got 2 shots. The Hib is on short supply, so they are saving it for the baby babies for now. Wow. Dr said to just be willing to keep trying on lex's eating issues, and a vitamin is alright. She also said that Lex is doing things a 2 year old does.. :shock:

[without]

Way to go Lex!!!!

[newmami]

Way to go Lex!!!
We used to give Danielle polivisol in her milk, and she took it without any problems

[sarahlynn]

holy crap birthday stuff is expensive.. :?


man claudia i am sorry you go through this :(

[lexsmama]

We're going to find some polyvsol soon.

[newmami]

Ash, Target has a generic one... WAAAAY cheaper!!

Yes Sarah, bday stuff is expensive!!! :?

[without]

my heart hurts for you claudia! I wish I could be there to help you out. :cry:

[newmami]

Oh Pam, you don't need to be physically present to be there for someone!!!
I know you are here and that I can talk to you whenever I need, and vent and rant.... that helps a ton!!!

[without]

I am just glad your mom is there to hug you and love you and remind you what a great person you are! As moms we give so much love to our children its nice every once in a while for some one to give us the hug let us cry and tell us its going to be OK.

[bel]

me too clau, you know im here if you need me too!
bye girls see you tomorrow! lova ya muah!

[sarahlynn]

bye Bel...

[without]

bye'ya as Morgan would say

[Jenny]

Oh gals. Ronin said his first 3 word sentence last night. Ready for it.


CRACKER NOW MAMA. :lol: And yes, he hollered it at me. :lol:

[without]

Wahoo! way to go Ronin!

[sarahlynn]

Awww Ronin way to be a man :lol:

[without]

This is to funny if your a myspacer you may have already seen it. LOL

http://myspacetv.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=26055426

[sarahlynn]

ok so have you called in sick to work when you werent sick?

i want to call in friday..i just want a break.. i work all weekend at the safety center and want friday off..

i feel bad :(

[without]

I do it all the time. :wink: Its a mental sicknes...your sick of work!

[chellebelle32]

I have called in sick before just to stay with my then BF and fool around. Do it Sarah, don't feel bad about it.

[sarahlynn]

I do it all the time. :wink: Its a mental sicknes...your sick of work!

hey that is true

[without]

I gotcha back girl! :lol:

[blueberry]

Yay Ronin!! :D

Anthony said Shush your mouth Mama :shock: :shock: (that sounds like something Erica would say :roll:)

[without]

Thats to funny! I could just see Morgan saying that one to the church Nursery workers! LOL

[sarahlynn]

I have called in sick before just to stay with my then BF and fool around. Do it Sarah, don't feel bad about it.

im worried that like charma is gonna bite me in the arse and i will wind up sick :roll: i know i think about things way to much i need to just do it..

ok i amdoign it darn it..and spending the day with lucea :D

[without]

Wahoo!!! You go girl! I am staying home on friday I feel an illness coming on myself funny how that always happens on Morgans Birthday! :lol:

[sarahlynn]

Wahoo!!! You go girl! I am staying home on friday I feel an illness coming on myself funny how that always happens on Morgans Birthday! :lol:

:lol: ugh i am chickening out girlie..help me be bad and strong..and rebelious 8)

[without]

Come on whats it going to hurt? And think of all the fun L. would have if you stayed home just the two of you!

[sophie'smom]

Pam, eeewww, that guy has youn kids so he may be recently divorced or just separated, eekkk. Pass him out :yuck:

Claudia, when I found out about DH cheating on me, I left a note on the TV saying:

YOU CHOOSE:

1. MARRIAGE COUNSELING (WILL BE YOUR JOB TO FIND ONE AND SCHEDULE THE APPT.)

2. PRETEND NOTHING HAPPENED AND LET ME GET A NEW MEN WITH YOUR KNOWLEDGE.

3. DIVORCE AND ME LEAVING YOU ON THE STREET AFTER I TAKE THE OTHER 20% OF YOUR SALARY, THE HOUSE, THE CARS, 20% OF YOUR PENSION PLAN, THE EQUITY, THE HOUSE IN PERU, ETC.

PS: LET ME KNOW BY 5PM

And you know how things worked out for us :D fortunetely, everything worked out fine for us. Maybe your DH needs a kick in the balls like the one I gave my DH to make him realize of what he was losing.

[sarahlynn]

YOU CHOOSE:

1. MARRIAGE COUNSELING (WILL BE YOUR JOB TO FIND ONE AND SCHEDULE THE APPT.)

2. PRETEND NOTHING HAPPENED AND LET ME GET A NEW MEN WITH YOUR KNOWLEDGE.

3. DIVORCE AND ME LEAVING YOU ON THE STREET AFTER I TAKE THE OTHER 20% OF YOUR SALARY, THE HOUSE, THE CARS, 20% OF YOUR PENSION PLAN, THE EQUITY, THE HOUSE IN PERU, ETC.

PS: LET ME KNOW BY 5PM

And you know how things worked out for us :D fortunetely, everything worked out fine for us. Maybe your DH needs a kick in the balls like the one I gave my DH to make him realize of what he was losing.

what di dhe choose by 5pm :lol:

thats so funny but darn to the point and true..good goin girly..

[without]

Do you all remember when a baby died at Morgans Day care (while in the care of the daycare lady) of SIDS?

The mother of that baby just called me! They adopted another little baby this time a boy and you could just hear in her voice how happy she is. Yet you could also tell that having this new little baby in her home is bringing back a lot of memories. Keep her in her prayers.

[sophie'smom]

what di dhe choose by 5pm :lol:

thats so funny but darn to the point and true..good goin girly..

Yes, he actually did, he called me at work and gave me the address for the marriage counselor, we went to therapy for about 2 months and after venting away we felt much better and things worked out fine for us, he does aggravate me from time to time, but the things that bothered u the most are not there anymore, like:

Lack of sex and too long sex (a quicky is like 30 mins for DH :roll: boooooring!!)

Not let the evil get on our nerves or kiss her arse

not let SD play mind games with us.

basically the counselor said that most of our problems had a root on the evil and SD's manipulative skills, Thank God! A THIRD PERSON told DH this, that was a total awakening for him!!

[sarahlynn]

ok everything i read "The Evil" i laugh my frickin butt off :lol: :lol: :lol:

[sarahlynn]

everyone left me...how sad :(

[sophie'smom]

ok everything i read "The Evil" i laugh my frickin butt off :lol: :lol: :lol:

Yep, I don't say her name, we never say her name in this house, not even MIL or SILs say it, lol. We all call her The Evil and our counselor called her a Terrorist :lol: , because she comes, hurts and leaves :?

I worked overtime today!! I was soo lucky traffic wasn't that bad.

You know what?? I remember the counselor telling us, how are we supossed to know what is wrong if we don't speak out? Sometimes we just keep thing to ourselves and then is when teh problem really begins, you start building this resentment (sp) torse your spouse.

But then there are the hard headed DHs that won't listen :roll:

[bel]

Morning ladies! WTG cecilia :wink: im so happy things turn out ok...

saratoo dont leave me friday :cry: :cry: but a girl got to do what she got to do, dont worry :wink:

Claudia did you talk to Steve? I was thinking about you a lot...

Pam did mr handsome sent you an email?

[bel]

Im afraid this thread could get lost while the forum changes :shock: :shock: :?

where are you my girls!! get up!!!!!!!!!!! :lol:

[sophie'smom]

Good Morning ladies!!

Pam, any news?

Claudia, espero que todo haya salido bien con Steve :)

Today I feel extra lazy, I went to bed at 1:30am I couldn't sleep I was in the computer looking for new business ideas. I think I found one :D

[bel]

WTG! go see your post in spañol in Rnadom! it has grown LOL
Thanksfully you will be gone from the actual very soon! we are all sending you the best vibes!
Clau I wanna know too!

[newmami]

Hey Ladies!!
No talk with DH, I need to be in the mood, and he was in his funk yet again... but he went to a hobby meeting, so it was just me and my mom and we talked a lot.
We also did the balloons, my mom almost cried when I explained her the balloon reason, and she helped me... will post pictures soon

Chris is healthy as a horse... 21lb 11 oz :shock:

I am alone at work, the other assistant is out, so I am swamped!! :?

I will write DH the letter and go from there.....

Sarah, I have called in sick because I need time off work, so don't feel guilty

YAY RONIN for the first sentence!!! Dani's was Eat banana please?

[bel]

Sati wont do sentences :cry:
does chinesse sentences (the ones that dont make sense at all) count? :wink:

[without]

Claudia!!! Oh my gosh!!! Chris is one pound lighter than Morgan! LOL

No news from MR. hot stuff. Oh, well.....

Good news! I lost another 4 pounds this week! Thats 11 so far for the month! This week is Morgans b-day party and as long as I don't gain any this week I will be happy. I am going to allow myself to have b-day cake! :wink:

[sja1508]

Hey all! It's been a crazy few days, sorry I haven't been around. Yesterday, I got to use the gift Tara got me for Christmas (spa gift certificates). I had a super facial and a pedicure. I felt so great afterward!

Zack's first sentence was "bye bye Mama". We were going up to bed and he said that to Tara. He get's night night and bye bye mixed up...LOL!

I still don't know about the conf room at the hotel because the idiot never called me back so I'm going to bug them again this morning. I'll post about it later when I know something.

Sarah, totally call in sick. Everyone else has done it, so don't feel guilty. Technically, if you would have had the money you would have taken time off to go to the funeral and didn't, so call it a late bereavement day.

[lexsmama]

Morning! I'm back at work. It's so nasty outside... I had a bad day yesterday. Lex was super clingy and super tired. His allergies got worse, and he has to tak an antibiotic just in case his eyes aren't allergies. His insurance told us we're terminated for no reason. I have to call and work THAT out. And my bank was offline yesterday, so I had to take cash back to the dr's office. Ugh. Stupid bank. I want a new one.

That said, I'm so sorry Claudia. I hope things work out.
Way to go Ronin!
Any news, Pam?

I've taken off for no reason, Sarah. Not with this job, but I've played hookie. I wish I could with this one, bu tLex needs my time off more than I do.

[without]

this guy sent me an email last night. He gushed about how pretty I am :oops: What do you all think?

He is REALLY tall! I am so short I think we would look funny together!

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/personals-1197166330-443346

[bel]

how in this world could I see those links?!?!??! I created my own account and it sents me to my profile or whatever, but I cant see the people you are posting about :evil: