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without
01-10-2008, 01:37 PM
Good luck! I hope you get a raise!
How do you get a raise?
They say you have to sleep with the boss but since I work for the state does that mean I would have to sleep with our govenor? :shock:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 01:42 PM
Oooh, a government job.. good luck. They dole out raises like... ugh. I know how you feel.

bel
01-10-2008, 01:45 PM
Good luck! I hope you get a raise!
How do you get a raise?
They say you have to sleep with the boss but since I work for the state does that mean I would have to sleep with our govenor? :shock:

LMAO nah! you should sleep with Bush :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 01:46 PM
:lol: :lol:

newmami
01-10-2008, 01:50 PM
I love fruit (yes I know I am like 5 pages late) ALL OF THEM!!!

Raises, I just sleep with the boss.... kidding!! I just get one based on my performance, each year, no need to ask

Sex..... no comments your Honor!! :roll:

without
01-10-2008, 01:52 PM
I would if it would get me a LARGE raise! :wink:

Jenny
01-10-2008, 01:52 PM
Girls,

Wanted to say thanks for that extra push to go strawberry picking today. We had a great time and I don't think I would have gone if you didn't tell me to honor my promise. :)

sarahlynn
01-10-2008, 01:53 PM
performance what kind of performance

bel
01-10-2008, 01:53 PM
I love to push you :lol:

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 01:54 PM
Good luck! I hope you get a raise!
How do you get a raise?
They say you have to sleep with the boss but since I work for the state does that mean I would have to sleep with our govenor? :shock:

ohh noo, I don't work for the goverment anymore!! the boss was a big A-hole.

My bossis cute but I wouldn't do him, lol.

Do you remember my ex boss, the atty that told me he loved me and wanted to have a "relationship" with me?? LOL

I now laugh. He is still around but I haven't see him since DH and I settled our problems :wink:

I do miss him tho because he can listen or at least pretent he is listening to me when I talk :lol: :lol:

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 01:57 PM
performance what kind of performance

Like the annual employee performance. Your review of how good/bad you are doing and you get to talk about $$$

without
01-10-2008, 02:00 PM
Do people really meet men in book stores? My friend wants us to hang out at Barns and Noble one weekend and look for men. Sounds lame to me :roll:

bel
01-10-2008, 02:01 PM
:evil:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:01 PM
Book stores? No way. Try paintball or something. :lol:

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:02 PM
:evil:


Calm down, sweetie. Not a big deal. Don't read into it.

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:02 PM
Do people really meet men in book stores? My friend wants us to hang out at Barns and Noble one weekend and look for men. Sounds lame to me :roll:

I would totally go to B&N to meet men. At least it shows that they can read. :lol: Hopefully.

bel
01-10-2008, 02:03 PM
whatever yk?

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:03 PM
Do people really meet men in book stores? My friend wants us to hang out at Barns and Noble one weekend and look for men. Sounds lame to me :roll:

I would totally go to B&N to meet men. At least it shows that they can read. :lol: Hopefully.

:lol:

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 02:04 PM
Do people really meet men in book stores? My friend wants us to hang out at Barns and Noble one weekend and look for men. Sounds lame to me :roll:

Have you seen Mate in Manhattan?? on Lifetime TV??

The life coach said that the best place to meet good men is in the coffee shop, the doughnuts place on the street. the park and on the banking area of your town, lol

He said that in the bookstore men go to chill and who would like to be disturbed when you are reading your favorite book or magazine.

I met lots of guys in the coffee shop. I used to go there after class and sit sipping a cappuccino and read my "law" books, that turned guys on :wink:

without
01-10-2008, 02:05 PM
:evil:

Bel.... did I say some thing wrong?

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:05 PM
whatever yk?


Ya, but don't let it get to you. You know you are a **** good mama.

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:06 PM
Did I miss something?

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:07 PM
Edited so we don't get in trouble.

without
01-10-2008, 02:07 PM
I must have missed it to but we can't talk about it here or we will get into trouble. :wink:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:08 PM
Oooohhh... I see. I thought I missed a post or something.

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:09 PM
I must have missed it to but we can't talk about it here or we will get into trouble. :wink:


I edited my post so we don't get in trouble.

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:11 PM
Okie dokie!

I forgot I had Yahoo messenger and ICQ.. lol.

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 02:12 PM
Ohh man!!

I missed the drama too and while I was here!

Someone PM me please :lol: I wanna know. Who did it this time? :roll:

Momto3
01-10-2008, 02:12 PM
Ohh man!!

I missed the drama too and while I was here!

Someone PM me please :lol: I wanna know. Who did it this time? :roll:

Me too pleae. I just got back.

without
01-10-2008, 02:16 PM
I got'a pee I got'a pee I got'a pee hay hay hay hay

bel
01-10-2008, 02:16 PM
IM sorry im sorry.
no Pam, your one of the lovely mamas here, sorry it came after your post.
Go check saratoo k am I the only one thread, no drama, nothing.
Its ok

Momto3
01-10-2008, 02:17 PM
Ohh man!!

I missed the drama too and while I was here!

Someone PM me please :lol: I wanna know. Who did it this time? :roll:

Me too pleae. I just got back.

n/m saw it!

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:22 PM
N/m, I think I found it..

sarahlynn
01-10-2008, 02:23 PM
no drama no drama..

my posts never cause drama...

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:25 PM
:lol: Are you a drama queen, sweetie? :lol:

newmami
01-10-2008, 02:25 PM
Oi I missed it again... darn people making me work today... seriously!!

I think any place is a good place to meet people... a bookstore is a little nerdy, but like Jenny said, at least they can read!!!

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:26 PM
And I LOVE nerds!!!

sarahlynn
01-10-2008, 02:29 PM
god i have dated every type of guy..

without
01-10-2008, 02:29 PM
Right now I just need some male to smile at me. LOL I just need to know men can still see me I am starting to think I am invissable to all me.

bel
01-10-2008, 02:32 PM
not male in there but there are penis and sex, go check Pam, worth the laugh :lol: :lol: :lol:

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 02:35 PM
Saw it.

We all are crazy mammas, lol

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:36 PM
I love my kids more than anything, but have not spent more than 4 hours away from them. I could really use a break sometimes.

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:36 PM
At least they can read, Pam.

without
01-10-2008, 02:37 PM
Why does Starbucks have to have so many darn calories! LOL Who in there right mind could go in and just drink an unsweet hot tea? :lol:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:37 PM
What about a sugar-free (with splenda) skinny vanilla latte? It's the best thing for ya there.

ShannonG
01-10-2008, 02:40 PM
Okay, I'm butting into your conversation again. I got tired of eavesdropping at the door with an upside down drinking glass... :lol: :oops:

Seriously, I don't know if I should be upset or if I am just plain 'ol nuts...? I was gone almost 3 weeks and I was on another continent. :?

without
01-10-2008, 02:40 PM
Nah...the best thing for me there is a man who will wink at me! LOL

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:41 PM
Okay, I'm butting into your conversation again. I got tired of eavesdropping at the door with an upside down drinking glass... :lol: :oops:

Seriously, I don't know if I should be upset or if I am just plain 'ol nuts...? I was gone almost 3 weeks and I was on another continent. :?


I would love to go on a vacation with just my husband. Don't think I could handle another continent (not yet anyways) but could certainly handle a nice long weekend at the beach and work my way up!!

Momto3
01-10-2008, 02:41 PM
Did I miss something? Pam is searching for a man at Starbucks that can read...is that right? Did I get it?

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:41 PM
Did I miss something? Pam is searching for a man at Starbucks that can read...is that right? Did I get it?

Yep. :wink:

Momto3
01-10-2008, 02:42 PM
Why does Starbucks have to have so many darn calories! LOL Who in there right mind could go in and just drink an unsweet hot tea? :lol:

What about a plain old coffee with splenda and skim milk?

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:42 PM
Did I miss something? Pam is searching for a man at Starbucks that can read...is that right? Did I get it?

Yep. :wink:

Almost....

Pam's friend wants to go cruising for men at Barnes and Noble and hopefully if she finds one there, it means he can read.

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 02:42 PM
Get soem water sit and "read" or pretend you are, lol.

Coffee has no calories, right. Get some coffee. :wink:

ShannonG
01-10-2008, 02:43 PM
Okay, I'm butting into your conversation again. I got tired of eavesdropping at the door with an upside down drinking glass... :lol: :oops:

Seriously, I don't know if I should be upset or if I am just plain 'ol nuts...? I was gone almost 3 weeks and I was on another continent. :?


I would love to go on a vacation with just my husband. Don't think I could handle another continent (not yet anyways) but could certainly handle a nice long weekend at the beach and work my way up!!


LOL, I would love to go on vacation with my husband too, but for now I'm just his 'Jerry Springeresque Baby Mama'... :oops: :lol: Take comfort in the fact you have a ring. :lol:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:43 PM
Did I miss something? Pam is searching for a man at Starbucks that can read...is that right? Did I get it?

Yep. :wink:

Almost....

Pam's friend wants to go cruising for men at Barnes and Noble and hopefully if she finds one there, it means he can read.

:lol: Sorry, I couldn't help but chuckle.

Jenny
01-10-2008, 02:43 PM
Okay, I'm butting into your conversation again. I got tired of eavesdropping at the door with an upside down drinking glass... :lol: :oops:

Seriously, I don't know if I should be upset or if I am just plain 'ol nuts...? I was gone almost 3 weeks and I was on another continent. :?


I would love to go on a vacation with just my husband. Don't think I could handle another continent (not yet anyways) but could certainly handle a nice long weekend at the beach and work my way up!!


LOL, I would love to go on vacation with my husband too, but for now I'm just his 'Jerry Springeresque Baby Mama'... :oops: :lol:


Sigh. If I could get a vacation I would pretend to be that woman. :wink:

Momto3
01-10-2008, 02:43 PM
Did I miss something? Pam is searching for a man at Starbucks that can read...is that right? Did I get it?

Yep. :wink:

Almost....

Pam's friend wants to go cruising for men at Barnes and Noble and hopefully if she finds one there, it means he can read.

ok, close enough.

newmami
01-10-2008, 02:44 PM
Shannon, I would say to each their own.... some people think I am crazy because I leave my kids at daycare (like I have a choice....)
If you feel comfortable leaving your kids in safe hands and take a vacation, be my guest!!
Would I do it??? it all depends on the circumstances, but maybe I will.... now a vacation with the kids and without DH.... where do I sign?????? :lol:

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 02:50 PM
Shannon, I would say to each their own.... some people think I am crazy because I leave my kids at daycare (like I have a choice....)
If you feel comfortable leaving your kids in safe hands and take a vacation, be my guest!!
Would I do it??? it all depends on the circumstances, but maybe I will.... now a vacation with the kids and without DH.... where do I sign?????? :lol:

LOL That made me laugh!!

ShannonG
01-10-2008, 02:52 PM
LOL! After DBF took a trip to China and Japan this October without me and the kids I told him I was gonna take an alone trip too. I have yet to pick a place, or to have the money to even take a vacation, but that's just a trivial detail that'll only hold me back for a few years at the MOST. :lol:

without
01-10-2008, 02:52 PM
Sorry, I couldn't help but chuckle.



Well...you know in Arkansas finding a man who can read is a tall order! :lol: J/k

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:54 PM
Sorry, I couldn't help but chuckle.



Well...you know in Arkansas finding a man who can read is a tall order! :lol: J/k

Same with East Texas, honey. They're made from the same mold.. :wink: :lol:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 02:56 PM
Why do my feet sweat so bad?? I just got these awesome new shoes, and here goes the slipping... Ugh.

stash
01-10-2008, 02:56 PM
Hehe, how about you guys just get ME in trouble? I'm itching for it since I'm not a Mod anymore.

And BTW, don't get all bent. Like I shouldn't get bent thinking that all you mamas who DO leave your babies judge me because I totally, totally don't WANT to. :lol:

I do want to travel internationally again, though. But WITH Oscar when he's old enough (and vaccinated tyvm). :lol:

swannie
01-10-2008, 03:01 PM
I always just eavesdrop here too but wanted to let you know I'm listening... 8)

stash
01-10-2008, 03:02 PM
I always just eavesdrop here too but wanted to let you know I'm listening... 8)

Big Brother. :lol:

Momto3
01-10-2008, 03:06 PM
I always just eavesdrop here too but wanted to let you know I'm listening... 8)

Big Brother. :lol:

My DD would say that was sexist..."Why isn't it ever Big Sister" and then I'd have to hear her rant for the rest of the night!

Ugh! I think my water cooler (at work) is going to run out of water before the next delivery on Tuesday...hate that!

stash
01-10-2008, 03:07 PM
I always just eavesdrop here too but wanted to let you know I'm listening... 8)

Big Brother. :lol:

My DD would say that was sexist..."Why isn't it ever Big Sister" and then I'd have to hear her rant for the rest of the night!

At which point she'd be forced to sit and watch 1984 so she could see the actual REFERENCE. :lol: :lol:

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 03:08 PM
Ugghh!!

My boss just stood me up on the review, the auditors are coming again and he is doing something else right now.

I love Chilean Sense of Time (whenever the F they want!!) :twisted: :twisted:

BTW Stash, kids pay kids fair for international trips up until they are under 2 years old, after that they pay adult fare.

I found this the hard way :? I am planning our next trip to Peru and DD will have to pay $1120.00 plus tax for her own ticket!!

without
01-10-2008, 03:09 PM
I watched the movie "Big Brother" crazy movie! Scary!


Stash isn't a mod???

swannie
01-10-2008, 03:09 PM
She retired. 8)

without
01-10-2008, 03:11 PM
Well... I for one am so happy to see you come here to say HI! I just love you and love seeing pictures of O and its rare I go any where but this topic and single moms.

ShannonG
01-10-2008, 03:12 PM
I always just eavesdrop here too but wanted to let you know I'm listening... 8)

Big Brother. :lol:

My DD would say that was sexist..."Why isn't it ever Big Sister" and then I'd have to hear her rant for the rest of the night!

At which point she'd be forced to sit and watch 1984 so she could see the actual REFERENCE. :lol: :lol:

"Under the spreading chestnut tree
I sold you and you sold me
There lie they, and here lie we
Under the spreading chestnut tree"

Or read it... :lol:

Momto3
01-10-2008, 03:12 PM
DD will have to pay $1120.00 plus tax for her own ticket!!

She's paying her own ticket... :shock: j/k :wink:

stash
01-10-2008, 03:15 PM
Stash isn't a mod???

No, I threw in my towel. I wanted to be able to rant and rave with the rest of you. :lol:

Thanks for the welcome. :)

without
01-10-2008, 03:15 PM
I'm out'a here got'a go groom a little red rat looking poodle named molly. :lol:

lexsmama
01-10-2008, 03:17 PM
Wow, I actually work for a minute, and a whole page pops up! :lol:

Glad to see ya, Stacy!

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 03:20 PM
DD will have to pay $1120.00 plus tax for her own ticket!!

She's paying her own ticket... :shock: j/k :wink:

For that much, she better be!!

With lots of love, kisses and hugs for mami :wink:

I think I can work something out with American Express, they like to spoil me :lol:

They got me front row tickets for a concert in June :D yaaay, DH and I are going.

stash
01-10-2008, 03:22 PM
Yoiks Cecilia! I guess I should figure that, we already usually pay full fare for his airline seats... except for maybe one airline that offers infant fares...

sophie'smom
01-10-2008, 03:34 PM
Yoiks Cecilia! I guess I should figure that, we already usually pay full fare for his airline seats... except for maybe one airline that offers infant fares...

Yep, it was nice taking her with us overseas but now it really irks me to pay for her ticket.

And going overseas in December is nto cheap at all, but I AM NOT spending Christmas in the US, much less New Years. I wanna parteee :lol:

We are planning a 20 day long trip 8) can't wait

sarahlynn
01-10-2008, 03:35 PM
welcome stacy..upon initiation you must tell us your deepest darkest secrets 8)

bel
01-10-2008, 03:38 PM
welcome stacy..upon initiation you must tell us your deepest darkest secrets 8)
those must be a lot :lol: :lol: then you have to read this thread from the beggining a year and a half ago :lol: :lol:

Momto3
01-10-2008, 03:49 PM
holy Crap! Triple post!

Momto3
01-10-2008, 03:51 PM
welcome stacy..upon initiation you must tell us your deepest darkest secrets 8)
those must be a lot :lol: :lol: then you have to read this thread from the beggining a year and a half ago :lol: :lol:

And then be tested on it.

Momto3
01-10-2008, 03:54 PM
Sorry

sarahlynn
01-10-2008, 03:55 PM
1 hour and my mama just called and is makin tacos

chellebelle32
01-10-2008, 04:00 PM
56 min

chellebelle32
01-10-2008, 04:03 PM
How's this for a sick kid? Morgan is running a fever of 100 - 102 but she keeps wanting to dance around and is singing this "baby baby" line from a commercial. We can't figure out what's wrong with her. Tylenol brings the fever down for a while. At least she is not crying and clingy. I hope you all have a good weekend. My husband stayed home with her today and I will be with her tomorrow. I might take her to the walk in clinic tomorrow.

sarahlynn
01-10-2008, 04:26 PM
ugh so many sick babies... :(

babies take being sick so much better than big people

sja1508
01-10-2008, 07:18 PM
Holy Crap! I had to read like 20 pages to get caught up from bedtime last night. You all sure cover the gambit....

Fish and sex, vacation drama, raises, Stacy being tested, Big brother dropping by and sweaty feet!!! ROFL!!

Zack's appt went great. We did the 18 mo vac and he got 3 shots and didn't utter a peep. He just looked at them like 8) No fever or any kind of reaction so far. He's 34 3/4" (97%) and 26.4 lbs (50%). I got the paperwork filled out for the ear surgery so we are all set.

I'll catch you all in the morning sometime! Sweet dreams....

willsmama
01-10-2008, 08:30 PM
Sweet dreams! I am also now only a lurker. :)

bel
01-11-2008, 05:48 AM
Tracy we miss you, darn new work :lol:
Stacy Im so happy he is doing so great!!! WTG! :waytogo:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 07:16 AM
Stacy - Yay for Zack being a big boy! I can't wait to see him nect week! Eeeeek its almost here! I'm getting so excited!!!!

Umm I better find someplace to board my two doggies before we go! :shock:

sja1508
01-11-2008, 07:46 AM
Yea! I'm so excited too!! I'm lucky that I have my Mom to watch our dog.

Our plan is to leave really late (around 7pm) when Zack is getting ready for bed so hopefully he'll sleep the whole ride. We'll get in around 10:30-11pm to the hotel? Lynn, if you want, you can call my cell after you guys check in so I know your room # or you can wait and call me in the AM. Zack always likes to wake us up bright and early around 6:30.

Jenny, is there a good spot to meet right inside the park????? We need to setup a place and time for Sat.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 07:51 AM
Our plan is to leave really late (around 7pm) when Zack is getting ready for bed so hopefully he'll sleep the whole ride. We'll get in around 10:30-11pm to the hotel? Lynn, if you want, you can call my cell after you guys check in so I know your room # or you can wait and call me in the AM. Zack always likes to wake us up bright and early around 6:30.



That is what we are doing too! I'll call you guys when we get in if its not too late for you. It should be right around the same time as you guys. Are we grabbing a bite to eat in the morning before we head over to the park?

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 07:56 AM
Morning! Is it BG time already? Not fair. I may have to get a meetup when we come this summer, dangit.

Lex was mad mad at daddy this morning. Even gave him the cold shoulder! :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 08:04 AM
Morning! Is it BG time already? Not fair. I may have to get a meetup when we come this summer, dangit.

Lex was mad mad at daddy this morning. Even gave him the cold shoulder! :lol:

Awww why? What did Daddy do or not do?

newmami
01-11-2008, 08:05 AM
Monring ladies, it is friday!!!

Stacy, yay for a good appointment and for Zack being a trooper

I am glad to see new faces and old ones (Michelle!!!), just so you know, every one is welcome here, then Sarah takes care of the testings!!


I am coming down with a cold... great!!! :roll: . See if I can get rid of it before next weekend... WOO HOO!!! so DH's ex changed weekends and SK is going :? to BG, which only means DH would be busy dealing with him and leave me time... WOO HOO!!! my mom is coming to, so start practicing your Spanish ladies, because she doesn't speak English

DH told me yesterday he feels GUILTY that we live so far from my parents, like we are depriving them from being with the kids :shock: ... he has a conscience ladies!!! I told him, well, lets hope Hillary wins, then we can move to Mexico!!!

Dani was also mad at DH, he blew her a kiss and she started crying, like "leave me alone" crying

Oh oh oh!! and she wanted to go to the potty this morning!!! she didn't made it, but there is a start!!!

without
01-11-2008, 08:10 AM
GM!!!!

Darn sec. she isn't coming in today! Ugh! I didn't bring my lunch because I was going to treat myself to a veggie sub! :roll:

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 08:15 AM
Morning! Is it BG time already? Not fair. I may have to get a meetup when we come this summer, dangit.

Lex was mad mad at daddy this morning. Even gave him the cold shoulder! :lol:

Awww why? What did Daddy do or not do?

:lol: Daddy didn't pick him up from school the past two days. AND Daddy didn't give him milk this morning. He got juice and chunked the sippy at me. :shock: :lol:

bel
01-11-2008, 08:38 AM
Clau seriously is there any chances you can move to Mexico?
When your mom comes in april ask her to stay a little longer :D
How are you doing this morning girls???
it´s raining like falls here, I love rain and rain storms :D I wish we could have them everyday
And here as a tropical country we get them a lot like you cant see more than a feet from your face 8) amazing.
those babies are already speaking their minds!! how cute! :lol:
WTG lex and dani! they have all rights to be mad at papis!
Damitttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt tt i wish I could go to BG :evil:
I would have some nice talks with your mom Clau! I cant wait to meet her!

without
01-11-2008, 08:39 AM
Isn't it so interesting to watch our children as they grow an who and why they get up set at. I try so hard to get Morgan to like Grants mom but she doesn't like her at all. Maybe 1 out of every 6 or 7 times she visits goes well. :roll:


Thursday January 10, 2008
Week 2

Breakfast
20 oz water
Yogurt 180

Lunch
1 cup of Green Beans 80cals
10 black olives 50
20 oz water
14 baby carrots 40 cals

Snack
V8 140 cals
Special K bar 90

Dinner
1 cup of Red beans 150
1 cup of Cottage cheese 160
16 oz water
5 black olives 25

Snack
2 tbs of Peanut butter 190

Total for the day 1,105

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 08:41 AM
My cousin Liz tried to feed Lex some baby food last year, and she took away the toy in his hand. He wouldn't even look at her until she apologized. When she did, he played just fine. :lol: He cracks me up. :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 08:46 AM
WTG Pam for sticking with it!!!

Ashley - Sorry your got the brunt of lexes anger (sippy cup).

Claudia - I speak NO spanish so your Mom and I will smile alot at each other! I'm glad your DH is thinking more about your feelings and things you ahve been thinking of as well.

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 08:49 AM
Awesome job, Pam! You're doing great!

Eh, it's okay. I know it'll pass. I just remind him that it's not nice and hurts Mama every time he does it, and hope it sinks in one day. :wink:

Glad your dh's thinking about you more, Claudia! I hope things work out for you, whichever way you wish it to.

newmami
01-11-2008, 08:50 AM
Isn't it amazing how kids can already show their emotions?? I love it!! bad for throwing a sippy though.......
You cannot force a child to like someone, right Pam??? Danielle didn't cared for StepMIL... but I have to say she is creepy looking :shock:

I came to the realization that right now, Dani loves my mom more than she loves me or DH... cute though, I love how well they get along, considering they do not see each other so often

I didn't brought lunch either, my plan is to go to the Church here downtown (if it is open) and light a candle for Ethan.... I have not been in church since I moved here, so I am emotional about it....
And I told my office DH to please put Ethan and Allison's family on her prayer list... he did when DH & I were in a bad spot

I am secretly hoping it rains today, it seems appropriate whenever there is a funeral.... in my childish mind, it is Heaven crying for the loss of a person..... I know, I am weird

Anyways, I just had an apple with PB for breakfast!!! YUMMM

without
01-11-2008, 08:51 AM
WTG Pam for sticking with it!!!


Thanks but I still don't feel like I am doing enough. :roll: My bigest wahoo! for me yesterday was...Morgan had a peporoni pizza and I didn't have one bite! I sat and ate my beans and cottage cheese as she wolfed down 1/2 a totino's pizza by herself. :shock: It was hard not to eat some but I did it! 8)

without
01-11-2008, 08:54 AM
I am secretly hoping it rains today, it seems appropriate whenever there is a funeral.... in my childish mind, it is Heaven crying for the loss of a person..... I know, I am weird



Not childish at all! I think its sweet and shows you really care.

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 08:55 AM
I am secretly hoping it rains today, it seems appropriate whenever there is a funeral.... in my childish mind, it is Heaven crying for the loss of a person..... I know, I am weird

Me too! I wonder if the church has candles still? I may go find out and light two.

bel
01-11-2008, 09:01 AM
Not childish at all, when my 4 grandparents died it rained each time :cry: :cry: it´s still very hard on me to remember them :(
I guess if there are not candles they will have those fake candles you can light with a coin :? Im not sure...
Ethan will be buried in two hours more less, sad, sad

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 09:05 AM
I just haven't been to a catholic church in a while. I've been so long, and now I'm with dh. kwim?

bel
01-11-2008, 09:06 AM
Im so clueless, would size 3T work for size 7???

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 09:07 AM
Which item? shoes?

without
01-11-2008, 09:07 AM
Oh girls!!! I can't believe I forgot to tell you all this!!! So I am at the store the other day getting fresh veggies and more cottage ch. and when we are checking out the cahser refered to me as Morgans "sister". I thought I must have heard her wrong and when I went to pick Morgan up I said let mama carry you so you don't get ran over. The lady said Oh, I am sorry I thought she was your little sister! :shock:

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 09:08 AM
are 24 mos and 2t the same?

without
01-11-2008, 09:09 AM
Im so clueless, would size 3T work for size 7???


here there 3T and 7 is very different if your talking about clothing.

without
01-11-2008, 09:11 AM
are 24 mos and 2t the same?

In a lot of things I find 24 months to be a little shorter in the legs and a tinny bit smaller in size.

bel
01-11-2008, 09:13 AM
uh sorry, shoes

newmami
01-11-2008, 09:13 AM
Belita, I put an answer on the shoes thread... hope it helps :wink:

Pam, I know you look young, but seriously, you being Morgan's sister?? that is just plain stupid!!!

Speaking of looking young, I need to get something because I HAVE WRINKLES!!!!!!! :x

I should do some work, I already slacked too much this week, and I have a loooooooong to do list

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 09:15 AM
Godd Morning Ladies!!

Quick check in. I am off to my review, wish me luck.

BRB with my news :D

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 09:16 AM
Best of luck! Crossing my fingers for a raise!

bel
01-11-2008, 09:24 AM
Goooooooooooodddddd luck!!!! :waytogo:

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 09:25 AM
Oh girls!!! I can't believe I forgot to tell you all this!!! So I am at the store the other day getting fresh veggies and more cottage ch. and when we are checking out the cahser refered to me as Morgans "sister". I thought I must have heard her wrong and when I went to pick Morgan up I said let mama carry you so you don't get ran over. The lady said Oh, I am sorry I thought she was your little sister! :shock:


:lol: thast funny cause lots of time i used to be referred to as CYs babysitter :roll:

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 09:25 AM
Oh girls!!! I can't believe I forgot to tell you all this!!! So I am at the store the other day getting fresh veggies and more cottage ch. and when we are checking out the cahser refered to me as Morgans "sister". I thought I must have heard her wrong and when I went to pick Morgan up I said let mama carry you so you don't get ran over. The lady said Oh, I am sorry I thought she was your little sister! :shock:


:lol: thast funny cause lots of time i used to be referred to as CYs babysitter :roll:

:shock: Wow. That's cool and nuts at the same time!

Momto3
01-11-2008, 09:25 AM
Good luck on the review!

I'm clueless on shoe sizes.

Pam - Weird that lady would think that. I always worry when my older DD carries Katelyn that people will think she is hers.

Claudia - You are doing a very nice thing by lighting a candle. I should too.

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 09:27 AM
UGGGHH! Why are latin people so freaking bad with time???

He just cancelled my review AGAIN!! 3rd time!!

I am so excited for or BG meet up too. DH and SD are coming with us.

Ladies I am so mad, depressed and anxious, I backed up my precious car into somebody elses and made a HUGE cut on my back bumper. This was against a Nissan Xterra which didn't get a freaking scratch, My insurance will cover but my copay is 1K, stupid Clark Howard who recommended that amount in order to get a better rate on the premium, uggghh!!

DH said to just put a bumper sticker on it because it will be aroun 2K to replace my bumper :( He was mad at me, even more mad because I over reacted to a phone convo we had and I was mad at him and didn't answer his phone calls in 2 days :lol:

He got home last night and we talked and this morning when I came to work, I saw an email he sent me yesterday and it was beautiful. Read:

I am sorry that I am tired and cranky lately.

Rather than understanding, you jump to conclusions when I cant talk.

So I guess I am just an a**. 70 or more hours a week are tiring. But up until this incident, I don't think that I did anything that deserves this response.

Rather than telling you to go to Florida with Sophie, I offered to drive you before you mentioned anything about going to Bush Gardens.

I cried!! I think he has never sent me something more than 2 words, lol

Clau, no biggie Yo Hablo Espanol :wink: Tu mami no va a estar sola :D

without
01-11-2008, 09:34 AM
Yeah, I know! Though the comment made me feel good it also made me thing that girl must be stupid! Its easy to see when watching us interact that I am not a sister.

On the other hand I am 10 years older than my youngest sister and we used to be really close. Any time we would hang out together people would call me her mom. :evil: Also every one always thinks my mom and I are sisters! :roll:

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 09:45 AM
any big weekend plans ladies??


how the review goes well

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 09:54 AM
any big weekend plans ladies??


how the review goes well

Thanks girl. I am sitting here waiting!!

This weekend SD has a "date" with my friend's son not the sitters because he totally stood her up last weekend and told her that he is not into girls yet and to check in next year, lol

So SD put her eyes on my other friend's son, he is such a ham, so cute and not shy at all, so he said: I'll go to the movies, she is inviting so it is free for me :lol: and he invited her to his b-day part-ee

I wanna laugh so hard because the evil always says how much she hates "mexicans" (meaning all latin people :roll: idiot) and the 2 boys her DD has a crush on are Latins and this new one is Mexican, lol

We are taking them to the movies, everyone around is going to, just to "check their date out" I really expect Aaron to be a gentelman with her.

DH said that all of this thing of boys is new to her and we'll play the game along with her (she is being nice to me because she wants to hang out with our friends) but if we see her getting out of control, then DH will take control of the situation.

I am really excited, deep, way deep inside I still love my SD, lol. I don't like her a whole lot but I sure love her way inside me.

without
01-11-2008, 10:00 AM
I am really excited, deep, way deep inside I still love my SD, lol. I don't like her a whole lot but I sure love her way inside me.


Its funny that you say that! I once said to my mom "my teen age years were hard on you I was so boy crazy. I am sorry about that." She said..."well...I always loved you but there were times I sure didn't like you. I am just glad you grew out of it." LOL :lol:

bel
01-11-2008, 10:04 AM
we are going to the summer house we rented tonight, it´s only 30 mins from here.
sadly it raiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiining so i dunno how good is it gonna be, but to scape away is always nice :wink:
oscar isnt going until tomorrow :roll:

without
01-11-2008, 10:06 AM
Bel..can I go too? I have a big dirty nasty dog to groom tonight! Its older so its teeth are bad and when it pants it stinks up the whole room. :yuck:

bel
01-11-2008, 10:11 AM
of course you can come Pam, I hope you dont mind my yorkie is a ten years without teeth too :wink:
and we are organizing a bbq tomorrow night there as my b-day party!!
everyone is welcome to join! :waytogo:

newmami
01-11-2008, 10:20 AM
Did you said BIRTHDAY Bel???

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! I am so bad with dates... I barely remember my kids' bdays :oops:

Cecilia, good luck with the review

Apparently my office was sprayed with STUPIDOL today :roll: ... the questions I am hearing are just insane!!!

Sarah, did you had the talk with DH??? maybe I can send you my DH to keep you busy on the sex side :shock:

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 10:32 AM
Sarah, did you had the talk with DH??? maybe I can send you my DH to keep you busy on the sex side :shock:

yeah talked, at least we didnt argue and no yelling..but i gave up..i told him i needed more..he just didnt seem to really care or understand..so i told him i am done..he can do what he wants to be happy and i will do what i need to be happy..we'll give it a few months and see if a marrige can work with both parties doing their own thing ..if not well hey at least we tried.


aww smell old dog pam..i should have you wash luke..he smells nice since i coverd him in baby powder :roll:

bel sounds like a fun time

newmami
01-11-2008, 10:40 AM
yeah talked, at least we didnt argue and no yelling..but i gave up..i told him i needed more..he just didnt seem to really care or understand..so i told him i am done..he can do what he wants to be happy and i will do what i need to be happy..we'll give it a few months and see if a marrige can work with both parties doing their own thing ..if not well hey at least we tried

I am sorry Sarah...... I truly am :(
I am sort on those terms as well... I know I need to be OK so I can be OK in my marriage... so I am working on being happy and satisfied with my life, and then go from there

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 10:52 AM
I am sorry Sarah...... I truly am :(
I am sort on those terms as well... I know I need to be OK so I can be OK in my marriage... so I am working on being happy and satisfied with my life, and then go from there
yeah i just dont get it..i mean in a marrige isnt it a two way street ya know..working together ot make sure each other is happy..i feel like he doesnt even care that i am unhappy or care to help me be happy..so i feel like F--K it ya know..ill do what makes me happy and you do what makes you happy...yeah not a great recipe for marrige..but ik now at this point i dont watn a divorce i want a marrige..but i want it with someone who wants to be married..

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 10:56 AM
I am sorry Sarah...... I truly am :(
I am sort on those terms as well... I know I need to be OK so I can be OK in my marriage... so I am working on being happy and satisfied with my life, and then go from there
yeah i just dont get it..i mean in a marrige isnt it a two way street ya know..working together ot make sure each other is happy..i feel like he doesnt even care that i am unhappy or care to help me be happy..so i feel like F--K it ya know..ill do what makes me happy and you do what makes you happy...yeah not a great recipe for marrige..but ik now at this point i dont watn a divorce i want a marrige..but i want it with someone who wants to be married..

Aaaw, Sarah. I'm so sorry. I was talking to dh last night about it. He wondered how you were. He said your dh may be in self-pity mode from finding out all his health issues. It's hard, and I wish with all my heart it were easier and different.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 10:57 AM
I am sorry Sarah...... I truly am :(
I am sort on those terms as well... I know I need to be OK so I can be OK in my marriage... so I am working on being happy and satisfied with my life, and then go from there
yeah i just dont get it..i mean in a marrige isnt it a two way street ya know..working together ot make sure each other is happy..i feel like he doesnt even care that i am unhappy or care to help me be happy..so i feel like F--K it ya know..ill do what makes me happy and you do what makes you happy...yeah not a great recipe for marrige..but ik now at this point i dont watn a divorce i want a marrige..but i want it with someone who wants to be married..

Aaaw, Sarah. I'm so sorry. I was talking to dh last night about it. He wondered how you were. He said your dh may be in self-pity mode from finding out all his health issues. It's hard, and I wish with all my heart it were easier and different.

Me too!

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 11:08 AM
I feel so uncool. :lol:

Anyhoo, I think I'm about to run and get sil a bday present. Maybe Hallmark has something. Ugh.

Oh! My phone's totally dead... :?

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 11:09 AM
Aaaw, Sarah. I'm so sorry. I was talking to dh last night about it. He wondered how you were. He said your dh may be in self-pity mode from finding out all his health issues. It's hard, and I wish with all my heart it were easier and different.
i know..i tried to get more out of him..i siad i dont know how you feeel mentaly physically emotionaly NOTHING i have nothing to go from..he just doesnt say much..

the thing that was hard was i mentioned sleepign alone every night and how hard it was for me to not have a husband who wanted to be near me in bed yak now..he said "i need noise at night..are you ok with me having the tv on till2:00 in the bedroom" i just cried..i said ya know f--ck it matt if having you in bed 2 times a week is to much to ask and you cant giv eup your tv than i dont want you in there..i mean honestly just a small sacrifice..or at least come in bed and leave when i fall asleep compromse and watch tv till 11:00 i do have to get up in the morn with two kids and go to work when he can sit home and sleep in..

ugh can ya tell i am still upset :( i sent hima long email this morning..it wasnt mean but not happy either..just told i tlike it was..who knows..i am gonna sleep in the kids rooms from now on.he can have the bedroom..than i dont haev to get up each morning and see my husband sleeping on the couch and think this sucks :(

Momto3
01-11-2008, 11:32 AM
I feel so uncool. :lol:



Hehe you and me both sister!

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 11:36 AM
I feel so uncool. :lol:



Hehe you and me both sister!

why do you guys feel uncool..?

i should feel uncool

cy told me i could come have lunch with him but i needed to stop embarresing him :oops:

without
01-11-2008, 11:44 AM
cy told me i could come have lunch with him but i needed to stop embarresing him


Ouch! did he say what embarresed him?

Shh... I closed the clinic and ran for subway! LOL they can't no let me have a lunch darn it! :evil:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 11:53 AM
Argh! I don't have any dressing for my salad and I already ran out to the bank once already! Grrrrrr..... :evil:

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 11:57 AM
First off, Sarah, you ARE cool. Even if Cy thinks you're embarassing him. :wink: ANd I am so sorry you're going through all this. My dh slept on the couch last night bcs he thought I didn't want him in bed. :roll: He got in bed at like 4. Ugh. We should burn all the couches!

It's okay Lynn, we can be uncool together. :wink: I have dressing here... But that doesn't help you...

bel
01-11-2008, 11:58 AM
saratoo you already know what i think and how sorry i am for him acting like this, but cheens up your hot, smart, have the greatest soul I know, it´s not your fault is all in his poo head.
Love ya.

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 12:00 PM
Lynn~ Check it out... You're definitely a cool mama.

I sing that Trace Adkins song every time I read that thread... lol. "One hot mama..." :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 12:12 PM
:wink: Thanks Ashley! Love me some Trace! DH knows it too!


Ummm, Claudia, Cecelia, Stacy...what do we do if it rains next Saturday?


MSN weather says... for tampa

Saturday
Jan 19 PM Rain
Hi: 57° Lo: 45°
Rain. High 57F and low 45F.
70%

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 12:15 PM
:wink: Thanks Ashley! Love me some Trace! DH knows it too!

Dh sings it alot. I guess I should take the comliment and stop telling him how ugly I feel.

He told me that I used to be more fun loving than I am now? What's up with that? (I asked him how I've changed since we got married.)

without
01-11-2008, 12:29 PM
Ok remember how I said I wanted to run. Well... last night I had the bright idea to jog in place as part of my exorcies. :roll: Its not that I can't do it physicaly its a mental thing. I can't stand in on place and jog with out moving forward a little bit. :roll: :oops:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 12:30 PM
He told me that I used to be more fun loving than I am now? What's up with that? (I asked him how I've changed since we got married.)

Oh I get that one too. Yeah I used to be more fun loving because I used to not wake up once or twice in the middle of the night and be rushed out the door in the morning to get the babe to my parents. Not that he doesn't help, but its a tad bit more stressful!

sja1508
01-11-2008, 12:32 PM
:wink: Thanks Ashley! Love me some Trace! DH knows it too!


Ummm, Claudia, Cecelia, Stacy...what do we do if it rains next Saturday?


MSN weather says... for tampa

Saturday
Jan 19 PM Rain
Hi: 57° Lo: 45°
Rain. High 57F and low 45F.
70%

Ugh.....go anyway?? You know florida, the rain passes pretty quickly, I hope. I'm going to send the cell phone list to everyone going so we can all call each other if need be. Worst case, wait it out and go in the late afternoon???

without
01-11-2008, 12:34 PM
Better idea! If it rains you can all come to my house and teach me how to jog in place! :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 12:35 PM
Ok remember how I said I wanted to run. Well... last night I had the bright idea to jog in place as part of my exorcies. :roll: Its not that I can't do it physicaly its a mental thing. I can't stand in on place and jog with out moving forward a little bit. :roll: :oops:

Pam - jog around your house (I mean on the inside). I sometimes doe that in the office here when no one is around. Are you still dashing to race the peas?

without
01-11-2008, 12:38 PM
Are you still dashing to race the peas?

yes and I started a new one at home. Even if I am not watching the TV when a comershal comes on I will see how much I can get done before Sponge Bob comes back on. The whole time the show is playing I am thinking OK Next comershal break I will try to put away a basket of laundry feed the cat and get back before the show starts again. LOL Its turned into quite the addiction! :shock:

newmami
01-11-2008, 12:39 PM
If it rains, we will see the inside shows, or buy ponchos :lol:

Run in the same place sounds weird... without a threadmill??? I am confused!!!

Sarah, I am so sorry!! I wish Matt appreciated you better, you are a wonderful wife, woman and mom....

Went to Church at lunch, boy it was emotional and powerful... I cried the moment I stepped a foot on the church, it has been a little too long... no candles but I prayed for Ethan and for Allison. Then walked back to work, feeling peace, it was great!

Got to go back to work before I miss the branch cut off and Fed Ex

BRB

without
01-11-2008, 12:43 PM
Run in the same place sounds weird... without a threadmill??? I am confused!!!


LOL it does look pretty strange me standing in my bed room picking my legs up as fast as I can yet going no where. LOL

I am glad you went to the church. Isn't the peace wonderful! I went to the Epsicapal (sp?) church and lit a candles. I am not epsicapal but Grant was and they are used to seeing me there. Some times I like to go and just sit in there gardens.

Jenny
01-11-2008, 12:47 PM
Hello hello :)

I've been gone all day.....

What's going on? Too many pages to catch up with.

bel
01-11-2008, 01:01 PM
I just said this is the coolest thread ever in the cool moms therad go check :wink:
How are you jenny? where have you been?
Im about to go home early then Im going with my mom to our summer house, thanks God she just told me a driver is taking us, I dont like to drive, YAY

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 01:02 PM
Hi Jenny!

Hope you have a safe trip, Bel! Have a blast this weekend!

Jenny
01-11-2008, 01:08 PM
So are you guys thinking about not coming to Tampa next weekend b/c of the weather? I only went back 1 page, so not sure what I missed.

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 01:11 PM
They just didn't know what to do if it rained.

Jenny
01-11-2008, 01:16 PM
They just didn't know what to do if it rained.


Oh....there's always MOSI :) Right downt the street from BG.

www.mosi.org

Momto3
01-11-2008, 01:16 PM
So are you guys thinking about not coming to Tampa next weekend b/c of the weather? I only went back 1 page, so not sure what I missed.

Oh no I was just saying are we gonna do something instead of BG? But ponchos work too.

Jenny
01-11-2008, 01:19 PM
And you can always hang out in the fest house :) Drink beer and watch the Irish Dancing show. Ronin loved it when we saw it on Wednesday!

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 01:23 PM
So are you guys thinking about not coming to Tampa next weekend b/c of the weather? I only went back 1 page, so not sure what I missed.

Oh no I was just saying are we gonna do something instead of BG? But ponchos work too.
Jealous.
http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c231/Shannon1973/SNL190.jpg












That is all.

Continue to talk amongst yourselves...

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 01:24 PM
And you can always hang out in the fest house :) Drink beer and watch the Irish Dancing show. Ronin loved it when we saw it on Wednesday!

My friend Heather Stewart was a world champion Irish dancer. :lol:

Jenny
01-11-2008, 01:26 PM
I miss Coffee Talk.

I so want to enroll the girls in Irish Dancing. It rocks.

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 01:28 PM
It's really good exercise too. Very intense. :D

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 01:31 PM
I've always wanted to go to Dallas and take irish dancing lessons. I've always had that long red hair and thought I needed to do it bcs of that. :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 01:33 PM
I've always wanted to go to Dallas and take irish dancing lessons. I've always had that long red hair and thought I needed to do it bcs of that. :lol:

Ashley you would be awesome!


Shannon - Come with us! You know you want to. Just get on a little flight Friday night to Tampa and leave Sunday night or Monday!

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 01:37 PM
I've always wanted to go to Dallas and take irish dancing lessons. I've always had that long red hair and thought I needed to do it bcs of that. :lol:

Ashley you would be awesome!


Shannon - Come with us! You know you want to. Just get on a little flight Friday night to Tampa and leave Sunday night or Monday!


LOL, if only, if only.... *sigh*


Next time, for certain! :wink:

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 01:37 PM
I've always wanted to go to Dallas and take irish dancing lessons. I've always had that long red hair and thought I needed to do it bcs of that. :lol:

Ashley you would be awesome!

Heck, I'd be thinner... :wink: :lol:

We don't know that. :lol: My sister says I lost my "groove thang" when I had a baby. :? :lol:

bel
01-11-2008, 01:41 PM
what are you guys doing on week end?

Jenny
01-11-2008, 01:42 PM
what are you guys doing on week end?


I'm taking Haley to a bowling birthday party tomorrow from 3-5 and other than that, we're winging it. :wink:

without
01-11-2008, 01:45 PM
Working I have 8 dogs to groom.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 01:49 PM
I've always wanted to go to Dallas and take irish dancing lessons. I've always had that long red hair and thought I needed to do it bcs of that. :lol:

Ashley you would be awesome!

Heck, I'd be thinner... :wink: :lol:

We don't know that. :lol: My sister says I lost my "groove thang" when I had a baby. :? :lol:

So you have to watch How Stella Got Her Groove Back or whatever that movie is!


Not doing much this weekend. DD has a dance performance at school tonight. Diet place and grocery shopping tomorrow. Church on Sunday. My life is a bore!

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 01:49 PM
Visiting the in-laws Sunday & dh has a meeting in the morning.. Other than that, dunno.

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 01:50 PM
:wink: Thanks Ashley! Love me some Trace! DH knows it too!


Ummm, Claudia, Cecelia, Stacy...what do we do if it rains next Saturday?


MSN weather says... for tampa

Saturday
Jan 19 PM Rain
Hi: 57° Lo: 45°
Rain. High 57F and low 45F.
70%

I guess w'll get wet?? LOL!!!

We may sit some where for a while? It is fine with me.

Well ladies I am back from my review. I don't have good news, it was a lame review. Right out, like a smack the boss said: WE ARE NOT HERE TO TALK ABOUT A RAISE. This is only a review of your performance. Well on a scale f 1 to 4 for 1 being outstanding and 4 sh needs to get the F out of here, I got most 2's and 3' some 4's here and there but on nothing major :roll:

No raise, no promotion and he said that if I wasn't happy about it that the doors were opened for me to leave but he would rather not see me do that. He said I can't get a promotion or a raise because I don't have a degree and the execs in Chile rate the raises according to your level of education. Big surprise, huh?? I should have know it better since I come from a country similar to it, where you get the job if you are white and if you come from a private company or if your last name has the DEL or DE (of) in it. (shouldn't say that since my maiden name is Del Aguila :? )

I don't know what to do. He wants me to be more orginized and to make desicions on my own :roll: what does it mean? He is the boss, shouldn't I consult with him first.

I really don't know what to do I need the job, I was planning on working PT so I could spend more time with DD but I pay my brither's college tuition and he now wants/has to change colleges because his is screwed up :cry:

Tell me ladies, what do I do??

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 01:55 PM
[quote="sophie'smom"]

No raise, no promotion and he said that if I wasn't happy about it that the doors were opened for me to leave but he would rather not see me do that. quote]
omg what an arse :x

Jenny
01-11-2008, 01:58 PM
No raise, no promotion and he said that if I wasn't happy about it that the doors were opened for me to leave but he would rather not see me do that.
Tell me ladies, what do I do??


Say buh-bye.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 01:58 PM
There is such a thing as the cost of living. Prices of everything goes up and people's income should go up as well. That is not right what he did and said. Maybe the amount of raise is based on your degree, but to not give one at all? Not right!

I'd be looking for something else.

newmami
01-11-2008, 02:01 PM
Yup, your boss is an arse,......... WTF with the degree idea?? send him to my bank and he will see the ones with the most degrees are the idiot ones :lol:

No big plans for the weekend, but I have a date with DH tonight... then we need to go shopping and maybe I will take the kids to the park on Sunday

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:01 PM
I know :cry:

The stupid things is that THIS company sells a net worth of 200 MILLIONS PER MONTH!!, yes millions per month and the approval for raises come from Chile and according to the cost of living to the eyes of CHILE. How stupid is that??

And that is not against the law because the company is based in Chile, so they decide wherther to pay moreor actually less :cry: I am so upset. very much so :cry:

bel
01-11-2008, 02:01 PM
Im sorry cecilia! I know exactly where are you coming from...
well is I was you, I would look for a part time but dont leave this company until I have something under my sleeve yk?
sad...im sorry, everything happens for a reason Im sure a better oportunity is arround the corner

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 02:03 PM
running for coffee..

bel
01-11-2008, 02:07 PM
but I have a date with DH tonight.
cool :wink: give him some please.

poor ceci i hate this.

the sun is briting WTF the rain storm just finished :shock:
good thing Im going to be able to tan tomorrow
a whale near to the pool HA!

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:07 PM
I am going to suck it up until my 1st year "anniversary" in here because if I leave at 6 months it will not look good in my resume :cry: My boss even told me that :shock:

The desicion of the raise doesn't come from him, I know I would get it but he can't do anything else but suggest a raise for me. He said he will see what he can do about it but the president of the company in chile decides if that is OK or not.

Ugghh, I hate burocracy!! CRAP

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:17 PM
I am going to suck it up until my 1st year "anniversary" in here because if I leave at 6 months it will not look good in my resume :cry: My boss even told me that :shock:

The desicion of the raise doesn't come from him, I know I would get it but he can't do anything else but suggest a raise for me. He said he will see what he can do about it but the president of the company in chile decides if that is OK or not.

Ugghh, I hate burocracy!! CRAP

Ok well if this was a 6 month review and not your annual review, then maybe I can see no raise at this time...but in 6 more months there better be something there!

Also, if its only been six months that you have been there and you look around, I wouldn't even put them on your resume. If someone questions the gap in work time...you tried being a SAHM. Thats all they have to know!

Jenny
01-11-2008, 02:18 PM
Oh, it's only been 6 months? Normally raises come at 1 year (at least in my experience) but I've usually had reviews at 3 months for the end of the probation period. I'd suck it up and try to get more 1's and less 4's by that 1 year mark.

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 02:20 PM
Oh, it's only been 6 months? Normally raises come at 1 year (at least in my experience) but I've usually had reviews at 3 months for the end of the probation period. I'd suck it up and try to get more 1's and less 4's by that 1 year mark.

That's what I thought, too. I have my 6 month review before the end of the month.

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:20 PM
I am going to suck it up until my 1st year "anniversary" in here because if I leave at 6 months it will not look good in my resume :cry: My boss even told me that :shock:

The desicion of the raise doesn't come from him, I know I would get it but he can't do anything else but suggest a raise for me. He said he will see what he can do about it but the president of the company in chile decides if that is OK or not.

Ugghh, I hate burocracy!! CRAP

Ok well if this was a 6 month review and not your annual review, then maybe I can see no raise at this time...but in 6 more months there better be something there!

Also, if its only been six months that you have been there and you look around, I wouldn't even put them on your resume. If someone questions the gap in work time...you tried being a SAHM. Thats all they have to know!


Ohh sorry, I guess I didn't explain well. He said, no raises for my position, period. That's all I can get because I don't have a degree :?

This is a big company and it would look good (from the outside and in writing) on my resume.

bel
01-11-2008, 02:22 PM
see you mondays girls! hope you can enjoy your week end :wink:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:22 PM
On a separate boss note...my boss just fired his 5th secretary since I left there. I know thats confusing, let me explain.


I worked for an attorney who has a private practice but is also the City attorney for a couple municipalities in this area. Anyway I worked in his private practice for him for 15 years. At one of the cities where he is attorney, he had a Paralegal there who was an employee of the City. She retired. I told him that since I would still get to work for him, I would like to apply for that job at the City and he let me. So I have been here going on my 4th year. I still work for him (so he is still my boss) but I am an employee of the municipality with all their benefits.

So in the 4 years that I have been gone from his private practice he has gone through 5 secretarys. :lol:

Jenny
01-11-2008, 02:23 PM
No raises, EVER????????????????

Then it's time to move on. You've capped out in that position at that company. Or go back to school.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:25 PM
No raises, EVER????????????????

Then it's time to move on. You've capped out in that position at that company. Or go back to school.

I totally agree. What is the point in staying, just to earn what you make now. In 5 years you are still there, you are still making what the salary was 5 years ago? Ummm, no thanks!

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:26 PM
He can't live withot you Lynn and he is showing it by changing secretaries, lol

What kind of law do you do for him??

I loved doing PI, that was the funnest job ever!! easy as breeze :wink: I wish I could go back, maybe after this job but to be honest, I am tired of working for someone else. I want to be my own boss.

If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:28 PM
Or go back to school.

That is what he wants me to do :roll: He said the company will flex my time if I want to go back to school and they can pay but he didn't recommend that because I would have to sign a contract to work for them 3 more years after graduating, mm no thanks!!

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 02:35 PM
You too Bel!

Jenny
01-11-2008, 02:35 PM
I would love to have my own children's bookstore. Like in the movie You've Got Mail. That would be my dream :)

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 02:37 PM
If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

I'd open a bakery or a scrapbook store. I love baking. Dh would open a restaraunt. Mmm...

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:38 PM
He can't live withot you Lynn and he is showing it by changing secretaries, lol

What kind of law do you do for him??

I loved doing PI, that was the funnest job ever!! easy as breeze :wink: I wish I could go back, maybe after this job but to be honest, I am tired of working for someone else. I want to be my own boss.

If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

He said if he goes through 10 I have to come back! Haha! Sure with the same benefits as the City.

Right now I do mostly labor and muncipal law.

If I had the money I would open a Bed and Breakfast somewhere in the country (but not in FLa).

Jenny
01-11-2008, 02:39 PM
I still toss around the idea of becoming a law librarian, but my BFF who is a lawyer says that most firms don't employ law librarians. Any thoughts on that, Lynn?

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 02:39 PM
Gergia's pretty, and so is East Texas! :wink:

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:39 PM
A former co worker told me that her dream job was to have a coffee shop where parents and kids can hang out, like an activity place, mom drinking a cup of coffee here while the kids are playing at arms reach.

Neat idea but unreal. That would be in a perfect world.

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 02:40 PM
If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

Oh, butting in again!


Just yesterday I was wishing I could own and run a flower shop like my Grandma and later my mom did.

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 02:40 PM
That would be cool. Or open a theater that will show movies to families.

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:41 PM
I still toss around the idea of becoming a law librarian, but my BFF who is a lawyer says that most firms don't employ law librarians. Any thoughts on that, Lynn?

Your friend is right. Attys use online libraries and reference books. Nowadays with PDA's it is even easier to access Lexis Nexis or Westlaw.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:41 PM
I still toss around the idea of becoming a law librarian, but my BFF who is a lawyer says that most firms don't employ law librarians. Any thoughts on that, Lynn?

I've not seen one in a private practice. Law Librarians would mostly be either at the Courthouses or at the colleges.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:42 PM
If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

Oh, butting in again!


Just yesterday I was wishing I could own and run a flower shop like my Grandma and later my mom did.

You have come here often enough now not to be butting in but just to be "in"...

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 02:45 PM
i wanna work at the toll booth at the airport where tey pay after parking and there is no traffic and i can sit and drink coffe and read all day

Jenny
01-11-2008, 02:46 PM
I still toss around the idea of becoming a law librarian, but my BFF who is a lawyer says that most firms don't employ law librarians. Any thoughts on that, Lynn?

I've not seen one in a private practice. Law Librarians would mostly be either at the Courthouses or at the colleges.


Sigh. That's what Nina said. And our closest law school (Stetson) is about an hour away. I guess I'll stick with being a Children's Librarian. :P

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:46 PM
i wanna work at the toll booth at the airport where tey pay after parking and there is no traffic and i can sit and drink coffe and read all day

and sing like the chick on Coyote Uggly?? LOL I can totally picture you like her :lol:

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 02:48 PM
If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

Oh, butting in again!


Just yesterday I was wishing I could own and run a flower shop like my Grandma and later my mom did.

You have come here often enough now not to be butting in but just to be "in"...


Oh thankgoodness, so I can pull up a chair and start farting up the place now? :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:50 PM
i wanna work at the toll booth at the airport where tey pay after parking and there is no traffic and i can sit and drink coffe and read all day

and sing like the chick on Coyote Uggly?? LOL I can totally picture you like her :lol:

"Baby you're the right kinda wrong..." :lol:


I think I wanna change my screenname to "Threadkiller"

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 02:50 PM
If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

Oh, butting in again!


Just yesterday I was wishing I could own and run a flower shop like my Grandma and later my mom did.

You have come here often enough now not to be butting in but just to be "in"...

Yep, but be sure to use room spray afterwards! Or bring a Wallflower. :wink:


Oh thankgoodness, so I can pull up a chair and start farting up the place now? :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:50 PM
If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

Oh, butting in again!


Just yesterday I was wishing I could own and run a flower shop like my Grandma and later my mom did.

You have come here often enough now not to be butting in but just to be "in"...


Oh thankgoodness, so I can pull up a chair and start farting up the place now? :lol:

No we don't fart in here. We take that outside!

sophie'smom
01-11-2008, 02:52 PM
Fart in the dispossable bags provided to you on your welcome packet,lol :lol:

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 02:53 PM
If you had the money what kind of business would you like to have? I want a craft store or a cleaning company but I think I need my mommy to be with me and walk me thru, she is a smart business woman. :D

Oh, butting in again!


Just yesterday I was wishing I could own and run a flower shop like my Grandma and later my mom did.

You have come here often enough now not to be butting in but just to be "in"...


Oh thankgoodness, so I can pull up a chair and start farting up the place now? :lol:

No we don't fart in here. We take that outside!

:? Too late. :oops:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:55 PM
Fart in the dispossable bags provided to you on your welcome packet,lol :lol:

And then seal it up and watch it explode!


Ok, I'm joing the gym here at work. Tuesday is orientation. The kicker...Its here on the property AND its $40.00 annually. I need to get the matabolism moving and I would love to walk but by the time I get home and dinner, and the baby and the kids and DH...this way I can go on my lunch hour! Yay! I'm excited. We'll see how long I stick with it.

Jenny
01-11-2008, 02:56 PM
That's awesome Lynn!! I wish my employer offerd a gym :lol:

Momto3
01-11-2008, 02:58 PM
That's awesome Lynn!! I wish my employer offerd a gym :lol:

I heard they do Jenny! The bike ride with the kids, the back yard with the kids, the park with the kids...Man you are always on the go!

Jenny
01-11-2008, 03:02 PM
That's awesome Lynn!! I wish my employer offerd a gym :lol:

I heard they do Jenny! The bike ride with the kids, the back yard with the kids, the park with the kids...Man you are always on the go!


So true. I should be skinny like a rail for all the activities I do. It's my night-time eating that's getting me. But I've been doing really well recently. I hope I can keep it up.

newmami
01-11-2008, 03:15 PM
Jenny, I can totally see you with a store like that one from You've got mail!!!
My ideal would be to run a B&B.... the other one (if I was single) is the one from the Lady from Passport to Europe and Latin America (I secretly hate her!!!)

So that is where that foul smell came from.... THANKS SHANNON!!!.... he he I am glad you joined this addictive place.... must be because I can complain, vent and say stupid things without anyone caring

I am almost ready to go home, gotta fax some statements :evil:

HAVE A GOOD WEEKEND EVERYONE!!!

without
01-11-2008, 03:16 PM
girls I have been looking up "top 10 places to mee men" on the net and almost didn't notice its time for me to go home!!! :oops:


See you on Monday!

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 03:17 PM
Have a good weekend, Claudia!

Lynn, I'll join the one here on campus and we'll see how long we can go! Our orientation is next week, and it's 30.00 a month for faculty/staff, but worth it.

Luna
01-11-2008, 03:22 PM
anyone notice this crazy thread is almost up to 800 pages??? Ya'll are nuts.

oh, and phhhhhhhhhhhhhhhht

(excuse me :oops: )

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 03:24 PM
P---HA! HA! I almost spit my coffee... :lol:

Jenny
01-11-2008, 03:24 PM
So Pam you are already gone...but where at the top 10 places to meet men???

Momto3
01-11-2008, 03:25 PM
Have a good weekend, Claudia!

Lynn, I'll join the one here on campus and we'll see how long we can go! Our orientation is next week, and it's 30.00 a month for faculty/staff, but worth it.

Very cool Ashley! I'm sure I won't be using weights at all, but I just want it to walk and then run...


Lunabug! Spray next time you break wind!

Momto3
01-11-2008, 03:25 PM
So Pam you are already gone...but where at the top 10 places to meet men???

Oh geez now we are left to wonder until Monday!

By Claudia...by Pam!

Jenny
01-11-2008, 03:28 PM
SO....

I'm kinda pissed at my mom. She lives 90 miles south, so not too far away. But she rarely, like maybe once every 4 months, drives up to see the trio. She knows how hard it is on me to drive down there, and I just can't do it, her house isn't baby-proofed, etc... and she knows (at least I think she knows) how badly my dh and I need a date night. But yet she never offers to come up and watch the kids so we can go out. BUT...she watches my sister's 2 daughters ALL THE FRIGGING TIME! Sure, they live 5 minutes away, but man....she has 3 other grandchildren, and a daughter who could use some help. I haven't talked to her in 2 days (that's like a record for us) and I'm afraid to call her b/c I might blow up on her.

I think I need to talk to my sister. Maybe she can say something to my mom? I don't know.

Luna
01-11-2008, 03:28 PM
Lunabug! Spray next time you break wind!

tee hee. . .I'm not the stinky kind of farter (you know, silent but deadly). Just loud and obnoxious.

Thought it particularly appropriate since I'm just an occasional butt-in kinda a person. . .I can't keep up with you guys ;)

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 03:29 PM
1. Prison
2. Strip Club
3. Auto Zone
4. Big Bubba's Bait Shop
5. Stinky, Smoke Filled Indian Casino
6. Fishin' hole
7. Drag Races
8. Rodeo Grounds
9. Honky Tony Bar
10. Uh, Did I already mention Prison?


Just kidding!!! :lol:

lexsmama
01-11-2008, 03:29 PM
Sisters are good for those things, Jenny. Maybe she can help you out.

Momto3
01-11-2008, 03:41 PM
1. Prison
2. Strip Club
3. Auto Zone
4. Big Bubba's Bait Shop
5. Stinky, Smoke Filled Indian Casino
6. Fishin' hole
7. Drag Races
8. Rodeo Grounds
9. Honky Tony Bar
10. Uh, Did I already mention Prison?


Just kidding!!! :lol:

The places you stopped on your way back from lunch?


Sisters are good for those things, Jenny. Maybe she can help you out.

Yeah. Maybe she can go, "When was the last time you were up to see Jenny and the kids? I bet they could use a date night" Would that be too forward for her?

ShannonG
01-11-2008, 03:56 PM
1. Prison
2. Strip Club
3. Auto Zone
4. Big Bubba's Bait Shop
5. Stinky, Smoke Filled Indian Casino
6. Fishin' hole
7. Drag Races
8. Rodeo Grounds
9. Honky Tony Bar
10. Uh, Did I already mention Prison?


Just kidding!!! :lol:

The places you stopped on your way back from lunch?



LOL!!! Good one! :lol:

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 07:56 PM
its friday night

Jenny
01-11-2008, 07:56 PM
its friday night

Yep and I'm here watching Grey's and reading picture books ;)

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 07:58 PM
cy is playing guitar hero

and i am checkin mail

lucea is coloring all over daddies plot maps for hunting..oops was i supposed to be watching her :?

Jenny
01-11-2008, 08:00 PM
cy is playing guitar hero

and i am checkin mail

lucea is coloring all over daddies plot maps for hunting..oops was i supposed to be watching her :?

Uh oh....what color crayon/marker??

My kids are all sleeping. It's nearly 9pm here :)

sarahlynn
01-11-2008, 09:28 PM
ugh my kids are still awake

all colors :D

Bean
01-11-2008, 10:12 PM
Okay, so I normally don't post in here, but I wanted to congratulate you ladies on 800 pages. Then I saw this:

1. Prison
2. Strip Club
3. Auto Zone
4. Big Bubba's Bait Shop
5. Stinky, Smoke Filled Indian Casino
6. Fishin' hole
7. Drag Races
8. Rodeo Grounds
9. Honky Tony Bar
10. Uh, Did I already mention Prison?


Just kidding!!! :lol:

The places you stopped on your way back from lunch?


... and I LMAO.

Momto3
01-12-2008, 01:28 PM
Okay, so I normally don't post in here, but I wanted to congratulate you ladies on 800 pages. Then I saw this:

1. Prison
2. Strip Club
3. Auto Zone
4. Big Bubba's Bait Shop
5. Stinky, Smoke Filled Indian Casino
6. Fishin' hole
7. Drag Races
8. Rodeo Grounds
9. Honky Tony Bar
10. Uh, Did I already mention Prison?


Just kidding!!! :lol:

The places you stopped on your way back from lunch?


... and I LMAO.

Thank you! Thank you very much! I'll be here all week.

lexsmama
01-12-2008, 06:33 PM
:lol: You girls crack me up...

sja1508
01-12-2008, 07:19 PM
LMAO!!!!!

We are having a great weekend. First off, Tara got a new car 2008 Nissan Altima. The thing is pimped. You talk to it and it will call someone, operate your gps, make your coffee, etc. It has a rear view camera so she can see the neighborhood kids toys she is always running over LOL!!! It's black with tan leather, sunroof and spoiler. I'm jealous. (oh yea, she said "don't worry, we'll get you a new minivan soon") :shock: Thanks.......

We are going to a 2 yr old's bday party tomorrow, so that should be fun.

My dream job btw would be to buy property, fix it up and design it and then flip it.

Oh, and I passed gas, but I brought a Stick Up with me......

sarahlynn
01-13-2008, 03:00 PM
OMG yay for a new car..that sounds so cool..hehe you get a mini van

sophie'smom
01-13-2008, 03:19 PM
I want a new car too. I told DH I would trade my mercedes for a 2008 Camry :oops: I drove that thing and it is AWESOME, it actually feels like driving the mercedes but cheaper, lol.

It is only had the control panel that tells you WTF is wrong with the car, that would be super!!

This weekend it's been pretty fun!! SD came on Friday and she was in the best moods of all even tho AF was visiting her, lol. Well AF is visiting this household :shock:

The date went wonderful, the kids had some much fun we will repeat it. We went to teh movies, then to eat, then to US Play and the skating, we came home at 11pm and were POOPED. I slept until 12noon :oops: but I am glad she had fun.

We went to drop her off and the evil wasn't home, she is dating again, without even getting a divorce :roll: so the evil called this morning after killing one of her friends, like she usually does when she is dating someone new. SO she told DH that her friend had neck surgery and she spent the night taking care of "her", DH told her whatever, where is SD, she said: Home by herself. DH was fummed because SD apparently spent the night home alone :shock: what a f'ing biotch!

SD is home now, she was playing with DD but Sophie got grumpy and I put her for a nap, we are waiting for her to wake up and go grocery shopping.

Momto3
01-14-2008, 07:08 AM
Stacy - Yay for the new car (well, ok, yay Tara!) But you'll get your new minivan too one day! ((snicker))

Cecelia - Glad the date went well!


Morning ladies!!!

Hey where is Bel? She usually greets the day!