You may think I am crazy but.........................

[without]

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Happy dance for page 600!

Sorry Sarah about the early visitor! How rude!

[Jenny]

SOMEONE TELL ME WHY THE HELL I GOT MY PERIOD FRICKIN 9 DAYS EARLY :x

Man, that sucks. did you mess up on your pills?

[willsmama]

SOMEONE TELL ME WHY THE HELL I GOT MY PERIOD FRICKIN 9 DAYS EARLY :x

Cuz AF missed you? 8)

[newmami]

So you don't get AF in Christmas???

I just ordered more presents... woo hoo!!! still not working

[willsmama]

i haven't worked AT ALL today.

[newmami]

Pam, I just read your suggestion for crafts..,. I am sooo moving in with you, you make the coolest things!!!

That happens when you are a city girl... ZERO CREATIVITY!!!

See how much I am working???????

[willsmama]

I have to go to Sam's Club over lunch.....sigh.

[without]

Sam's Club for a free lunch is GREAT! I used to do that when I was younger. LOL I would have such a mixture of stuff in my tummy. LOL

Claudia I have lot of ideas come on over! :wink:

[sarahlynn]

SOMEONE TELL ME WHY THE HELL I GOT MY PERIOD FRICKIN 9 DAYS EARLY :x

Man, that sucks. did you mess up on your pills?

i am on the mini pill i had one day where i took it late..thats all.. :?

[newmami]

Sarahlynn, she decided to visit before it was too cold?????

I am so happy I don't have a window, I went to the branch and saw the outside... it is gray and cloudy... depressing!!
My feet are cold... why was it a good idea to wear sandals today?????????

Pam, I seriously thought about driving there, but I think with 2 kids and by myself is kind of NUTS!!!!...... if it was couple of hours, I would sooo be there!!!

[sarahlynn]

UGH why do i take the stupid things anyways when i have sex a whoopin 1 time a month anyways i mean honestly i should just save the 10 bucks and get myself a gourmet coffee or something.. :? i think today will be my last day of takin them..not worth it..

hehe at least i know now why i wanted to kill DH when he was showering at 1:00 in the morn last night darn PMS :twisted:

[newmami]

Sorry about the PMS Sarah.... I don't call it anymore because it is now my permanent mood :twisted:

So any new stories about Cy or LuLu???

[sarahlynn]

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM let see.. new cy and lulu stories...

Cy is now the official costar of happy feet..he goes around all day doing happy dances..a kid at school actually told him to knock it off and i told cy to do it more than just to piss the little prick off.. :twisted: and the kid i guess told cy to shut up so now today mama steps in and i am gonna have a talk with the teacher and the prick.. :shock:

lulu got a black eye last night :( we haev a sliding computer chair and she was on her knees on it watching cy elf people on the computer and she slippe and BAM her eye hit hte edge of the computer desk poor chicki.. :(

i have cy convinced there are little elves all over the house keeping eye for santa that he behaves..hehe cy is so on a mission to find the little elves :D

lulu's newest word is NO NO DADDY DADDY! cause when i am pissed at DH and dont want to say **** IT MAT! i say NO NO DADDY DADDY :roll:

[newmami]

Oh so cute!! about the elves I mean
I am sorry someone is too bitter to deal with Cy's happiness :roll: , I hope you let them know exactly how you feel!!

I deleted your PM.... I am an idiot with those :oops:

[sarahlynn]

Oh so cute!! about the elves I mean
I am sorry someone is too bitter to deal with Cy's happiness :roll: , I hope you let them know exactly how you feel!!

I deleted your PM.... I am an idiot with those :oops:
how could you delete my pm..i send you a new one..
it just said your frozen chocolate will arrive mon or tues..
its coming from ND .. a cold cold place today

30 min and i get to have lunch with a blonde stud

[willsmama]

wooooowooo! what is being served?

[sarahlynn]

ugh not sure :lol: fridays are usualu some type of burger.. :shock: chicken, hamburger, something odd like that..and like 5 french fries..i always leave there frickin starving..but love to sit with cy and eat..he is my favorite

[willsmama]

Ha, just stop somewhere and pick up more lunch (or kit kats) on the way back!

Have fun!

[Jenny]

Sarah, I got the Omega 3 chews today. The trio gobbled them down no problems!! Thanks!!

[without]

Any one else think of a horse when the read/hear the word stud? LOL Guess it comes from living on a farm. :roll:

I found what I would love to get my sister for her birthday. I just can't afford it. Grrr... Whats the deal with making an clutch purse thats 60-150 dollars! Ugh! I want to get her a hobo or a lodis clutch so bad. :cry: I guess I could give her a pictures that says this is what I wanted to get you but couldn't afford it LOL.. I wouldn't even mind buying a knock off but I can't even find a knock off. :roll:

[without]

GREAT!~ Now I want a Kit kat!

[willsmama]

GREAT!~ Now I want a Kit kat!

HA!
SOrry!

[without]

Off to go warm up my bean Bor-eat-toe! :| Watch out fot the GAS :mrgreen:


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[newmami]

Pam, can you get her another similar purse that is not THAT expensive??
I cannot think about spending more than $30 on a purse for me... now diaper bags is another story (but never more than $100)

My lunch was blech...... I am still freezing, but I have chocolate!!!

[without]

I am looking but can't find any thing yet.

Get this I am eating a microwave Beef abd cheese burrito and it says there is 570 calories in this one stink'n burrito! :shock: Its not even big its just a stink'n microwave burrito! :roll:

[willsmama]

yeah, those microwave meals can be sneaky :(

I had saltines for breakfast. That is it. about 15 saltines and two diet mountain dews. I am the picture of nutrition. Really!

[without]

I have a Ladies christmas party with some old females at our church to go to tonight so I wanted to eat light so I picked up a small burrito. :roll: Should have just ordered pizza! LOL

did I tell you all I am leaving Morgan for the first time tonight with a baby sitter at our house? :shock: I have NEVER left her with any one but Jeannie and my mom! I am scared to death! I bet morgan will have a blast. :roll:

[willsmama]

I have had 1 friend watch Will and then my parents. Another friend is watching him tomorrow night, (my company's x mas party) and I am nervous. More than nervous though, I usually feel GUILTY leaving. Not for leaving Will, but that someone has to sit at my house while I go have fun!

[without]

This wont be fun for me so I know Morgan will have more fun with Holly than she would if she COULD go with me. Holly's a good kid (18 LOL) and she has been working at Morgans Day care since Holly was about 14. Morgan loves her and thinks its great that she is coming to play but I dread when she realizes I am not staying while Holly comes to play. :roll:

[without]

OH!! And my Sec. asked if she could be a little late today because she needed to return a tv she bought that was broken. I said yes sure.... Umm... its 12:40 here and she still not in! :shock: Some times I feel as if she abuses my kindness. :evil:

[willsmama]

OH!! And my Sec. asked if she could be a little late today because she needed to return a tv she bought that was broken. I said yes sure.... Umm... its 12:40 here and she still not in! :shock: Some times I feel as if she abuses my kindness. :evil:

Holy crap! 'A little' late? Is she supposed to be in at 9 and she is 3.5 late?

[without]

I know! It takes every thing in me not to lecture her when she comes in! :D

[newmami]

Pam, Morgan will be fine with Holly... it is easier when the babysitter is at home
This year we are not going to my work's Christmas party... usually it is pretty boring, people are just too superficial for me, besides, I don't want to leave the kids with a sitter. Dh has a coworker who does family Christmas parties, and we are going to that one!

and :roll: to your secretary!!!

Frozen food, that is one reason I try to stay away from it. I rather have a sandwich... the calories and sodium are INSANE!!!

So now I am working... this people cannot leave me alone :evil:

[without]

I am stocked about her coming to my house to watch Morgan! By the time I get home Morgan will have ate and had her bath and be getting ready for bed. If I would have had to take her some where we would still have all that to do. I just wish I was leaving her so I could go have fun and not to go hang out with some old ladies. LOL I am only going because my mom doesn't want to be the youngest person in the room so my sister and I said we would go. :roll:

[sarahlynn]

OHHH CLAUDIA!! i need your addy...your candy awaits you.. :D


umm did anyone notice how much it cost to ship crap..after buyin my swap stuff it was 10 bucks to send it :shock: OH LORD..i thougth it would be tacky to take the things out of boxes hehe and ship for cheeper :lol:

[without]

1 hour left at work and its going so slowwwwww

[newmami]

Sarah, I PM'd you

CRAP!! I went to the website to order the frames for my sisters, and they are not available UNTIL THE END OF JANUARY!!! I want to cry really bad :(.... now back to square one to decide on their presents

[willsmama]

oh claudia! I am so sorry! :(

[sophie'smom]

How did this thread started?/ What if somebody new really wanted to read the 609 pages it has, do you imagine how long would that take?? :shock: :lol: :lol:

[willsmama]

It would be SUPER interesting! :)

[without]

I thought it would be funny to turn it into a book! LOL

[newmami]

The nonsense book... then we can sell it online with all those useless gadgets!!

I need to go to the mall and find something for my sisters now... I will plan on those personalized frames for next year!!!

Can I go home now???

[sarahlynn]

i have 25 min tilli go home

[sophie'smom]

i have 25 min tilli go home

SUCKA!!

I HAVE ONE HOUR!! AND I AM FEELING LIKE SHEET, because my ashtma is back and the Dr. gave me a new BS medice that doesn't work because ALbuterol was taken off the market :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

[willsmama]

I have 2 hours left. :(

[sarahlynn]

bye ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sophie'smom]

I have 2 hours left. :(

what are your hours?? Mine i: 7:45 to 4:45, I love it, I hardly hot traffic and I get to leave before traffic starts. :lol:

[willsmama]

I have 2 hours left. :(

what are your hours?? Mine i: 7:45 to 4:45, I love it, I hardly hot traffic and I get to leave before traffic starts. :lol:

Today 8:30-4:30 (CST)

[sophie'smom]

I have 2 hours left. :(

what are your hours?? Mine i: 7:45 to 4:45, I love it, I hardly hot traffic and I get to leave before traffic starts. :lol:

Today 8:30-4:30 (CST)

EIGHT HOURS!!???? I work 9 including my lunch our. :? Lucky you :D

Ok, 10 more minutes :wink: until I leave.

DH and I are taking DD to the dried up lake lanier to see the lights show, she will love it I am sure :)

[willsmama]

Fun!
Yes, I work a cush life! :)

[sophie'smom]

Ok, 4.35. I am sneaking out, SHHHHHH :wink: I am going to the "bathroom".... in my house!!! LOL

[willsmama]

:lol:

Have a good weekend everyone! I think I'm all alone though!
:cry:

[sarahlynn]

ugh remind me again why i let cyrus have friends over on weekends :roll: :lol:

[sophie'smom]

ugh remind me again why i let cyrus have friends over on weekends :roll: :lol:

SEEE, That's another reason WHY DH and I are not fans of sleep overs and having friends over at home, too much work!! :)

[bel]

well anyone able, and Im here at my super FUN 12 hours stop :roll: in Chile :shock:

[sophie'smom]

Once again. SD ruined my weekend, made DH and I fight and she is happy rejoying what she did.

And tomorrow she will get rewarded for it. Seriously, what is wrong in here?? Would you send your child to pest your exe's wife just for the sake of making her as misserable as you??

GRRRRRRR, I need somebody with contacts (UFOs :lol: ) to come and get them, or at least the :twisted: .

And she is not moving to Spain because she is back with her husband or ex husband, who knows. He filled an anullment but apparently didn't go thru :roll: They were made for each other.

I hope thi week is better and I really hope SD doens't come to ruin MY DD's birthday party :twisted:

[Momto3]

Morning my lovely ladies! Happy Monday!

The boss is here all day so I will be on and off....Have a good one!

[without]

Morning!

[sja1508]

Morning ladies!

Not much going on. We put up the tree this weekend and that was about it. Tara's still sick and I'm still playing nurse. LOL!

Anything new going on??

[newmami]

Hey girls!! how was the weekend?
We got our Tree, Dani had a blast running around and seeing the animals they have at the petting zoo (she didn't touch anything), and then she really enjoyed the smores

I had a meltdown yesterday night, I don't know what is wrong with me, but I read that zoloft can make the depression symptoms worse, so I am cutting them out for good.
All I know is having SK at home is making me very very stressed, and I need to stop it, I cannot allow him to ruin my weekends with the kids, so I have to go back to ignoring him for good... and Dh got on my nerves again because he forgot to help me... I cleaned, took care of kids, did like 6 loads of laundry while he was out browsing at CRAP in Sears :roll: . Next weekend I am taking a day off him and I would go out with the kids and do as I please

And then this morning the daycare lady told me she needs pretty much the whole month of January off because of her new baby (will be born sometime in Jan).... I am seriously considering changing to an established daycare, because I am tired of this crap.... and then Dani didn't wanted to go to daycare, so my heart is broken

On the good side?? it is cooling down tonight... FINALLY!!! I am sick and tired of the warm weather......
Oh! and a coworker of DH gave us a high chair for Chris, and a little slide for Dani, she is in love!!

Anyways, I am glad I have you girls, otherwise I would be in looneytown!!

Stacy, it seems that I would be in Jax the last week of December, if you are available we can meet!!

[sja1508]

Claudia, you just tell me when and where and I'll be there. No way I'm missing a chance to meet up with ya girl!!!! I don't know what area of town you will be in but when you know send me a PM. I'd love to have you come to the house, but you may be all the way across town, so we'll figure it out.

[newmami]

We will stay downtown at the Crown Plaza, that is where Coca Cola pays :lol: . I would have the car in the morning, so I would drive to meet you
DH needs to go for work, so we will make a weekend out of it (we are having Dave & Busters withdrawals)

[sja1508]

Cool, downtown is only 30 minutes from me.

[without]

Claudia!!! Tell your DH he needs to do some work for our Fayetteville Coke distributer! LOL Sorry SK is driving you crazy again. (((HUGS)))

[newmami]

I know... this morning I was thinking I need to get that RV idea in the works!!

So how are all the north ladies doing?? I heard there was some bad snow coming down!!

I am done with work, I don't want to work anymore and all DH says is "I am sorry".....

[sophie'smom]

ARRGG, Step kids, don't you "love" them, what would my life be without mine?? Let me guess??


FREAKING HEAVEN

[willsmama]

The snow sucked! We got about 8 inches.

Ok you all...my DH lied to me. He started dipping (chewing tobacco pouches) again and when I asked him if he was he told me NO then I caught him with a dip in his mouth about 1 hour later.

I know addiction is hard...I am not mad he started again (maybe dissappointed) but he LIED to me. This isn't the first time either. I mean, I don't care HOW trivial it is. DO NOT LIE to me.

:cry:

I don't know what to do. I don't trust him. If you can lie to me, I don't trust you...simple as that... :cry:

[sarahlynn]

good morning ladies..... :D

[newmami]

OMG Tracy!! I am so sorry!!
regardless of the nasty effects of dipping, I agree with you! if they have an easy time lying once, what makes you think they would not lie about something else??
Have you talked to him about it?

Sarah, Dh called paypal because of the payment I sent to you, and when I asked about the call I told him "I made that charge"..... but I didn't told him the chocolates are coming here....
Wait, am I lying to him???

[sarahlynn]

no its not lying.. :lol: its being selective with your honesty :lol:

how was the weekend for everyone..i am lookin out the window at snow lots of snow...i wanted so bad to get my xmas lights hung up this weekend but didnt find time with the kids..than dh hunted for 8 hours sun.. :roll: but umm couldnd find the frickin energy to hang lights.. :x

and hmm what else..went christmas shopping..got lulu a playdough activity center she loves play dough..and got cy his new keyboard..this is how oblivious my child it.i have a box in the cart the size of the cart, i mean hangin out all over the place and he doenst even notice it.. :roll: so i can xmas shop for cy with cy right there cause he has no clue whats goin gon..

[willsmama]

OMG Tracy!! I am so sorry!!
regardless of the nasty effects of dipping, I agree with you! if they have an easy time lying once, what makes you think they would not lie about something else??
Have you talked to him about it?

Sarah, Dh called paypal because of the payment I sent to you, and when I asked about the call I told him "I made that charge"..... but I didn't told him the chocolates are coming here....
Wait, am I lying to him???

No, you arent' lying!

I told DH I want him to tell me what HE would do if *I* had done this to him...he hasn't gotten back to me on that. We're being civil, but he knows I am mad.

[sarahlynn]

tracy what ya mad about???

Stacy is Tara knocked up yet??

anyone get chocolate yet?? :D

[willsmama]

I am mad about this:

DH lied to me. He started dipping (chewing tobacco pouches) again and when I asked him if he was he told me NO then I caught him with a dip in his mouth about 1 hour later.

I know addiction is hard...I am not mad he started again (maybe dissappointed) but he LIED to me. This isn't the first time either. I mean, I don't care HOW trivial it is. DO NOT LIE to me.

:cry:

[Jenny]

Man, what a weekend.

First, our cat died. We had to put him down on Saturday. The story is in my blog. I just don't have the energy to go thru it again.

Second I heard from one of my best RL friends. She's pregnant with twins and one the twins passed away. They are hoping that Baby B will make it full term inside mama, and then she'll deliver both babies, but Baby A will be a stillbirth :cry: She's 24 weeks this week.


I feel just surrounded by a cloud of death. I've had 3 RL deaths in the past week. I hope that things start to improve.

I'm sad today.

[sarahlynn]

I am mad about this:

DH lied to me. He started dipping (chewing tobacco pouches) again and when I asked him if he was he told me NO then I caught him with a dip in his mouth about 1 hour later.

I know addiction is hard...I am not mad he started again (maybe dissappointed) but he LIED to me. This isn't the first time either. I mean, I don't care HOW trivial it is. DO NOT LIE to me.

:cry:

YUP CHICKI i know how ya feel..matt smokes on occasion and it drives me nuts..but what made me moer upset was that he hid it from me...i mean honestly how dumb do they think we really are :roll:


is it weird to not feel married sometimes..like lately i just feel like i dont feel married...like i am watching from the outside a window as my life just goes by :? hmm not sure if that makes any sense or not

[willsmama]

I am mad about this:

DH lied to me. He started dipping (chewing tobacco pouches) again and when I asked him if he was he told me NO then I caught him with a dip in his mouth about 1 hour later.

I know addiction is hard...I am not mad he started again (maybe dissappointed) but he LIED to me. This isn't the first time either. I mean, I don't care HOW trivial it is. DO NOT LIE to me.

:cry:

YUP CHICKI i know how ya feel..matt smokes on occasion and it drives me nuts..but what made me moer upset was that he hid it from me...i mean honestly how dumb do they think we really are :roll:


is it weird to not feel married sometimes..like lately i just feel like i dont feel married...like i am watching from the outside a window as my life just goes by :? hmm not sure if that makes any sense or not

Makes total sense to me.....especially right now.

I don't know how I am going to get over the lying...it just isn't cool with me. :(

Jenny, I am sorry about your RL friends and your kitty cat. :(

[MommaBear]

Tracy my DH dips ALL THE TIME and I hate it. I'm thankful he doesn't smoke anymore but guh, I hate him kissing Jamie after having that nastiness in his mouth. :yuck:

[willsmama]

Tracy my DH dips ALL THE TIME and I hate it. I'm thankful he doesn't smoke anymore but guh, I hate him kissing Jamie after having that nastiness in his mouth. :yuck:

I know...and you know, I can be dissapointed in that, but I can't get over the fact that a.) he hid it from me, and b.) he lied about it....

What kind of role model will he be to Will too? You know?

I mean, I used to smoke, and I quit. I know it is hard, but I did it and am done. (The messed up part is I quit for him, since he's allergic to it....but he can't quit for me...huh..)

[sarahlynn]

what happened to Jennies kitty??

yeah i loath smoking as well..DH tried chewin to get rid of the smoking but honestly its a horse a pieace ya know :roll: same thing IMO..so i told him it really didnt matter which he did..its his body..he doesnt ever do it at home at all..just when driving truck and needs to stay awake..or out with the boys

[willsmama]

what happened to Jennies kitty??

yeah i loath smoking as well..DH tried chewin to get rid of the smoking but honestly its a horse a pieace ya know :roll: same thing IMO..so i told him it really didnt matter which he did..its his body..he doesnt ever do it at home at all..just when driving truck and needs to stay awake..or out with the boys

She said above she had to put him down.

I don't care what DH does either, but he better not F'ing lie to me anymore...
:x

[sarahlynn]

OH jenny i just read your post..im so sorry... :( if you dont mind posting your blog addy again i would like to know what happened to that sweet kitty :(

aww girl (((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))

[newmami]

Jenny, I am very very sorry about your friend's babies... it just breaks my heart when I hear stories like that :( and sorry about your kitty, losing a pet is terrible
*** HUGS ***

is it weird to not feel married sometimes..like lately i just feel like i dont feel married...like i am watching from the outside a window as my life just goes by hmm not sure if that makes any sense or not
Sarah, sadly enough, I know exactly how you feel.... I have those days where I think "this is not me, this is not the way I wanted things"..... I guess it is part of being human

about DH, I told him I got some chocolate from a lady in the forum, so yeah, I am not lying..... I am just not sharing!!!

Tracy, your Dh needs to understand that him not telling you is hurting you and hurting your trust on him... men are DENSE when it comes to that, but he needs to understand how he broke the trust!

HUGS to everybody, seems that this is going to be a loooong week for everybody!

[Momto3]

Hugs Jenny! Sorry about your kitty and your friend.

Tracy - Sorry about your DH lying to you. That sucks!

Claudia - Sorry about your SK. Sometimes I wonder if DH feels the same as you, because to him...my kids are the SK.

[sarahlynn]

NO NO NO dont say its gonna be a long week..i am already ready for friday..i was not prepared for this morning the first mornign of sending snow boots and snow pants to school with cy..i got out of the house late..i need to giv emyself extra time now for all htat and starting the car..ugh winter

so yeaterday we are at the mall me, my mom and my 2 kids and my sisters son who is 3..we are gettin into our cars and my mom says SARAH OMG i locked sam in the jeep.. :shock: sure enough sam was locked in the jeep and it was running..so it tookl ike 5 min to convince sam who is a very organized and on task child..to unbuckle his seat andgo to the front seat and unlock the doors :lol: but he did do i tthank god and we got in..but man what a scary moment..

[sophie'smom]

HUGS to everybody, seems that this is going to be a loooong week for everybody!

DOn't say that!! I want the time to fly by, my cruise is next Saturday :lol: I am just concentrating on that, relax, deep breath Cecilia, DH and you will finally leave the country for 2 weeks and the peace will come back to your home :lol: :lol: :lol:

I told DH that I like him better when we are in Peru and he said that he likes himself better over there too because he doesn't have t deal with the stress that the evil and his DD put on him :roll:

[sarahlynn]

wow 1 weeek till cruise day how exciteing

[sophie'smom]

wow 1 weeek till cruise day how exciteing

Yeeeeesss!!!

I have been searching around for stuf to do in our ports and I have already printed a map of cozumel, I need to get one of cayman islands and one for key west.

I also need to get a new not so fat bathing suit for me and another one for DD.

[willsmama]

Fun! Cruise!
But, yes, this is going to be a LONG week. :(

[sarahlynn]

ahhh warm weather sounds soooo good right now..i would give anything to be on the beach..i have never been on a cruise..the thought of being out in the middle of the ocean scares me :roll: dh always mentioned cruises..i am such a nut :lol:






i wish i had a lunch date..what do you wish

[Momto3]

Sarah that is sooo scary!



I wish I could win the lottery and get a bigger house...what do you wish for?

[sophie'smom]

A lady in my office just came back from Cancun and man does she look nice, she came back happy, smiling, with a nice orange tan, LOVE IT!!!

I will be the same way too :lol: We are going in a cruise for a week and spending 4 more days in Charleston,SC :wink:

[newmami]

I wish I could stop working and stay home with the kids


Lynn, I am sorry if I touched a sensitive subject with the SK... if his mom was a little more involved in his life and he had a better attitude towards life, my response to him would be better.... but he always has a long face and complains about EVERYTHING, unless it is TV or videogames
We went to get the Christmas pictures and then did some shopping, his comment was "this is the worst day of my life" after we did the pictures... I just wanted to SLAP him!!!

[Momto3]

Its ok Claudia...I know its been difficult for you with his ex and the SK. It just makes me see the "other" side of the coin.

[sarahlynn]

its about lunch time..and i pretty much wasted the whole morning doing nothing

[sophie'smom]

Is it Friday yet??? :lol:

[willsmama]

Holy crap, it's noon!
I am going to go grocery shopping on my lunch break.

[without]

I always think I am going do good and have salad for lunch and then bam the dressing kills me in fat and calories. Today I left off the dressing and put cottage cheese and its not so bad.

I am thinking about buying a bike. :lol:

[newmami]

At least the day is going by fast.... it usually sucks when I have NOTHING to do!!
I am leaving at 4 because I have to mail a package.....
I want soup, my office is cold

PAM, where are you??????

[willsmama]

it is always cold here.
I wonder how Bel's trip is going!

[without]

I am hear but a little bumed so not saying much.

I am so sick of my weight and know that I won't be able to lose it until I find a way to work exorcise into my day. I just have no way to fit it in! I thought about buying a bike but I have a small car and that would limit me to the places I could ride it. :roll:

[newmami]

OMG Pam...... :shock: I was thinking the same thing last weekend, I am sick and tired of the way I look, and my weight is really bothering me.
I am going to eat healthier, I HAVE TO!! I have to give my kids a good example, and I need to be healthy for me and for them.

So today I had yogurt and fruit for breakfast, and a big salad, some steak and like a spoon of rice for lunch. I am cutting down carbs and sweets, and make time to work out, even if it means waking up a little early

I need to sign on the biggest loser, so someone is on my arse about losing weight.......
Now if DH was a little more supportive, but he hates healthy food :evil:

[sarahlynn]

well you know my thoughts you both are absolutely perfect..but you can do it i know you can..i fyou want to change you both are strong willed and can succeed..

a bike is a good idea..i would like a nice bike with a carrier for the lu..

[sophie'smom]

AWW Claudia! I wish I could help you, we could be gym buddies. I stopped going to the gym because I got lazy and I got the surgery.

I have to go back in January, I hope I get the good to go from my doctor after we come back from the cruise.

Dang, is it Friday yet?? Or at least Thursday when I go get a massage :lol:

Ohh, Friday is my company's x-mas party at a nice club with ALL you can eat and drink, I can't wait!!

I wish I could take someone else instead of DH, he is soo boring, but blame me for marrying an old fart :lol:

[without]

I guess if I were going to be honest with myself I would admit that the reason I feel such a stong need to shape up is because I found out Grant will be getting out of prison much sooner than I thought. He will be out in 12 months. If I don't move on with my life and find someone new or some self respect or grow a back bone I know I will fall into his trap again and let him talk me into things I don't want. I need to move on with my life and leave him behind before he gets out! :roll:

[sophie'smom]

You can do it!! :D

[willsmama]

You can can can do it!

I need to lose more baby lbs...but I haven't really had the motivation..:(

My goal right now though is to NOT GAIN during the holidays, then i'll focus on losing. :)

[newmami]

Pam, we can work together to be lose weight buddies if you want.
I would do whatever I can to keep you away from Grant, because you deserve so much better!!!

[willsmama]

Ugh ladies, I am so annoyed! I have a friend who complains ALL THE TIME and when you offer her suggestions to fix it, she shoots them down (ALWAYS) and gets mad! Why do I continue to try to help! SO frustrating!

[newmami]

There is always one of those, huh Tracy?
I have the same situation, I just opted to keep the advise to myself :roll:

Seriously, sometimes I wish I didn't had to socialize with people, because they annoy the crap out of me!!!

[Momto3]

Pam, we can work together to be lose weight buddies if you want.
I would do whatever I can to keep you away from Grant, because you deserve so much better!!!

dITTO!

[willsmama]

There is always one of those, huh Tracy?
I have the same situation, I just opted to keep the advise to myself :roll:

Seriously, sometimes I wish I didn't had to socialize with people, because they annoy the crap out of me!!!

Amen sister!!! :lol:

[without]

Nutrition kicks me in the but!!!! I watch the calories and the carbs go up watch the carbs and the fat goes up watch the fat and the sodium goes up. I don't know what I am supposed to be watching. :evil: None of it will work unless I can figure out how in the world to get some exorcise in.

[newmami]

But isn't it nice when you see couple of Lb off even if it is just diet?
I am with you, I do not lose significant weight unless I do 1 hr cardio a day :roll: ... I can eat as healthy as you please, it is just not happening!!

What about waking up 1/2 hr earlier and do some pilates?? you can get a DVD with the basic workout... then shower, then off to work!!

Ok, I just got another email asking for donations for a girl in the branch, because she had "a rough year"... I am so sick and tired of this, I have 2 kids to take care of, and I have to pay 1/3 of my salary on daycare... seriously this people think I poop money??? I am annoyed that people keep asking for money for EVERYTHING!!! United way, Ronald mcDonald house, relay for Life, The Cancer society, you name it!!! :evil:

I need to work from home, or be a data entry person, where my contact with the world is through a computer!!

he he he, I win the Grinch of the day!!!!

[willsmama]

I know!
I love it how they pay you crap, but keep asking for you to "dig deep" for donations.

Um...my pockets arent' very deep thank you.... :roll:

[without]

What about waking up 1/2 hr earlier and do some pilates?? you can get a DVD with the basic workout... then shower, then off to work!!


As is I wake up at 5:30 (and shower at night before bed) I would have to get up at around 4:30 if I were going to work out in the AM. I just need to make myself stay up later at night and do some kind of tape work out. :roll:

[Jenny]

Oh good grief. Money money money. Everyone wants some, no one has any to give.

Claudia, do you have tip jars EVERYWHERE?? I can't go anywhere without passing a tip jar.

[sophie'smom]

Have you guys tried the Blood Type Diet??

Claudia, Michelle Viet does it and she has a killer body!

It all depends on what is easier for your body to digest. Accdg. to that diet plan I should be a vegetarian and avoid ALL read meats (which I LOVE to death) and I really feel the difference when I eat red meats and when I don't.

I just can't be a vegetarian. MMMMM a t-bone with mashed potatoes and musroom gravy sounds delish!

[newmami]

Besides, if I am going to help people, I rather help a friend in need, not just a coworker who had a rough year because SHE CRASHED HER CAR!!!!

Tip jars??? at the restaurants and Starbucks yes we do..... that is another of my pet peeves, people expecting tips for everything!! hello don't you have a salary????? because I also work in CUSTOMER SERVICE, and I don't have a tip jar!!

How are you feeling Jenny???

[Jenny]

My husband is on the blood type diet and has lost 46 pounds since March.

I'm feeling okay. Sad about the kitty. I keep looking for him and I swear I hear him meowing.

[willsmama]

I hate hate hate the tip jars.

Seriously, we have them at our DRIVE THRU starbucks. Yeah. OUTSIDE.

:roll:

I DON'T TIP.
(in those!)

[Jenny]

I hate hate hate the tip jars.

Seriously, we have them at our DRIVE THRU starbucks. Yeah. OUTSIDE.

:roll:

I DON'T TIP.
(in those!)


Us too....I never tip at the drive-thru.

How about Sonic drive-thru. I went last week and got a fruit slushy. My total was $1.70 and I gave her a $10. She counts the bills out to me and was like "oh, like, do you want your .30 CENTS change?" hell ya, I do and you better give it to me now. I'm not the one making you wear rollerskates.

[sophie'smom]

Dang Clau, you are *****y today!! :lol: :lol:

I agree with the tips. I hate when teh server expects you to give him/her something even when the service was terrible.

In Peru we ONLY tip when the service was outstanding. The waiters/waitresses love my DH because he usually gives them 5 soles (like less than 2 bucks) and that's a whole lot of money.

I just hate tipping he freaking 18% of my bill even when the waiter was a sweaty pig!!

[sarahlynn]

you ladies are busy today...busy and *****y lmao :lol:

i was a waitress so i tip realy well if the service was good but if its bad i dont tip really at all..

[willsmama]

I will tip waitresses (I used to be one too) but it is the 15 year olds at starbucks and McD's that DON'T deserve a tip! Seriously! :)

[without]

I hate tipping at sonic! Most the time I am just getting a drink my total is under two bucks and when it takes them 15 minutes to get me an unsweet iced tea... um no thanks I am not tipping you!

[willsmama]

I wish we had sonic here!!

[Momto3]

Speaking of tips...

DH and DS went to McD's. DH accidently drove away without his change. Approx $3.70. So they go back once he remembers it and the kid had to dig the money out of his pocket!!! :shock: He pocketed the money as if DH was giving him a 4 dollar tip! Pffffft!

[sarahlynn]

omg do people actually tip at fast food places??? i dont usualy tip at coffe shops except for my local favorite one..thats cuase the same guy who owns it works there like 24/7

[willsmama]

Speaking of tips...

DH and DS went to McD's. DH accidently drove away without his change. Approx $3.70. So they go back once he remembers it and the kid had to dig the money out of his pocket!!! :shock: He pocketed the money as if DH was giving him a 4 dollar tip! Pffffft!

OMG!

[Jenny]

Oh, I'm a big tipper when it comes to an actual sit down restaurant. I grew up in the restaurant business, so I know how underpaid servers actually are!!

[hanvan]

I hate tipping too but always do at restaurants. I waited tables for 5 yrs and we(they) make no money w/o tips. But forget sonic, starbucks, etc. I KNOW those people make mim wage so they arent getting any extra from me :)

[without]

I always tip at restaurants but like you not fast food.

[without]

Ah..... my dad just called and said he would pick Morgan up (45 minute drive from my work) and meet me at work and take me out to dinner. I love my mom and dad! They are so sweet!!!

[willsmama]

Ah..... my dad just called and said he would pick Morgan up (45 minute drive from my work) and meet me at work and take me out to dinner. I love my mom and dad! They are so sweet!!!

FUN!

I work til 5 today.:(

[Jenny]

Ah..... my dad just called and said he would pick Morgan up (45 minute drive from my work) and meet me at work and take me out to dinner. I love my mom and dad! They are so sweet!!!


That's so awesome!!

It's an overcast, humid, yucky day out today. We're supposed to have a cold front move thru sometime today! I hope it comes!!

[sarahlynn]

lol cold front jenny what 60 degrees :wink:


you can have my 0 degree cold front

[willsmama]

I know!
Sarah, how much snow did you guys end up with?

[Jenny]

lol cold front jenny what 60 degrees :wink:


you can have my 0 degree cold front


No, 60ish will be our high! Brrr!! Our lows will be in the 40's. Brrr....

[hanvan]

Ah..... my dad just called and said he would pick Morgan up (45 minute drive from my work) and meet me at work and take me out to dinner. I love my mom and dad! They are so sweet!!!


That's so awesome!!

It's an overcast, humid, yucky day out today. We're supposed to have a cold front move thru sometime today! I hope it comes!!

Wonder if its what we got last night? They even said it may freeze tonight! YAY!!!!!!

But I bet it doesn't

[sarahlynn]

man we havent had a day over the teens here in weeks...finally this week we have some 20's and maybe 30's

[hanvan]

Brrrrrrrrrrrr I don't know if I could handle that kind of cold

[willsmama]

It'll be 0 when i wake up tomorrow. It is 20 right now. That is the high. :(

[without]

Our high today was supposed to be mid 40's. I am ok with that kind of temp but I don't think I could do the 0 or -'s!

[willsmama]

There is a post in Random about Bel! :)

http://americanpregnancy.org/forums/viewtopic.php?t=129331

[sarahlynn]

yeah it was -15 windchill a few days ago..thats what sucks is the cold wind..brrrrrrrrrrrr is it 5 yet..i have to pee by the way :?

[sja1508]

Cool post and pics with Bel. I sure miss her!

I have to admit I'm a great tipper because I worked in the industry for a long time. My average tip is between 10% really bad and 25% really good.

I also tip baggage people, shuttle drivers, sonic, etc. Sonic though is just a keep the coins kind of thing.

[sarahlynn]

awww i miss Belerosa!

[Momto3]

I miss her too but looks like they had a nice time!

[without]

GM

[sophie'smom]

It looks like Bel had fun :D I am jealous :P I want to go all over the states meeting APA momies too.

Good Morning ladies, how are you??? I hope Claudia is in a better mood today :lol:

[newmami]

Hey ladies!! I am doing Receptionist duty today :roll:

I am having the cramps from H*ll, yeah AF is here and she is MEAN!!

It is cold today, both kids went out with jackets... I opened the door and Dani said "cold".... sooo cute!!
I am getting apple cider tonight and I will convince DH to decorate the tree, that would be a nice way to spend time together

We are also good tippers on sit down restaurants, it is the other things that irck me!!

So I told DH how I feel about work, and he said nothing.... that is why he could never be my best friend, he doesn't understand, but he is always happy to preach on me... anyways..... he doesn't have any tact

Oh and DH announced he is going out on Sunday with his son to a BBQ at the field where they fly the RC helicopters... yes Claudia & kids, you are not invited.... WOO HOO!! depending on the weather, I am taking the kids out and maybe to the park....

Off to see pictures!

[Jenny]

Yeah it is cold today Claudia. All of us are wearing socks!!! But the patio doors are open and Haley and Ella are playing bumper cars with their Little Tykes toys!

[sophie'smom]

Ohh, please FL ladies!!

It's not cold over there!! It was 29 degrees this morning when I left home. I did not want to leave home, DD was sooo warm and snnuglish :oops: I miss her billions :cry:

[without]

Oh and DH announced he is going out on Sunday with his son to a BBQ at the field where they fly the RC helicopters... yes Claudia & kids, you are not invited.... WOO HOO!! depending on the weather, I am taking the kids out and maybe to the park....


I am sure you didn't want to go but still... it would have been nice to be invited! :evil:

[sarahlynn]

29 :lol: it was 17 here...low tonight of 7 :( with sleet rain and snow..god it should be a lovely drive home..BLAH!!!

Lulu loves the christmas lights..loves them..when we are driving she says lights lights more more mores lights and smiles at them :D

i wish dh would use some of his hunting and video game energy to put our frickin lights up.. :x

soooo iam toying with the idea of not going with him and his mom to mayo..does that sound really bad.. :shock: please be honest..its gonna be so hard with lucea, the extra cost of a ticket for me, keeping her busy down there, she isnt going ot sit in on the appt no way, he is just going for a 2nd opinion, his mom will be there with him...we have to find someone to watch the pets for like 5 days which sucks, i have to use vacation time. and its not liek we dont knwo what he has ya know, this is just gonna be them telling us if we are on the right path with his treatments and such..

ok tell me how ****tty of a wife i am now :(

[willsmama]

Claudia! I love your new siggy pic!

[without]

Sarah I don't think your a ****ty wife at all! Is there any way you could go and MIL could stay home with Lulu and take care of the house?

[willsmama]

Sarah, I think that you might be right? But will you feel like you are missing out and not being there to ask the right questions?

[sarahlynn]

Naa lulu has to go along she is still so attached to the boob... :( and i am to frickin attached to her to leave her :roll:

i know i think i want to know what they say but maybe if MIL will be there she can watch lulu while we do appts..but i know she is also goign to want to be part of the appt since she is traveling up there for them

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[newmami]

Yes Pam, it would have been nice to be invited... it was all "Kyle and I are going..." , yeah well, I was already planning on going out without them!!! (need to find something for my sisters)

Sarah, I understand that it gets a little too complicated to take the kids to the Dr's appointment, but I am sure Matt needs you there
If MIL is going, can she take care of LuLu while you are with the doctor?
How would Matt feel if you don't go? if he is honestly OK with it, then you can stay home without feeling bad about it!

[willsmama]

So, I 'discussed' my DH's lie more with him last night. And he had the GONADS to say that hiding the fact he was chewing tobacco for 3 weeks from me is no more of a lie than hiding X-mas presents...

UM...NO...WTF!?

So, I either can choose to be mad or get over it. But how many lies does he get? (this is like the 5th one I have busted him on since we got together....some bigger than others!)

[Jenny]

So, I 'discussed' my DH's lie more with him last night. And he had the GONADS to say that hiding the fact he was chewing tobacco for 3 weeks from me is no more of a lie than hiding X-mas presents...

UM...NO...WTF!?

So, I either can choose to be mad or get over it. But how many lies does he get? (this is like the 5th one I have busted him on since we got together....some bigger than others!)


Okay, so totally NOT the same thing. :evil: :roll:

Does he think he's like a cat and gets 9 lies??

I pick my battles very carefully. I'm not sure this would be a battle for me. Yes, he lied. Yes, dip is nasty. But I think I'd be working more on trying to help him quit rather than focusing on the fact that he lied. Does that make any sense?

[sarahlynn]

ugh i need to be there...matt needs me there i know he does he doesnt have much mind left to deal with these things..heck i handle his appts here :lol: if it werent for me who knows what would be going on :roll: they stupid nurse scheduled his chemo again for 2 months and its supposed tobe 3 months he had no clue but i cuaght it..so i will go and mil can just deal with watching lulu we can take turns on appts..


for me i didnt pick smoknig as a battle to fight with DH..yeah he lied abotu it well didnt lie he just didtn tell me ya know. :roll: but its his body and as long as he doesnt do it around me or the kids or the house i dont care..whatever i guess he could be doing a lot worse..

[willsmama]

Thanks ladies. You are right....I guess this one just gets chalked up...but will only make any FUTURE lies (if any) worse. This one isn't worth it. I kinda had a gut feeling on that. But as I laid in bed last night I thought..how many chances DOES he get? I guess it depends on the severity.... :roll:

Oh, and I have to laugh. He tells me "How do I know YOU aren't lying to me..and I just haven't caught you yet"

Well, DUMBAZZ, it is because I DON'T LIE TO YOU!

:lol: :twisted:

[newmami]

Tough one Tracy... I don't like being lied to either.... but apparently your Dh doesn't get the lying part...
The important thing here is, can you let it go?? or does it bother you enough that you just cannot suck it up, because you are going to resent him???

Ugh, relationships are so complicated!!! and I honestly hate that most of the times, we women have to suck it up and deal with it

Oops!! the boetch is back!!! :lol:

[Jenny]

I tell *white lies* to my dh. Nothing too major, but if I buy a new toy for the kids and on the off chance he asks me where I got it, I might say "Oh, I trash picked it" or "my mom gave it to the kids." He hates it when I spend $$ on toys, even though we could afford it. So rather than fight, I fib. Is that bad of me??

[willsmama]

and I honestly hate that most of the times, we women have to suck it up and deal with it



ITA! Why are WE always the ones bending over backwards!?!

[sophie'smom]

I was going to suggest you leave the kids with MIL but that's out of question.

If I was you, I wuld probably wantto go with DH too, I know I am not helping here.

Are you paying for your MIL's expenses?? if so, can you explain to her the situation and ask her to pay her for her own, she is the mom but you are the wife and have equal rights to be there.

It is a tuffy :?

[Jenny]

Oh Sarah. I would go. I would take the time off from work, I would take out a cash advance on my home equity line and I would make it work.

I would even consider bringing along a mother's helper who can stay with Lucea while you and Matt are doing the doctor thing.

Money is just money. It comes and goes.

[sophie'smom]

Money is just money. It comes and goes.

Exaclty!!! I would definetly go. I am the one making DH's appts too other wise the man could rot in the inside and say nothing.

He needs you there. He loves his mom, but he loves his wife too and ultimately, you will be the one taking care of him in the long run, you also need to be informed about the outcoming sof his health.

Go girl!! ((HUGS))

[Momto3]

Hi everyone!

Sarah - I think I agree with Jenny. Matt needs you by his side for moral support and you need the info first hand to make sure it is correct.

Claudia - Sorry about DH not inviting you, but at least you know you have some free time with the kids.

Tracy - I'm like you. Since he lied...it would make me wonder each and every time if he was lying about something. I think it builds the mistrust.

[newmami]

White lies are ok, in my book, when things are insignificant (like the toy example)... but if Dh does something that annoys you, and he knows it does, then hidding the truth is TERRIBLE!!

Yeah, I am entitled to apply my double standard as well... DH does it all the time, so why not me :twisted:

I am starving!!! I had some cereal for breakfast and my tummy has been growling for the past hour....... 10 more minutes and I can go eat!!

[sarahlynn]

i totaly agree if its something you CANT let go than dont just chalk it up..cause it will fester and drive you nuts and just make you angry at him and make things bitter..

with DH and smoking i could let it go..so it was ok for me to just say whatever..now when DH bought the gun and didnt tell me and made me think he didnt buy it OH I LET HIM HAVE IT and i made it known that it was NOT GOOD to do that..once i said my piece he agreed and i really thougth he understood how dumb it was so than i let it go and dropped it

[Momto3]

My belly hurts. I had some oatmeal about 30 minutes ago and its not wanting to digest.....owwwwwwwwwww

[sarahlynn]

oh man belly aches suck... :(

whats for lunch ladies..

i left DH the box of lights and on them in big permanent marker wrote PUT UP..think he will get the hint :lol:

[willsmama]

oh man belly aches suck... :(

whats for lunch ladies..

i left DH the box of lights and on them in big permanent marker wrote PUT UP..think he will get the hint :lol:

:lol: I don't know...that was pretty subtle! I have to go to PetCo and get dog and cat food.

Then I think I might stop and get a subway, or get a bowl of soup somewhere.

One of my GF finds out what she is having today! We go to dinner to find out! I am so freaking excited!

[sarahlynn]

awww yay ....... how exciteing.. i remember giving the note to my sis so she could find out what we were having it was so cool..she kept it a secret for months .. pretty good on her part.. :D

[without]

luch for me is the same as yesterday... turkey salad no dressing

[Jenny]

I made bow-tie pasta with red sauce. Everyone is now napping :)

[willsmama]

I tell *white lies* to my dh. Nothing too major, but if I buy a new toy for the kids and on the off chance he asks me where I got it, I might say "Oh, I trash picked it" or "my mom gave it to the kids." He hates it when I spend $$ on toys, even though we could afford it. So rather than fight, I fib. Is that bad of me??

I don't know....I don't really think so...but I have to think if He did the same thing to me, would I be mad. Like, would you be mad if you found out your DH did the same back to you?

[willsmama]

I made bow-tie pasta with red sauce. Everyone is now napping :)

Sounds YUMMY :)

[Jenny]

I tell *white lies* to my dh. Nothing too major, but if I buy a new toy for the kids and on the off chance he asks me where I got it, I might say "Oh, I trash picked it" or "my mom gave it to the kids." He hates it when I spend $$ on toys, even though we could afford it. So rather than fight, I fib. Is that bad of me??

I don't know....I don't really think so...but I have to think if He did the same thing to me, would I be mad. Like, would you be mad if you found out your DH did the same back to you?


No, I wouldn't be mad. I'd love it if he bought the kids some toys!

[without]

HUMP!!! I need to just stay right here. I am so taking things the wrong way today!

Ugh! I need to get over it!

Thanks for letting me vent! :lol:

[willsmama]

[quote=IrishTriplets]I tell *white lies* to my dh. Nothing too major, but if I buy a new toy for the kids and on the off chance he asks me where I got it, I might say "Oh, I trash picked it" or "my mom gave it to the kids." He hates it when I spend $$ on toys, even though we could afford it. So rather than fight, I fib. Is that bad of me??

I don't know....I don't really think so...but I have to think if He did the same thing to me, would I be mad. Like, would you be mad if you found out your DH did the same back to you?


No, I wouldn't be mad. I'd love it if he bought the kids some toys![/quote

There you go then! That is how I always try to make my decisions when it is 'iffy'....

Like, if my DH would have done that. "Would I be mad if Tracy lied to me about a bad habit" He would have KNOWN that YES, he would be and yes, I would be! :lol:

[willsmama]

HUMP!!! I need to just stay right here. I am so taking things the wrong way today!

Ugh! I need to get over it!

Thanks for letting me vent! :lol:

what happened?

[without]

Its 100% me! You know how some times people post things just wanting to hear they are noramal and every thing is going to be OK but then when some one is honest they get bent out of shape? Well... that someone is me today. LOL I just feel like I can't get my point accoss to any one today. I feel like they are missing the big picture. I am a happy person and LOVE my life and I am having a balst being a single mom but... I don't want to be a single mom forever. :roll:

[willsmama]

Oh, yeah, I know how that goes!!!!!!!! :)
(not the single mom thing, but the posting thing! :lol: )

[willsmama]

off to petco now...in the snow....blech!

[Jenny]

Its 100% me! You know how some times people post things just wanting to hear they are noramal and every thing is going to be OK but then when some one is honest they get bent out of shape? Well... that someone is me today. LOL I just feel like I can't get my point accoss to any one today. I feel like they are missing the big picture. I am a happy person and LOVE my life and I am having a balst being a single mom but... I don't want to be a single mom forever. :roll:


Hugs Pam. You are more than "just a mom" but a woman too. Hopefully with needs to be met by a cute single cop :wink:

Oh and I totally have days like you are having. Most everyday actually. I can never seem to get across what I mean. I tend to blame it on myself because people really can't be THAT stupid, can they???

[willsmama]

Oh and I totally have days like you are having. Most everyday actually. I can never seem to get across what I mean. I tend to blame it on myself because people really can't be THAT stupid, can they???

Oh, I am a firm believer that they indeed can! :lol:

[sarahlynn]

Its 100% me! You know how some times people post things just wanting to hear they are noramal and every thing is going to be OK but then when some one is honest they get bent out of shape? Well... that someone is me today. LOL I just feel like I can't get my point accoss to any one today. I feel like they are missing the big picture. I am a happy person and LOVE my life and I am having a balst being a single mom but... I don't want to be a single mom forever. :roll:
aww huni feel ya..after being a single mom for 4 years its wonderful in so many ways but also hard in so many ways..

you will find mr right..it may take some time btu he will come along..hang in there..your wonderful and a loving careing mom and friend..

[without]

Hopefully with needs to be met by a cute single cop

OH.... I know! LOL He should be getting his Christmas card from me today. Unless that isn't his address and in that case I should get it back in the mail in the next 3 days. :roll:

[sarahlynn]

Hopefully with needs to be met by a cute single cop

OH.... I know! LOL He should be getting his Christmas card from me today. Unless that isn't his address and in that case I should get it back in the mail in the next 3 days. :roll:
OMG how did i miss you sent it???? YAY for you..what did you write..

hey baby iam all hot and bothered come on over for some whip cream on your coacoa :shock: :D

[newmami]

Oh, I am a firm believer that they indeed can!

Add me to that list too... when I start getting people some credit, WHAM!! they come out to prove they are true idiots :lol:

Pam, I know EXACTLY what you are talking about... (snoopy me :oops: ) don't let it bother you, most people talk before they give their brains a chance to work :wink:
Besides, you are the only one who knows how you feel and what you want to do with your life... no one has the right to tell you you are right or wrong!!

Like, if my DH would have done that. "Would I be mad if Tracy lied to me about a bad habit" He would have KNOWN that YES, he would be and yes, I would be!
Oh dear Tracy, you are giving men a little too much credit!! their brains don't work like that!!!
At least when it comes to my DH, I know that is not something that goes through his mind, it is all about HIM!! (selfish prick :roll: )

PASTA!! I would be happy if I ate pasta every day :D !! we are having pasta tonight... woo hoo!!!! I am adding veggies to mine and Dani's, DH can eat poop

Yesterday when I realized how "supportive" Dh is when it comes to listening to my issues :roll: the first thing that came to my mind was "no wonder why some people go have affairs, when you are lacking THAT important piece in the relationship".... and saddly I am not surprised, because I was that other person a married man looked for when he needed the support his wife was not giving him :?

[without]

hey baby iam all hot and bothered come on over for some whip cream on your coacoa

Don't forget handcuffs! LOL

Yesterday when I realized how "supportive" Dh is when it comes to listening to my issues the first thing that came to my mind was "no wonder why some people go have affairs, when you are lacking THAT important piece in the relationship".... and saddly I am not surprised, because I was that other person a married man looked for when he needed the support his wife was not giving him

I think this is what draws me to females.....they seem to be better at being supportive and hearing what you have to say and caring.

[Momto3]

luch for me is the same as yesterday... turkey salad no dressing

Pam - Do they have Walden Farms Dressing in your produce dept of your grocery store? If so, those are good and they have nothing in them...no carbs, no calories, no fat, no nothing!


OR you can use Vinegar and Splenda. It makes a calorie free Sweet N' Sour dressing.

[without]

Thank Lynn! I will look for them. Really this isn't to bad I have even started leaving off the cheese. It just took some time to get used to. :)

[Jenny]

Great siggy pic Pam!!

Sarah, I didn't know you were a single mom. Matt isn't Cy's bio dad?

And I feel so out of the loop about the mysterious post.

Oh...TONIGHT IS MY LAST NIGHT OF CLASS UNTIL JANUARY!!!

[Momto3]

Yay for no more class Jenny!


I FINALLY have a climber...not that I am all that happy about it. Yesterday I go to pick Katelyn up and my mom tells me how she climbed into her stroller by herself. Ok, cute. So I get home with her and we have a gate to keep her from going upstairs and to keep the dogs away from the front door. DH goes out to through the garbage and I am cooking dinner and I hear my son say "oh no! Baby girl" Sure enough she had climbed to the tob of the gate. :shock: Its only gonna get worse.

[newmami]

Oh Jenny, check the TTC over 35!!

Pam, I am loving that picture in your siggy

Eeks Lynn with the climber.... it is tough because you cannot take your eyes from them... Chris decided he wants to venture in the stairs :shock: ... thank God for gates!!!

I cannot wait to hear about the encounter between Pam and the hot Cop.... whipped cream and everything!!! :lol:

[Jenny]

Yay for no more class Jenny!


I FINALLY have a climber...not that I am all that happy about it. Yesterday I go to pick Katelyn up and my mom tells me how she climbed into her stroller by herself. Ok, cute. So I get home with her and we have a gate to keep her from going upstairs and to keep the dogs away from the front door. DH goes out to through the garbage and I am cooking dinner and I hear my son say "oh no! Baby girl" Sure enough she had climbed to the tob of the gate. :shock: Its only gonna get worse.


Oh you know it's going to get worse. Way worse. :? :shock: 8)

Ronin is an amazing climber. I'm surprised by where I find him. I'm waiting to find him on top of my fridge. That's about the only place he hasn't climbed inside the house.....yet.

[without]

Morgan still likes to climb! She fallowed my sisiter up a tree on Thanksgiving! I turned around and the little Monkey was already 6 feet off the ground! :roll:

[newmami]

Oi Morgan!!! I am afraid once Dani finds out she can climb trees, she will turn into a monkey as well

Pam, I went back to read THAT thread, and found it funny that someone thought Grant is dead.... specially because you put Ex DH!!! :lol:

Ahhh the things that amuse me........... I need help!

[sarahlynn]

OH i love that new siggy picture...what a great pic of you three..


Jenny..NO matt is Cys biological dad..we just were apart for 4 years before we got back together..when cy was a bit over a year matt moved away..we couldnt make long distance work so we split and eventually just wandered back to one another

[Jenny]

So, I'm planning Haley's birthday party. She wants a Princess Party.

This is what I'm thinking of doing. Inviting 8 girls from her class. When they come over, let them each pick a princess dress to wear (yes, I have that many.) Then we'll do a craft of making their own Princess hat, should take 15 or so minutes. Then we'll play a game, Pin the Crown on the Princess. Then open presents. Then have cake. Then if time allows, play more games.

What do you think? I'm planning on 2 hours....1-3pm.

[Momto3]

Pam, I went back to read THAT thread, and found it funny that someone thought Grant is dead.... specially because you put Ex DH!!! :lol:

Ahhh the things that amuse me........... I need help!


Heheh I read that too!

[sarahlynn]

awww Jenny that sounds like so much fun for the girls... :D

[Momto3]

So, I'm planning Haley's birthday party. She wants a Princess Party.

This is what I'm thinking of doing. Inviting 8 girls from her class. When they come over, let them each pick a princess dress to wear (yes, I have that many.) Then we'll do a craft of making their own Princess hat, should take 15 or so minutes. Then we'll play a game, Pin the Crown on the Princess. Then open presents. Then have cake. Then if time allows, play more games.

What do you think? I'm planning on 2 hours....1-3pm.

All I need is the address... :lol:

Really though...sounds perfect for little girls!

[Jenny]

OH i love that new siggy picture...what a great pic of you three..


Jenny..NO matt is Cys biological dad..we just were apart for 4 years before we got back together..when cy was a bit over a year matt moved away..we couldnt make long distance work so we split and eventually just wandered back to one another


That's so sweet. You wandered back to one another. Was he active in Cy's life during your time apart?

[willsmama]

That sounds like a GREAT party Jenny!

[Jenny]

Okay....good. I thought it sounded fun, but what do I know?

Oh, and NO goody bags. Their princess crown they make and some princess tattoos should be plenty. I want to be the mom who stops the trend of goody bags.

[sarahlynn]

[quote=sarahlynn]
That's so sweet. You wandered back to one another. Was he active in Cy's life during your time apart?

umm yeah sorta..as much as he could afford to come see him i guess. :lol: matt was pretty young when we had cy and had A LOT of growin up to do..A LOT! he visitied a few times a year and called quite a bit..we both dated others and really drifted far apart from one another..than he came up to visit for christmas and well we drank a lot of rum and played cribbage..whoever won got a hot rock massage..i won..i got the massage and he never left again :lol: well left to pack up his stuff and come back :roll: that our story in a nutshell...so we have known each other for roughly 8.5 years but only been married 2.5 of it

[Jenny]

[quote=sarahlynn]
That's so sweet. You wandered back to one another. Was he active in Cy's life during your time apart?

umm yeah sorta..as much as he could afford to come see him i guess. :lol: matt was pretty young when we had cy and had A LOT of growin up to do..A LOT! he visitied a few times a year and called quite a bit..we both dated others and really drifted far apart from one another..than he came up to visit for christmas and well we drank a lot of rum and played cribbage..whoever won got a hot rock massage..i won..i got the massage and he never left again :lol: well left to pack up his stuff and come back :roll: that our story in a nutshell...so we have known each other for roughly 8.5 years but only been married 2.5 of it


Is he younger than you? Oh, and you never did confess how old you are. I guessed 27.....

[willsmama]

That is a great story Sarah! CUTE! You were meant to be! :) :) :)

I'm 28... ;)

[sarahlynn]

yeah he is younger by a little over a year, he is 28 (nov) and i am 29(aug)

so when cy was born i was 21 and he was 20

[Jenny]

29...sigh. I'm an August birthday too. Are you a Leo?

[sarahlynn]

29...sigh. I'm an August birthday too. Are you a Leo?

nope a virgo the 29th :D my sister is a leo, the 18th..as well as my daddy the 7th

[Jenny]

29...sigh. I'm an August birthday too. Are you a Leo?

nope a virgo the 29th :D my sister is a leo, the 18th..as well as my daddy the 7th

My dh is a Virgo, but a September birthday. My birthday is August 8. My mama is a Leo too...August 2nd. And Ronin almost made it...sigh. He's a Cancer/Leo cusp. And so sensitive and stubborn. Can't wait until he's a teenager.

[without]

I am a cap December 29th

[willsmama]

I am LIIIIBRRRRA. :)

Pam...I LOVE LOVE LOVE your siggy! :)

[Jenny]

I am a cap December 29th

Haley and my BFF are both Capricorn's too :)

[willsmama]

Sarah, someone else wants to buy more choco in MM! :)

[Momto3]

I find it so amusing what people "rant" about. I should just shut up!

[Jenny]

so, I just went and got the mail. And we got the nicest sympathy card from the ER Vet that put Rex down on Saturday.

My dh has been so upset over the kitty dying. Like more upset than I have ever seen him. He said that it's bringing up all sorts of feelings about his mom dying nearly 20 years ago. Poor guy. Do you think I should throw away the card before he can see it or let him see it?

[Momto3]

Pam - I hope I didn't offend you.

Jenny - Thats a tough call. If DH is starting to get over it, showing him the card may bring up the feelings again. But if he is still feeling badly, it may feel comforting to know the Vet cared enough to send it.

[without]

I find it so amusing what people "rant" about. I should just shut up!

Ditto....

[Jenny]

Pam - I hope I didn't offend you.

Jenny - Thats a tough call. If DH is starting to get over it, showing him the card may bring up the feelings again. But if he is still feeling badly, it may feel comforting to know the Vet cared enough to send it.

He was still crying this morning when he left for work. Not bawling type of crying, but eye watering type of crying. He always took care of the kitty in the AM.

[Momto3]

Pam - I hope I didn't offend you.

Jenny - Thats a tough call. If DH is starting to get over it, showing him the card may bring up the feelings again. But if he is still feeling badly, it may feel comforting to know the Vet cared enough to send it.

He was still crying this morning when he left for work. Not bawling type of crying, but eye watering type of crying. He always took care of the kitty in the AM.

Then I don't think it would be like opening an old wound. He may be comforted by it.

[sarahlynn]

Sarah, someone else wants to buy more choco in MM! :)

oh lordy i have to see how much i have left..i dont think more than a few bars :shock:


jenny :( i need you to post your blog addy so know what happened to your kitty .. i dont know if i would show him or not..probubly not if he is that upset..how are the kids doing with it

i am lookin at trains for cy, i wuold really like to do the lego ones..they are pretty cool but ugh spendy but someting he could use and change over tiem ya know..but one is a 9v train set? is that a 9v battery? i want a plug in one i hate buyign batteries ..the other one took like 9 aa :shock: so would you go with teh 9v

[newmami]

Oh Jenny, how sweet of your Dh... I would show him the card, I think it is thoughtful

About the party, it sounds wonderful!! and I love the idea of the kids taking home the crowns

Ack, I hate being on the reception... means dealing with extra amount of morons!! :roll:

Lynn & Pam, I am sure you get a kick with my rants....... HE HE HE!!!

[Jenny]

http://hipmomto3.wordpress.com/


The babies are okay. Haley keeps asking if Rex has enough food and water in his hole in the ground. And she asked daddy if Rex was going to climb out of his hole. Daddy told her if that happened, we'd be moving right away and she said "NO I love our house" Yesterday she was at the hole talking to Rex telling him "you got bit by a snake and died"

[Jenny]

Oh Jenny, how sweet of your Dh... I would show him the card, I think it is thoughtful

About the party, it sounds wonderful!! and I love the idea of the kids taking home the crowns

Ack, I hate being on the reception... means dealing with extra amount of morons!! :roll:

Lynn & Pam, I am sure you get a kick with my rants....... HE HE HE!!!


Claudia...call in sick and come to Busch Gardens with me!!!!

[without]

No Claudia you rant about things in your life this one was silly and kind of rude.

[sophie'smom]

I can not keep up with you ladies, I couldn't log on for a couple of hours and the last time I posted something I was on page 612, we are on page 616, so I will catch up 2morrow.

It is almost time to go home and I have to buy some stuff for the x-mas party :D mmm I love to shop with somebody else's mney (the company) :lol:

[sarahlynn]

No Claudia you rant about things in your life this one was silly and kind of rude.
what tis it what tis it .. darn it pm it to me :shock: :lol:

[Jenny]

No Claudia you rant about things in your life this one was silly and kind of rude.
what tis it what tis it .. darn it pm it to me :shock: :lol:

I'm in the loop now!! WooHoo!!! :P

[Momto3]

Lynn & Pam, I am sure you get a kick with my rants....... HE HE HE!!!

Notch you! No one in here.

[without]

Glad I could spreed the chirstmas cheer! :wink:

[Momto3]

I'm a bad person and I'm probably going to a very warm fiery place down below...oh wait, I'm already here!

[without]

Did you do some thing bad?? I didn't see it. :shock:

[newmami]

Are we still talking about the same issue, or I am lost now??????????

Ok, I would feel offended if most of you don't even chuckle with my stupid rants.... I make an effort to make them funny :( :mrgreen:

Cannot wait until my chocolate is here..... good thing I am the one who picks up the mail... YUM!!!!!

[without]

I know I rushed home looking for mine yesterday in the mail. They were not there. :cry: maybe today! :D

[Jenny]

Are we still talking about the same issue, or I am lost now??????????




I think our little group here should send a care package to a soldier.

[without]

LOL

[Momto3]

I LOVE you Jenny!

[newmami]

BHHHAAAA Jenny, I think we should!!
Thanks Lynn for bringing me up to speed!![/u]

[Momto3]

BHHHAAAA Jenny, I think we should!!
Thanks Lynn for bringing me up to speed!![/u]

Just doing my job Ma'am.

[newmami]

:cry: No one said anything about my kids all dressed up..... did you noticed they match???

it really bothers me when people don't acknowledge how beautiful my kids are, and how I make the effort to match their clothes.... I know it should not bother me, but it does....
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ROFLMAO!!! I even amuse myself!!!

Ok, we still have that stupid music station in here, and I have spent most of my useless day "Guess that song"... someone shot me now!! :lol:

[Jenny]

I totally noticed they matched. Is it Gymboree? It's uber cute!! :)

Only 15 mintues and dh will be home and I'm outta here.

[newmami]

Yes, Gymboree...... I love that they match!!!